Family › Re: My Mother In Law Doesn't Want To Let Me See My Daughter by Saintmary(f): 10:46pm On Nov 29, 2021 |
Winnerly: It
With SATANIST Is the person a child? |
Celebrities › Re: Luchy Donalds Shades Destiny Etiko Over Comments On Her Shopping Bags by Saintmary(f): 10:40pm On Nov 29, 2021 |
AdaNri1: I just don’t understand the bitterness from people when a person is living their life their way.
Stating that the bag is empty is just b!+chy. Even if it’s one item in the bag, it’s her life.
I understand that the poster feels the need to be validated by people hence posting a picture of herself shopping, however, we should empathise with her for feeling that way. Women loving women…what figure of speech is this? Women loving women: Impossible continuous tense |
Family › Re: My Mother In Law Doesn't Want To Let Me See My Daughter by Saintmary(f): 10:30pm On Nov 29, 2021 |
Winnerly: Hey. There is a monicker called SATANIST that runs around on ashewo telegram claiming you guys dated and he saw your pant. Please confirm Na wah o, what's your business with what she does with any adult? After you confirm, you will collect plastic abi? |
Family › Re: My Mother In Law Doesn't Want To Let Me See My Daughter by Saintmary(f): 10:28pm On Nov 29, 2021 |
Witlee1: My intentions has always been pure, I'm igbo and there's something we call knocking on the door which I have done at least to make my intentions known but they clearly want the bride price to be paid which I don't have atm Maybe I've lost my gf to another person like someone said plus I don't want to fight the family cuz they are the family I want to marry from
And talking about culture, I guess any Nigerian law supercedes customary law so I'm not bothered about that It's good to see that you want to marry their daughter, next is to thread carefully. If you can be patient, then you will get to visit your child. But don't let anyone fool you, you're not married to the lady so no court will hand over the child to you, not even when she's older unless the lady's family cooperates with you. So, adopt patience as your middle name or else you face front like guys typically like to do. |
Family › Re: My Mother In Law Doesn't Want To Let Me See My Daughter by Saintmary(f): 5:22pm On Nov 29, 2021 |
Witlee1: Thank you I appreciate your concern Is there any reason I should let her be for now? And how do I get to see my child often because I can't be sending gifts and money to someone I don't see.. NB:I'm not requesting for the custody of the child but just time to time visitations is cool for me The same welfare office that called you, let them advice you based on your own side of the story. Fighting the family is not the best way to go about it. And why are you reluctant to marry the girl, why can't you set a stipulated timeframe during which you take your people to meet her people just to let them know you mean business? Don't you know that the child is not even considered to be yours on some cultures? See, if your intentions are pure, then you should have little problem, but if not, even me I will personally use broom to sweep your feet off my house! |
Family › Re: Multiple Men Gather At Radio Station To Accuse Popular Pastor Of "Snatching" by Saintmary(f): 5:13pm On Nov 29, 2021 |
Attention polygamy geng!!!!!!!!
See your lives outside.
"African man is polygamous in nature" you say, imagine only one man swiping 50 women from under your noses.
Until you realize that a marriage is headed and not ruled by the man, till you learn the difference between leadership and rulership, continue to complain that a full grown woman will refuse to become your footmat just because you got married to them.
So disgusting! |
Family › Re: Multiple Men Gather At Radio Station To Accuse Popular Pastor Of "Snatching" by Saintmary(f): 5:07pm On Nov 29, 2021 |
Magnoliaa: It's good to see this new wave of change for a fresh breath. Phew. See as the men gather. For their 'snatched' wives. Na pastor come be the strange man wey dey break men's houses and covenant marriages.
Fear men sha! They can do and undo. Sly people that move sneakily, until they take over what is yours.
How one man go take over the wives of fifty men? What did the men do to push their wives outside before? Someone is talking about how some women like consulting and seeking out prophets - but if those women had good heads that covered for them, and protected them and interceded for them and on behalf of the family before Christ (shey, that is the order: wife, husband, Christ, God), would their wives be spiritually promiscuous?
