₦airaland Forum

Magz:
Well why the f**k are you asking for permission then?? You asked and I answered. If you don't want an answer, then don't ask the damn question. Of course it is a public forum, and if you know you can post anywhere you want, then why are you asking??

**Cools down and avoids talking mean to the gay m'fer**

If you like you can bleeping explode and talk as stupidly as you like you dimwitted bigot. Even a slowpoke could tell that the question was tongue-in-cheek. Try not to make this your profession. . . because at the end of the day, you don't get paid for being an asshole. Ode Oshi.

KarmaMod:
please do. Tell us from when you had a boyfriend to your current women  

Dont mind that Medusa that claims to be a dude

TOH Ojare, I was only messing about o before that overpeke student prefect wannabe started thinking that it was up to him to decide that I was to be denied posting rights on the thread.

Magz:
Sorry, but No!

Who the hell are you to say no? Are you the thread originator? And even if you were, do not mistaken my light joking banter (in asking for permission) for any admission of power of any individual. This is a public forum and I can post where I damn well please. Rubbish!

Moonstone:
I can't wait! All I pray for is that I'm online when he's online. He has to explain why he's having these feelings.

SHENANIGAN:
I think the best thing to do now is to wait for the bobo to come back online and defend himself.

He is probably busy attaching the rope to his ceiling fan right at this moment. . . LOL.

bluespice:
i luv u is as common as hello
hell i say it to my girlfriends [b]and guyfriends
it means exactly wat it sounds like: i luv ya finis![/b]
if u think she's cheating on u,
why dont u try to find out,
moreso i have a feeling, ur just setting the wheels rolling for a major fall-out if u confron her heads-on

Thank you o. I wonder what the poster would say if he overhead his girlfriend saying "I am in love with XYZ". Alakori.

Before anybody tears me apart . . . Abeg are gay people also allowed to discuss their seduction processes too?

@ Poster,

Why wait? Just kill yourself now. Nairaland is overpopulated as it is. I doubt you will be missed. Rubbish. . . Shiorr.

SHENANIGAN:
True that but broke guys need love too.

Yeah? Only for the broke bastards to dump the ass you were using to manage them when they are no longer broke. The girl should have gone with the rich bobo and left the pathetic poor Arrow to make his way.

lucabrasi:
unless the girl didnt see a future in the relationship,why would she cheapen herslf because her boyfriend needs money??
if GOD wanted the business to suceed,then surely he ll sort the problems out fo the guy and if it doesnt work out then we lose some,we gain some, its not for a girl to justify adultery with the excuse that he was doing him a favour, of course ill thank the girl,pay her the money back and then bounce her harder than a rubber ball,
what if the guy needs money again and the person she now sleeps with for the money is h.i.v positive, where does it end?

Well he apparently did.

Hey Sissy, Howz it going?

Ife

I will ensure that he never does that to another woman by cutting off the offending instrument (his cock).

The girlfriend is an Odoyo. . . stupid idiot that does not know that one NEVER (I repeat ,NEVER NEVER NEVER) makes such sacrifices for the ungrateful species called men ^{(who would dump her sooner or later anyway).} Ode supo.

From the guys reaction, the girl obviously knew that he could not handle the truth and so she did what she thought best at the time and told him some fibs. What kind of lowlife makes a girl SWEAR (or hounds her until she is forced to swear) about the number of men she has slept with? The girl obviously knew the guy could NOT handle the real figure. The situation reminds me of my favourite lines from A Few Good Men - "I want the truth!" . . . "YOU CAN'T HANDLE THE TRUTH!!!"

The weasel was so obsessed that he even took up the job of Joseph the Dreamer.

precious68:
I caught my wife having an affair and when I questioned her the father sent to have her taken away and me beaten by thugs.Is this fair?

@ Poster,

Your two sentences do not wash with me at all. If it was as cut and dried as you put it, there would be no reason for the father to have his daughter taken away, talk much less of arranging to have you beaten up. I would place money in a wager that you must have done something to warrant both actions. (Did you lay a hand on her when you caught her cheating?). What exactly happened?  Be truthful and admit if you have done wrong instead of whining and feeling sorry for yourself. ^{(Wow, today [or was it yesterday] seems to be the Nairaland male whining day. Jeez)}.

Sisi Jinx:
Puh-leazzzze Gimmes a break!!

If it was the other way around i.e the guy cheating people will be on his wife like white on rice, Pointing their stubby accusatory fingers at her. . .

What did you do? They'll ask. 
A man happy in his marriage will not cheat. They'll all knowingly point out.
You must not be performing your wifely duties very well
And my personal favorite. . . you shouldn't have reported him, you hmuliated him. What you should have done was cook his best meal and then when he gets home, go on your knees, beg him and ask him how you can change . . . that's right, BEG THE GUY WHO CHEATED ON HER TO TELL HER HOW SHE CAN CHANGE!!

Na only thug beat am? He lucky oooh, If I were the papa I'll have him locked up for three days no one will know where he is and have him beaten within an inch of his life. . . . when he finally gets out, it would be with his shoes on his head!!

Why you ask?

Well he must not be performing his husbandly duties very well. . . why else would my innocent baby  daughter (remember I am the daddy) have to seek it somewhere else? If he was gonna be sub par, why did I waste all that money marrying my daughter off to a pansy?!!

