₦airaland Forum

Greatidonis:
I know absolutely nothing about ANATOMY madam but i do know that i am here because i do not want this thing to continue.
I do know that even the worst kind of prostitutes that has walked the world slept under every kind of man and has done the most despicable things to their body and womb still find love and sometimes even with the most reputable kind of men and people begin just to wonder. And yes they all deserve love as long as they have changed from such ways.
I do know that the liver kidney and the cardiovascular system of chain smokers of 20yrs and even above start to heal just about a week after they quit smoking.
I do know that all is well and my wife is so perfect and so sweet, even nothing like she had 3 already and even this will pass.

Now, you have pointed out that you need solutions, very good.

Go to the general hospital near you, when you meet the Doctor, ask for semi permanent contraceptive methods.

Good luck.

Iyaebe:
Ninalowo the deceitful man that cheats on his wife always but come to social media to shower praises on her

Wahala

Johndagr8t:
Hello guys,

So today I had a dream where I met two of my old seniors in secondary school, we were walking by the road side,I could remember they were both asking me some questions like (my uni,age now etc).

something then happen I don't really remember much again but I know I saw a car that drove near us by the road side and suddenly a man came out and shoot us all..
PLEASE DID ANYBODY KNOWS THE MEANING TO THIS DREAM PLEASE AM DOWN!!!!

Getting shot in the dream is very bad.

Start praying now and add fasting too, don't feel depressed, just drop everything you're doing right now and spend time in prayers.


Also avoid follow follow. Be intentional with every career path you chose, pick your friends carefully, don't avoid having friends but pick them carefully.

Greatidonis:
Yes 400k forget what you do not understand wont come to a faceless forum to lie, maybe the hospital charged that high because it is a company paid.
And she is still the sweetest lady alive her body is not messed up, she is well cared for and has all the best things that life has to offer.

What do you know about anatomy Oga, getting pregnant and terminating it, like they're oranges you're just clearing from your kitchen table. Do you think of consequences at all?

Kidney problems, cervical cancer, vaginal prolapse, blood pressure issues, liver problems et cetera et cetera.

Just because you don't want any doctor to touch your own body, you decided to turn your wife into your reproductive lab rat!

And you're telling me I don't know anything since you can package very well and look good in public. Do you think makeup will cover up the gross misuse of your wife's body. The body is a system, if you use it wrongly, it will break down.


If you like shout God forbid from now till a thousand years, when you're done buy #100 condom and allow that woman heal up from overuse.

Telling me I don't understand.

obembet:
Some men en.. Must you married her? So when u demolish the house now, what did u gain?

Men na scum

You just like trouble abi.

Greatidonis:
My dear Nairaland family, i will make this as simple as possible. My wife is very fertile and we had 3 kids in the first 3 years of our marriage.
We do not need any child again but the problem now is no matter what we do she keeps missing her period almost every month and this has been going on for almost 3 years plus now, We had implanon (which is a hormone-releasing birth control implant for use by women to prevent pregnancy for up to 3 years). this stuff costs over 400k for the implant oh, it gave us relieve for about a year but after then she started having the serious side effects and we had to remove it.
We have tried different herbs and medicine they all fail just after awhile and she keeps taking in.
She is a very beautiful lady even after 3 kids with a nice physique (when body touch body for night things go happen) and we enjoy sex on a regular.
What can we do to stop this frequent Month to month pregnancy? we are tired of terminating pregnancies and stuffs like that.

400k for implant.


Uncle lie small small abeg.

Please go to the hospital and see other methods. You can do vasectomy too, I wonder why your wife will allow you to mess up her body like this.

Call yourself Excellence Coach.


Not a therapist. Before you can call yourself a therapist, you have to spend about 7 years under formal training, else you will be a counsellor.

Good luck.

You have a good point.

Our false sense of anonymity has encouraged us to bare our hearts, even things we can't say offline we develop boldness to say here.


Though there are some extreme people over here. I can't even go to the politics section unless I see their posts on front page.

lkillbrokehoes:
Very beautiful, i love the interior.

But honestly I've never seen a rich teacher in my entire life, this is really strange.

He owns an academy.
He only identifies as a teacher, he's actually a businessman.

LiberatedGirl:
I'm going to bed . I am tired Thank You to everyone for your comments. I don't expect to change any ones mind. Nigerian minds are set in Rock. Slaves of God and their Pastors are their God's.

You have tried your best, but you should try to teach people who will listen.

Most of the people here are the mockers and scoffers described in the Word of God.

Also, don't allow them to frustrate you.

