₦airaland Forum

tempest01:
And the fool couldn't find a painless way to do it

idontaya:
Hmmmm.... makes sense

Please keep the advice coming in

Thanks

Siena:
[color=Blue]What is the age of sexual consent in Nigeria? In most of the Western world, it's actually 16.

And just in case you're not aware, one can only have a father, not fathers. In your haste to verbally abuse my father, you failed to apply reasoning, and THINK before posting what you did.

I don't live in Nigeria, but I know what the age of sexual consent in Nigeria is. The question is - do you? I challenge you to find a court in Nigeria that would convict a 24-year-old male for dating a 16-year-old female. Statutory rape? That wouldn't stick either, unless the man forced himself upon the girl AGAINST her will. [/color]

tomdon:
so 16 years is a minor
while girls like you just most girls around now are already sexually active by 16 even though the relationship led no where
I sense jealousy

AVRecruit:
you are just jealous. my own mum gave birth to my first brother at 18.

Siena:
[color=Blue]A minor in which country bro? My mom was married at 16, and had my eldest brother aged 17. I'm pretty sure a lot of posters here had similar parents.

I guess our fathers were all paedophiles.

Out of interest, if the guy was 16, and the woman 24, would sfhe be a paedophile too?[/color]

Siena:
[color=Blue]It doesn't matter what class she's in. She's 16. If a 20-year-old girl was in SS2, and a 28-year-old guy asked her out, does that automatically brand him a paėdophile?

*Sigh*[/color]

Explorers:
46. Japanese orphan, standing at attention having brought his dead younger brother on his back to a cremation pyre, Nagasaki, 1945.

Mynd44:
Hold on, how can a 7 year old wear "revealing clothing"?

Abeg she is wearing clothes. Nothing special, if you are uncomfortable with this, check yourself

sexymoma:
All na bone
wetin man fit hol for this babe body..

olapluto:
Osita is in a relationship with Ogechi. Simple. If in doubt, ask sugabelly.

Olamitisoji:
EME Queen rocked it hard today

https://instagram.com/p/-gzjfXy3la/

iykebest1:
A bank is a financial institution/organization where utmost care and attention must be given even to the smallest transaction. Hence there are no rooms for errors and incompetence.


One who works in a bank must possess an eagle eye for every transaction. Any error that is traceable could be reversed with the permission of the operation head or in cases where it is not traceable, such person will be asked to cover for his/her errors.


In this man's case, the error was traced to his acc and I strongly believe that they must ve contacted the man or at least tried with no avail . The simplest thing they should ve done is to follow the man up and ask for the money back peacefully.


Now, what if the error wasn't traced to his acc? Would they ve gone ahead to state their errors and incompetence online?


Let me summarize by sharing with u a brief story of what happened in my branch. An ET ( executive trainee) who is yet to be confirmed a staff overpaid a certain man from witchtech industry who came to cash a cheque addressed to him for a certain job. The money overpaid to him was 500k. The witchtech guy on reaching his company discovered that the money was in excess, he called the man who gave him d cheque and told him that the money he wrote was in excess. The man quickly drove by and requested for the 500k. Not quite long, d same banker who carried out d transaction came to d office of d witchtech guy and started pleading for his money back.



Without wasting time, the wichtech guy quickly called the man who claimed the money to return it. The man said that he is already in Maiduguri instead of Enugu where the whole thing happened. He wired 300k via internet banking and refuse to release the other. The man stated it categorically that nobody should disturb him any further since he has done no wrong. The money was peacefully given to him without any force as no one could prove any forceful collection. The ET guy had to make up for d rest.



The big question is. "Why couldn't they arrest or report the man if they are so right?"


Same goes to this man in question here. He didn't steal or con anybody so why defaming him . You don't willingly and consciously give me a gift in my own house and still dictate how I should use it.


Cc .
. Tahtah
. Bollinger. (Mr foodo)

iykebest1:
This country is a joke. The man committed no crime. Why the hell did they publish his details for all to see? At least he didn't take the money at gun point neither did he conned anybody for the money. They should ve quietly looked for the man and ask for their money back in a more matured manner. Now they ve compounded everything. If I were to be the man, I will get a good lawyer and sue their incompetent asss for infamous defamation.






Before u start spewing tushes around, it might interest u to knw that am a banker. I knw what am saying.

JUSTbuchi:
Op some of what you wrote up there ain't true

My elder bro works in a bank,diamond bank precisely and he has accounts in gtb and first bank

Secondly he's married to a banker who works in same diamond bank

lasisi69:
End time everywhere

PureWays:
Nah Bro.. I sense Pride in her..
She wants a perfect marriage, that kind of woman can't be with you through thick and thin, though I may be wrong but I think it's up to the Op to decide on that. Judging by his write up and story, he should be smart enough to see that if I'm correct..

Sweetguy25:
Is that a name of an evil spirit? Are you people cultist?

Tallesty1:
Your spiritual husband

Tallesty1:
Feminism has never been for equality bro.

It is about improving the lives and statuses of women by degrading the lives and statuses of men. The feminist concept of “equality” only serves to provide a framework for feminism, and to brainwash other unfortunate people, especially men, to support it.

