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oyinda.:
i guess nigerian women are desperate then. very desperate bunch
and yea i will be going to naija to look for a husband once my desperation time comes as well

sucks to be a Nigerian woman i tell ya

Help is here. . . . .Change your nationality.
So many countries to choose from. . . .Togo, Congo, Somalia and Gabon.

dayokanu:
If we change defeders, Like van Buyten and demi to Inter Milan yesterday, the scores would have been like 7-0 in favor of bayern

I disagree.
Bayern were toothless upfront apart from Arjen Robben. . . .Bayern wouldn't have scored. Y'all problem was scoring not defending.
Robben was excellent but he had no support or he tried to do everything himself - a la Cristiano in last season's final.

Dr Kitaun:
Him and Seun dey do ban the banner exercise? E be like say Muki sef follow join d fight!

Are you serious?

oyinda.:
ok. what's your problem with polygamous marriages anyways?
u should be happy about it shouldn't you? you're a guy!!

I am indifferent. I only bring it up when people say Nigerian women are not desperate.

i'm not currently living in naija and i don't plan to go there to look for husband so maybe I can't relate to 90% of what your saying. anyways adieu

It's just a matter of time.

dayokanu:
That Central defence on Van Buyten and Demichelis is Harakiri, Per Mertersacker is another error prone defender.

I would say we should terminate van Buytens contact, Get Skrtl from Liverpool, Get Sami Khedira and Dzeko, Sell Klose and Gomez, Offload, Lell, Gorlitz, Ottl

Don't blame the central defence. . . . . .Inter Milan had better players on the pitch. End of!!
Apart from Robben, i cannot think of any position where any Bayern Munich player is superior to the equivalent in Inter.

Bayern kept the ball well and made some nice moves throughout but they had no good striker upfront with a good link-up play.
There's always a next season. Take heart liver.

chamotex:
Really? Why? Is there something I'm missing?
All these PDP shenanigans sef

How many bottles have you knocked tonight?
Lest i forget. . . . .Have you offered your condolences to DayoNazi?

He needs your hugs o.

GenBuhari:
Buhari achieved more in less than 2years than OBJ did in his 12 years total leadership.

He improved indescipline and crime.

Reduced corruption, by imprisoning 600 corrupt poiticians and businessmen, whilst geniune effort was made to recover their loot.

Held out for a better deal form IMF

Even OBJ himself will slap his cocksuckers on this thread.
How can any sane human being compare OBJ to the good works Buhari/Idiagbon regime achieved.
That was the only government that fought corruption in all levels, unlike the useless OBJ that set up EFCC to bully his political rivals.

chamotex:
@ Akinalabi

Dont worry about me . . . . share the money among the rest.

Your name nor dey there before, na.
So what money are you talking about?

oyinda.:
aki n 2face are celebrities. marrying him is definitely not desperation. maybe just silly young girls looking for attention or obsessed with celebrities.

Is 2face married?
I am saying you girls are taking turns to bear his kids and you are spewing marriage

i dun think women trapped in abusive marriages are loving it. usually the guy wasn't abusive when she married him.

Joke of the century.

and a lot of these women opt for divorces anyways. divorce rate is high for a reason.
or maybe the marriage was forced on her.  i'm talking about single women in a city/ developed city setting. not villages or sharia land where young women/girls are FORCED to get married to old alhajis by their greedy parents. these are the kinds of women that have no choice. i'm not in that situation so I can't relate to them.

Forced into marriage ma foot. . . . .
One would think there are no polygamous set-ups in Nigerian cities like Lagos, Abuja and PH.
Fact remains there are more polygamous fam in the cities than anywhere else in Nigeria and these 'wives' are all educated.

hahaha iyanda is a irresponsible git because she refuse to settle for less  believe me when I say there are plenty women like her!!!
and i guess oprah is another irresponsible git in your opinion? hahah

Oprah is a non-Nigerian. I dunno why her name popped up in this debate.
Marriage has no worth/value where Oprah comes from - it's different where Funmi comes from.

if she's very pretty n sophisticated enough, yes she has the option although it's limited. happens all the time.
nobody girls who marry into rich families. she just has to work for it and go for the guy. and be ready for the worst 

this is what I would call desperation:
http://www.nytimes.com/2010/05/09/fashion/weddings/09WILLIS.html
but she's a rare case. most other women would rather remain single than settle for such a guy.