Righteousness2:
My Sister,
It does not Matter the year being 2021,
It does not Matter the technological advancements and all that,
It does not Matter how Institutions, organizations, associations or groups try to sell out their own narratives,
The Word of GOD will not Change because of a Changing World.
Heaven and Earth will pass away, but the Word of GOD remains.

Listen to the word of the LORD so that it will be well with you. Heed to the Word of GOD because it is what will be used to Judge and Decide your fate in Eternity.

Ephesians 5:22-24
Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.

For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.

Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.

You just confirmed what she said, a woman is mandated to submit to ONLY her husband.

In case husband is absent, she submits to God, not ANY other man.


Btw, teach your fellow men how to be like Christ, the changing world has not brought enlightenment to lots of them.

Like if you prefer number 2

Mstick:
I am very fine my dear, thank for asking. What about you?

I'm doing okay, thanks

Ill-gotten wealth will end up biting you in the bum.

advanceDNA:
They were both in college for crying out loud...
Was he supposed to marry her in two hundred level...?
It’s always easy for you women judge when you are the ones serving the breakfast... as usual.. the guy is at fault....

I'm surprised you couldn't read and process what I wrote before you responded hastily by attacking me as if I'm the one that broke your heart.

When did I post that he should marry at 200 level?

I see that you don't want to reason and you don't seem like the type that finds solutions, so I don't think I should engage you any further. Please don't reply me.

advanceDNA:
If it’s the guy that broke up becos he found someone else...he would have been tagged all the horrible names in the world....

But when a woman breaks a mans’s heart..it’s now a case of “she doesn’t belong to him”

Can’t a man expect some level of loyalty from a woman he’s dating...??

She just clearly used and dumped him and it’s still his fault....

Yet she has the guts to manipulate him not to leave her ..

. if eating one’s cake and keeping it was a person....

I only addressed the phrase "my thing"

He should have valued his "thing" which is actually attached to a beating heart.

You too look at it naw, dating anyone indefinitely, without a commitment in view is really bad. And he came here to tell us he was planning to marry her. Planning to marry someone without important steps like seeing her family, setting a date and putting some stuff in place is just wishful thinking and amounts to stringing along. Nobody wants an indecisive man for a husband. Be honest with yourself, he didn't do well.

Moreign001:
Lol, thanks bro. But you just hit my wound! Bleep her, Chai.. My thing, lol.

You're not married to her, so, her body does not belong to you.

Why didn't you plan your introduction so she will know you're serious?

At all at all na im bad pass.

Iyaebe:
I have sense,I just enjoy going astray most times with my comments.

Buhahahahaha.

Just keep doing you.

Iyaebe:
A good marriage is highly dependent on the man with some good atrributes like uprightness, faithfulness, firm grip,totally in charge and very good core family values.Men with this attributes find it easy to control their homes and tame their wives to their satisfactions.You can't be faulty as a man and expect to have a good home,I'm not ruling out flaws as no one is perfect but marriage demands a lot from both parties hence the reason it is advisable to work on our major flaws before thinking marriage.

Now THIS!!!!!!!
makes a lot of sense

Timson01:
When it comes to women issues why didn't u guys look logically the story is girls are into lesbian and it is alarming u guys are talking of intention kwa or

I can't join you to condemn women that you're tempting and luring into sin.

Rather, I'll tell you that you're all the same.

REPENT!

Mstick:
actually no... theirs nothing women do sexually that you men wouldn't complain. they've sex with men they're cheap, with their fellow women? problem, no sex? they're starving you, masturbate? they're whores.

The only good woman's usually your mother who's also a cheap slût to another man. It's just an endless circle.

It's been a while. I hope you're okay.

Btw, I concur with what you wrote up there.

For a lot of Nigerians, change begins with everyone else except themselves.

OP be the change you want around you.

Mariangeles:
Op, why did you pose as a woman?
What was your motive?

Very good question

Whaaaaaat.

That guy has mind o.

Lalasticlala check this out.

OP, you're welcome.

Yeye dey smell.

I don't care to celebrate men's or women's days.

I only care for Fathers' and Mothers' days because those are the ones significant to me.

This your story get as e be.

You have been dealing with an adulterous wife for a long time.

How are you even sure the kids are yours?

Didn't anyone tell you that adultery is a valid reason for divorce?

Why have you wrapped yourself around your marriage so much that you don't even have an identity of your own?

Did you open up to any of your family members about this?

Alaji1220:
I need a very reasonable advice from this wonderful forum.

