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Pumpumking:
I toasted one babe 3 days ago & tried to kiss am, she said no (& then am thinking may be she a lesbians) and then yesterday, one babe I no was travelling back to france. I gave her good by hug & then try to chop quick kiss but she block me wit her hand & said no am married (so again am thinking maybe she a lesbian). .....
Question: how can we educate our Nigerian women that kissing is not illegal crime & that it's very ok to kiss person?

You're trying to kiss a married woman.

What manner of nonsense is this!

bragamycin:
Good day fellow nairalanders, I am currently so vexed right now and pissed.
I have been damn broke for a while due to the fact that I haven’t been getting lots of logistic jobs these days.
I noticed that my personal fund has been going into the business to keep it moving and now that I have exhausted my options, I am being left with the worries of paying my workers month end, because they don’t care and they will collect their pay whether there is work or not.

Today early this morning a client paid her cumulative debt of 25000 into my account and I was smiling Cos I know that I will be able to pay one rider month end. However, to my greatest, it is on this same day that my riders have brake pad issues, the need to change oils and the most annoying of all is that my phone fell off my hand on this same day o, so 25k in 25k out, I no even see shawarma bUy inside the money Cos I had to immediately go nd fix the screen of my phone .
SHEY NA JUJU BE THIS ? Cos I remember say pastors used to say to pray against this kind thing abi na VILLAGE PEOPLE abi Na just COINCIDENCE.
Pls if have been in shoes , biko tell me ur experience

Be careful who you confide in. Not everyone is your friend.

Good

I hope this news is accurate.

pembisco:
Kid. I have a wife and two beautiful children. A boy and a girl.

Wow, congrats Mr.
I always celebrate people who put in the work to make their worlds beautiful.

Regards to your lovely wife.

emmanuelbrown26:
Bia nwa Mary, can u compare single fathers around u with married men? See the difference.

They always keep it together in public, but they usually drown themselves in:

1. More women
2. Alcohol
3. Nightcrawling.

Some are lucky enough to turn to work for consolation but this is one thing that rings true for each and every one of the examples I've seen, they always try to fill that vacuum in their souls. So sad.

Don't forget, the same is true for anyone who marries wrong or refuses to pay their dues inside or outside marriage.

emmanuelbrown26:
Saintmary nwa Mary, I never said anybody should beg me to get married. All I'm saying and I will keep saying it is that marriage has never favoured men

Your confession is your possession.

All the men surrounding me personally have benefitted immensely from the marriage institution.

Their women literally saved them from financial ruin numerous times, having a friend closer than a brother is an incredible blessing. Someone who will cover up your faults, back you up in hard times and remain your foremost staunch supporter.

But seems your own case is different.

Your type want to reap what you have not sown. You want the benefits of marriage without paying your dues, that's why you keep getting it wrong.


Please don't reply me.

emmanuelbrown26:
which karma are u talking about here? leave karma out of this great topic, we are talking about choice and u are ranting Bout karm. marriage only favour women, thank Jah for the kind of mind and spirit i hv, if not i for dun enter one chance all in the name of marriage.

No one is begging you to get married.

But please stay away from the marriage mart kó.

P. S. I was expecting lots of backlash because the truth makes people uncomfortable.

There are consequences for actions, whatever choices you make will have ripple effect on several other things and people. That's the essence of Karma, not that Karma is one big entity that will punish you, reading the fear in your responses anytime Karma gets mentioned is amusing though.

emmanuelbrown26:
What's your business or concern with who and what his does with his maids

You held him up as an example, I simply scrutinized. If you don't want scrutiny, don't be an example!

That's the way it is.

So sorry little baby. R. I. P.

Don27tiky:
he has never done anything with his maids that I know of but I know he meets with women outside.

Just watch, and let's see if I'm right.

We have plenty of time.

emmanuelbrown26:
Aunty u are deviating from the main purpose of this sweet topic.
Pls be guided

I got you in that corner. You can't wriggle out.

Don't worry, someone will post your uncle's bum online soon, or any other backlash karma is keeping for him.

OvertheTop:
You Sound Scared....are You in your 30s and Searching?

I'm actually worried, about gullible women who will fall for these lies.

They'll be at the losing end tied up with kids no one wants to raise with them.

Don27tiky:
thats not true. My brother is going 50 now but don’t want to get married But he is a happier man with little to worry about. He has a son and daughter and a maid takes care of them. He has been changing the maids. So what makes you think he won’t get a maid that will take care of him at old age.

He's never been married, never spent up to 3 years with a woman in his life, be deceiving yourself.

How do you know what goes on between him and the maids he's been changing, and how can you verify that he'll not touch the maid that will care for him in his old age.

No be Nigeria we dey?

Oga bring another example.

[quote author=FineDragon post=107709160][/quote]I knew it will enter your body.

You people don't like the truth.

