₦airaland Forum

GodblessNig247:
I guess she has a brain right? Because someone tells u to take anything u like does not mean u would take the building too. That's common sense na!

Looks like deception is your new common sense.

divinehand2003:
The love of God has been shared abroad in our hearts. Love never dies. Only the selfish human way of loving ends up in hatred. We ought to apply 1 Corinthians 13 as we love in our relationships. That will save us from a lot of problems in our relationships and marriages today.

When females use 1Corinthians13 and males use 48 laws of power.

That's a glutton. But guys, tell them before the date not to over-order. Some of you tell the lady to order anything she wants, leading her into a trap and then complain about it later or hang her out to dry. If you know it's not in your budget, be plain about it.

dairykidd:
Well i like 99.9% of the first page


How come u don't follow no one... I actually wanted to then i saw a man wielding a very large scary looking axe like he was warning me off. Can u tell him to chill just this one time?

What do you mean by that. Who is warning you off?

XhosaNostra:
Somehow that makes it OK because she asked for an older girl? God only knows how old is "older". I'm just not a fan of these people who exploit small children in the name of bettering their lives, only to turn them into slaves, because they come from disadvantaged backgrounds. There're grown women they can employ. Fullstop. It's just not humane no matter how much they try to put frills & pleats on it.

That was her side of the story, it's common for humans to attempt to exploit the less privileged. History is replete with examples, in fact, a lot of "developed" countries are guilty of exploiting "underdeveloped" countries. What matters is, who is ready to speak for the helpless, who will bell the cat.
BTW if you double check the picture, there's a girl sitting beside the maid, her hairstyle is cheaper than that of the maid, I'm assuming, that's the woman's daughter, I think the woman only did all that for the camera.

XhosaNostra:
I don't care what she says, this is still not normal or right, to have a "house help" that age.
She even says the little girl won't be able to read her message any time soon. Why is that? Does that mean she's not currently enrolled in school to learn how to read? I'm sorry, but I fail to see how she, "the madam", is of any positive impact to the little girl's life, if there's no education.

She asked for an older girl, they brought her a small child, she decided to keep her. Did you read through?

dairykidd:
I really like u for just that sentence

You might not like everything I type o.

martineverest:
is he the vice president of southerners and Christians only?...are u suggesting he remains silent when Muslims are killed and outspoken when Christians are killed? is osinbajo there to fight for Christians alone?perhaps more Muslims have been killed than Christians in the north

he is the vice president of all tribes and religion in nigeria

His silence on ALL killings is DEAFENING. I am highly disappointed in such a collosal waste of office space for 4years.

Naijaman27:
This does not make sense. So when he doesn’t speak, it’s a problem, when he speaks, it’s a problem! They are trying. Have any of you tried to find out what the government is doing to stop these herdsmen? We need to see how we can assist and not just judge!

They are NOT trying.

Ovamboland:
How many Muslim leaders did you see who lost their heads when Muslim gets killed?
Is Osinbajo the VP for Christians or the VP of Nigeria?

Your conclusion shows you still lack the maturity to lead people with disparate interests. You don't chase every rabbit or else you end up in a fox hole

Osinbajo has performed excellently well in that regard

We value lives over here

eliadekx:
U are very big fool one man from panel beater he set up havy hotel here in Ikeja and graduates are working for him also he's still doing the same work

Some people doing that panel beater work will feed u ur mama ur papa and ur entire generation



People like u will be bagging 50naira from people everyday to play bet given them hope I'll will


NONSEN

Talk trash and a take a blow on ya face

No vex oga, obviously she had no knowledge of street things.

kimbraa:
Abeg! Panel Beating na work for Nigeria? I personally don't consider that as a job except if I'm misunderstanding what he does for a living.

@38, and that he hasn't done anything meaningful with his life has made him complacent at the level he's at. He's got nothing to loose and cares less about giving meaning to his life. Your bro lacks purpose, motivation, and drive. There are people like him who came to escort others in the world.

