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aureen:
Why did you put your face down in your profile picture?You must be ashamed of yourself just like your parent and relatives
Brainless, idiotic Vagabond daughter that the family, relatives and children are ashamed of even at this very age
Keep insulting people at your age it's good for you and don't forget to raise your daughters and sons to become verbally abusive since that's the cause you are interested in that gives you joy

I hope you're just catching fun. Otherwise you've just destroyed Daystar's reputation for me.
If this is the calibre of Christians that are raised there, I can only groan.
Please beg the moderators to delete this thread. You're insulting your pastor.
I won't be surprised if you insult me too. I will be more surprised if you don't.
Unsolicited advice : don't consider marriage yet. You still have a lot of growing up to do

Ray360:
The loss of weight looks "organized", like it's even. Not one part losing fat and the other remaining excessively fleshy. I still believe exercise remains the surest and Harm-free way to shed fat.

Actually diet is more effective than exercise. Ask those that know

Pidgin2:
What if he had come back without anything?

See how she's rolling on the floor as if he hasn't been speaking to her on phone, what sort of nonsense is this. Some people put so much pressure on their kids for material wealth that they run off for years only to return with what they feel will make their parents proud, in this case it was "a Tokunbo car" smh

I think you didn't read the scene rightly. I am a parent..
Talking on the phone is not the same as physically handling your child.
When he pointed at the Tokunbo car, his mom didn't even look at it. She values him not what he's able to achieve

mamachildren:
she is lost don't fight her don't beat her show her love more than ever tell your mum to show her love it's is hard but turn a blind eye on her issues and then talk to God he will take it from there. She will find her way back on her own because it no more your battle it's of the Lord. You will be surprised. It has worked in many families I know

Thanks for sharing this

Reality Check - Regardless of what you may read in some journalistic accounts, multiple studies reveal a link between porn use and sexual performance problems, relationship and sexual dissatisfaction, and reduced brain activation to sexual stimuli.

Let's start with sexual dysfunctions. Studies assessing young male sexuality since 2010 report historic levels of sexual dysfunctions, and startling rates of a new scourge: low libido. Documented in this lay article and in this peer-reviewed paper involving 7 US Navy doctors - Is Internet Pornography Causing Sexual Dysfunctions? A Review with Clinical Reports (2016)

Read more about Studies linking porn use or porn/sex addiction to sexual dysfunctions, lower arousal, and lower sexual & relationship satisfaction
Brain Studies on Porn Users


This page lists all the studies assessing the brain structure and functioning of Internet porn users. To date every study offers support for the porn addiction model (no studies falsify the porn addiction model). The results of these 37 neurological studies (and upcoming studies) are consistent with 260+ Internet addiction "brain studies", many of which also include internet porn use.

All support the premise that internet porn use can cause addiction-related brain changes, as do these 13 recent neuroscience-based reviews of the literature:
Read more about Brain Studies on Porn Users
Studies linking porn use to poorer mental-emotional health & poorer cognitive outcomes


Many individuals who cease using porn for an extended period of time report mental and cognitive benefits, such as improved concentration and focus, better grades, increased energy and motivation, social anxiety improved or gone, increased confidence, improved mood, depression reduced or gone, greater desire to be social, more intense or vibrant emotions, and increased desire to be in a loving relationship

Reality Check - Regardless of what you may read in some journalistic accounts, multiple studies reveal a link between porn use and sexual performance problems, relationship and sexual dissatisfaction, and reduced brain activation to sexual stimuli.

Let's start with sexual dysfunctions. Studies assessing young male sexuality since 2010 report historic levels of sexual dysfunctions, and startling rates of a new scourge: low libido. Documented in this lay article and in this peer-reviewed paper involving 7 US Navy doctors - Is Internet Pornography Causing Sexual Dysfunctions? A Review with Clinical Reports (2016)

Read more about Studies linking porn use or porn/sex addiction to sexual dysfunctions, lower arousal, and lower sexual & relationship satisfaction
Brain Studies on Porn Users


This page lists all the studies assessing the brain structure and functioning of Internet porn users. To date every study offers support for the porn addiction model (no studies falsify the porn addiction model). The results of these 37 neurological studies (and upcoming studies) are consistent with 260+ Internet addiction "brain studies", many of which also include internet porn use.

