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Fourcade: You forgot Single and not Searching!
I know some that qualify

= single n satisfied

My PHONE
the internet(i cant stay without internet access)

What is this? Since yeterday evening o. Cant call out from my line even after all their promises to resolve the issue after i called customer care last night? If its this zone plan, discontinue it but plz allow me make calls

xpizzy: I do not intend to meddle into your affairs with your husband simply because i believe that he must have been crazy in love with you to propose. I first want you to unlearn the concept of "Melancholy" Personality. You see that method of describing an individuals personality in modern day psychology is Outmoded, Vague, Inadequate and largely inaccurate. I know you may have read Tim Lahaye's book titiled "Why you act the way you do". Although it gained a lot of popularity few years ago, the underlying hypotheses of his claims or theories as the case may be lack scientific verifiabililty. Let me also say here that this "Typology" descriptions viz Melancholy, Sanguine, Choleric,and Phlegmatic has over the years blinded people to understanding their own selves and has been instrumental in the under-fulfillment of many peoples potential. This is because this theory posits that you have no control over your behavior personality and lifestyle simply because you were "born that way". This is why you have a strong believe that you are depressed because you are "Melancholic". It is pertinent to note that in modern day Psychotherapy, therapist believe so much in the ability of people to unlearn bad attitudes and to learn better ones. Make no mistake my sister Happiness is a choice and never a destination or fate. Again you have a strong believe that words hurt you because you are melancholic. Again i say no because you can learn to ignore situations that get you hurt by learning adaptive techniques such as Learned optimism and Positive Mental Attitude. I wish to go on and on to analyze your personality but time and space are constraints. I will live you with this food for thought. "A person is who s/he believes s/he is in her/his heart".

na wa o!

Heck: Mod All these pictures are distractions. My dear OP look at yourself again. The guy is right, you are not the first to get pregnant. remember this guy is marrying for the first time, you are also being a wife for the first time. You are the first babe he is living with in such strange mood swings. He is seeing your disfigured shape for the first time. He is trying to cope with his new experience, but you are not letting him. your man may not be the best of men, certainly he is not the worst. YOU NAG A LOT. The pictures you paint here brings my MADAM RIGHT WIFE to the fore. Your man gets moody too.

Pregnancy is challenging, no doubt. Being loved is different from being pampered. If he cooks for you today, any day he fails to cook, NTA will read it. In between your lines, I can read that he loves you. Only play boys pamper. Real men love and care. Drop that pampering demand please. the chase is long over. You are now husband and wife, not boyfriend and girlfriend. We have three kids, I can't remember ever boiling water for my wife; though we had a helper. Good, you often apologize after accusing him falsely that he is into extra marital game. Those who play about don't show the babes to their wives. Wake up. Melancholy or whatever is an academic path for sympathy. My grand mother who equally was, knew no such, yet coped.

Please may this be the only side advise you are seeking about your marriage. Never bring any third party into your home else prepare in time to join the long list of divorced babes. Start the pampering, may be he will learn. Any how, think of a helper and do not run your mouth. Good luck.

na wa o! Is d husband ur brother? U ar siding him too much. 'falsely accused' how do u know dat, sir?

safeact: Crucify him! crucify him!! crucify him!!! I want to authoritatively tell us that d op is an emotional type and she could get easily irritated when she is in d emotional state. I blv d hubby understands her wify more than everyone of us, therefore, i will profer that she calms down and (stop assuming that d hubby will always read her mind and react perfectly to her)pet him as she makes him understand everthing. I assure her that she will get all d pets she needs in return!
The man might hav been pissed off in one way or d other and d woman is still measuring shoulders with him. Men always want to b on top.so let him feel that he is still on top and u will see d difference.
Am not makin excuses for d man infact, i feel like slappin d hell out of d man but we should know d best genuine help that she could get is from d hubby,afterall, if he didnt love d woman, he wouldnt have married her! Best of luck ma dear fantababy!

yes u ar makn excuse for d man, dont u dare deny it! Oh, puleeease! Did u actually type dat she should pet him? Have u ever been pregnant? Plz, just effn shut up already befor i pour all my anger for dat wicked man on u

[quote author=Sisi_Kill]Is he daft

Or what cave did he crawl out from?? I mean how unaware can someone?

So the love starved, food starved, emotionally and physically sick heavily pregnant woman still has to be the one making all the allowances just because one retarded eediot can't educate himself.

Any sensible man, who really cares would want to know everything going on with his wife and THEIR baby. I can remember almost passing out from laughter the day I saw my brother reading WHAT TO EXPECT WHEN YOU ARE EXPECTING when his wife was pregnant. He would tell you what stage his wife was from her symptoms. . .she almost went crazy because he will go "Are you sure you are not feeling this because the book says this or the book says that..."

What will it take this useless guy to google? Nothing that's what yet you are telling his wife to be patient with him and explain stuff to him. Sometimes I wonder if some men like women. I mean you are not even talking about her depression, it is all about how it affects YOU!

