₦airaland Forum

Vickify:
Don't waste your spit abeg, I expected this from the pretentious lot among them. Let them continue to suffer in their ignorance

The reason why many Nigerians are making wrong choices is lack of information. Democracy is a game of numbers, that is why majority carries the vote and in the case of Nigeria, when the majority is uninformed, we will still keep having leadership problems. We need to keep spreading the right information to balance the gap. Resistance is expected because people like the familiar. Pardon my digression. Its just that we are dealing with lack of information here also. Welldone. Btw how do I pm you, I need some further information some people might not be able to bear.

Odingo1:
So you will just be giving your children out like that, do you know that child will resemble you.

Imagine the billions of sperm cells you will produce in your lifetime. How many of them will be born? How many of them will you be able to cater for? If you donate them, you will never meet them, you will not know who you're donating to, IVF is superexpensive and can only be afforded by the rich so that means the kids will be born into rich families. Lastly, you are not the legal parent of the child produced and so have no legal right whatsoever to the child. The process might not even be successful, so why the sweat? Do you understand now?

To all the uninformed reading this: Education has been made cheaper and easier with internet. You don't have to stay in the dark about anything. Isn't it great!

Pathfinder121:
Your regrets and suffering are in the gym building their muscles for impact of your life.

Wait for it. Esau story will be better than yours.

May a God fearing man never meet you, may you meet your kind.

Eggs get produced every month. If she doesn't donate it they die every month and get wasted. Why not give out what you are not using to someone who doesn't have? They didn't take her ovaries, she still has about 30*12 eggs to produce given her age before menopause and she's only going to use max 4-8 for herself. The rest die unless she gives them out. Stop being judgemental. No one's regretting anything here.

ELKHALIFAISIS:
can your eggs work without our sperm we are the figurehead in baby making, ur eggs are worthless without the sperm... so chill down young lady..

This world would be a better place when we all admit we are interdependent. Females are paid more because the procedure is much more invasive and the eggs take longer to produce, not to mention the fact that egg production is limited. Those facts drive prices higher than male seminal fluids.

Wow. To find someone who actually did it in Nigeria! Awesome.

I'm using this medium to implore every female reading this: Take charge of your body. Be responsible.

buffalowings4:
Wetin consign me,

Carry your cross o aunty
As for me I will say let's keep educating our girls about contraceptive's
We don't want 'mistakes'

let's also keep educating our boys about condoms.

How about making it hard for southerners to get their PVCs. Any explanations?

Evablizin:


OP,i understand the post,you don't need to post one yeye pishure,anyway,gentlemen should get ready for me,not only will i rest ma head on their shoulder, but also cuddle them unknowingly. Ma luck fit shine well.

Goodluck

TessaJ:
dis was a case that almost scattered my family because the school belongs to my uncle's wife. All she was screaming was that nobody should come and spoil the works of her hand.if not for the faith my parents had in my sister, it was not funny at all. And the lawyer too really tried because the woman dragged my sister and the proprietress to court accusing her of trying to cover up the case because it was a family thing. D man might be guilty and he might not. Let's not conclude yet all because it's a two year old child.

no one is concluding here ma'am.

revolt:
congrats ke. That must have been traumatizing, and God help her if she was a man.....the emmotional bias would have blinded the angry birds.

you say congrats when someone escapes trouble

TessaJ:
hmmmm......one has to be careful. Something like this happened to my sister too. When she was being accused of molesting a three year old girl in her class. She was also accused of scrapping d girl's hair and to worsen the issue, the girl was always pointing to my sister whenever they ask her. The school management brought out all the staff and the girl still pointed to my sister. If not for God, d story would have been different. D girl later said it wasn't my sister that it was her mum that told her to mention my sister's name. Wat am trying to say is that we can't judge yet,let the court do their work with proper investigation.

I understand children can be manipulated, yet it's also necessary to do some due diligence to follow their words up. It could save their lives. Congrats to your sister.

revolt:
madam this is simple comprehension , the story says the matter is in court, so it means the child's accusation hasn't been dismissed. Im against condemning the man for the sake of emotional bias.

I understand you. And I have not condemned the man. But I was pointing out that dismissing children's words for any reason shows gross irresponsibility and condescension, both hallmarks of bad parenting. Have a good day.

revolt:
You can tell a feminist by their replies. We discuss a topic and quickly she involves my kids. Anyways I'm not referring to other cases, I'm interested in this particular case. Now what If the man's being blackmailed, or are you inferring that's not possible because he's a man. Pls we need to be objective in such cases cos if he's wrongfully convicted based on emmotional bias, you're not only wrecking an innocent young mans life, but also he future o his wife and kids. Like somebody pointed out here....the MCmartin preschool scandal comes to mind. We need to let the courts handle this case cos already ppl like you have condemned him. That's really wicked of anybody to do .