Every woman I have met who called herself a feminist was also a sexist. All of them.

Ever tried to mention men's inequalities to a feminist? She will call you a sexist misogynist pig for. Feminism just supports and fights for superiority of women to men nothing else.

Have you ever wondered why, in divorce cases, the mother gets custody and the father pays child support? Ever wondered why, when a girl sees a guy naked, he is arrested for indecent exposure, but when a guy sees a girl naked, he is arrested for being a peeping tom Equality My Foot.

How can feminism claim equality when thesame feminism under the guise of promoting equality, has succeeded in bringing bias back into the legal system by arguing that women are, in fact, not equal to men and should not be treated as such under the law.

Double standard everywhere.

Sha, whether they in or out for equality doesn't really matter to me but the fact that some people under the cover of feminism destroy home is a good reason to add it in my write up.


Thanks for contributing

Drfinn:
Precisely, on 31st March, 2013 I asked my now ex to marry me. Not in some fancy restaurant, shopping mall or some heaven on earth theatrical setting. It was via a phone call. Surprisingly, we had never met in person! What madness!! Did she accept??

Love they say is like a butterfly, it perches wherever it wants. It's like a lion, it devours whoever that comes his way. How we fall in love at times is mysterious. We seldom have control in matters of the heart. This is how I felt the day I saw her picture carrying a child. Her little nephew. I love kids to a fault. In that split moment I told her how I wished it was our son she was carrying. That remark set aglow our hearts.

Initially, she doubted my sincerity. She had been hurt not once, twice but severally. Worse still she has a medical condition. A condition she erroneously thought will forever rob her of love. Hence her skepticism. Furthermore, my reputation with 'the ladies' on some social network we had met some years earlier was daunting. I had to prove my sincerity. I had to win her love.

As am typing this, my alarm just beeped! Its October 24th- the day I had slated for our introduction. Alas! It was never to be. Our love could not survive the divide. The 'hypocrisy' of the church has prevailed. I cannot believe am still hurting this bad. Maybe I was in a hurry to have ended it all. This is my story. Our story.

After the initial 'gragra' women exhibit we settled into a beautiful but distant relationship. She was based in Lagos, I in Port Harcourt. Days became weeks, and weeks months before our first physical encounter. I did first visit as a gent. We had wild fun!! Then came the moment of truth; a visit to her kit and kin to intimate them of my intention. Her brother-in law gave me his word. The only snag which was to destroy all we labored to build -the church! she is catholic, am protestant. She is Igbo am Ijaw.

True to his word, her brother-in law accompanied me to see her parents in her hometown- some community in Imo State. I was well received. Such a loving home. I made my intentions known with all seriousness. It's no child's play explaining while you consider a man's daughter worth more than other women to him. Thankfully, the son in-law gave me all the necessary support. However, convincing a retired teacher, a respected and unrepentant staunch catholic requires more than fancy words. I left that home with mixed feelings. Her father had plainly told me what mixed marriage entails. My wife and children will become 'properties of the catholic church'. It was non-negotiable.

I sought the advice of family members, and my pastor. All were of the opinion that her father's stance undermines my role as the head of our future family. Personally, I saw it as an 'indirect rule'. I enlisted one or two of her siblings, her mum inclusive to get her father to shift grounds. The old man wouldn't bulge. At my fiancee's suggestion I paid her uncle a scheduled visit. A Priest in some parish at Owerri. His stance was same as his elder brother's; convert to Catholicism or accept the terms of mixed marriage.

I was devastated. More so by my fiancee's shifting positions. Today she's all by my side, tomorrow she wants me to please her father. I saw it more as a character weakness than a woman drawn between love and the hands that fed her. Perhaps, it was a miscalculation on my part. She had her flaws. Mine was so glaring. But i found in her the woman of my dreams.

In the midst of this storm I had boldly gone ahead to fix today, October 24th my introduction day. I had called my Pastor to inform him, and a couple of family members. This decision was informed after my now ex had told me her siblings and other family members had prevailed on her father to soft pedal on his stance. He unbelievably agreed. So i thought. Until I made one more call!

The old man true to his principled nature remained unchanged. It was a blow too devastating to bear. I saw a relationship of over two years with countless sacrifices on both sides evaporate on the grounds of dogma. It hurts so bad to have met that special one only to realize you can not be with them for eternity. Should I have converted for love? That would have betrayed love itself. Love is without condition(s). Should I have settled for mixed marriage? Its unbearable! It's my responsible to provide both spiritual and physical nourishment for my future family.

So, it was only appropriate I let love go. If she finds her way back to me. I had be most fortunate not lucky. Fortune befriends the bold. A life of service to all humanity now beckons . It's a call I must answer. Who knows love maybe around the corner. Love knows no religious boundaries. Let's spread the glad tidings of ecumenism.

jonaifame22:
hey! Dat's good u too'll get married soon to a loving man.

christinie:
Tearing my life with his song. Killing me softly with his song, killing me softly with his song, tearing my whole life with his song.