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stillwater: Never date someone with that at the back of your mind. Do you. The men these days are a far-cry from our fathers. Work at your own pace. If you don't like being rushed, please don't rush yourself. If you are the type that is quite decisive when propositioned, by all means say yes. You are an adult, make decisions for yourself and not what society dictates or what your friends would say.

But if the girl's aim is just to play hard to get, I think she's lost the plot.

Thank you, thats great advice. 'cos at the end of the day one lives with the decisions that one has made and not the society

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Daddy Showkey
Baba fryo
Mamuzee
Buga
K.C Presh
Ara?[/quote]k.c - k.c okonkwo

This question really goes to the married men but married women and other groups of persons who have something to say on this can also contribute. I hear a lot of 'oh, don't be too cheap. Don't throw yourself at him. Let him work n not walk his way into your heart ....etc'

i mean is that how u guys got d ladies that u have married? By actually working hard to get her. I used to think it pays to just be yourself and be honest. Like if i meet a guy i like, i wouldn't wanna put him through all that cos fact is i like him already so am gonna be friendly and accommodating. But i think what some of us may not be getting is, where do u cross d line? By trying not to act cheap u may actually be crossing over to actually being too uptight and playing 'too' hard to get.


Please, guys enlighten us more as to what and what ACTIONS you consider as being cheap with regards to ladies an those that will also mean a lady is just too much trouble/uptight

Genius100: Women are a funny bunch. So let me get this straight. YOu have no boyfriend. you are somewhat ho-rny. Here is a guy that you have slept with before; So technically, you are not increasing your count. So why are you depriving yourself? If you want more from him, then talk to him about that. If he still does not want committment, then go ahead and enjoy yourself like before..

yea, we ar a rare breed really cos when we say we are hor-ny we dont just mean d poking. We mean we want to be held, to be cuddled, to be needed. And when d session is over we ar goin to think about dat person and miss him. So u see why its a bit hard for us to do the 'enjoy urself thin' u suggested and den up n go like nothing happend

richarts: U sound very very highly intelligent. Heres the reason; you know what might come up if u go see this guy, u already know... D fact that ur hungry for sex doesnt help matters too & so since ur nt on the plane of dnt do ''pre-marital'' sex, den u might as well go with the flow... Av fun... Ofcourse he wants to get laid... But pls he may av seen ''rubbish'' ladies where he is also coming from so if u can be a little bit controlled when u see him u might show him a whole new perspective about ladies & u guys may have something cool together. He is ur type & he sounds so cool to me to av being with u for a while just as friends... I think he's a great guy. The ball is in ur court...

U cant get better. Guys are not smiling o so work on this one.

she really sounds intelligent

[quote author=tpia@]i dont see anything vulgar about those girls.

they're simply dressed neatly and with sense, that's all.

what about them is reminding you of a club because i dont get it.[/quote]i wondered too

[quote author=Sir P!]My dad was having this problem until he called customer care and they told him he was subscribed to this ''Hyundai promo...'' He never subscribed but they said he did, anyway he made them unsubscribe him. so ill suggest you guys call customer care[/quote]GBAM!
Same happened to my mum. Simply text 'OUT' to dat number...emm cant remember it right now

MsDarkSkin: what is this?

love connection?

hair connection, more like :/

Muna- Munachi Abi
Waje- Ebele Iruobe

Where is your location, plz?

Koolking: or Corn Row

Sashaa, you are my kind of girl. How I love those hairdo.

awww, i like u already!

Woa! When i put up this thread i dint have a job and i was wondering if my processes of job hunting was gonna even amount to anything. A month after i got a job so i can now contribute
well, i got my job through online application. Saw d ad on a jobsite/forum. Applied n was called for a test and den an interview followd. I did well and thankfully i got it. Plz feel free to share urs nlanders it will surely give hope to some!

fubbyy: Nice replies, am very happy because what I expected from people here is not what I'm seeing, am surprise some people thinks like me and am very happy for that

I used to see some people's wishes as a crap till I grew to understand that every man has a fantasy, I've been dreaming this for years and my prayer is for the accomplishment

Some talked about the financial aspect which is not my problem,I know I can afford it, my only problem is how I go about this and who will agree to this

are u looking for the person here?

drake99: Its not really a bad idea, sometimes it also sometimes come across my mind but I know there must be some disadvantages later which I don't really know for now

yea, for starters...what do u tell that child about the mum? That she was a stranger paid to birth him for u?

executinal: Good,hope government will be strict with the policy.

i hope so too. This is a welcome development

For real? I usually go through that bustop on my way from work, never noticed him

flanrey: 90 days rule
#Justhinkin, Some guys I knw will go all the way acting all nice until dt 'Golden Kitty Day' and move on the very minute the deed is done

exactly!

