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Longtime lover, but he's 18

LeoThaGreat:
I have one Shared Apartment (Room in a flat) at Atunrase Estate, Gbagada, Lagos for male or female

Rent is 500k per annum, with 800k as total package.

They want a single person with a corporate job.

Room has personal toilet. Kitchen and sitting room is shared

Gbagada has easy access to Ikeja, Yaba, Ilupeju, Maryland, Obanikoro, Ogudu, Obalende, CMS, Ikoyi, Victoria Island, Iyana Oworo, etc

You can buzz me up for the video

This is really cool

Can you please mention me if this is available right now?

Amazingbaby:
It is kind of surreal

My husband took his bag and left the house after an argument and have been gone for over a week now, trouble started when he came back and told me he wanted to hire a particular girl to work with him,this girl was working with his friend before he closed up.he told me his friend beg him to hire the girl.
Earlier in the week my husband told me he was going for a convention,I checked his phone and saw when this particular girl was asking him when he will be leaving the house at 7:44 in the morning,I didn't talk or made a fuss about it,so when he told me he wanted to employ this girl my suspicion grew,I asked him how does he want to pay her he told me the lady said she would work for free.
I started laughing,which girl on this island would want to work for free if you don't have anything to do with her.i started bombarding him with questions;
If the girl is your friend's employee how did she know about your business?My husband said he has not talked to the lady since last year but he never knew I saw the messages.

I told him to give me his phone only to see that he has been exchanging Whatsapp calls and phone calls with her.i got angry and was asking him questions he took his bag and left that night.

That was when I confronted him about the messages I saw the week before only for him to say he doesn't owe me any explanation.

I am deeply hurt that he would want to employ a person he has a secret relationship with and has the mind to tell me about it.he deletes any conversation he has with this lady,he hides his phone and would never pick a call in my presents.

Pls how do you think I should handle this,I told him the only way I would ever listen to him is if he tell me where he went with that lady on that Saturday. Calling her sounds desperate and I don't like fighting my fellow lady because of a man.your opinion pls

Madam, how far

instinct57vm:
I have a female friend who got married last year October precisely.

Fast forward to March this year the Mother In Law came to stay with the couple in a bid to visit her hospital within the couple’s area for medical checkup, reason being that she stays a bit farther away in the same state.

Upon her Mother in law’s arrival, she came with my friend’s husband brother accompanied by his girlfriend who all planned staying and eventually stayed without prior notice.

My friend(the lady) is a banker and was only informed casually by her husband while she was at work on the day of their arrival. His excuse was the mother called impromptu about the visit which I don’t think is bad anyway.

These couple stay in a three bedroom apartment and only one room has bed in it. This is the room the couple sleep.

The first two days of the mother inlaw, brother and brother’s girlfriend arrival, the couple had to sleep in the living room while the mother in law and the brother in law’s girlfriend slept in the couple’s room.

As days goes by, the husband who is self employed suggested the the rest of them will handle cooking in the house due to the wife’s tight schedule as per banking job in Lagos.

Part of the consequence of their visit is that they have overthrown the kitchen and like most ladies my friend wasn’t cool with this but tried to keep her cool.

The lady(my friend) became curious and asked the husband to clarify if the mother in law and co intends to stay with them permanently. The husband subsequently flared up with the allegations that his wife doesn’t want his people around. This happened to be the third time his wife asked this question in the space of two weeks.

One thing led to the other on the third time of asking this question my friends husband beat her up and chased her out of the house while the mother stood and watched without interfering.

Efforts to reconcile has proved abortive as the husband refused to let her in again and categorically said to my friend’s dad he isn’t interested in the marriage anymore. The mother in law refused to interfere.

PS: The hubby’s mother is a separated single mother.
PS: My friend and her hubby both contributed to pay the rent
PS: The hubby’s father is not in support of all the happenings and all efforts to reach his son proved abortive since the misunderstanding. He wouldn’t answer his dad’s calls.

What are your opinions about this issue? Thank you.

What happened after the whole thing. How was the matter resolved?


She should have called policemen and FIDA. That man would have smelled his own anus.

I have a 12.5kg gas cylinder for sale. Very new, barely used. Please DM for picture and price if you're interested.

One innocent girl will marry this one.


May you meet your type

Unlimitk:
I don't think u are serious
I can't access my mail
I said u should send me your number on a dead thread
Ordinary to give me your number,and u will delete it after I confirm your number
If u not u can't give me your number
Don't bother me
Don't send me any mail
I'm not seeing anything

I understand you, being a public forum, it's difficult to leave phone numbers around.