I dare say. . . OP should change his name to Lucky Man!!!

ROFLMFAO. . . You should take up writing comedies. You are a natural. I laffed so hard that I almost had yogurt come out of my nose. Sho ra e o Sisi.

You are welcome. it is you guys lives, so you should know best.

@ Btrue, I'll advise you to ignore tribal bigots like KB1 and Spoilt, who just churn out baseless generic crap without any concrete evidence.

I think that the best thing to do if you can, would be to make a journey to Nigeria with your fiance. This would serve two purposes -

(1) To give your potential in-laws an opportunity to get to know you (and if possible like or fall in love with you), and

(2) To give you the opportunity to know what you are letting yourself in for. You will be able to see the way your fiance relates/interacts with members of his family and have a first hand chance to see and learn a little about the culture.

After the visit, I am sure you guys would be able to come to a decision, one way or the other. You may find that it is too much of an uphill task and you want out, or that you absolutely want to go ahead and marry him (family and all). i must say however, that should you decide to go to Nigeria, it would be wise to learn a thing or two about the Yoruba culture. The Yoruba race lay great emphasis on culture and respect (one must not only be respectful, but must be SEEN to be respectful. There is a culture of deference particularly to one's elders. And under traditional Yoruba culture, as a wife, you defer even to those members of your husband's family who are younger than you. This does not mean you should be a doormat to be used and walked all over and the line is or should be drawn somewhere. However, don't for example go stretching your hand for a handshake from his folk simply because you are American. That would be considered rude. If someone however, offers their hand to you to shake, then by all means do shake it).

Whatever decision you make, I wish on you the path that would bring you happiness. Goodluck.

I say I love you to my mother, brother, sisters, friends AS WELL AS girlfriend. So it could have been anyone she was talking to. Why on earth would you pretend that you did not hear her if it bothered you so much? What the heck was the sense in that? You should have asked her immediately who it was so that at least you had an inkling as to how yu would progress. If she had said it was a relative or friend. You could have confirmed by looking at the phone (or if you are one of those paranoid ones calling the number), and if the relationship ended as a result, you would have been able to move on. There is no sense in you stewing and eating yourself up inside unnecessarily and tiptoeing on eggshells when you feel that she might have another bloke in her life. Be a bleeping man and bite the bullet instead of wimping it up and whining all over Nairaland.

Where the heck do all these buffons crawl aout from?

Technically, Yes. But actually believing in and practising both religions, No.

olabowale:
She will inshaAllah gradually move away from Christianity to full fledge Islamic faith. There is no way a person can be a muslim and christian together. Islam destroys the Trinity or partnership with God the Almighty. That simple. Her heart will be filled with the sweetness of faith soon. She will just have to leave disbelief alone.

LOL. . . this is not a thread for your Islamic fundamentalist views Mister. It is your own Islamic religion that is a religion of disbelief. Nonsense Jagbajantis. Obviously, the so called "destruction" is ineffectual. If it wasn't you would not have billions of people who today are Christians and who believe in the trinity, nor will you have Christianity being the top religion based on the number of practitioners (So I'd say the destruction was pretty much nothing but a damp squib).

@ Topic, Definitely a Coward.

Kobojunkie:
Is the “Bile” spewed really about his returning or not? Why overlook the main message only to pick on the few and make an issue of that? The man points out various issues that you and I know to be the reality in the country. Why not focus on the main, instead of attacking his person for seeing and reacting to the same issues in a different way?

You really need to take your own advice before talking out your ass here. Where in my entire post did I attack Soyemi's person? I am sure you are capable of reading. It was YOU who did NOT focus on my main post reproduced below, cos if you had, you would have observed that from my very first sentence, I AGREED with his feelings of resentment AND said I felt same way about Nigeria.  

Sapphic:
Me, I don't blame the Soyemi guy for his apathy towards Nigeria. Feelings of shame, disgust, embarrassment and anger are not new to me in relation to the country of my birth Nigeria. Nigeria is a bleeping disgrace. However, we have to draw a line somewhere and I feel he went too far as there was no need for all those horrendous curses   (and so as for those curses, I say back to sender ). Unwittingly, he has cursed himself, his offspring and all his future generations too. All I can say is if he wants to remove final traces of his Nigerian heritage, he should change his name by deed poll to a name native to his adopted country (this includes his wife and children too) and all of them should take elocution lessons to get rid of the thick "Ogbono" accent. He need not return to Nigeria ever again. Let's hope he does not commit a serious offence in his adopted country as come countries (like the UK) have taken to deport convicted naturalised citizens who commit certain offences. Na that time him go hia ween.

If you think it is alright for someone to curse you, that's your own problem. I do not have to agree with everything Soyemi said and I definitely do not agree with parts of what he wrote. And again I repeat that as regards the curses, may they go back to sender. If you do not like that, too bloody bad.

KarmaMod:
That was Eve? I thought it was some ajepako tart from Oshodi trying to "model"

How embarrassing. . . for her

LOL. It was indeed Eve. From her days of being a stripper before she found fame or fame found her. That was why I put the pix there and I was going to change it before the omo onile gave me the boot from Nairaland. LOL

Fighting over a girl is so not on. There are many things I can do over a girl. Fighting is not one of them.