I remain grateful to NCCF. Was housed in their family house when i had accomodation challenges.

MsDarkSkin: oh yeah...that will NEVER go out of style!!

yea, and u can do them with differnt weaves or even your naturals.

1, 10, 20

Ponytail, all back, side part

simababe: Are you young, beautiful and smart,
Can you relate perfectly well with strangers,
Are you deciplined, dedicated and focused,
Then "IHMAM USHERS" is the place to be.

contract vacancies exist for young and agile females between the age of 21 to 27yrz, 5ft 6inchz and above tall and beautiful faces. Send your picture to "simababe092006@gmail.com" and drop your statics plus name, age , location, telephone number, email address or bb pin if any.

P.S pls note that we are not offering you immediate employment and you are not expected to pay ffee(s)

i dont like the idea of sending pictures.

Ranti Fadahunsi: Abegi, what is with the virgin, non-virgin thingy? Virgins are people who have placed a value on themselves and will not allow just any stupid guy to deposit their sperm inside them, put them at risk of contracting STDs, or spending the last 2 days before their period wondering if one stupid guy has gotten them pregnant and they have to go for abortions because the stupid guy will either deny the pregnancy or deny his responsibility. Virgins are people who VALUE their body and peace of mind ABOVE 5 minutes of pleasure. If you have a problem with that, then please don't go near them. There are many of us guys who respect such ladies that respect themselves (we know that they most probably have no STDs, have not done any abortions and they are disciplined people that can withstand peer pressure and remain principled. Sleeping with a virgin is not a difficult thing of done at the right time (after you have put a ring on it). And it is a wonderful thing for the guy and the babe. Afterall, non-virgins were once virgins!!!! Please, if you have any inferiority complex because you cannot discipline yourself (only animals have no ability to discipline themselves and want to have sex every time they are in the mood), then go find girls/guys that fit into your shoes and stop disrespecting virtuous virgins!!!! Pshewwwww!!!!!

thank you!

fellis: But why is it only victims that are sharing their experiences? The armed robbers that are on NL should also share their robbing experiences na.

killed it!

TV01: Erm...he's not her boyfriend

(Although I must confess I'm having difficulty classifying this one. It's not, FWB, it's not jump-off, it's not one-night stand. Oya young people, please help an old-timer out!)

N&I

fling?

shymmex: Why should I settle for less - when I can go for the best?

I love educated, classy, and beautiful women.

and THEY love rich guys!

fluid26: I agree with u on d point raised. However, I've one q? 4 u dear. If d girl in q? Shares ur school of thought, why does d subject bother her to d extent of probably cancelling the trip altogether? Doesn't it present her as someone who missed out on something she shouldnt have overlooked?

not at all

SimonAndal: What the french kinda demon possessed Ini Edo?

i wonder

pufectskin: I drive an Avalon now, but its not mine and sometimes a humongous suv and
peeps look at me like who is d skinny little chic in dese cars.
I am lookin to buy an SUV cos of d awful conditions of Nigerian roads,
but what suv can a 5ft6 56kg weighing girl like me buy that wouldn't look too huge?

Thanks in advance!

wat? I luv seein skinny or smallish girls in huge cars. I'm one myself

Mayflowa: Seriously? U wanna be a model? IMO, 67kg is cool. But try morning and everning exercise and don't eat late night food

it depends on her height actually.

Dextra: My weight. Moving from 67kg to 60kg. That is my only challenge for now. 7kg!

funny, am trying to move from 60 to 65kg, its bn one hell of a challlenge

niddamugu: It is God that grants journey mercies. Even a plane on first test drive from factory could crash....

so, u should walk into a death trap and then wait on God for mercies?? Y dont u also go lie in d middle of d expressway!