If they were fed and filled at home, they wouldn't have been wandering about, looking for spiritual breakthroughs that'll eventually lead them to false prophets! Men have lost the authority and mantle to lead.
Imagine if your wife is spirikoko and is deeply religious, and you as the man your own spirikoko is x3 of her own, would she have gone astray?
Okay, even if you're not the religious type, but you're more of a practical Christian unlike your wife, as the Head with the authority, initiative, etc., it should not be hard for you to make your wife see reasons in the futility of empty and destructive religious practices. But nooo. You would rather stay at home and be watching football with ndi Emekas and Seguns, and drinking hot gins and palmee while your neck and glory is perambulating, exposing you and your roof to all sort of demonic invites.
All of these wives ensnared in pastors' traps stories are nothing but the fault of husbands. And I said what I said.
Toor. May God help those ones up there sha oh. Loud it!!!!! Lots of men have become nothing but noise making empty vessels with no spiritual value to their immediate family. Why should the wife be left to take the lead in spiritual matters? Just to kneel and pray, and then gather wife and kids for evening prayers is difficult to do, rather they'll spend the time chatting a single woman while waiting for wifey to bring their dinner. Now look at them bunch of failures. I suspect lots of them have not even completed their marriage rites, they're shouting my wife up and down. The devil has already snatched away their spiritual authority and given them fornication and STDs to nurse. Smh. A very shameful thing indeed. |
Family › Re: My Mother In Law Doesn't Want To Let Me See My Daughter by Saintmary(f): 4:49pm On Nov 29, 2021 |
Why don't you just allow her to be for now, if you want things to go well, call the welfare office back and send money and gifts through them to your baby.
I mean, go to their office regularly, show them the gifts and money you want to send, then let them help you pass it across. It will be easy for you if you can get a listening ear among them, they're humans too.
After some time they will help you broker peace.
Stop calling her directly. |
Education › Re: Ozioko Chidimma Domitila: UNN Female SUG Presidential Candidate Cries Out by Saintmary(f): 12:08pm On Nov 29, 2021 |
Personally, I think it's stupid to be fighting narrow minded people.
Sweety you could do better in real life! |
Education › Re: Ozioko Chidimma Domitila: UNN Female SUG Presidential Candidate Cries Out by Saintmary(f): 12:06pm On Nov 29, 2021 |
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Family › Re: People Who Live Alone Shares Underrated Advantages Of Doing So by Saintmary(f): 8:16am On Nov 29, 2021 |
The diet part really got to me. Right now I have no control over what I eat. I only control my portions. I miss being able to control everything.
I can't wait to be alone again, at least for a few months. |
Romance › Re: Types Of Vagina by Saintmary(f): 8:31pm On Nov 28, 2021 |
BigDawsNet: TO BE HONEST, I DONT WHY WHY TOPIC ABOUT SEX DONT USUALLY MAKE FRONTPAGE..
I believe sex education is really important
Sex education is very important in this forum because it helps the adults and young guys here on nairaland to know the various aspects of reproductive health. They can also know about those reproductive organs, puberty, and adolescence related changes You should be teaching those boys to respect their own bodies. So many messed up men out there who were improperly raised |
Family › Re: Girlfriend Gave Clothes To Her Boyfriend's Younger Brother To Wash.right Or Wron by Saintmary(f): 2:48pm On Nov 28, 2021 |
Madness everywhere |
Family › Re: Why Would A Woman Love One Child More Than The Other Of Her Children by Saintmary(f): 6:30am On Nov 28, 2021 |
kingsways: It seems to me my wife loves the second child more than the others, I'm not sure why
Much more than me, it seems my wife has a talent for beating the children. She can mend any of them very well but with this one, she would just laugh sheepishly 'I ll beat you o' without ever actually beating her Maybe she looks like her Mum or dad, and the rest look like you or your family |
Family › Re: Consequences Of Living As Man And Wife Without Proper Marriage? by Saintmary(f): 6:28am On Nov 28, 2021 |
Cock and bull story.
