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Nice 1 op

If she is really starving her kids thats wrong.
Somehow I tend to believe she is not cheating at op.
You know cheaters normally think they are being cheated on.
What more,I don't even believe op's story cos he might be saying it to cover face.

My advice is:
You can divorce if you are not ready to endure,and bring home another woman who will render your kids useless.

Or continue making peace.
Your wife is not an angel.
No one here can tell how much she really trusted you,who she caught you with(maybe her friend) or where you were caught(maybe in the same matrimonial bed) but I still think she came back for her kids and for that reason,she is a good woman.

No one knows how the story goes.
I will not judge except I hear from the other person's side.
I don't believe you op. Sorry

cheruv:
Stop deceiving her pls!!!
that your hubby is your puppet doesn't mean there aren't women who value their men
SMH for feminism

Sorry you are so wrong.
Not really a feminist just someone who has dignity.
I respect men..thats what the bible said to do.
But men inturn should love their wife.
A loving husband will not cheat on their wife.
If this is your idea of feminism then you are still a long way Mr.
I won't be any man's punching bag..mba nu.
No man will be my rag as well.
It is called respect.

Adasun:
who is after ur grammer?u just pass a message to me.


Have u ever being in a situation where it seems u are stranded.



Listen many of them are saying i have pride,i did not tried enough.am foolish and whatever


bt da truth is,i can beat my chest dat i have tried enough.i beg sooteeee i don tire.


What is more worse dan me da man of da hwz



behaving as if am da wife.doing hwz chores to pleas her.

Da fact is dat da more i tried to beg and pleas her da worse it becomes.


Once upon a tym ,i control my hwz bt now am like a puppet.i acepted it just to win my wife back.

Bt to no avail,it's even pissing me off whenever i flash back to c all i have done to make this marriage work.

Look i don't give a cheat anymore is time i get my mojo back.


Almost every sin can be forgiven,and she wouln't because of one sin turn me anyhow.am ready to stand now because i have suffered enough


she should stil knw am da man dis hwz not her. period!!!

Then call your lawyer.

Case closed.

brocab:
You say you do not Judge, and yet you have Judged, what happens in a Church stays in the Church.
Have you yourself witnessed these so called fornicators, these drunkards, these Idolaters,yourself?

Usually if the Churches see's a man woman or Child committing a crime of such, and someone catches them in the act, yes its right to talk to them about it, and if they don't listen, then its right for that person and two elders to front up with him/her about the matter.
The elders of the Church can ask the man woman and child to be remove from the Church, but they can't disqualified them from their Christian faith, their matter is with the lord, and if they choose to stay with Christ, then they need to stop doing what crimes they had committed and return themselves back as Christians. No man has any rights to take God away from them, nor have any rights to condemn them for eternity, from Christ Himself.
We have choices to make-we choose to walk with Christ-or we choose not with Christ. We have people from all walks of life they come and go as they please. We all war against the principality and against the demons in this world.
I have found none that's prefect, and Christians have sometimes their up's and down's. Like you! Like me! True Christians know Christ, have you heard of the saying My sheep knows My voice. Do understand the story about the tares and the wheat, at the end of the harvest, first the wheat will be gathered into the barns, while the tares will be throwing into the fire.
Have you heard about when Jesus said: many are called but few are chosen.

We witness to anyone and everyone.
We would never see someone and not talk to them about Gods kingdom cos of his appearance or actions.
And we've had members who was drunkards,fornicators and so on before finding the truth.
We do not discriminate.

And you are right when our members commit atrocities we discipline them not disqualify them.
They can come to meetings while working towards their repentence and this is not wrong since the bible concurs to it. Whoever told you we take away people's belief in God?

And we know about the bible saying many are called and few are chosen.

We all war against sins and when we do wrong Jehovah we should be disciplined so as to get back on track.
You've never heard have you,that only a loving father disciplines their child.

brocab:
You really don't understand the scriptures do you. Of course they all received the holy Spirit, but Peter was the one out of them all, who always wanted to prove himself towards Jesus.

I disagree. Peter was one out of them who was mostly outspoken.

samted:
1 peter 3 vs 18 - 20 will disagree with you. Thats where the Bible talks about Jesus being made alive in the spirit to free the spirits that were imprisoned for their disobedience before the great flood.