RodgersAkpafu:
You are actually the one sounding like a small girl.
It is written all over your post
Look young woman
The reality on ground is that your life is what you make of it
You can get married and have absolute bliss
You can also get married and be in perpetual hell
You can be single and childless and live in bliss
You can be single and childless and die broken
You can be a single parent and have a good life
You can also be a single parent and it will be regrettable
It depends on the person in question

I am not sure this is the route I will take personally (who knows ?)
But I dont blame whoever takes that path
You never know what they have experienced to motivate such lifestyle

I already know lots of people will not just take it.

They wee not take it.

My major emphasis is this, no matter how much you try to paint it, we all need loving contact, and we'll subconsciously look for it.

Show me a man who, for the entirety of his lifetime has never spent more than three consecutive years with one woman wether inside or outside wedlock. Then we can continue this conversation.

aktolly54:
when a single father grow old, who will take care of him? Baby mama

See, don't mind all these small boys o.

I call them small boys because of their maturity not their age. Lots of them don't mature until around 50 years of age and it's not an insult.
It's just what it is!

They want to gallivant around picking up women without thought of the consequences of their actions and the impact of their activities on the innocent children.

When they finally get sense after their middle age and they find out that they only have immature men like them in their immediate circle, they start longing for a family of their own.

They will eventually marry o, I repeat, ALL of them will eventually marry. It's wired into their DNA and they are resisting now but mark my words:

THEY WILL MARRY.

Now, the kind of person they will end up with is not in this context.
As a woman, if you like, do baby mama, this life goes on, and no one will defend you. But I'll tell you, don't agree to do it.

Even George Clooney that was a confirmed bachelor married at last, I don't rate these small boys and their noise.

The funny part is that the OP is not responding with updates.

The bleeding should taper off eventually, lots of women have complained about this particular injection: Depo Provera.

If you search online, you'll find horror stories as the majority of reviews on this method of contraception.

Though there are some positive reviews.

Truth is, I can't prescribe drugs because I'm not a medical doctor, but your wife is actually undergoing hormonal imbalance as a result of taking a synthetic hormone called progestin into her body which has outnumbered the oestrogen in her body.

For a woman to have balance, the body has a way of regulating the levels of natural progesterone and oestrogen in order to control her monthly cycle and ovulation. But if you take a synthetic hormone like this one, it will cause an imbalance and make your body think you're pregnant which is the job of natural progesterone. The synthetic hormone is made to mimic the job of the natural one. That's why you won't get pregnant because your body thinks you're already pregnant.

That's the job of Depo Provera: to prevent you from getting pregnant by tricking your body into thinking it's pregnant already.

I know this is a public forum, but if anyone wants to learn more and find tested and trusted solutions, please respond as I don't feel like I should give unsolicited advice.

P. S. I'll post the remedies here.

Note: I am not a medical doctor, so, I won't prescribe drugs, only natural and safe remedies.

tomtomastom4:
Prayer....

That's what my mum said sha.

God will see us through.

Your Mom is wise. I tell you from hard earned experience, stay close to her and pray well.

All the best.

tomtomastom4:
The only member of her family I can be able to relate this issue to is her brother who is currently in Canada and his number have not been going.

Take it up prayerfully and handle the situation as the compassionate head of your home. Sometimes, mediators will not be available, will you give up because of that?

tomtomastom4:
Thanks so much for the advice.

I'm glad you appreciate it, and I'm praying that your union will be successful to the shame of the devil and mockers. Cheers.

IbileIfe:
Which love?
It is not love
She left and only returned when 2Baba made it.
When 2Baba almost died, because there was no money for medical treatment, Annie was not with him. It was one ex- beauty queen who came to his rescue

Exactly!

That's why I said earlier in one thread that the both women ran their games which ended up differently for each of them but someone insulted me.

It's actually easy to notice.

This advice is hypocritical to say the least.

Let's imagine:

If Aunty Kemi's baby daddy's wife had accused her of sleeping with her husband after he snatched her son from her, she would have lost her marbles.

I have always had a soft spot for Aunty Kemi but this time, she goofed.

Nebes:
Please do not underestimate prayers. The devil is out to destroy men and marriages.
Women easily give him (the devil) listening ears and allow him to use them.
Your duty is to camp in God’s presence and watch as light disarms wickedness. Go for the secret place.

I just left a thread where the devil is dealing with a marriage that has not even started yet just because they both refused to have sex!

May God take control, nowadays, it's getting serious.

Any marriage that is headed for success, especially one that is so decent like this one is an easy target for the devil who knows that it's pleasing to God. What I mean by decent is that you're avoiding sex, which is an admirable decision.

We are not ignorant of the devil's devices, he aims to steal, to kill, and to destroy.

And when you now have a woman who can't watch and pray? Easy prey. Just to whisper some nasty stuff and watch them start fighting.