My first concern in this case is the child and all children. It's gross irresponsibility to dismiss any child's words as a result of low cognitive abilities or whatever. At least attend to the child FIRST!!! I still pity all children in your care regardless of what you call me.

revolt:
well even psychologists can have a motive or be wrong. Yes a 2year old no matter how brilliant is atill very in cognitive. Soon babies would be making accusations.

Do you know how many parents bury these kind of cases because of stigma?
Do you think it was easy for these parents to come out and show the world that their child has been defiled? In your effort to be objective, you sound callous! My God! I'm concerned for your children!!!

revolt:
Saw this story on one feminazis Facebook wall, and tried to decipher the possibility of this story .
These feminists abused me cos I suggested they shouldnt convict the accused via social media trials.
After the taxify saga, and a false rape accusation a friend of mine encountered, I'm beginning to always ensure I take a second look at any sexual accusation. Here were some points in this case, that required some clarification :

What school puts a man in charge of a creche(since were dealing with 2year olds)?.

What were the nannies doing, that they allowed a man on several occasions, to take two minors to an undisclosed location for unexplained periods of time?

Where exactly, in a school did this take place and how in Gods name did this happen, school deserves closure?

How tiny is this mans weewee that he was able to penetrate a 2 year old without extreme damage?

We've raised kids, and I can guarantee anybody that takes the words of a two year old as cognitive, is either mischievous or trying to destroy somebody.
A school like chrisland should have CCTV in its creche, thus, has the footage been examined?, If they don't have, then that's another minus.

Finally the accused has been charged to court, and we need to hear his defense. If he's found guilty ,I'm quite sure he will be convicted via overwhelming evidence. The amount of damage that could be done to a persons life just by media trial can be irreparable. Some feminists even abused me, that the young man deserves no rights to a defense just cos he's a man, and the child was female.

Let the courts decide, and if found guilty, he should face the law AND the school MUST be sanctioned, with the nannies.

so, we should doubt the child because she is 2? A psychologist interviewed her for God's sake! Are you saying you are more qualified to ratify a child's story better than a professional? That sounds really bad.

Lloydfather:
Awa omoluabi oni gba fun awon omo aboki yen.

We are not middle belt or Ilorin, in case u don't know our aree ona kan kan fo, the otunba of Yoruba land and his OPC gang will protect our territory.

stop waiting for one man. You do something

dujaswags1:
what is the son doing at an orphanage when he has a dad.

Nonsense

the man is mentally unfit to raise the children

fpeter:
How will the wealth go round?

it's not meant to go round

mexxmoney:
Hypocrisy everywhere. Some of these people just open all these advocacy groups as a means of getting money from donors especially foreign donors. I have experience working with one of them and I could see that she was even doing worse evil than the one she claimed to be fighting

it's time we start putting these people under the searchlight. Some even make a career out of it.

No matter how much you hate women. Newsflash. YOU'RE SURROUNDED.

venatus25:
I like this Phillipines president, I love real women and hate feminist because they offer nothing but confusion and stubbornness to many relationship. They can turn a good wife to bad ones using their gender equality claim.
How I wish all nation behave like Phillipines I'm sure that will make those confused ladies to come to their senses. Enough is enough, the law have been in the position to favor women, I wonder what they are looking for. Gradually they will understand that this is men's world and not feminist own.

It's God's world. It belongs to neither feminists nor misogynists

zera:
Lool...but seriously are ladies useless without their honey pot

too explicit

And some people want to study in this excuse of a country.

Yinxies:
Please ooo. I don't seem to understand. She is a virgin and pregnant? How?

it's the 21st century my dear; artificial insemination and a host of other treatments

Amirullaha:
Wont the hymen break during childbirth

she'll do C.S.

Why not galvanise to support the best governor in southern Nigerian that is non sympathetic to this present fg administration. Forget zoning.

ojlifa:
His Name ONOJA ATTA ONOJA,seat down with that guy,his like a genius,probably the list tribalistic Nigerian i have meet.but sadly i doubt people like him would ever agree to come out for elections.that leads me to believe that it isn't that Nigeria does not have people who can fix it,it is just that they wouldn't agree to stand up to the heat most likely because the old people would do what they are good at which is killing peoples destiny

old ppl been killing destinies in africa since 1600.

Spectraz:
It's not childish. It's called creativity

when you've got money to fulfil all your wishes, you get whimsical

Wiziman:
Snake swallowed 36million in jamb office in Nigeria. Rat chased the president out of office in NIGERIA. People were murdered because of Cows in Nigeria.... Welcome to Nigeria

animals have taken over!

faithugo64:
7 years?
You think she is really going to give you full respect as her husband?

Again
Women age faster than men mainly because of childbirth
I hope she won't be looking like your mum in 5 or 10 years to come.

Last last Op its your personal decision, if she makes you happy, and you are at peace with the idea, go for it
Happy married life in advance

looking older than your age is mostly a result of stress and excess domestic burden , childbirth has little to do with it.