Seriously are you kidding me?

bebe2:
Me think my self as nothing ? Far from it .

I have a man who adores me and has been doing dat for 20yrs. Treats me the same he treated me wen i was 17. There will always be issues, but one needs widom to handle it.

she has taken it too far. She had my sympathy until she brought a stranger to her matrimonial home.

For me dats a No No. On no account shud dat happen. That type of anger can make her sleep with someone else just to punish her husband . She is very vulnerable at this stage and men love that they will happily take advantage of the situation.

OK, wen all this dies down wat does she tell the stranger?

U live and learn, u dat is acting like untouchable, the day u hear ur husband is cheating on u , divorce him, take the kids and marry another man. Wen dat one cheats divorce him too, add the new kids to old from previous fathers. Search for another. Let's see how far that will take you.

First I don't believe that am untouchable.
2ndly I believe that NOT all men cheats.
3rdly there will be no need for divorce.
Lastly and thats cos I wont cheat too.
It is unthinkable on my part to cheat on someone I love. I'd rather die than do that and I know some men think that too.
In conclusion,knowing the kind of person that I am,hopefully I won't settle for anything less.

donmarshia:
Madam, you think marriage involves only you. So because your husband cheats, you will break up not minding the effect on your kids? Think again!

And I guess its okay for the man to cheat not minding the kids. Thank for advice though. Will keep that in mind.

On a good day when you and your husband are home. Search in all the building and see if there is any thing like amulets,and spiristic materials. Make sure to bring them all out and burn them,that will be the end. They have a link renaining there. Its satan nd his demons. Do this if you dont wanna move or even if you want to.

bebe2:
Me think my self as nothing ? Far from it .

I have a man who adores me and has been doing dat for 20yrs. Treats me the same he treated me wen i was 17. There will always be issues, but one needs widom to handle it.

she has taken it too far. She had my sympathy until she brought a stranger to her matrimonial home.

For me dats a No No. On no account shud dat happen. That type of anger can make her sleep with someone else just to punish her husband . She is very vulnerable at this stage and men love that they will happily take advantage of the situation.

OK, wen all this dies down wat does she tell the stranger?

U live and learn, u dat is acting like untouchable, the day u hear ur husband is cheating on u , divorce him, take the kids and marry another man. Wen dat one cheats divorce him too, add the new kids to old from previous fathers. Search for another. Let's see how far that will take you.

Thanks for your advice. Appreciated.

Joy1706:
Personally I don't think I can forgive a cheating husband. If I decide to stay, be rest assured o will lose every respect,trust and love I had for you. I would probably do what ur wife is doing except id give my kids food and leave u to fend for yourself.
Honestly you don't come across as repentant to me. So u expected her to forget everything just like that. And u even have the nerve to consider divorce. Why did u beg her in the first place? Just get out a beg. If u like allow these single NL boys control u. Just get out pls

Exactly.
Look at the useless responses he's giving.
If its him the marriage would have been over by now.
Respect your wife if you want her to respect you.
Isn't respect reciprocal.
Beg ko. Forgiveness ni.

bebe2:
Men of these days are so Weak, so my husband cheated, so I will bring a strange man to his living room?

Or go out and come back late or neglect his kids?

Which day I start to fly? Well with some men u can get away with many things.

And all those saying she won't sleep with this or dat,
Pleassssseeee , take several sits. U don't know if she is or not.

She won't because she's a good woman.
Your type are the people that remain in an abusive relationship for marriage namesake.
If my husband cheats on me,heaven knows thats the end.
That woman she has a kind heart and this husband of hers is just poo.

Im surprise to see some women still thinks themselves as nothing in this century.

Wishing her all the best.

Have you noticed that in recent decades,family life has changed dramatically,not only in Western lands but even in African and Asian lands. In the good-old days,parents were in charge of their kid's actions dictating what should be and not be,but today in many households the reverse seem to be the case.

Today,children makes the demands,parents tolerates it and even go as far as rescuing them from the consequences and outcome of their misconduct.