Take time to pray well, set time for private time together, tell her she's important to you, don't listen to redpillers who are just bitter people. Yoruba people call their type "elegan"

Don't listen to naysayers, especially women who are advising you against your future wife, they are just jealous. When they get over their personal bitterness, they will not ask you for permission when they find their own partners, be wise.

May God give you the strength to overcome.

tomtomastom4:
Am all willing to make the relationship work. We've had issues in the past and we resolved it one way or the other.

All things been equal, our marriage plans is supposed to begin by January next year.

I tried my possible best to manage this situation. I tried telling her that she can do her IT defence and any other occasions she want to attend with the cloths she already have. But she's making it look as if I don't care about her appearance.

I work in an organisation where one have to look good and dress smartly, but I can tell you that since Feb this year after I got a property in my home state, I haven't bought any reasonable cloth for myself.

tomtomastom4:
Am all willing to make the relationship work. We've had issues in the past and we resolved it one way or the other.

All things been equal, our marriage plans is supposed to begin by January next year.

I tried my possible best to manage this situation. I tried telling her that she can do her IT defence and any other occasions she want to attend with the cloths she already have. But she's making it look as if I don't care about her appearance.

I work in an organisation where one have to look good and dress smartly, but I can tell you that since Feb this year after I got a property in my home state, I haven't bought any reasonable cloth for myself.

It's understandable. And to be honest, she's being headstrong.

Nevertheless, I would want you to consider where you started from, then try to reach out to her family too, let them know that you have good plans for her beyond expensive clothes, and really, show them how you plan to carry her along. If she has a reasonable Mom, she'll call her to order.

I believe you can make it. Just one step further and you'll overcome this challenge. Please pray too, pray against the devil that is trying to scatter your efforts over your family. I hope you pull through.

tomtomastom4:
Continued....

My babe is in 400 lvl. She just finished IT and preparing her report. So she requested for some money to help finish up everything that concerns that. I told her to gv me time, that I will send the money for her. Though I told her to borrow the money, so that later I can give her to return it. She consented to it and went ahead and borrowed.

So am trying to raise the money for her and send to the person she borrowed.

Just last week, she showed me a pix of a gown that her friend sells.
The gown is about 25k. No doubt, the gown is beautiful and if I had the money, I would have bought it for her myself. Then I told her to hold on the gown let me first of all settle the money she borrowed. She didn't really flare up sha, but her choice of words wasn't encouraging to me

I believe that for you to sustain your relationship for three years means you really love your girl, and if you can't sort out problems in this one, how will you learn to make things work in another relationship and marriage?

Keep your focus and you will be glad at the end. Good luck.

Mercychen:
Nooo.. you too check am now.
So, if she's a wife, she'll open her mouth to ask for 25k gown with that amount the man is earning, 130k? In this economy?

She should use that 25k and go into production of soaps and toiletries and sell in schools and offices to make more money instead of sitting there and requesting for some people's one month salary.

If he was my brother, na me go tell the girl by myself to go.

The OP seems mesmerized because I still see him going about saying the girl is good.

His problem.

Wow, Queen Pickmesha.
Why don't you ask the OP to date you instead since you get sense pass him girl.

REPENT!

tomtomastom4:
What do I do. She kept making it feel that I don't care for her.

The complain coming these days is really disturbing me. Am someone that don't like been under pressure.

A lot of time she complained that we no longer have time to go out to have fun.

But even aside the money, where is the time to do that.

I couldn't hold it any longer, I just had to tell her to give me a break.

Visit her Mom, and ask her to help you explain better to her. Once they notice how serious you are about your girl, they'll smoothen things out for you guys.

I don't see why you should throw a good girl away just because of her immaturity.

NwaAmaikpe:



Since they can't make good music anymore, they want to emotional hurt, break and villainize the successful one and score cheap goals from this.

What is the intent of posting this charade online?
Asides wanting to be seen as pro-family, I can't fathom any logical rationalization of it.

I'd love to believe this, but not until he obeys his family's wish and turn his back on the lady who has not only separated brothers but has also deprived you and I of having that Psquare we all had to love.

Only a devil tries to scatter a peaceful home

gabbytabby:
I just read the lulu Briggs story that you wrote of imagine holding up the burial of their father from December 2018 when he died until March 2021 all because of inheritance wahala.

See money and there is clearly enough to go round but still the greedy ones will still not want to let things be.

He appeared to also have settled the elder sons during his lifetime but still the problems persist.

At least there is something to fight over with the Lulu-Briggs in our own case for me, there is nothing there. Personally I get more than double the whole rental income.

I'm happy you did your research.

Mummytoo:
U didn't get my point, go back and read it

I typed hastily, I get.

You see, what people do with their lives and marriages or the lack thereof is none of your business, as long as:

1. You're not funding them
2. They didn't come to you begging.


If you can't relate with them because you don't know the title to use, face front.