I have sent you a PM, just reply the email and I'll resend my number on the email.

Unlimitk:
Your number

Please send me PM, I will respond

Victoronah1:
I need a roommate. A lady, working 9-5. Since I am a remote worker. Doesn't smoke as I don't. In a 3bedroom terrace duplex. She will take the queen bedroom, and can use the kitchen with my stuffs including my washing machines etc. Location is orchid, in a nice estate with pool and gym 19 hrs of light guaranteed. Just the both of us,.

Hi, let's chat

Unlimitk I dey find you o

Unlimitk:
There's pako house available in alpha beach lekki
3k
Also females. Can squat with me for free at agungi lekki
Just dey buy me food
I'm not helping guys,my eyes don see things

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VinnyBaba:
Our Nigerian Ladies can Visit and cook for their YAHOO boy Boyfriend at every Hour he Desires
But once they get Married to a Man, Cooking becomes STRESS for them.

They start Disturbing the Husband for Housemaid.
But during their University Days, some of these same Ladies Co-habited and cooked for their Boyfriend before going for Lectures.

PLEASE, MARRIED MEN AND WOMEN HERE, What's the Cause of This? 🤔😒

because Many Married men do NOT have Breakfast b4 going to Work
as their Wives always claim they are Tired. 😟

Boyfriend gives you all the sex you want, while husband is too tired from plenty side chicks.


No be me talk am o

Singhabele:
Incan guess is chruatain woman who has done such.

How are the northners and islam able to tame women with up to 3 or 4 wives but christain with only 1 wife will be like hell and is exposed abroad so quickly.

Is dere somethung moslems know that they are not telling vhristains...

Check almose all the half naked ladies on the streets is christains if u ask her y she say mind ur biz. But muslim lady is covered well.

Were did we miss it ....

You people will just come online and type nonsense

georgen2u:
More

My neighbor's chicken won't let me rest.

ScotHarvath:
Sex is another issue, I always have to beg for it and when I raised the issue in anger she said I can be going to get it from other girls.

I really don’t think most Nigerian girls deserve or want a cool headed man. They will show you shege.

Thinking back and seeing only the things I did I can only can myself a fool. Helping with the chores, helping with the kids, revealing everything about my finances to her, standing up to her family for once admonishing her, spending too much time with her and trying to make her my everything.


Friends have taught me a lot in this life which I why I chose to avoid friends and focus on my wife and family but this woman is making those same guys I abandoned for her call me a fool.


If there’s an altercation, she turns on off the TV and sound system so the neighbors can hear everything.


Is it wrong to be a good man and want your wife to be your best friend.

If this marriage finally fails, the next woman I will date will see another version of me

Haaa. I was about to praise you but this your last paragraph messed everything up.


Why is it that person wey get cap no get head?

danzaki63:
Na only one dress she get?

Red signifies fertility for a lot of the Chinese, as a new bride, red will be the best choice

BadMaster:
Maybe he found out his wife has been unfaithful and none of the kids are his. Nigerian women are the most promiscuous in the whole world.

Shebi your mummy is a Nigerian woman.

How far your DNA result?

Kipaji:
That is my plan. There will be the main building where I live and each wives' building next to me. Here is a rough sketch to explain what I mean

Why would you separate a mother from her children?

This arrangement is extremely selfish. You are the one who can't have a nuclear family with a wife, why are you denying them the opportunity to have their own nuclear family with their kids?



Let me remind you, these people will wait until you die, then they will piss all over your grave.


P. S. They will find a way. They don't belong to one big happy family and they will never accept each other.


I just say make I clear you.

bukatyne:


I see.

My last sentence most likely applies.

We don't need to know people's sexual orientation or affinity because of a movie launch.

Truly, the whole thing was a sh!tshow

bukatyne:
Happy Easter Peeps!

I read Femi Adebayo's 'apology' on Bukunmi's IG page, that's how I knew that there was a new movie, a launch, a contest, an award and a fracas post award.... You get the idea.

In the whole Fiasco, I felt for Femi Adebayo who is an innocent but gullible player. Typically, prominent/top people are chosen to give awards either some days before the event or on the spot. Irrespective of the duration of the notice, all presenters find out the winner/ecipient upon announcement. They open the card/paper/plate and see the winner just before they announce; in essence, they are as surprised as the audience. Bringing this home, Femi Adebayo could not have known that Bobrisky would win best dressed woman; he was not a judge nor an organizer. He just unfortunately fell into their trap which could have happened to anyone. Most people would have announced the winner before them in the euphoria of the moment and regret their actions/ issue disclaimers afterwards.