Women nor get choice. . . . .

Ibime:
From what my elders tell me, Buhari was better than OBJ.

Im sure the first generation guys were also better.

Infact, OBJ was one of the worst.

I remember that even under IBB, my state Governor, Governor Adeleye (Rivers State) was sacked for inflating his budget by common N100,000. . . . am not saying IBB is better, but lets not lose sight that we are living in the most corrupt times in Nigeria presently.

Letz call a spade a SPADE.
OBJ is the worst that ever ruled Nigeria.

~Bluetooth:
i wonder if you read what i wrote before you replied.i will give you another chance before i answer you.i was referring to when he was head of state not a president.which kind olodo be this one  ?

So because he left power when he was head of state means he is the best leader Nigeria ever had?
Cheese n Rice. . . . . .So Abdulsalaam is not far behind cos he relinquished power for a democratic President if we go by your logic.
Abeg, find something else to spew. You are not kicking knowledge here.

~Bluetooth:
you are too sentimenatl and sound frustrated.how much was petrol  when obj was head of state and compare it with that of ibb.he was the only head of state that transferrred power to a democratically elected president because he believes in democracy even though he was a soldier,a feat ibb couldnt achieve.

You are spewing balderdash. . . .
OBJ himself was a democratic president, why wouldn't he transfer to power to another democratic president? Do you reason with ur testes?
Then you have the guts to ask what the price of petrol was in 93? It was less than N22 under IBB/Abacha. OBJ pushed it to N65.

you forgot the debt-relief package even though he inherited them from ibb and abacha regime.he proposed good reforms as a president,i dont know if you know about them but all i can say is that he may not be perfect;he was indeed better than those almajiris that have ruined this country for so long.

OBJ is not better than any figure head that has ruled Nigeria.
He is the worst. Under his regime, there were 40 million Nigerian youths without a job.
Is that the mark of a good leader? What about the various tribal clashes in his administration? The Sharia nonsense? The Odi massacre?

oyinda.:
lol. my opinion remains unswayed.
no woman will agree to marry a man she doesn't care for or want unless he's rich.

What about the millions trapped in abusive marriages in every corner of the country and are loving it?
They don't count too? What about the ones that are very comfortable in a polygamous set-up. Why aren't they flying the SINGLEHOOD flag?
U gotta a lot to learn, kiddo!!!

if society asks questions then she has an option to marry a rich guy she doesn't love.

She doesn't have that option. Rich guys are sought after by all and sundry.
No single woman in Naija today has that ultimate option to do this or that. . . . .The tide has changed.

or marry a poor guy she loves. but settling for a hunchback of notredame out of desperation. puhlease most would rather stay single.

A certain woman married Aki(the Naija midget in Nollywood).
Una too desperate!!!

but i think nowadays in naija, it's becoming less of a social stigma. esp for educated and independent women. look at funmi iyanda

Funmi Iyanda? That irresponsible git of a woman is your prime example?
I am sorry for you. After losing her womb to Segun Odegbami's seeds, you think any sane man would want to put Funmi in his house?

so plz stop belittling women. we're definitely not that desperate.

I hear you. . . . . .
Yet, y'all keep taking turns to mother 2face's babies.
Last time i heard, una don reach 14.

naijamini:
Ahh - even when we cry we can still see. Okay here it is  - nobody is worse than IBB, not even Abacha. If you want me to rank the three of them it is (Worst, Worse, Bad): IBB, Abacha, OBJ ok. Now go play in the sand since the job is done

You are a miserable sod.
Nigerians were not buying petrol @ N70 per litre under any of the military rulers.
OBJ failed astronomically even though he had the backing of the international community cos he operated under a democratic government.

He took Nigeria 40 steps backwards than his predecessors.
Electricity supply was shittier in his regime and there were more tribal clashes under his stewardship.
He is a disgrace to himself, his family and the entire Yoruba race.

GenBuhari:
OBJ is one of worst presidents ever!!!

There you all go again, you guys are surely on the pay-roll of Obj for propaganda, u keep repeatind te same statement as if it is your script.



12 years total in power with 8 uninterrupted years of record oil prices yet he left us with:

Poor Electricity
Rising crime and decaying security
out -of - control corruption
decaying health service
decaying educational system
decaying roads and infratructure
No national airline
He even picked a corrupt leader of his choice to replace him.