All support the premise that internet porn use can cause addiction-related brain changes, as do these 13 recent neuroscience-based reviews of the literature:
Read more about Brain Studies on Porn Users
Studies linking porn use to poorer mental-emotional health & poorer cognitive outcomes


Many individuals who cease using porn for an extended period of time report mental and cognitive benefits, such as improved concentration and focus, better grades, increased energy and motivation, social anxiety improved or gone, increased confidence, improved mood, depression reduced or gone, greater desire to be social, more intense or vibrant emotions, and increased desire to be in a loving relationship

enemyofprogress:
Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew the girl no even fine self.

You're struggling so hard to live true to your name.
Give up on this one. The girl is very beautiful

That baby is so cute

afamaustin:
Sombori help me piles is tormenting my life

Pile shouldn't torment your life.
Go to a good pharmacy and buy Anusol ointment or cream. Don't buy the suppository, but the ointment or cream. It will shrink the pile in no time.
When you've recovered, please eat a healthy diet with vegetables and fruits. Pile is caused by wrong feeding.

Infomaz:
Acts 2:4
And they were all filled with the Holy Ghost, and began to speak with other tongues (languages) , as the Spirit gave them utterance.

Acts 2:5

And there were dwelling at Jerusalem Jews, devout men, out of every nation under heaven. 6 Now when this was noised abroad, the multitude came together, and were confounded, because that every man heard them speak in his own language. 7 And they were all amazed and marvelled, saying one to another, Behold, are not all these which speak Galilaeans? 8 And how hear we every man in our own tongue, wherein we were born?


The so-called Unknown language that goes for speaking in tongues today is gibberish and sheer babbling. The apostles where blessed with the gift of speaking other languages because of the need to break the communication barrier and spread the gospel.

What happened was that the Yoruba, Igbo, Hausa man that went to Jerusalem heard the gospel in their OWN MOTHER TONGUE!

The meaningless gibberish that goes for tongues in most of our churches has its root in pagan chanting and invocations.

Thanks so much! I had tried this gibberish but even I myself knew it was fake.
But I have seen the genuine one: I have heard an illiterate Igbo woman who has not crossed Onitsha praying and praising God in Yoruba.
An American who hasn't been to Nigeria was praying in Ibibio during the Apostolic Faith camp meeting in Portland Oregon. A lady from Akwa Ibom was there and understood her clearly.
To get that genuine baptism demands genuine salvation and sanctification.
Where there's counterfeit, we can get the genuine one

mightyhazel:
southeast dey learn work for where north dey, for this kain mata

Really? I thought SE and Port Harcourt had the baby factories

Inspiring story. The heroine is not just her but the person in the background : her amazing mother!

I wish young men appreciated the magnitude of the choice they make on who should be their wife and the mother of their children.
An intelligent mother has worked with her hearing -challenged daughter to give society an accomplished paediatrician.

Pweetiebabe:
Yes sis,am a living testimony to DAT I was diagnosed if mild bilateral hydrsalpinx sometimes last year and I followed my wonderful mamas advice here abt the castrol oil therapy and d Lord did it....So sis nothing is impossible for our God to do.

Please please please, could you share in details what you did?
Someone very close to me needs this information badly

oruma19:
bros, he that comes to equity must come clean. We can't be fighting wrongdoing with wrongdoing. Much as I hate what useless pastors are doing now I don't supot telling lies to make the story look good. A man that has ten children from one woman must be above 60 or thereabout using average calculation, a sixty year old pastor with 10 children will be maltreating his wife and children that some are big enough to be on Nairaland. Haba, make we use our brain na. An average boy of 16 will beat up his father if he abuses the mother in their presence. Let alone 10 children. Them for don kill d papa sef if na true story. U cannot beat the mother of ur grown up children and go free. Ask any young boy, he will tell u what will happen to the father if he tries it. The story is cooked and a very big lie.

I wish this story was fake but you can see others corroborating that it's happening to them too.
Op, no father can continue beating his wife when they have grown children.
People get away with impunity when unchallenged. Calling your dad to order isn't disrespectful. It is a mark of love.

Think of what can happen to your family if you don't do what is right : your dad 'accidentally ' kills your mom and goes to prison. Ten orphaned children! Do something and do it fast otherwise you'll regret the disaster your inaction can cause.