I got married close to a decade ago and the marriage is blessed with two kids.
Though things were tough at the beginning because wife lost her job and I bore the burden solely for 4 years, we had our st child 5 months after wedding andh the second 2 years later. Lost my job around the time our second kid arrived, we kept struggling with great hope. Around 2017 she connected me with a mam that help with an adhoc work in a recruiting firm, I got their within 2 months I helped madam to secured a marketing job, I managed with the job for like 8 months before it ended. Immediately it ended Madam began to behave funny let's I forget I sold my car to pay for her final year exam and also gave her money to get the certificate all amounting to 250k then. Around 2018 I was thrown back to the labour market and I was shown hell by wife, several calls of men, knew about 4 men through her watssap messages that she had affairs with I always get to see these whenever she fell asleep with her phone in her hand. 2019 I got back on my feet and I noticed she stopped the runs. Meanwhile she made so much money during the period of her escapades because of clients deposit that earned her bonuses at work but squadder a huge sum on travelings which were unsuccessful. She joined another financial institution this year and she handles client that need loan, 2 months after securing the job she started talking of getting car ordinarily I would have discouraged her but being someone that is always resolute in her decision making I quickly wade in so as to safe her from men that may want to take advantage of her as this has happened before I tried to inquire about the source of fund for the car she said she liase with a client to take loan that she will only pay back the principal portion that the client will pay the interest and she will be using all her salary to pay back, before we got the car I told her to go for a lesser car like 700k but she said it's 1m she budget for Nigeria used Toyota Corolla. But since we have got the car madam is so stressed up financially while I take care of all the bills even before she got the car she has not be helpful in the area of bill but only buy food stuff whenever she feels like but since she got the car she's still pestering me to be funding the maintenance of the car she drives to work everyday. I saw her chat with a man like 3 months ago and from the chart she was wooing the man for financial assistance, they arrange a meeting which I'm sure something must have transpired between them I confronted her and she promised not to see him again, my main pro is that in her new office some people around there know me we carried out maintenance work on the car recently that got her to online loan debt and I can observe that she was connecting with some men again for financial help, I got some messages confirming her promiscuity again and I confronted her she began to raise excuse here and there I was so mad with her that she thought I will beat her but thank God I didn't though we kept away from each other for 3 days but on getting home yesterday I discovered she had packed her loads and kids loads and left for her parents house and this should be her 4th time of doing this whenever we have misunderstanding. I love my kids but her attitude is making me to gradually loose the the love I have for these kids. I reported her to her mum she was kneeling down and begging me yesterday but for how long I'm I going to continue with this woman...

Please I need advice that will guide my decision, I only fear for those innocent kids future because she doesn't seem to care about their present well being though she claims all she is doing is to process traveling to secure their future.

Please go and meet a psychologist or you should go for deliverance.

It's either you're under psychological manipulation or spiritual manipulation.

Plantiff:
Alzheimer's disease, dementia or Parkinson's disease affects 3 million Americans annually despite their healthcare delivery system. I don't know the statistics in Nigeria because it isn't recorded.

Bill Gates is committed to finding the best possible solution for these diseases that attack when grandparents retire from labour and intend to spend quality time with their children and grandchildren. I think this disease killed Gates, the senior, and the father of the richest man in the world wouldn't die if money could treat dementia.

These category of diseases is better prevented than cured.

Dementia is a disease that is usually managed. In developed countries there are dementia care homes.

Those facilities are lacking in Nigeria which makes men that suffer from Dementia to be at the mercy of their wives.

Why am I saying all these?

I'm advising bachelors eligible for marriage to avoid evening newspapers at all cost.

Marry a woman that is at least 10 years younger than you so that if this disease sets in both of you would not suffer it together because women are more likely to suffer dementia than men.

Also, since there are no care homes in Nigeria, your survival depends on the willingness of your wife to take care of you since your children will be taking care of their own families.

Jacob's survival today is because he married a "very good" woman he is 19 years older than who is taking care of him .

You had good points at the beginning of your epistle, but you messed it up with your childish diss at older women.


Madam Joke was around 35 when she married Papa Olu.

She was your exact classic evening newspaper. What helps their marriage is that she, with enough life experience under her belt was able to appreciate her man and show him kindness in his old age.

dannyrhymes600:
Whenever I'm home alone, I never get bored, they are always around to make me laugh. The ducks can get very noisy at times, especially when they are hungry, the pigeons poop everywhere, the dog ( mongrel ) just gave birth to puppies, the rabbits are consumers , I rarely see the guinea pigs, they are always hiding in our store, who knows if they have reproduced already. The cats are always in the ceiling, I hope they don't kill my lovely guinea pigs one day, and lastly the goats, they are stubborn as hell, always eating our plants without remorse. Owning so many animals can be stressful but it is worth the stress

Good morning, I'm just starting out my pet journey, can you please give me or sell a guinea pig to me?
I can try to locate you in Ibadan.

I would love rabbits too if I could get them.

Good friends are golden

You have started again.

Smart move