You clearly don't know how much of money those guys make. Everyone who owns a car is at their mercy once it gets bashed. Scrap metal nko, no be here. They're richer than the average white collar job guys. Your comment made me laugh in Swahili.

She already implied that she gets high, though not in public. I wonder why she will be looking down on other actresses. Sumborry should please help me tell her to cover those things, we've seen everybody else's things already. She doesn't need to add her own.

pannyman:
This is interesting. I actually ran into her at Shoprite Lekki some years back and when I greeted her she did not reply. I am sure she heard me.

She needs to know that when you're a public face you don't respond to only people you know because you just might lose a fan if you come across as being a snob. It is good manners to respond to greeting from people, whether you know them or not.

She believes good manners means avoiding alcohol and weed, and as long as her late mother and her family head are proud of her, everyone else can just buzz off, you know.

GrammarNazi1:
...husbands' houses... ...men are never satisfied.

Nasty Nazi

Reasonabledoubt:
Thank you. The exact thing I wanted to write. While people all over the world are coming up with life changing inventions, we remain basic. Discussing mundane things. Like who cooked and who didn’t cook. Rubbish country! Too bad I can’t choose where I am from. Nigeria won’t have been my choice.

Inventions can only become products when someone is willing to invest in it. So many things are wrong in this aspect.

OldBeer:
This thread will get to front page and reach 72 pages.
This is the only type of topic the blacks are well versed in.
Pounding yam.
Washing plate.
Cooking food.
In an age where people nay women are conquering space, the blacks only see their worth in domestic affairs.
Custodians of traditions that have made them the laughingstock of the entire human race.
Tueh!



Thank God my countdown to leaving the shithole is almost nigh.
Father, I thank you once again.

The perfect woman is the one who can conquer space and still dominate in the home front.

chilariye:
THE POWER OF INTEGRITY

He snubbed Angela Markel in White House; refusing to shake her hands in oval office.
He shocked President Al Sisi of Egypt. Told him point blank in WH that he will cut aid to Egypt.
He called North Korean leader Kim Jung Un , the 'Rocket Man'.
He has chastised President Putin. Heaping sanctions on his close associates.
He called out Theresa May of Britain.
He criticised China and her leaders. He took a risk of trade war with China.
He called Mexicans rapist , drug peddlers and unsavoury names. Even plans to build a wall.
He fought American footballers who refused to honour their anthem.
He is fighting the largest media platform, CNN.
He is fighting establishments in US; FBI, CIA, JUDICIARY etc.
He knocked NATO allies. Threatened Iran. Shot into Syria.
He fights with his appointees if needs be.
He called black Americans 'LAZY' before his elections.
He called African nations 'shithole'.
He is not afraid to tell it to u , no matter who u are because he is the POTUS. He says it exactly the way it is, snubs, Bullshits even world leaders.
He rarely gives compliments
BUT
when he met President Buhari, everything changed. He was so excited that he could not control it. To d extent that he was even longing for a 'selfie'/ close shot, smiling to the camera. Meaning it was deliberate. Gave PMB d full presidential compliments he has hardly given any other leader since assuming office.
He didn't stop there, he went on and on with eternal compliments.
Buhari became a Rock star to him.
WHY?
The honour and unusual integrity , dedication and commitment of a black man.
Finally he said, " I have tremendous respect for President Buhari.....Buhari is a honest & great leader Africa has produced ....For your sake, I will like to visit Nigeria pretty soon."

He also called him the No. 1 President of Africa.

Keep your honour. It will speak for u someday.

If the Hater's hero can say this about my President , why should I attempt to support or vote another.

It took a 75 year old President to attract such an honour to Nigeria. What far younger ones couldn't do for years. It is an honour for us all; all Nigerians not for PMB alone.

Buhari Again 2019.

Proudly Nigerian.

Is it not your President that turned Nigeria to a shithole. You need brain reset ASAP. Anyway, I know that #15000 is working.

Abagworo:
You are definitely young and single for you to type this. House help matter is the last thing a married man gets himself meddling into.

