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kokoA:Hahaha ![]() That's my kind of person. If you stay with me, na so you go dey vex. We don't fuckin' care. We are there; we are there, and that's all that matter. |
rightopdeep:Don't trust your son. Don't trust children. Make plans to register him for GCE. Advise him to sit down, read, and write his exams. |
Curse777:You are talking nonsense. |
Curse777:You burn and flare gas, wasting it for fun but you can't buy it cheap. Can you tell me one natural resource Nigeria has that has been a blessing to Nigerians? |
Oxfordgrade:You are a foolish person. So, because Asari is a South South person, I should encourage nonsense right? |
MXrep:Uyo's inner streets are not that bad, at least they have many. What would you say about Calabar that don't have many, yet the few ones are very bad? |
Throwback:There's no difference between a corrupt democracy and a military rule. They are all corruption of governance. Allow Niger to enjoy their own version of corrupt governance. Stop calling for war. War is not a tea party. |
Acekidc4:Las las, you go get sense. You think say na to support nonsense abi? |
TemplarLandry:Since you support war as though it's not human beings that live in Niger, your household shall experience war. You'll always be at war with your wife and children. Fool!sh thing. |
[quote author= post=124887060].....and we have nothing to show for all the wealth as a nation?! Again, May all politicians that raped our nation and took her 100 years back with blind looting and stealing since 1960 never end well in life. Including their supporters. So shall it be as long as God lives.... We Rise. [/quote]In the past eight and half years, you've always skewed and seen every fool!sh thing that happens in Nigeria as a blessing because you don't have a choice but to support the APC government in all they do. I'm wondering why you are now talking as though the scales are now falling off your eyes. Why complain there's nothing to show for it? Is eight years of the last administration not enough to make tangible progress as a nation? Is the new administration starting right at all? But you support every foolish thing. You guys make those that doesn't support APC look as though they hate anyone or wish Nigeria badluck. Retrace your step, bro. You will answer to God about your support for evil. You don't really have anything to gain in this. |
Curse777:You've not said anything. Do you support Nigeria invade Niger? Say yes or no. |
Dshocker: ![]() |
Dshocker:If I don't have vehicles behind me, I'll reverse. You guys keep saying go off the road, what if you have a ditch/river by both sides of the road? |
mariovito:We don't have anything to gain in this war. We'll only lose. The Northern people are very close to the Niger people. This will further destabilize the North. I don't support the Nigeria Army invading Niger. |
fyzaila:Fake online ego. I wonder who cares about their fake online image. You said you've tried but never told us what you've done or where you've gone to. The problem with this kind of post is that there are still people that will contribute to them, so now and then, they come up with different scam format to continue scamming them. You said he has a mental health problem but you never noticed it when you were dating nor noticed same in the family line. What foolish date is that? I don't take this kind of story seriously. |
FreeStuffsNG:This one has graduated into a full-time zombie. His brain is gone. |
iCauseTrouble:I hope you are not just suggesting things. Which among these three is working for you? When people needs help, you guys should try to recommend things that's working for you. |
seunmsg:You've asked and answered the question yourself. Instead of keeping quiet if you don't know what to say, you are here disgracing yourself. Now, let me tell you, if a traffic officer fines you 5k and you pay, that means you were guilty. Do they fine everybody on the road? No. They fine only people who break traffic laws. However, the fine isn't the main thing but the offense you committed. If you don't commit any traffic offense, you won't pay and you will want to go to court with them, argue it out and clear your name. Accepting the fault and paying fine for it truly means you did what you were accused of. In the case of Tinubu, he was fined for dealing in narcotics and he never challenge the government in court. He quietly paid the fine and walked away. That means he was guilty and you know he was guilty. The magnitude of his crime is what we are arguing in court today in regards to occupying the office of the president. It's as simple as that. So, next time you want to jump in and argue, use your head. |
Racoon:Stop wasting your time with that guy. Nigeria is a country where people outrightly work to enthrone and defend evil as long as they are in the same gang with the evil doers. They don't fuckin' care how others are affected. Even you talking, I doubt if you'll do otherwise if the government favored your candidate and you find yourself in a position of authority even though you've been vocal about good governance over the years. |
YourBestWriter:This is how scammers talk. I don't believe you. |
ZombiePUNISHER:You dey mind them? These are the kinds of rubb!sh they've been feeding us from time immemorial to make it appear like they or the country is working. At the end of the day, they settle themselves and business continue as usual. |
Fryx:This is a very simple stuff. Get a smooth sandpaper and sand the sh!t off. |
You've not included in your post the nature of work the wife is going to do. Meanwhile, £2,500 per month is too small to keep a family of three. By the way, I won't support anything that separate the husband from the wife. Finally, I won't approve this move. It's going to be a journey of struggle, especially for the man that's going to take care of their baby at home in the interim. |
TemplarLandry:Recovered 400B naira from subsidy removal and then borrowed 500B naira for palliative and here you are praising him, it shall never be well with you. |