Let me summarize the suggestions :
1. Record an abusive scene
2. All the children 18+ ask your parents to sit down for a meeting. Lead a prayer asking God to be the leader of the deliberations
3. Start on a positive note. Tell dad he's your hero and mentor and you appreciate all the sacrifices he's making to provide for his large household
4. Tell him that you don't like his treatment of your Mom and you all demand it stops immediately so that he doesn't destroy his life, family and ministry
5. Add the subtle threat that you will expose him to shame if there's no change.
6. Let one of your siblings lead the closing prayer asking God to deliver your dad from a hypocritical life that will send him to hell fire.

The abuse will stop.

There is stigma attached to mental illness. This makes families to conceal a patient who should be at a psychiatric hospital.
The result is this kind of unfortunate situation.
Secondly, more young people are abusing hard drugs so more mad people

What a horrible way to die!

Her dressing didn't do justice to her beauty.
That dress is clumsy for a plus-size woman

Exponental:
You girls competed and you won, he only gave them consolation prizes. If you disqualify yourself, the first runner up takes up your place! It might be your blood self..... QED.

Hmmm

PhilipGallagher:
How did he get your account number. It would be tough for you to argue that this isn't a case of paying for services rendered. The man is pure evil sha

Very irritating story. She's lucky he didn't kill her and use for ritual.
Let her just apologize to her parents and try to be responsible. She mightn't be so lucky in future

GavelSlam:

I love that church.

Used to go there as a kid though I hated it at the time.

Today, it is one church I would recommend to any.

Thanks. They are still preaching the message of salvation freely.
At today's Christmas retreat, students from over 60 schools were provided free transport and free feeding to attend.
Freely we have received, freely we give

This is not a case of 'I'm better than others ".
But just you know that not all churches are in this business of fleecing others.
Apostolic Faith Church with headquarters at Anthony Village doesn't pass collection plates, in fact, hasn't done so for more than 100years.
There is an offering box at the back where people go, at their convenience, to drop their contributions to the church or even gifts for members to ensure anonymity. Nobody knows or keeps a record of who is paying what.

The church organizes evangelism to schools, visits to the blind centres, hospitals and prisons. Gifts of food, clothing and financial support are taken to these places every week.
Apostolic Faith preaches old-fashioned Christian integrity messages and the need to live a transparent Christian life to make heaven.
I know such churches are not very popular because they don't have flamboyant leaders but servant volunteers who, instead of receiving from the flock, are making their tents, (yes many of the pastors are volunteers not on salaries) and supporting others.
As I said, this is just for information and to spare us from making generalizations

Word!

acme6:
She is beautiful.

No hating but truth be told. She's not drop dead gorgeous. She's just an average Jane.
I think the man values his peace of mind more than physical attractiveness

That woman is pretty. She also looks like she's genuinely in love with him. She's not that old.
She may have followed him to Ekiti to be sure there's no wife before her

jajanwani:
WHERE IS YOUR PROOF OF CHEATING EINSTEIN RUBBISH TALK!

No proof, my lord.
Satisfied?

seunmsg:
Nothing can justify her act of cruelty. Her marriage to the deceased was a product of cheating so she cannot stand on any moral pedestal to claim she reacted because the guy cheated. She saw nothing wrong when the guy was cheating on his first wife with her and eventually divorced her but was quick to stab him to death in his sleep when she noticed he's probably seeing another lady.

Hmmm
May God deliver us

NiRfreak:
You are a stupid fool for this statement. insensitive idiot. What on earth justifies the shedding of blood of a man/woman. You are stupid. I thought every religion teaches the sanctity of life. It's even more respected in the moralist circle. So what's your point? Oloshi

Thanks for all the wonderful compliments. I believe in the sanctity of human life.
My point is : men and women should avoid ANY situation that can bring this level of rage.
Better safe than sorry

bisiki2:
May have gone under the knife.

I don't think so. I've watched interviews with her on YouTube.
New fitness goals, I tell you

tit:
She was temporarily insane.
Have you been cheated by someone you love?

That's my concern. The men aren't reading the signs of the times. They are insisting on their longheld privileges of polygamy, divorce and adultery. But the women, both educated and illiterate have moved on. They're demanding fidelity and respect.
Cases like this are getting rampant. Just this week, another has happened in Gusau. I'm afraid they will increase. I'm not justifying this, but if you treat your wife anyhow, she will respond anyhow.

I pity men who cheat on their wives and dare her to do her worst, after all you married her. Such men are just plain suicidal