Though some parents do strive to train their child by inculcating proper values in them,setting good examples and giving firm correction when needed, still many more parents avoid this so as not to be seen as outdated or swimming against the cultural tide.

How did this got to this point? What exactly happened?
Continue reading?
http://collectivetalks..com/2016/02/disciplineis-it-outdated.html

Youngzedd:
Solomon the wisest man ever liveth according to people.

Jesus is the wisest man who ever liveth

Kazna69:
The Bible is Fûckin illogical. So if I can't control an instinctive human urge to Fûck, I should get married. In the course of trying to get married, I should settle for an ugly woman cos the pretty ones I found are either taken, or don't fancy me in return all cos I want to follow your stupíd, outdated code? Religion as a whole is soon to be abolished. We're moving into a new age, an age of logic & reason. Those who minds aren't in sync will face extinction.

An age of logic and reason with no self control i guess..

Youngzedd:
Even the acclaimed wisest man ever liveth is a fuckard.

With all his wisdom, He only think about ukwu.


Last bullet:

If you really love her/him fear won't allow you cheat on him/her. You will see cheating as cheat or die.

Be faithful, maka ndu gi (because of your life.)

Sorry,are you refering to Jesus?

It is no longer news that marriages today barely last a fortnight,our imperfections,coupled with the not-so-good situation of things in the world today are some of the reasons families break apart. Still like many others out there,you can have a marriage,but the question is,how?

To provide an answer to the above question,we have to look at one of the main aspects of life that destroys marriage.


Family Strife: Many families cannot deny the fact that they are having clashes every now and then,due to perhaps misunderstandings arising from finance,time,or stress from work. Some in trying to explain a situation they are in may end up using the wrong words,ill-chosen words can do more harm than good in relationships. What may begin as a calm exchange of words can quickly turn into a verbal slugging match,and it can be easy to misinterpret what another might say or misconstrue their motives. Still you can enjoy a happy-peaceful marriage.

By learning how to talk mildly to be understood and or if you are the victim,by knowing how to respond when faced with an arguement.
Lets see how.
Continue reading..
http://collectivetalks..com/2016/02/you-can-enjoy-happy-marriage.html

Have you seen this? Saw it on facebook. It was made by a Yabatech student as his final project from cans and bottles.

Life can fail you,life can disappoint you but what's worst is when you fail yourself!
Failing yourself comes from the way you handles your life issues. Depression,anzieties and goals,you can defeat these if only you change your view of life.

Read more.
http://collectivetalks..com/2015/09/attitude-makes-all-difference.html

Love Machine:
I hardly see a girl who has never beg a guy for anything before

You just did.

Atk01:
Do you stay in Lagos?

Nop

Atk01:
Vikky and sarang, will you guys have a shot of soju?

I'm at a korean home now waiting to eat spicy noodle. Come join

When would you say the dramatic moral decline began? Within your lifetime or perhaps that of an older friends or relatives? Some say that world war 1,which erupted in 1914,ushered in our era of unparalleled moral decadence. Professor of history wrote in his book The Generation of 1914: "Those who lived through that war could never rid themselves of the belief that one world had ended and another begun in August 1914."
Everywhere,people saw the standards of social behaviour which were already in decline,completely devastated. Indeed the first world war had a devastating effect upon people's sense of morality. The ten years which followed the war may aptly be known as the Decade of Bad Manners...
With the old order of things had gone a set of values which had given richness and meaning to life,and substitute values were not easily found.

See also:Attitude makes all the difference on CollectiveTalks.

The Decline Worldwide: Continue reading.

http://collectivetalks..com/2016/02/when-morals-declined-worldwide.html

The proud and assertive people are often portrayed by the world as the people to imitate while the meek and humble ones are classified as timid and feeble. But is genuine humility really something to look down on and does it really make one weak?

We are going to answer this question by first taking a closer look at what pride really is.
Cotinue reading..

http://collectivetalks..com/2016/02/humilitywhy-it-is-not-weakness.html

It is a genetic flaw inherited mainly from our parents which causes a defect in the retina-the light sensitive inner lining of the eyes. People suffering from this illness can see other colours except black and white though not as much as those who can see with normal vision.
In the human eye,the retina contains normally three types of cone-shaped sensitive cells. Each type is tuned to the wavelength of a different primary colour of light_red,blue or green. Light of different wavelength triggers the corresponding cones,which signals the brain and enable one to perceive colours.