ibechris:Here are helpful tips. - Start from at least 150k. This means 40k can go for food, 20k saving for emergencies, while investing 90k on poverty eradication projects. - None or one child. Usually, poverty start setting in with the arrival of a child because your wife isn't working (except she had an online business), while you spend more taking care of mother and child. What if you are also paying for house rent? Remember, a self-contain maybe a big no for a nursing mother. Soon, child is about to start school. That means, more spending. Ultimately, more strain on income, less savings, postponing the date for your deliverance from poverty. - If married, both of you must be productive. Get to know how your wife spends her money. Both of you must be intentional about investing in the family you are building together. You guys must take your eyes off family problems. Remember, family problems doesn't finish. Don't allow any child to stay with you in the name of helping in the house. You don't have the resources for that yet. Let every child stay with their parents. - Work both day and night; online and offline. Reduce sleep to 4-5 hours for the next 6 months. You won't die. - If you have a family house, stay there even with your 150k so you can save money to build your own. - Reduce spending on food. Feeding consumes a lot. Try to buy foodstuff in packs/bulk and from the village, especially garri, beans, yam, or rice. Tea with bread and akara in the morning, solid food in the evening. No lunch. Have fridge to store cooked food. - Think about having a house - personal or commercial. I prefer commercial. - Start building. Throw your savings there instead of keeping it in the bank. - Decorate your hard work with prayers. It's not all up to you, and it's not all up to God or anything you worship. - Be kind. Not necessarily about giving money but simple acts of kindness like helping a child cross the road, or paying 100 naira transport for someone who genuinely needs the help. Look out for people who genuinely needs the help you can give. - Don't gamble or spend on frivolities, e.g., drinking, womanizing, etc. So, if you have all these in place, sooner or later, you'll bury poverty. |
Reussite:You seriously want him to answer that? ![]() |
tommy589:The ending part of your comment makes me to laugh ![]() By the way, I've used the word "ambition" in my writeup. If two of you are ambitious and working hard, fine. However, it's still a big risk and I won't advise anyone to take it. I understand that some young people rush into marriage to have legal sex and not necessarily because they are fit for it. Sadly, the moment kids start coming without adequate preparation, the whole thing becomes a rat race; hand to mouth, and working to feed and pay children school fees. That's not life. The Bible isn't encouraging irresponsibility so don't quote it wrongly. There must be a right time for everything. Besides, that scripture has always been there. So, why didn't you marry as a child? You see what I mean? |
mariahAngel:Very true @bolded. They like you drag them around instead of just dropping everything at once. |
jmoore:He probably went to beg Tinubu to intervene, meanwhile both of them are going. |
Blackmoran:Lol. I'll try sha. Seriously, I don't know why our people are always in a haste and don't like reading. Fun fact: Did you know that if you begin to read and write well, you can't be poor? ![]() |
Sharpsharp00123:I'm a writer. When I want to write, I can't squeeze it. E pele! |
Earlier today, I read a story about a young man whose dad sold his gallons of palm oil to solve some problems in the family. I was sort of smiling within me because his story reminded me about how my dad reacted when my eldest sister spent the money he saved with her for my school fees. On the thread, I could read some comments attacking the guy because to them he's a bad son. Meanwhile, if the table should turn, I don't think same dad would be a good dad. The fact is that poverty is a very big enemy. One that every young man should defeat before building a family. It has nothing to do with same blood or outsiders. It'll make enemies out of you guys. Once poverty establishes itself in the family, everyone is on their own; every member of the family fights to deliver themselves first. And for the guy whose story hits the front page, I don't really blame him about the way he felt with his people selling his palm oil. Poverty kills bond, regardless of how the other person relates to you. Sometimes, you can even choose to bond more with outsiders because you feel they can help you or you can work out something meaningful with them. Now, back to my story and why I said I don't really blame that guy. I was a teenager then and staying with my sister who had brought me to the city. Probably, my father had abandoned me to her and wasn't ready to contribute to my school fees or upkeep again. So, my sister was paying my fees in the university but it was tough for her that year. She was also giving me transport to&fro school everyday, paying course registrations, buying textbooks, etc., but she wasn't doing too well either. Meanwhile, my dad had given her money to save for him. He had sold his palm oil which he stored in drums. Earlier, my sister had talked to him about my fees and he said there was no money. Every weekend, I'd go to the village to help him but the man wasn't considering that. Even the palm oil that he claimed was all his,' I entered the bush with him to harvest them. I worked with him to processed and take them to faraway mill even while I wasn't there with him again. Finally, my sister took 40k from his money without telling him and gave to me to settle my fees. Later, she told him about it and the man was mad at my sister. For a long time, he was very angry, but my sister wasn't having his time or planning to refund him. She only told him, "I took your money to pay your son's school fees and you can ask him how much I gave to him." Man was angry but we all ignored him, afterall, he' wasn't even staying with us in the city. Probably, he moved on from the grudge after a long time. Looking back today, I can say my sister did far more than my parents to raise me. She would complain when I ask for money, but eventually she'll help me to sort myself. In my 300L, I got a job and left her. Since I've been on my own. God bless her for me. Why am telling my story? It's easy to blame that guy for being a bad son, but do you think his dad would sell his stuff to help him? I doubt. Don't mind these African fathers, especially when poverty sets in. They don't fu*kin' care. Sometimes, they try to sell the little asset of the family and tell you it's their own. Only the moms try to help but many times, they can't because they don't have, but they show concern better than the man. To end my story, I'll advise every young man to perish the idea of raising a family until they have defeated poverty. Even if you have to hit 40 before settling down, bear with yourself. I keep telling people that I don't see anything wrong with a dad being 70 and the child is 30. Even a 20 yo can comfortably take care of themselves with the right parenting. On the flip side, I don't know what's wrong with girls of these days. They just believe in a man foolishly thinking that one day a certain miracle will happen and they'll be rich. If I were a woman, I won't marry any struggling man, especially the type that's not ambitious. Girls, please, learn to insist on contraceptive during sex. No be only una lovemaking or fu*k dey sweet. Stop swelling the poverty index of Nigeria. You'll be shocked that 80% family problems is because of poverty. A poor girl + a poor man is a very deadly combo. Your guys life would be a waste after marriage. Your poverty status will swell up. Even your children may turn out to be a waste. Poverty would scatter the family and make everyone to stay on their own. Beware! |
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