Just be yourself and don't try to impress unnecessarily. Dress well and observe all cultural courtesies. Be generous to their younger ones cos they would help your course. Then specifics requirement depends on their tribe.

See hypocrisy of the highest order !!!! all you women that condemned Owu Gal are bloody hypocrites !!!! how many of you don't have underaged kids as "omo-odo"? Infact how many of you would leave a fully grown, full breasted, plump girl/lady housegirl with your husbands? Some of your parents also have those "omo-odo" too so stop playing your holier than thou attitude here. Plueeeeesssssseeeee spare me !!!!!

If it was a false accusation from NDLEA, y'all just keep laughing cos it might be your turn tomorrow!!! but you wont have the fame that would deliver you so those NDLEA instead of admiting their fault would plant drugs on you !!!

Reading this thread makes me so disappointed that i'm a Nigerian. If our generation could reason the way they are doing now then Nigeria is doomed!!!! So what hypocrisy do we advocate when we declare ONE Nigeria !!!! Its a shame on all of you and your tribalistic comments !!!! Poster, its a pity you guys found yourself in a wrong society, cruel and mean, surrounded by young people with parochial mindset !!!!! Your parents would grow old and die one day but you shall continue to live with the regrets of not marrying your true love. I am really disappointed in the comments i just read from some prominent Nairalanders !!!!! what a shame!!!! If you dig deep, i'm sure its all about money!!!!! if you are marrying Adenuga's Son, or he is marrying Rochas Okorochas daughter, your parents wont remember tribe difference!!!!

Siena, for once i would disagree with you, point one; police station is the wrongest place to go in this country or else you would come back with a problem not yours! Point 2, if you give it to a radio station, they would probably give the full name on the airwave so what difference does it make? He did well by not giving the details of the documents. Full name does not infringe on any privacy if it has to do with lost items. I can assure the woman would be more grateful to get her documents back rather than worry about privacy issue. Finally if even if she isnt a member of Nairaland remember its a small world! people know people.

I think your question should be the other way round, teach us how you have been managing !!!

Your number is switched off. Where can i view the car? Lets talk.

The man dashed you a whole human that he solely trained from birth, driving him for a few hours would not kill you even if he sits in owners corner !!!! I see a man that lacks confidence here !!!!

Paradox of Life; right on the main board a topic goes - I Hired Those That Killed My Late Husband – Detained Wife - it has 2 comments and 136 views. Topic started 3:01pm Oct 5. No lady commented on this topic. Another topic - Sad End To Another Domestic Violenc Case - it has 21 comments and 467 views. Topic started 4:26pm Oct 5. Man killing woman would be termed the "devilish men" but woman killing man is just another tale of temporary insanity. Who should complain of gender inequality?

This story is the summary of all religions especially christianity. And you deserve an award for selflessness!!! This should make the international press and organisation. May god bless you my sister and heal from any trauma you might have suffered.

You don't have any psycological problem, you are just a bloody Gigolo !!!!

Just like Kokoye said, i would ask you, do you have a conscience? Remember there is a God somewhere and what you sow you would reap. So bro, do the right thing.

Wrong foundation for a marriage. The woman has issues and you would find out after marriage. A woman that can be pregnant for 9 months and the parents didn't know? decided not to breastfeed the baby cos of her breast shape? and abandoned the child at a motherless home for 3 years? why are you not seeing the red light? I see a very selfish, hardened heart, wicked woman. Then no sex before marriage after a child? i smell a rat!!!! They are so many other secrets she is keeping from you so my brother be sure of what you are going into.

OP< Get a Life !!!!

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Call it experience, the man is just afraid what joint anything might bring in the future. If he doesn't want you to contribute to his own project why don't you start your own project? you are complaining of what other women are praying for. Women!!!!!! you can't please them. Enjoy your husband and trust me keep that money as he said, you would definitely need it later.