In people with colour-vision deficency, however,the sensitivity of the cones to one or more colours is weak or shifted in wavelength,and this inturn alters their response to colour.
Many people suffering from this have difficulty differentiating between colours such as yellow,red,orange and brown. For example,it will be hard for them to distinquish a blue-eyed blonde from a green-eyed redhead or see green mold on brown bread or cheese. If a sufferer's red sensitive cones are very weak,then a red rose appears black. Few of them cannot see blue.

Children and colour deficiency: Defects in colour vision are usually inherited and starts right after birth,thus children with this condition often learn to compensate. In other words,they learn to perceive contrast and brighteness and associate these variations with these colour names even if they cannot differentiate between certain hues.

See also: Just how much it hurts on CollectiveTalks.

Because most schools often use colour coded-teaching tools beginning from early grades,parents and teachers alike may mistakenly think that a child has a learning disability when in fact that child is colour-deficient,since many young people remain unaware of their disability throughout childhood. For good reason therefore,vision test is recommended in early childhood.

Did you know? Colour vision deficiency occurs mostly in male genders. This is because inherited colour deficiency are carried on the X chromosomes. Women have two X chromosomes,while men have one X and one Y. Therefore,if a woman inherits a visual defect in an X chromosome,the normal gene in the other chromosome is likely to override it and her vision will not be impaired. But when a man inherits a defect in his X chromosome,he certainly will have no other X chromosome to fall back on.

Get A Test Today!
Tests to discover the degree of colour-vision deficiency that a person has often employ patterns of dots in various hues and shades. The widely used Ishihara test consists of up to 38 different patterns. If testing reveals a defect,an eye doctor may recommend further tests to determine whether it was inherited or come from some other cause.
http://collectivetalks..com/2016/02/what-is-colour-vision-deficiency.html

What do you think,will modern science bring about a World without sickness, poverty,death,injustice and racism?
In view of the many accomplishments going on in the world,many think it is not far-fetched.
Many articles has proven that the governments and private sectore are working together with the united nations in an unprecedented campaign against diseases. Lets Consider their numerous achievements:

Immunization of children in developing countries: By 2015,more than 70 million children recieved each year life-saving vaccines against tetanus,tuberculosis,measles etec.
X-ray imaging: For more than 30 years,doctors and hospitals have been using what is known as CT scan. The acronym which stands for computed tomography was designed to produce three-dimensional x-ray images of the body. These images helps in diagonising of diseases and examination of internal abnormalities.

Namomedicine: This is the application of nanotechnology to the medical field.(Nanotechnology is the science of manipulating and creating microscopic objects) measured in nanometer.

Robotic surgery: Sophisticated robots no longer remain in the realm of science fiction_at least in the medical field because already thousands of surgeries are taking place with the help of robots,some are even designed to allow doctors manipulate them with remote control.

Genomics: The study of gene structure is known as genomics. Since every cell in the body is packed with components vital for life,they play important roles in setermining the quality of our internal organs.

See also:Dealing with loneliness on CollectiveTalks.

Looking at the above accomplishments,it is easy to predict that perhaps scientists can really heal the world. But then let us take a look at our insurmountable hurdles.
Human behaviour: it is no lomger news that men dominates themselves to all injurious things,slowing down the progress of eradicating diseases. Scientists believe that human-inflicted damage to certain ecosystems has resulted in new,dangerous diseases. Since mid-70s more than 30 new diseases have emerged.

HIV:This disease need not to be introduced since it is the most widely known virus. But did you know? Some 60 million people have been infected with HIV and about 20 million have died. During 2005 there were five million new infections and more than three million AIDs-related death.

Diarrhea:With about four billion cases every year,diarrhea is described as a major killer among the poor. Infectious diseases spread by contaminated water and food and/ a lack of personal hygiene. This illness kills not less than 2 million each year.

Malaria: some 300 million people get ill from malaria annually leaving about one million victims dead many being children. In Africa alone,one out of every child dies of malaria about every 30 seconds. Sciences still has no magic bullet for malaria and many doubt that such a solution will ever exist.