Just ask people to respect themselves, that's all. |
Politics › Re: LASWA Commences Clearing Of Water Hyacinth On Lagos Inland Waterways by Saintmary(f): 6:00pm On Nov 27, 2021 |
Ekugbeh: if the hungrier won't devour them overnight and claim it's part of their national cake It is well, maybe someone should come up with water hyacinth recipes, maybe humans can chew through them naturally. That's if they're not poisonous to humans Modified: Water hyacinth is actually edible! It contains vitamins, fibre, 90 percent water etc. Next thing is to find recipes. |
Family › Re: Why do we Blame Women Alone For Marriage failure ? by Saintmary(f): 4:12pm On Nov 27, 2021 |
InTheCloudySky: Yes, the quote is highly one-sided. It's obviously written by an ignorant and sexist Nigerian male who thinks a man is faultless when a married ends, when that's incredibly false in most divorce cases. Secondly, in this modern day, women have their own agency to freely choose to walk out of a [problematic] marriage, so the idea of a man sending a woman packing is archaic.
------------------------------------------ Click on these links to read the articles below:
https://www.divorcemag.com/blog/6-reasons-why-women-are-more-likely-to-file-for-divorce-than-men
https://www.whitleylawfirmpc.com/3-reasons-why-women-initiate-divorce-more-often-than-men/ Well let me summarize in case others don't want to click the link: 1. Women feel held back by their marriage. They feel like marriage is costing them more time compared to their husbands. 2. Women feel unsupported when they're making more money. You guessed right: jealous husbands. 3. Women can no longer tolerate unacceptable behavior. Most men have been trained that once they bring in money, they don't have to behave well. Well things have changed and women are no longer ready to tolerate such behavior since their husbands are no longer the sole breadwinners. So, my take is that if you're not the only breadwinner in your marriage, you have to learn good behavior if you don't want your wife to walk away. It's usually mostly about the money. Money is very important. |
Pets › Re: Is There Another Group For Other Kinds Of Pets? by Saintmary(f): 3:39pm On Nov 27, 2021 |
Judywealth: I have bunnies(rabbits) now, they are foriegn breeds though. My puppies have all gone to their new homes Wow, can I get a picture and how much can you sell some to me. I want to start breeding them. Or can you link me up with someone selling local breeds. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Kathy McDaniel: Misfit In Hell To Heaven Expat by Saintmary(f): 3:37pm On Nov 27, 2021 |
Honeysweetest: just ignore the dude��,that's how they yarn nyen nyen nyen,you see y I hardly reply their likes,you will think u are talking to a baby��� I was so surprised that he will use his words to tangle himself. He's so scared too. He just puts up a brave face. Smh |
Politics › Re: LASWA Commences Clearing Of Water Hyacinth On Lagos Inland Waterways by Saintmary(f): 2:50pm On Nov 27, 2021 |
InoGetJoy: They should try a natural remedy for this. Manatees eat water hyacinths and a group of 30 manatees will keep that area clear of water hyacinth. In this case, the government will protect the manatees and engage the people living in that area to protect the manatees Eyah, very smart guy. I hope your voice gets amplified. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Kathy McDaniel: Misfit In Hell To Heaven Expat by Saintmary(f): 2:46pm On Nov 27, 2021 |
wirinet: And who appointed you to be responsible for my end?
I am in my office overseeing things. I have people working for me. I can choose to stay at home to run my businesses from home.
So who is more foolish btw You And I? You are so hate filled that you are conditioned to fear and hate anyone that don't conform to your world view Hate? Threat? Those are words betraying your paranoia! I don't think what you conform to will influence my immediate world too much. So, I don't know where you got your fears from. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Kathy McDaniel: Misfit In Hell To Heaven Expat by Saintmary(f): 12:59pm On Nov 27, 2021 |
wirinet: And who appointed you to be responsible for my end?