They don't meddle, but they rape them right?

Hanseel1:
is marriage a responsibility?

There's no mother without a child. The thread is about single mothers, having a child is a responsibility, so is starting a family. Marriage hasn't been mentioned.

Provabz:
Please I've this thing that have been bothering me and I'll like the house to help me with some reasonable answers..
'Why do we have a lot of single mothers in our current society '?
Mods Abeg push to front page for better answers thanks

We have a lot of single mothers because ladies are no longer afraid of a judgemental society which has little to no benefit to offer them other than wagging their tongues. Many single mothers didn't plan to be like that, their men turned their backs on them but they chose to keep a life even when no one else wants the child alive. Don't widows and divorcees also count as single mothers. Some ladies can't wait for the man to be ready to take responsibility, so they go ahead and start a family anyway.

Hanseel1:
perhaps

It's a fact

Hanseel1:
that's the new line being used by lazy dependent ladies..

One married woman insulted the hell outta me when I told her she's equal to her husband.

She doesn't want you to block her ATM. Lazy bone.

omogin:
really, where do they contribute the sperms abeg? I have many aging sisters that need to visit them. Anyways when ladies lie or pretend or use juju to marry a man, it won't last. Ladies I don advise una again o

So many sperm banks in Lagos. Just Google it.
But your aging sisters need husbands na.

Hanseel1:
yes a woman has equal rights with her husband.



saying you don't have equal rights with your husband is a quote being used by lazy dependent ladies

I can't believe a lady said that.

Hanseel1:
you're right. but Africans will surely resist certain changes.

Double standard is rife in Africa.

Amaraokafor:
All these are true and has been done.

Then, why don't you surprise him with a visit, take a gift with you and see how it goes. I suggest you prepare another accommodation for yourself in case something happens. This will help your decision about staying or leaving him. If you've got a hard-working, faithful, loving spouse who is committed to you, all you need to do is take more time to get to know him well and make a lovely life from there.

Amaraokafor:
To be fair, he seems ready just that you understand the state of the nation as it is. There were times, several times I threatened to walk out but it's all to make him be on his toes. It didn't work. I still find myself coming back. But I'm currently fed up and deeply frustrated.Im having this guilt already because it seems I may be liking someone else. Why I'm a bit scared is, I don't know if it's because I am lonely and depressed or just a natural thing?

Can you explain what you understand by his readiness. For example, has he discussed about your future together with you, has he shown you to his family and friends, have you met his people? Have you had any wedding discussion with any member of his family? what about discussions with your family etc

Amaraokafor:
Oga, you don't understand

I'm more crazy than that you put up there. But, the present situation of things now is not one that one can visit unexpectedly. I wish I can say more....

That aside. I'm dating a, man that when you discuss with him and talk, he sees sense in the discussion. He agrees and you think everything is settled. But na wash

He won't make a move on what is eventually concluded.

Are you sure you want to get married to a man who isn't proactive? Consider this scenario in your marriage, everytime you propose a new project, he says it's cool, only for him to do nothing about it. Are you ready to be the only one who drives the marriage forward, that's even if he comes around to propose to you. Think of how long it will take to get him to start wedding preparations, how long it will take for him to see your parents, to take you to his parents or meet your friends and have you meet his friends. I know there are men like this, but are you ready to spend the rest of your life making excuses for your spouse to your family, friends, etc. think hard about this. Three years is enough for you to know what your marriage will be like.

Reelmii:
yes he would have married her regardless the pregnancy. ... she is the one he had always loved, do u know how far they hav come ? just like davido saying he has known chioma for five years now

Wawu, you seem to be Tubaba's trusted advisor

cescky:


What does Annie know?

Because tuface, sorry for am manage am.. after him done spread his seeds to many women

Annie what do you know? Book you no Sabi..is that the spelling of argue? ..olodo teacher wan come teach students..

Anyways U be expert in keeping what other chop remain..

So, you're saying Tubaba is a second hand husband