With the many diseases listed above and those not listed,it is certain that despite the improvement and the scienctific knowledge being designed and implemented,the World isn't getting any better-infact it gets worse each day.
Now the question is,will there ever be a World without hurdles? If possible,leave your opinion.
http://collectivetalks..com/2016/02/will-science-heal-world.html

Visit www.CollectiveTalks..ca for more

Cc Mynd44

What do you think,will modern science bring about a World without sickness, poverty,death,injustice and racism?
In view of the many accomplishments going on in the world,many think it is not far-fetched.
Many articles has proven that the governments and private sectore are working together with the united nations in an unprecedented campaign against diseases. Lets Consider their numerous achievements:

Immunization of children in developing countries: By 2015,more than 70 million children recieved each year life-saving vaccines against tetanus,tuberculosis,measles etec.
X-ray imaging: For more than 30 years,doctors and hospitals have been using what is known as CT scan. The acronym which stands for computed tomography was designed to produce three-dimensional x-ray images of the body. These images helps in diagonising of diseases and examination of internal abnormalities.

Namomedicine: This is the application of nanotechnology to the medical field.(Nanotechnology is the science of manipulating and creating microscopic objects) measured in nanometer.

Robotic surgery: Sophisticated robots no longer remain in the realm of science fiction_at least in the medical field because already thousands of surgeries are taking place with the help of robots,some are even designed to allow doctors manipulate them with remote control.

Genomics: The study of gene structure is known as genomics. Since every cell in the body is packed with components vital for life,they play important roles in setermining the quality of our internal organs.

See also:Dealing with loneliness on CollectiveTalks.

Looking at the above accomplishments,it is easy to predict that perhaps scientists can really heal the world. But then let us take a look at our insurmountable hurdles.
Human behaviour: it is no lomger news that men dominates themselves to all injurious things,slowing down the progress of eradicating diseases. Scientists believe that human-inflicted damage to certain ecosystems has resulted in new,dangerous diseases. Since mid-70s more than 30 new diseases have emerged.

HIV:This disease need not to be introduced since it is the most widely known virus. But did you know? Some 60 million people have been infected with HIV and about 20 million have died. During 2005 there were five million new infections and more than three million AIDs-related death.

Diarrhea:With about four billion cases every year,diarrhea is described as a major killer among the poor. Infectious diseases spread by contaminated water and food and/ a lack of personal hygiene. This illness kills not less than 2 million each year.

Malaria: some 300 million people get ill from malaria annually leaving about one million victims dead many being children. In Africa alone,one out of every child dies of malaria about every 30 seconds. Sciences still has no magic bullet for malaria and many doubt that such a solution will ever exist.

With the many diseases listed above and those not listed,it is certain that despite the improvement and the scienctific knowledge being designed and implemented,the World isn't getting any better-infact it gets worse each day.
Now the question is,will there ever be a World without hurdles? If possible,leave your opinion.
http://collectivetalks..com/2016/02/will-science-heal-world.html

Visit www.CollectiveTalks..ca for more


Cc Sissy3. Dominique

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You are worried,nervous. In deep thoughts,surrounded with feelings of uneasiness,you would like to stop but you can't help it. You are scared,You are anxious.
Living in this world of uncertainity sure do overtake us all,only know this;that you are not alone. It's not just you going through the pains,many people are. Some fear for their life,their finances,their goals including their tomorrow.

See also:Dishonesty affects you on CollectiveTalks.

How can you deal with undue anxiety?
There is time for everything. Do not keep wallowing in misery and pain always, Try to withdraw from your anguish,relax,cheer up and trust in God. Live your live depending on Jehovah,in order words throw all your burden on him and never give up.

Get together with friends, always remember that nothing in this world lasts forever and your problem won't be the first.
Forget about tomorrow and live in today,tomorrow will be different.

Try and be free from anxiety. It weighs you down,pulls down your emotions and draws strength away from you. Be positive and trust in God.
In due time,everything will be okay,still in the main time enjoy each day that comes and do your best in all you wish to do.

For more visit www.CollectiveTalks..ca