I am in my office overseeing things. I have people working for me. I can choose to stay at home to run my businesses from home.
So who is more foolish btw You And I? You are so hate filled that you are conditioned to fear and hate anyone that don't conform to your world view |
Christianity Etc › Re: Kathy McDaniel: Misfit In Hell To Heaven Expat by Saintmary(f): 10:54am On Nov 27, 2021 |
wirinet: When did he tell you he follows the devil or anything else. It's you and God that has "a anyone not believe in my God is a sworn enemy" policy. That's your problem and not his.
But then why punish or kill the horse for refusing to drink? Is it by force to drink?
So also do you and everyone else.
Correct. So let people choose what they choose to believe and stop threatening people with violence - physically or spiritually.
When have atheists asked God to pick after them to rescue them from every inconvenience? Your God that have not been able to rescue Christians, pastors and even G.Os from every inconvenience. Why should he ask me to worship him? Your God sounds like an egocentric king with an inferiority complex. I don't even ask my children who I feed and take care of to worship me and always massage my ego.
Very germane response. All these were in place ever before the first humans set foot on the planet. Every animal and living thing on earth obey the same life process. Maybe your God should require Monkeys, lions, Ants and even snails to start worshipping him because they " draw Oxygen, drink His water, till His ground, build houses on His planet"
Very stupid question. Shows you are a functional illiterate.
What makes it smart for Mark Zukerburg to question things because he want to open the door for knowledge but stupid for me to question things to open the door for ignorance? Religion induced Inferiority complex Hahahahahahahahhahahaha Hahahahahahahahhahahaha I won't reply anymore, I got to take care of my life over here. Continue wallowing in your foolishness. I wash my hands off of you. I will not be responsible for your end. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Kathy McDaniel: Misfit In Hell To Heaven Expat by Saintmary(f): 10:51am On Nov 27, 2021 |
wirinet: Who beg you to help me, a random stranger prepare for the inevitable? Probably you are looking for more members to suck into your delusions to strengthen your beliefs. Maybe you are beginning to waver in your delusions.
Why not care for people around you that actually need your help? People who needs food, cloths,support that would actually improve their lives instead of wasting energy caring for the beliefs of anonymous strangers. Are you scared? Ha, you're scared! |
Christianity Etc › Re: Kathy McDaniel: Misfit In Hell To Heaven Expat by Saintmary(f): 10:23am On Nov 27, 2021 |
wirinet: I avoid all folk tale characters, Persus, Thor, jesus, Achilles, Gilgamesh, etc. That does not mean I acknowledge their existence.
You can avoid delusions and schizophrenia.
And you think threats is the last desperate weapon you can use against atheists to force them to accept your delusions? Me? Threaten you? Pekele pekele! What do I have, who am I, just a simple person going about my life. I was just helping you prepare for the inevitable. I got a lot to take care of. Got to go. Stay sharp. |
Family › Re: My Husband's Nephew Update... by Saintmary(f): 10:19am On Nov 27, 2021 |
Biglittlelois: How the hell is Op happy about it? Can you see her through her comment smiling and laughing?
how does this thread portray that women are wicked generally?
If your mum, sisters, female relatives are wicked evil beings, how is it anyone's fault their behavioural deficiency clouded your sense of reasoning and thought process, making you generalise baselessly? You guys are destroying the world presently, yet women are your problem? Can't you guys do without showing your insecurities and low self esteem everywhere on this forum? They have insecurities, just like you pointed out. They envy women's abilities and intuition. Women are naturally intelligent, the conclusions we easily come to, they have to work so hard to arrive at it. So you can imagine the suspicion. Instead of allowing them to get under your skin, just pity them. |
Family › Re: My Husband's Nephew Update... by Saintmary(f): 10:15am On Nov 27, 2021 |
Men will always support men, even if they are wrong.
