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6 billion naira plus the officials travelling to several countries, all in a bid to catch fun and waste the country's money. What a shame. |
One party, several heads. PDP, APC, et al, are one and the same. The day Nigerians get this, the day we start a journey. |
One party, several heads. PDP, APC, et al, are one and the same. The day Nigerians get this, they day we start a journey. |
TheBigUrban2: You ignored all the other points to defend blueband butter? Are you that local?I totally agree with fact that butter should be refrigerated. Nigerian butters don't do well without being kept in the fridge. Naturally, I hate fats and oily foods, which means it's mayonnaise for me. By the way, are you an anti-blueband fan? |
I take my cue from Andrew Marvell's poem, "To His Coy Mistress", where he described his love for the mystery lady as 'vegetable love'... The expression 'Fall in Love' is totally wrong! We don't fall in love, rather, we grow in love. We appreciate beauty, personality, similarities and the differences in others with each passing day. Love takes time, it is not arrived at. One beautiful reason why love is considered ultimate is because it is infinte; we appreciate it more with each day. Those who fall in love fall out right back, while those who grow in it remain in it. Enough with my fantasies... |
Lomaxx I sincerely doubt it. It is mission Impossible. And for those abusing the word 'friendzone', you need to understand that you cannot zone someone you've once shared some special kind of bond with. Keeping exes as besties are somewhat impossible. Such most end with some 'friends with benefits, getting jealous as if something true is happening between you two, desiring sickly attention all over again and bonded to the person emotionally. It is a time bomb waiting to explode if one ventures it. It is however normal if both stay as friends, just friends and not besties. It's a complicated mess if you ask me. |
marieolae: when you guys say that all girls love money too much, now u understand abi?Dearie, you honestly need to understand, I find it difficult to make collective assumptions. It is normal for us to use words like 'some' or 'most'. Some girls, or most girls love money excessively is not the same as ALL girls. Of course, there must be some exceptions to it. Similarly with what the OP complained of, I find it rather funny that she mentioned that GUYS, which means ALL, are rude. I'm not and so are most guys. |
TribalEAST: so how should a guy refer to a biatch when he eventually finds one? Hoes everywhere, dude!Everywhere? Maybe I have a different opinion though. There are a few good ladies out there. Not all of them are that terrible, just like not all guys are cheats. They are everywhere but there are good ones among them. I hope you understand ![]() |
Alleluia: m nt generalizinAlright. To answer your question, typically a guy would never describe a lady as one, and just in case it happens, it could mean two things: 1. The guy in question is the abusive type. 2. The lady must have done some that must have pained the guy to the marrow, hence, his response would be better. I just don't see any sense in a guy describing a lady as one for no reason. We think too, you know? |
Alleluia: They refer to any girl as biatch.You're generalizing this, it's wrong that you are. |
adrainuche: I know this may sound ridiculous, i dnt study in naija and i.meet my GF on a social networking site, we got along and when i came to naija for holiday we started dating. I knew she fell for it seriously because when i was about to go back to school she started acting strange. This seems irrelevant we are from two diffrent backgrounds., she is scared what if after waiting.for me my parents refuses to allow us walk the walk. She also scared of what if i change my mind after she has waited fir so long am graduating next year tjo i intend taking another degree in Newcastle the following year. So i told her she could date another boy, i usually send her money from time to time and we quarrel because of this offurtunate situation weve found ourselves, i dnt want to be selfish by telling her to wait when am not entirely sure of myselfI honestly don't understand your write-up. You're graduating with this kind of English You need to work on this. With that being said, you want your girlfriend, a lady you met on a social network to hate other guys? It does not only sound ridiculous, it is ridiculous. You may be the possessive type, but still, it doesn't work that way. You told her to date some other guy and you are here complaining? You seriously need to get your onions right. For me, both of you are young and cannot manage a relationship, particularly a long distance one, judging by what you asked her to do. You are indeed confused. |
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The answer is simple; it's because those involved in it failed. I have discovered that the energy most guys use in winning a lady over is not the same as running the relationship. |
ammyluv2002: Lol....he will learn from you guys. I just pray they don't bench him shaLolz... He'll be alternated with Benzema; they are the only two strikers we have at the moment. And about the bench, maybe a while sha... There are many fresh legs in the team. |