I wonder why Femi Adebayo who has never publicly associated himself with the LGBTQIA^ community nor shown himself to be 'woke' was chosen to give such award especially in the month of Ramadan which is the holiest months for muslims of which Femi is one. This reminds me why as Christians, we are told to be watchful and not be ignorant of the devices of the devil. Often times, we ask if 'going to/ doing XYZ is a sin'; I think a higher level of spiritual maturity is 'does this place edifies my Spirit'? See how they tactifully got Femi Adebayo as a face card for their devilish award. Anywhere the news goes, it would be 'Femi Adebayo gave Bobrisky the best dressed female award'; those who are kinder would say 'Femi Adebayo announce Bobrisky as the best dressed female'. Either ways, he has become a part of the saga forever.

Was Femi Adebayo going to his colleague's movie launch wrong during Ramadan? Of course not! It was an industry event like Oil & Gas Breakfast session and he needs to show support for his colleagues how they supported him. Would he have encountered such nonsense if it was an Islamic movie or Islamic gathering? Also capital no! We need to be watchful; not just in religious matters alone. Some people might try to drag you into office/family or neighbourhood politics you want no part of. Watchfulness helps us be on guard and knowing the right response per time to all situations.

On to Eniola Ajao; she said 'they planned to give Bobrisky the award for PR'. It was also said he was the one really matching the theme; everyone wore 'local beast' attire while he wore 'English beast' attire. I think that is very funny; how can the dress theme of a Yoruba movie titled in Yoruba be 'English'? Isn't it strange that the selected awardee before the event was the only one who got the theme 'right'? Common sense says if every one thought the theme was 'local beast', then the organizers had somehow given the vibes of 'local beast.' Interestingly, she has backtracked and given some else the award as it seems 'all press is good press' did not apply in her case.

If she had to use such controvesy to promote her movie, I am doubtful that the movie is worth watching in the first place. Her contemporaries managed to promote award winning, bag grabbing movies recently without any drama; I think she should do same. And if she wants to come out of the closest or tell us something, let her do so with her 'full chest.'

If you follow gistlover, you will not be surprised about Eniola Ajao's tendencies towards LGBTQI stuff.

WorldRichest:
God created Eve, and she wnt to sleep with Satan while Adam was away.

All those that God called his loved ones had several wives, Abraham the Friend of God, Job the Friend of God, David, Solomon, Jacob, Isaac, e.t.c.

Have you forgotten about the woman caught in adultery that Jesus saved, the man sleeping with her was not mentioned till date.

The people who refused to punish the man for adultery but only shamed the woman, I hope you know that they were Pharisees.


Jesus refused to punish the woman but set her free.

Going by your logic, you are actually a Pharisee. You're not a Christian.

MisterGrace:
You people should stop all these lies abeg.

How did you arrive at these lies?

Please prepare your spare room if she starts having problems.

haslaw:
Remember the sister is also a single mother in her thirties and her options are slim. She should consider herself lucky a man is even asking her out sef.


cc : Lamanii22

A man asking a woman out is not doing her a favor.


They both have a lot to gain.


Please carry your nonsense mentality and gerrout.

Hallysugarcandy:
Have you noticed that it happens like this in real life? I mean cheating husbands facing setbacks because they hurt their wives? I would really like to hear any stories about it you have.

Truly, unfaithful husbands face numerous consequences.


But I don't have the time to share sample stories

Hallysugarcandy:
Are you sure that's true and not just sentiment?
Have you seen it happen in real life like that?

Dey play

DaddyCoool:
If, for example, a man gets framed and gets locked up and loses his thriving business, that's life happening. What then?

What happens next depends on how he's been treating his wife when he had money.


It's exhausting, trying to explain to each individual I come across, something that should have been instilled in them as part of their upbringing.

DaddyCoool:
Unfortunate happenings may bring that about. No matter the reason for it, it rarely works out

If life happens, it understandable, but for a man to look towards his wife's income, it's stinky behavior.

ExudeLoveToAll:
Very wrong assertion, life doesn't work like this.

Meeting a food spouse has nothing to do with been good or bad. Life can happen wether you are good or not.

When life happens, then it's up to you to ward off whatever you don't want.


You may not really understand what I'm trying to say.

Dshocker:
I don't believe this.

In most cases, good men ended up with bad wives.

I believe everyone will get what they deserve, but if otherwise, then it needs investigation and remedy.

VeeVeeMyLuv:
Good man as in how? Define

Your own definition of a good man is good enough for you.


Because only your own conscience can judge you, not mine.