₦airaland Forum

ChybuzzDD:
You seem to be giving excuses for this evidently weak husband.

How's it possible for your family members to send your wife out, and ''you will just be confused'' Nawaoo

If the guy had stood up like a man from the beginning when every family member was testing his/her 'superpower' status on his wife, things wouldn't have reached this ugly stage.

The guy didn't protect his wife/nuclear family enough and i must say that.

You are very correct.

Her husband even as a married man is still being controlled by his people. There's no way woman can find peace in her husband's house if the man is weak because you guys can plan together and in the next moment, his family will scatter the plan.

#20 billion isn't more than #300 billion that INEC wasted. So there's nothing here to kick against.

SmartPolician:
If your church is in a country and you are not winning the souls of the locals, you are a bloody time waster. That's why. So, you need to grow some brain.

You are talking sh!t. Are those inside the church not from area the church is located? Do they travel from Africa every Sunday to attend the church? Time waster kee that your leaked mouth there. Why not go open your own church since it's about skin color now?

SmartPolician:
An observation

I noticed that white people don't attend churches owned by black people (Nigerians) in their country.

In fact, TB Joshua and Anselm Madubuko were the only Nigerian preachers I know that white people massively attend their churches.

And what is it with White people attending your church? Are they coming to do any good to you or work their salvation? You guys would just be talking nönsense everywhere.

Flapp478:
I don't want to argue with you pls. If u don't believe me, then no problem. God is still on the throne. Thank you

I don't believe lies.

Flapp478:
RENO's constant attacks on His Excellency, Sir Peter OBI is totally unbecoming of him. Is it a crime to vie for the presidency? What is Peter OBI's crime for God sakes? In all strata of life, Reno can never lace the shoes of OBI because he is unfit to do so. I don't know why Nairaland continues to give attention to this misguided and ill-mannered Reno


In Jesus Almighty name, I'm begging anyone who can read dis, to pls help me. I'm suffering from hunger-induced depression. I'm in sch studying and it's frustrating having nobody to phone and seek for help. Dad is late , mum is unhealthy and am the firstborn, I train myself in sch. I feel like deferring a semester to go hustle. The hunger is unbearable. Pls help me with something nairalanders

How can you say you train yourself in school yet you are complaining being hungry? So you spend all the money you make on school activities such that you can't save some to use and eat? You beggars can only deceive foolish people.

Tadadobe:
With the recent news that dollars is going to be deemphasized and might probably lose values, I'm beginning to think twice about my relocation move. My uncle that recently came back from the US gave me $5000 to do business and I initially thought about using this money to move abroad.

I'm not like an average Nigerian who get carried away with "there are good road and 99hr power supply abroad". When I travel, I'm going there to go and make money not to count ceiling and take hot picture for the Instagram and to pepper people at home.

If dollars get decentralized and $1 = about #250, thouh this development will not go well with people abroad since they'll have fear that the little they send home will no longer be able to surprise anyone, and their usual conversion strategy will no longer work. But on the other hand, this move will help people in Nigeria as there won't be that much of a difference between someone earning #500,000 in Nigeria and the one earning $3000 abroad

Keep dreaming that the dollar is going to be 250 naira. Fools paradise is sweet!

accordadoga25:
Mumu Obi-dense. Na this kind thread una dey like to discredit Ashiwaju.

Dem no teach u well for Upper Iweka Primary School.

All you know is to hunt for mandates.

Hunter!!!

Correct am, Reno misspelt it but I swear u no know the right spelling

You feel bad about this one because it's about your idol but when it's Obi, you celebrate. Search your conscience.

chicfarmer:
Three mistakes were made
1. He should have been allowed to study his preferred course- Computer Science
2. You guys should have grabbed the pastor's help to enable him launch his football career.
3. Your husband should NEVER have brutalized his own son whether by himself or hired thugs. That has broken the young man.

Possible Solutions:
You must try to reach him emotionally, connect with him no matter how hard it may seem. You the mother have a very important role to play here. Get him to open up and start talking. If he keeps bottling up his anger, he is gonna blow up one day. I do not wish you this.

His father owes him an apology for getting thugs to brutalize him. You must convince your husband to take this first step to aid his healing. His father should be his protector, not his tormentor.

You may also need to seek professional help to aid his healing. Show him more love.

You've spoken well.

Sadly, the kind of father in this story may not want to reconcile with his son. He's a proud man. I suspect he's a cultist. Because I'm still wondering how a man can be so heartless to cause his son so much pain.

I usually pity women in this kind of situation because most times, they don't have a say, especially when they're only housewife and completely dependent on the man.

@op, I feel your pains as a mom. Take heart dear. Your husband messed up that boy. The way forward right now is reconciliation and the object in every reconciliatory process is apology. Your husband must apologize to that boy and draw him to himself.

I don't even know where he got the idea that studying Pharmacy is better than Computer Science. I sincerely don't know who told him that. I don't even see any course better than Computer Science in the university right now within and outside of this country. He was only trying to use his myopic mind to suppress that boy.

How much the f*ck is NDLEA paying Pharmacists? Are they paying them in FX? No! But an advanced Computer Scientist can be paid in FX in this country. Even as it stands, that boy can still study Computer and become better than that man in the next 5-7 years.

I'm glad he's still got age by his side. The only challenge right now is to get him out of depression and sadly, it's only your husband that can play a good role here. In any case he refuse to make amends with the boy, just ask him to step aside and leave the boy for you.

If the young lad is still interested in Computer Science, get him to do it and I can promise that you won't regret it. I won't discourage him from pursuing football but you guys should ONLY consider that option if there's someone to facilitate playing in Europe for him. You may also consider getting admission for him in a football academy in Europe.