urhoboman: *singing*Yes, guys have just one and ladies generally have two; that explains the ladder theory and why there are many ladders. ![]() |
ammyluv2002: Yes o! I'm happy Falco is in Manchester United. I can now sleep with my eyes closed tonightOur clubs are allies; thanks for loaning Hernandez to us ![]() |
urhoboman: that is why u need to break the ice. She already knows what shez into. She might be in denial. U need to make the move and nuture her to express the feelings inside her hrt. I knw u don't want to complicate ur frndship with her, but believe me, if eventually she decides to settle down with anoda man, you will blame urself and make her ur enemy. U won't b able to take it.Seconded. |
RayMcBlue: ...And I believe I admitted and apologized... ![]() |
ammyluv2002: I'm honoured, thanksYou're welcome, Dearie ![]() |
Jesus is really giving the likes of you sleepless nights... The earlier you take Him in, the better. |
Durst: Hello, I'm a regular nairalander but I had to use this my dormant account to make this post for some personal reasons.Unfortunately, you might not be able to change her mind. As it is, she values your friendship beyond every other thing and as it stands, it might truly destroy a lot. Some will come here and claim you have been friendzoned, this is not true. She sees you only as a friend and not beyond that. You might be zoned eventually if you insist. I suggest you respect her wish, stay as a friend and if you believe you cannot cope, keep an arm length from her. Que sera sera. I totally understand what you're going through. |
Baddo101: "womanologist" in d house...lol..Lolz |
sholay2011: I agree with most of your points. Your writeup is quite organised. Thumbs up.I'd gladly become a fan for doing something different from what we have. And about genres, we have: Action Comedy Adventure Biography Animation Family Fantasy Crime Mystery Sport Horror Romance Drama Mystery Documentary Film-Noir Musical War Thriller History Sci-Fi (Western) Of all the genres I mentioned above, excluding Western, which I consider irrelevant in Nigeria, which of those genres do we have? |
tonyayo1: O.P, nice write up...I quite agree with you mentioned but is O.C. Ukeje the only one in the industry? If you read through my post carefully, you'd discover that I made mention of Kunle Afolayan; so far, he has been the most promising producer around. The reason for this is very simple, he has moved from the conventional way of a stereotyped industry to doing the industry proud. Still, Kunle Afolayan cannot do it alone, other producers must repent. And about the cinemas, let's talk about the movies first? How many of our movies are cinema worthy? How many of our movies are worth watching more than ones? Let's talk about this first before thinking of creating more cinemas. |
mumumugu: stop complaining, be the changeYou expect me to carry enter into the Entertainment industry because I want a change? Well, this is how it works, that I highlighted these flaws are because I want a change. This is why critiques exist. I'm not saying my points are perfect and totally complete, though I believe that we must, and by we I mean those directly involved, make a change. I pay to see these movies. You expect me to suffer for what I pay for? No! The answer is simple, the industry needs total reformation and as an audience, what I have done is called FEEDBACK. I need not venture into one to make a change. Bollywood and Hollywood do not need me to tell them how to blow our minds with their movies. Our producers need to be sensitive. And just in case you know any of them, please, help tell them to help us make our eyes better. |
THE FEMALE PERSPECTIVE https://i.imgur.com/mFqhw.jpg When a female meets a male in the wild she automatically puts the male on one of two ladders (fig.1). While this choice is a subconscious decision one must be aware that this process does occur. Before this point the male does not reside on either of the two ladders because he is not important enough to even consider. The property of these two ladder classifications that should be clear is the fact that they are two separate classifications with little to no overlap. The main factor that determines what ladder a male is classified into is attraction(2). FRIENDSHIP LADDER Once a male has been put onto the friend ladder his chances of transferring over to the lover ladder become very unlikely. It is possible for him to become better friends with the female therefore advancing towards the top of the friend ladder, but as the male advances towards the top of the friend ladder the gap between the friend ladder and the lover ladder grows larger. Because of this, as friendship builds the shock a female will feel when a male eventually confesses his love for her grows in proportion to time. While it is still possible for a guy to transfer from the friend ladder to the lover ladder it is as close to impossible as one could get. Rare cases where a friendship developed into an intimate relationship(3) include factors such as a gut level attraction between both parties before the friendship