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@Poster I didnt make time to read the esponses as a sure someone could have already asked thins question "So then what makes a bad boy so bad if he is capable of the stuff you just wrote"?

silly girl

If you are not going to tell him now, you might as well be willing to watch him walk on by

I say forget her, she just wants to have s3x whenever and brag to her freinds about going to her boyfriends place to play house. I mean if she is realy smart she would spend time trying to find out what your life plan is all about, what are your circumstances and predicaments around them, then make her decision based on that. I am quite sure you do not intend to live with your parents for life, no one wants that.

See the problem with women sometimes is that as much as we know what we want we just dont know how to get it. The smart thing she could have done here was to get closer to you and understand whats going on and what you intend to do about it without putting any words in your mouth or pressure. These's a season for everything you will get that job you want and get your own place when you can.

Loose the loser and concerntrate on your life and where its suppose to be going.

You know what, everything must come to an end, therefore its ok you can end this relationship nothing wrong with that

@Topic, AMEN!!! Finaly there's a guy who's seen the light

EloSela:
Hey!!

English please. . . .or at least translate so we can pick up the lingua too. We are all Africans and so we need to be able to teach each other our languages.

Is that Xhosa?

No Setswana, My goodness what m I going to do to all the Xhosa's. Anyway nevermind the chats in naitive are just tribal issues. We were just tryin to understand RSA's tribe given the poem he wrote for miss Angel.

But did you see the pic your friend RSA posted, man I'll be laughing for days, he's wicked

Ileke-IdI:
Ehrrrm let's keep the convo centered on Nigeria.


lol jk

In a minute. Can somebody please ask RSA to stop it. Still cracking with laughter by the way

RSA e e! guys me m out of here I cant stop laughing RSA what kind? o ngwana mang he? hhahhaaahhhaa! o tlo re bethisa kamo wena

RSA:
Ke MoTswana,Mokgatla to be precise.Welcome back bru,where have you been? Mpele is still roaming around SA team is gaining momentum ,Free SA lessons on Nairaland

lol!

A o raa yona Kgabo Mokgatla?

RSA:
How do I forget that mara

Bathong ngwana you mosetlhana!
Wa dikoti marameng!
Wa mmala wa sebilo!
O kare o tlhapa ka maswi!
kgarebe ya letheka la mofu!
Dipounama tsa gago o kare boletswa!
Ga nka di suna nka kgomarela

Dumela Naledi yame ya botlhabatsatsi!

That is my poem to you,Angel

a a a a! I want too, Angel shall we share? May the Zuma legacy live on, dont worry only on ciber space. O skaba greedy le wena hau!

Angelheart:
Let them stay in their country and FIX it. it is amazing how much they can yap about Mzantsi and how immoral or sick we are yet they keep flooding in. Hulle is SKELMS!! That's that!! I feel for the Zimbos mara MaNaijeria!! Eh eh!! I liv ein Pretoria and do my hair in Sunnyside, the crap that we see!! Ah!!

hou! my angel what happened to your wings. Never allow yourself to stoop to this level of hate. You are much better c'mon represent sthandwa sam, and always remeber that 2010 crown you are wearing.

RSA:
Why? Princess.
So you think our goverment deported them for being Nigerians? Do you agree with people here who says black South Africans hate Nigerians? Are all black South Africans poor,HIV infected and uneducated? Is 95% of our economy in white hands? Are all South African woman cheap and lack morals? Is South Africa going down since black goverment took over?

You know the answer to all those questions is 'NO' but people here think it's true.Let us educate them princess while they are here,so that they don't come over with their illnformed arrogance to our country.We know South Africans hate to be disrespected in their homeland.
So please my lovely mkhaya don't shushhh me I beg oo

No Sir. All I am saying is that, sometimes when you know better the best thing you can do is to just shut up. You already know what's what and what's not. You and I know better cos we live with the situations everyday so there's no reason to try and convince people that make argument based on hear say, so Hush! lets find other topics for fun, you know how we do it. This aint worth it.

Guys there's a solution to everything. HATE has never been the answer. But if its the only way you know well you are free to cling on to it. It'll keep you prisoner of your own thoughts and it'll eat you up, while you watch your imaginary enermy continues to prosper.

For the haters free yourselves from this hate by never ever allowing yourselves to set foot in SA, rather go to countries that do not have crime, gangsterism and are lawless and live a happy life free of hate (HATE is not the one). This is the best practical solution you have.

RSA shhhhhhh! Hush!