The solution is try to "Get A Life!!!". Checking your wife's email inbox is not acceptable, your comment shows a bit of insecurity. Your marriage lacks trust and its emanating from you, occupy yourself with new hobbies, focus on your career, go have friends and trust your wife or else you would have hypertension and spoil your good marriage. Trust me i know this.

monogomy? or do you mean monogamy?

I'm trying to be positive, can someone tell me one thing working well in Nigeria right now? I'm afraid for the next generation.

Please all, this should be a matured discussion, no need to use derogatory terms on each other, everyone is entitled to their opinion.

How many times have we sat down to watch a "mojo" video where they perform sexual orgies? or where do you think the words "3some and 4some" came from? Punch or so once carried a story - An Abuja Prostitute bargain with 3 men, to satisfy them overnight at a fee, when the 3 men turned out to be "German Machines" she jumped out from the window of the hotel and broke her legs, her story changed to ritualism when she got to the police. People should go watch the video before they begin any analysis, that's why the police are helpless. I doubt if they were all from ABSU, the girl does not sound like a student from any higher institution and she said and i qoute "bros make una go back to your shops", although some are from a school but not all. I am not in support of what happened but let no one jump into the Ice lake and then complain of cold.

Most of you reeling out curses and ouuuuuu-ing and aahhhhhhh-ing had never seen the video. I think Nigerians and hypocrisy are synonymous. This incident happened several weeks ago and nothing was said until foreign press escalated it. I have watched the video, although the act is despicable and barbaric but i can't deny the role all parties played in the said video. There is a Latin term stated as - volenti non fit injuria  translated as "No injury can be done to a willing person". I quote from the audio in the video - "One of the guys said - don't talk about God, i am a law student and i know the law, and a contract is a contract. The girl had a contract with the guys, it happens in our schools, warn your sisters and girlfriends, As a Yoruba adage says " He who does what the ears have not heard before shall see what eyes have not seen before". The girl would not report herself cos the truth would come out and those boys shall reap what they sow.

The video is on Naijapal site, just google "abia gang rape video on Naijapal"

why dont you drop your number.

You this Kunlesty, i actually called you once and you insisted on Viewing fee or whatever!!!!! that's not done anywhere!!!!! so what is your agent fee for? People are trying to correct you and you calling them idiots!!!!! You are the bigger idiot !!!!! I hope they blacklist you here !!!! Charging so much money for a house someone else sweated for? Go ahead and abuse me too, you would only be showing your folly!!!! Go learn a lesson from agents like Day 11. You better be careful so that one day you can become a landlord too.

If this is a random sample of the mind of Nigerian youths then we are in trouble!!!

Opinion polls are changing, critics like us don't have to say a word again, The Man would show himself as he is, a leopard can't change his skin. goodluck to you, Goodluck to me, Goodluck to everybody, Goodluck Nigeria eeeeeehhhhh

Day 11, thanks, you are more than an agent you are a Bro, keep the good work up!!!!

Poster, i think its better you focus your mind on your education rather than worry about girls asking boys out. At 16, you should have other priority.

i just called you now.

Dont tell me you are virgin too? Sorry what has kept you from marrying in 18 years would stop you from getting for another 18 years of you are not careful! In fact it is hard to judge the sincerity of this post!

Nigerians and impracticable solutions! If you gonna be sincere with yourself, 30,000 Naira is not enough for you to survive not to talk of feeding an extra mouth and bringing a child into the world! When would you wake up to reality? Is it compulsory to marry? It is people like you that create problems for others by turning yourself to begging nuisance after they are faced with hunger! I am not sorry for you and your pitiable wife to be, it is the child you would bring into the world to suffer i am sorry for! Use your 30k to buy yourself more common sense so that you would stop making decisions like this, same decision you must have made that landed you with a 30k job! Haba! Dem take poverty do you??to buy yourself more common sense so that you would stop making decisions like this, same decision you must have made that landed you with a 30k job! Haba! Dem take poverty do you??