Y'all are SCARY!!!! [/quote]thank u! I really wondered at his post.

[quote author=mxxpunkxx!]If at all you have banker brothers, then they must have gone through school, but the school never went through them.



If the circuit board is faulty, the calculator's power won't come on

@all
NL members are mostly cave-men. If there's a problem with the ATM dispensing incorrect cash (higher or lower), it's not from the physical machine.
The physical ATM works flawlessly. Tell ur presido, Goodluck, to improve your network performance. Most problems arises when the messages are being trasnmitted.
Most of the ppl blabbing dont even know how it works.
There's a super computer located in the machine that does send the atm number, and encrypted pin, to the relay server.
The relay server is located at the ATM'S provider building. If the atm is located inside a bank, then the relay server is located right there in the bank
that's why most people prefer to use atms inside the bank's building at their particular branch.
If it's a roadside ATM, then the relay server is probably located at INTERSWITCH office (or the manufacturer of VERVE cards) depends on the type of ATM card you're using.
From there, the message is transmitted to your banking for confirmation of account details and balance.
Then it goes back to the server (INTERSWITCH OR VERVE head office) and back to the CPU . . the machine inside the ATM compartment.
once there's a glitch in network along these path, en error often occurs, e.g. debit without pay, more cash, less cash etc.


I bet your brothers at the bank do not know this, rubbish.[/quote]mr.learned guy, d thread is about whether it is possible to be shortpaid/overpaid by an ATM simple

pafestula: look at this irrelivant comment...So ATM machine still looked for d fake note itself and paid u? That is GIGO in GIGO out, now I see Nig re very far way back from technology and innovations...am out of this debate

ur point being?

Cos i need companionship

Chylo: Why is this on the front page now?

it is a very good topic. I have just learnt that the ATM can infact shortpay. So, i have to start counting from now onwards

acidtalk: It is the most expensive kind of 'meat' on earth. Only Kings and Billionaires eat them.

it must be boring, then. I'll pass

190 is a clown. He makes nl fun

omobadurella: Sept 15... Any birthday mate shud hit me on pin:2239E0E6

hi twinny *hugs*

Virgohills: I am born on the 15th of September my name is hillary and reside in Lagos(NYSC). 08034907322. Wotz ur date of Birth?

couldnt find my any mate on d bday thread and i came here, woa! There u were! Am sept 15th too

Dis bar get puff puff so?

bukatyne: oga highbros, y don't u tell us how old u re b4 we can give u proper advice?

30's according to his previous thread

mrkels: The only problem am having is that there are only 5glo numbers on my contact list and they are tired of receiving calls from me. Wish these useless mtn could do this.

lmao!! Dis crackd me up cos i was readn ur post wt intrest wondering if d bonus airtime was for calls to any network. Lol

Highbros: Hey, watch your mouth boy. I came here to seek advice not to get insulted especially by you. I'm not your mate. Must you always drag the past into current situations?

yes WE must! U ar a perv which means u ar not normal. U need help. Ur type can also commit incest on ur own child.

sexkillz: [color=#000030]Lol @ you all.

Op is a confirmed wasteman. . . Perverted pedo. Was the same guy that dated a lady for good 9 years and dumped her because of this smallie giving him problems now. No peace for the wicked! www.nairaland.com/715203

His perverted self couldn't hide his love for underaged kids. . . www.nairaland.com/821939

if this girl is just 18 and he started dating her over a year now, how old was she when he started? Lol. This guy is a confirmed nutcase. Advice him at your own risk. He never listens to good advice. . .

Hi perv. . .
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omg! Perv alert!!!

acidtalk: Ole! Mwhy you no buy eja shawa and pomo to be motivating you. Abi you no know how much crate of egg, fish and meat be now for market? Even pomo sef is now expensive.

Woooh! You better start motivating yourself with saliva oh!

wat is eja shawa?

acidtalk: ^^^
So even those that walk around in hair net at 10am are probably sleep walking as well.

Somenice looking ladies could walk few blocks to go buy something and that isn't just cute one bit.

cant be seen outdoors with hairnets. Not cute like u said. But i wear them at home even when am awake for hair that get in d way. Its for comfort

acidtalk: Have a friend that did the exact two yesterday and I was really crossed.

aww, take it easy on us, plz. We dont mean to get u crossed. Am not much of a food person so meat, fish, egg ar like motivators for me. But wen am really famished, i wunt mind eating it plain.

Castos: U can hardly get both, pls dnt reach ur monopulse

dont worry about my MONOPULSE

I ask that too. Its part of known people more. Can keep the conversation goin too.

sexkillz: [color=#000030]
Maka why kwanu?
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makana o likey d girl

Cos i want love and happiness not frustration

Oga seun, those brows are suspiscious looking :p

acidtalk: * Refusing to eat the top of a sliced bread even when you tore the wrapper open.

*Refusing to eat a food if there's no meat, fish or egg decorated on it.

guilty of these two. I hope it doesnt become a problem wen am married