It's because in place of the natural intuition that women have, they have nothing.
Have you ever seen a place where bats are huddled? They are blind, so they will huddle together to keep themselves in the same place so they won't get lost.
That's the way it is with men, in situations where women can stand alone and navigate with their intuition, men rely on huddling together and grope towards the truth.
Lamanii22, please say no more on this matter. Allow your husband to come to his own conclusions, before his family starts calling you a witch.
Just deal with the little inconveniences that you will experience as a result of the boy's presence in your lives.
Lock up all lockables, keep purses and bags out of sight etc etc.
Good luck. |
Romance › Re: Lady's Wig Flies Off Her Head As She Jumps In Excitement At Boyfriend's Proposal by Saintmary(f): 10:03am On Nov 27, 2021 |
AroOkigbo: Getting a fully natural lady is almost impossible nowadays. Awon natural lady harvesters. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Kathy McDaniel: Misfit In Hell To Heaven Expat by Saintmary(f): 9:57am On Nov 27, 2021 |
hopefulLandlord: it's you that believes an omniscient god created something for a purpose then changed the criteria midgame like he were a flawed human. you're right though. it's useless arguing with someone like you He's not the one that asked you to follow the devil, you made your bed, and so you will lie in it. You can only force the horse to the river, you can't make it drink. You have life and death in front of you. It's up to you whichever one you chose, of course you can't blame anyone for your choices. Are you not an adult? You expect God to always pick up after you, to rescue you from every inconvenience, simply because you deem Him Omniscient and All-Powerful, yet simple worship you can't offer, you refuse to acknowledge Him for all His works, you refuse to be responsible for any little thing in the entire creation. Only to draw in His Oxygen, drink His water, till His ground, build houses on His planet, marry His handiwork and bear more children as He has designed you to do. You ungrateful, irreverent (I don't even know what to call you)! Why don't you try making your planet, and draft your original design of a universe that will not copy His style, set up your sustenance and let's see if you will be alive to even taste of anything. Or even try creating yourself in the first place! Don't you think you deserve the title of a fool right now? Smart guys like Mark Zuckerberg say they are questioning, because they want to open the door for knowledge, but not so smart people like you think you have anything going on in a brain given to you! What a shame. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Kathy McDaniel: Misfit In Hell To Heaven Expat by Saintmary(f): 9:42am On Nov 27, 2021 |
wirinet: He avoids me or its me that avoids him? You meet a Jewish rabbi that was supposedly killed 2000years ago, but was claimed to have risen and taken up to the sky? Grand delusion bordering on schizophrenia. Hahahahahahahahhahahaha The fact that you're avoiding Him means you unwittingly attest to His existence and that He's still alive. You can't avoid a dead person. I hope you have prepared your essay towards the day you will no longer have any place to hide from Him. Thanks. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Kathy McDaniel: Misfit In Hell To Heaven Expat by Saintmary(f): 8:44am On Nov 27, 2021 |
wirinet: Which revelations from 2000 years? Are you talking about revelatiins from people who never met him but relies on hearsay and visions ( or dreams)? You want to meet Him? Eyah, I wonder why He would avoid you. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Kathy McDaniel: Misfit In Hell To Heaven Expat by Saintmary(f): 8:41am On Nov 27, 2021 |
Chuks71: LOOK AT THE RESPONSE OF SOME OF US HERE
I Cor 1: 18 KJV:For the preaching of the cross is to them that perish foolishness; but unto us which are saved it is the power of God. 19 KJV:For it is written, I will destroy the wisdom of the wise, and will bring to nothing the understanding of the prudent These are the last days and the perilous times are upon us. So, it's expected to see lots of unbelief and resistance to the Word of God. The devil is working hard to drag more people into perdition. Please continue in your personal devotions and worship with believers as much as you can so your lamp can continue to burn bright. That's very crucial at this time. |