began (therefore really being classified as a long-term secret crush, which is put on the bottom rungs of the lover ladder as opposed to being a part of the friend ladder), or a guy completely reinventing himself into a completely different person (see the film Just Friends). Other outside factors such as a relationship between friends being developed into a friendship merely because of the fact that the female was already involved in a physical/intimate relationship with another male at the time the friendship had begun. With that said I must re-state something. TRANSFER FROM THE FRIEND LADDER TO THE LOVER LADDER IS AS CLOSE TO IMPOSSIBLE AS ONE COULD GET. LOVER LADDER I use “Lover ladder” as a blanket term to describe relationships ranging from crushes to “going steady,” and every “complicated” relationship in between. This is because the lover ladder is much more complex than the friend ladder. Similar to the friend ladder, if a guy has been put on the lover ladder the likelihood of him being put on the friend ladder is very unlikely. The closer the guy is to the bottom of the ladder the greater the possibility of him being able to transfer over to the friend ladder (though it is usually the female’s choice to put him on the friend ladder or the “Just Friends” zone). |
doctorofgirls: Following a current bane of studies done on various forums ,I must say nairaland girls show an indepth and inordinate high level of intellectualism ranging from girls like mariolae and farano and many others , if u keep it up, the nobel price is ur limitYou're right. Some of them are really intelligent. My classical example would be Oluwatola5; she's one of those reasons you would want to read posts and threads. Ammyluv2002 as well ![]() |
Here’s an interesting concept in the dating world, The Ladder Theory. The ladder theory is ultimately quite simple: men have one ladder, women have two ladders. The ladder represents our willingness to “date” someone. For instance, the higher someone is on the ladder, the more likely we are to date them. The lower they are, unfortunately, the less likely we would ever consider pursuing a relationship with them. If both male and female had one ladder, it would make things infinitely easier! However, girls have both a friend’s ladder and a “potential” ladder, whereas guys put all their cross gender relationships on the same ladder. The Ladder Theory, though, somewhat similar to the 'Frienzone' theory, is different. Basically, when a girl meets Guy X and Guy Y, she quickly evaluates both and then determines that Guy X is a guy she sees as someone she could “hook up” with while Guy Y is a guy she would never hook up with. As a result of these conclusions, each guy finds a spot on their respective ladders. Guy X is on the “potential ladder”, and Guy Y is on the “friends ladder”. https://www.manipudating.com/assets/images/ladder-theory-explained2.jpg A Guy trying to get off a lady's 'Frienship' Ladder NB: Being 'Friendzoned' comes in when a guy expects to get off a lady's friendship ladder onto her her relationship ladder. https://www.sandraandwoo.com/comics/2011-10-20-0318-landon-is-not-aware-of-the-ladder-theory.png |
Abdulsalam20: PLEASE GO AND READ SONG OF SOLOMON FROM CHPTER ONE TO EIGHT CHAI.........UR D*CK GO STAND EVEN IF U READ ONLY THE FIRST CHAPTER U WILL BE EAGER TO READ THE OTHER ONES COZ THEY ARE JUST TOO FUNNY...........THAT IS WHY I ALSO FEEL THAT BIBLE HAS BEEN TAMPERED WITH AND IT IS NO MORE WORD OF GODSongs of Solomon is clearly poetic. Solomon's excessive love for women brought about the book. This explains why the book is filled with the best lines of love and other eroti.c imageries contained therein. The Bible was not toyed with. |
iamsegsy: Most people don't av d deep understanding of the scripture dey read lyk novels dey don't study it.Bless you, brother! |
Jack65: What you just posted are mere conjectures that has absolutely nothing to do with the verse quoted. When some verse doesn't make sense you people always come with same type of excuses.Well, since you know the Scriptures that much, why not summon the strength to read from verse 23 downwards? You are not given to the Scriptures. You seem not even understand the passage other than the surface meaning. It is funny you claim they are mere conjectures when you clearly lack the proper interpretation. |
pesty100: oh! That's ur opinion that doesn't change the fact that am cracking up ( and I don't even understand what you just wrote)It is not an opinion, it is the direct interpretation to the passage. It is understandble if you dwell on that verse alone. Hence, you are bound to find it funny. |
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You need to work on this. With that being said, you want your girlfriend, a lady you met on a social network to hate other guys? It does not only sound ridiculous, it is ridiculous. You may be the possessive type, but still, it doesn't work that way. You told her to date some other guy and you are here complaining? You seriously need to get your onions right. For me, both of you are young and cannot manage a relationship, particularly a long distance one, judging by what you asked her to do. You are indeed confused.