Will it ever stop? black people

hmmmm! two wrongs! what a situation, I found myself sitting on the fence for a while over this one. Anyway at poster both of you were wrong. You cant force somebody to have a moment of jubilation as if he has not received devastating news. The news should have been devasting to him in that apart from a feeling grief he probably felt guilt at the same time. Guilt that his very moment of happiness just led to the end of someobody elses life. So it was already a moment of conflict of emotions, he probably wanted to carry on with the plan for the day, just to make you happy, but there were other people to think about which he was already feeling sorry for. You could've handled it better with a bit of consideration

, and now he goes on to hit you, how unreasonable. This to me is the lowest of lows in as far as the story in concerned. He didnt do any justice to the fact that you guys are about to live together and in your togetherness there'll always be those challenging moments, you never know what this biatch (life by the way) is goin to throw your way, just how is he going to react in any given situation. eeerrrmm! I am afraid. No excuse for this whether he's done it before or not that's sooooo besides the point.

In fact the smartest thing to do for him was to never come back to you the next day or ever, because he had discovered just discovered what an emotional retard you are, eeeerrr! emboldment it wasnt me, that's "Madonna" at least you can laugh and wipe your tears.

Sorry my dear both of you I would like to believe you still lacking in emotional maturity. You are a "what about me" type of people. Whether you go back or not forgive him first ask for his forgiveness and the rest shall follow. Smile now

LOVE.4BUG:
this thread belongs to Romance section not meeting zone.

Anyway*** back to your post. The chick is in love with someone else, you are just a spare tyer incase the the original gets flat ( hope he understands the meaning of that)

In conclution; she is waiting for the main guy to propose and if he fails, she turns to you but for now you are pending

^^^exactly my thoughts

Rock_oil:
Wetin the Hungry YOU,

HHAHHAHAHHAA! That's if this means what I think it means. HHAHHHAHAHA!

^^^Heavy. I was tempted to lash at you about your tounge full of negative self talk. On the other hand m thinking that no one should feel this way its got to be serious. My positive advise is that you seek professional counseling, try it

Naija_Sisi:
u want to lose your virginity or wat??
anyway he is probably trying to respect your virginical state.
but i dont understand why this is a problem for you. It would only be a problem if u wanted to lose your virginity, because you know kissing and handling can very easily lead to the main ting, and there is no point starting what you cannot finish.

so if u dont want to lose your v, then there is no point doing those things which come under pre-intimacy, make up your mind wat u really want

@Poster could you please answer this appropriate question.

daduke2k:
hey babes , its a long story but to cut it short my lappy was robbed off me, so i just do cafes and phone browse. how u dey ? aint got your add yet on FB and YIM. sup?

No man you taking the fun out of this. If I add you on my FB/YIM how am I going to crap on you if you talk nonsense and how you going to crap on me if I talk nonsense? LOL! sorry about the lappy thing hope you are okay though. Lady be good still and lols forever.

Faher:
the old "you"

^^^I feel you, which brings me to mama-gee. I honestly miss her and her sharp tounge. She is now part of some or other Cabal in the family section and has become boring with her polite talk. @190 please find her and bring her back here. I think she adds great flavour in here.

Mr. Mandela, you personify the word mission accomplished. I am honoured to have lived in your times. Happy b-day

@Thelmabee, you are an emoticon with a light bulb above her head

daduke2k:
@op , now y didint u include mine: i will tell u the reason hmm, beccause u are a newbie . take your a$$ off here. this is a public forum and lest i forget wen typing next tyme kip your dictionary handy ok??

Aaaactualy I've been wondering why you havent been included on the list, where the hell have you been?

kobikwelu:
i still believe in the institution of marriage,

but what is more worrisome is the new wave of "style channel" women that believe it is "cool" to be a single mother


get pregnant for a dude and have a baby,

I so want to understand you right now, Yes if carry on I am listening,

@Poster, I am starting to be convinced myself that marriage is old fashioned. I see more and more people now opting for single parenthood and living with partners than with husbands/wifes.

A classic was when I saw a couple in their late fourties, early fifties living in one house, the house is a double story structure and the man occupies the top and the wife occupies the bottom. They call it living together apart. The arrangement is that, each gets to decorate/furnish their part of the house according to their personal taste. They call each other and visit each other. On weekends if they are together or out on a date they dont have to end up in the same bed after a date. So being together is a matter of picking up a phone and asking for company and or a date just like you would with your girl/boyfriend.

Essentially everything happens as if they are courting whereas they are husband and wife. Honestly sounds like something I would do. It was a bit obvious that this is the kind of thing meant for people who are absolutely at peace with the world, and consideres personal space an important part of who they are.

HAHHAHAAHAHHAA! Guys did you seriously compliment this post with responses. Its people like these you should just ignore

@ikedeo, if its a girl child you want ask for just that.

Go ahead and marry him if the feelig is mutual, and when he gets a job and grows a big head divorce his silly azz