All the best to you and your family

Portable the drama king

incogni2o:
you cannot buy time.

Most Parents don't have time for thier Kids

A child will not turn wayward overnight

Single parenthood is the worst: whether the parent is rich or poor.

tommy589:
Sometimes it goes beyond learning bad behavior or good parenting. How come some children from useless parents surprisingly turns out well

It's still about parenting. God's word can't be broken. It says train your child in a way that he should go and when he grows up, he won't depart from it. When you look at spoilt children closely, you'll see how their parents contributed directly or indirectly to them going astray.

And the matter dies there.

OtuologyProf:
Chai. This case is so straight forward as there is no single technicality to swindle this one.

It's just like when a man is almost nabbed in another man's matrimonial bed, runs off, leaving his boxers behind.
The boxers is the forfeiture. So if you know it isn't a crime but a harmless gift which the man doesn't like for his wife, go back and claim your boxers

Your analogy is funny but that's the truth.

donbrowser:
The prayer is simple and straightforward. I will be more successful during Tinubu's tenure. Will you be more unfortunate?

I stopped my dependence on Nigeria since 2017. I care less about whatever useless government you support. I earn FX throughout. Can you say the same?

meum:
Zazzu from the zoo😂

Nope! You got it wrong. I'm Zazzu. I live in the zoo.

everythinggirly:
What exactly is his offence?

That guy don see shege for naija

MufasaLion:
Very deadly!!!

Especially when there's no enough money to give to all the wives as they want.

GeneralPula:
Nonsense..

If they wanna mourn, they should mourn in peace..

People wey Dey die for USA due to gun attacks and all, nah USA fail them?

Yes. The country failed them because gun attacks is something they can put under control.

Seun:
Fellow Nairalanders,

We have noticed the use of ethnic slurs and other derogatory names by a small but persistent group of political actors and trolls.

This practice of derogatory name-calling adds no value to the forum. It's bad for our mental health, our harmony as a community, and the reputation of Nairaland. It's simply toxic. It's absence and the absence of the people who use those slurs will not be missed.

Therefore I have decided to ban the practice entirely. I have instructed dominique, mukina2, Lalasticlala and Mynd44 to ban anyone who uses an ethnic slur or derogatory name on Nairaland. The antispam bot will also contribute to the effort. Please report any case that you see.

- Seun Osewa, Founder of Nairaland

How about beggars? You've got any plans for them? They also make the forum a turn off. Some even wrap the begging in a comment.

pek:
Very mature and true. Can't add a word more. If you are in Abuja or anytime you are in Abuja, would love to give you a treat.

Wow! Thanks guy. Sadly, I only visit Abuja once in a while. I stay in Calabar.

emmanuelbrown26:
Ok

Most urchins are online beggars. Fact!

Naija na cruise

kellyjc:
Recent happenings have shown that Nigerians are tired of the current political class . The people aren't sleeping anymore.

So what can they do?

kellyjc:
We the concerned Nigerians will not rest until we see some of them behind bars.

E go hard bro. Within Nigeria there's no justice while US/UK don't really care.

Yedidea:
I'm Solomon an Ibgo from my father's side,and my mom is a Ghanaian, My mom took me from Nigeria to Ghana ( UNAWARE ) of my father as I was a baby so I have never seen my own biological father ever since Born, and I have tried all humanly possible means to find him but not avail, my mom have declined to tell me every Truth about my father, after all my pressure on her to tell me where my dad is until now no good answer from her, but I'm desperately want to see my dad.

The only information I have about Him is- my mom told me that His name is Paul Peter She said she has forgotten the sir name of my Dad, and she has also forgot the Nigeria state my dad comes from , My Dad was then a mechanical engineer in Lagos in assembling excavators ect..there was a pictures proofing that but she seized it, and she failed to tell me.

The Company name, I have my father's very old picture with me, posted with my mom, I'm now at age but I sincerely want everyone who will come across my massage join the searching help till I find my real family, my mom name is Grace , that was the name my Dad was aware of.

Please my precious reader help me found my dad and my home back in Nigeria, this is my Ghanaian number for call and WhatsApp -+233553121901 , God bless you and your family for helping me Amen.

Why are you keen to meeting the man? You think you'll be better as a Nigerian than as a Ghanaian? I'll suggest you stick to Ghana. At least, there's sufficient power supply there and you are better off a Ghanaian. Don't listen to the hype bro. Hang in there as a Ghanaian.

Obinoscopy:
I picked my sample from ALL the States.

Your analysis is poor. You can't analyze a bad data. Data on IREV is largely manipulated to favor Tinubu.

Feyisera:
We upload pictures in real time on Instagram and Facebook. With all the billions Mr Mahmood was given, why didn't the pictures upload in real time? Why are they still being uploaded little by little? Simple things shouldn't be so complex. Even though I support Asiwaju, I blame INEC's inefficiency for all this uproar.

Had they made this whole thing seamless, it wouldn't leave any room for suspicion and scrutiny.


May God raise a kind hearted person to assist you dear, and may divine help locate you. Amen.

I've never seen beggars with ability to make right choices that's why they'll remain beggars. You supported Tinubu and coming online to beg. Online senseless people will give you their money. Idioot!

Do the crime. Do the time. UK no be naija

gaby:
Next time when you come across my moniker, you'd mind your shitty life and business.

Non-entity.

You're a nobody bruh. You're a fu*kin' motherfuckin' retard. Kiss ma ass. Dickhead!