What planet are you posters from, if not on Obj's payroll to provide his propaganda

Buhari achieve more in 20 months than Obj achieved in 12years of leadership.

OBJ is the most useless President Nigeria ever had.
All the military dictators including IBB, Abacha and Buhari are miles better than OBJ.
He is a disgrace to the Yoruba race and i hope he dies of Ebola in the coming months.

oyinda.:
lol i hear u o. sowing your. . . uh?

of course they don't wanna be single. but they'd rather stay single than settle for what they don't want ie sauron n da hunchbacks.

What they don't want? Who gave you the impression they have a choice here?
It's a social stigma for any woman to be unmarried in Naija - The society will always ask questions.

chaircover:
Ok since we are it I better say my own now, Who knows someone might be able to help

There has been no light in Aradagun Badagry since April 2009; It is over a year now since the area has been in complete darkness  

Something to do with a broken down transformer. I understand that tenants and Landlords in the area put money towards this to have it fixed, but it only worked for 3 weeks before breaking down again & since then its been total darkness.

No light since April 2009? Is that fecking possible?
U guys don't have a councillor or a LG Chairman?  I would be petrol-bombing those useless Naija politicians if i am a resident in this area.
What the heck?

mama-gee:
[color=deeppink]^^WTF! Taiye Taiwo?

Nah, I don't date guys like that!

I date sexy guys.[/color]

Sexy men like Taribo West?

mama-gee:
[color=deeppink]It takes 58 seconds for me.[/color]

Mama-gee, it takes 3 years for you.
U almost killed yourself when Taiye Taiwo left you.

oyinda.:
lol. r u saying wives have not found you yet sofar?

I don't want to be found yet
Still sowing ma wild oats.

lol where r u hiding? better go and look for wife.

When i am ready, wives will find me.

wow. even the albino and hunchback men are too good and scarce for single women? the end of the world is coming!

They are very scarce!!!

i don't know anybody's personal life on this forum so i cannot tell u.

Even if you know, you won't find anyone who wants to remain single.
Only women around the neighborhood of 40 years of age rant about such and that is because they have EXPIRED.

Caspery:
Hi Nlranders,

How long does it really take to get over an EX. This is someone that you truly loved so dearly and made your stomach churn just at the thought of him or her. You built your world around him or her, thought it would turn out be 'a happily ever-after ending'. . But somehow along the line, you either realized you weren't meant for each other, or due to growing-apart, or a cheating partner, or for whatever reasons that you had to let that other half go.

If you have recently or in the past had a break-up with an EX( whether you were the breaker or breakee), did it take weeks, months or years? Please share your experience.

Almost immediately!!!

oyinda.:
haha u are a lost case
u better go and find wife before it's too late.

Wives will find me.
Goldfish has no hiding place.

my immediate environment is not lagos. so no i'm not familiar with your yeye ideas.
and if it's true that they just want to get married and don't care who they get married to, they will all be married by now don't you think?

They just want to get married and even with that, MEN are scarce.
The men available to be married don't want liabilities as wives. . . .

IMO there are many who will rather stay single than settle for less.

Rather stay single?
Show me 4 examples on this forum. . . .

Wahala90:
Meaning What. Are you still "for" or "against". Make us know.

Mourinho is getting there. . . . . .He proved his critics wrong last night but it takes more than 2 UCL titles to make one a genius.
He is almost there anyways.

Akolawole:
Le Chacalllllll
1) Me milking from yesterday's event. Everyone knows my stand on anything Jose or Didier. Go and read my contributions all over again. Of course i pointed out that there's no coach that is a living genius, literally from dictionary meaning of Genuis.

U said Jose was no genius and he was no fluke.
Go to page 2 of this thread, i also made it clear Jose was a decent brilliant manager but he is no genius.
Where we disagreed was when i said SAF is a genius and you felt otherwise. . . . .

2) Managers drop form I am hearing that for the first time

Of course managers drop form. . . .
12 months ago, Pep Guardiola couldn't do any wrong. He destroyed every team put in front of him and Barca fans felt they had seen the messiah.
This season, he wasn't really at his best and he was knocked out by Jose Mourinho.

oyinda.:
ok u are sounding very ridiculous.
you better go and find a wife to marry now before it's too late. those small girls hanging around u are just trying to get to your wallet.

I am not complaining - why should you?

open your eyes wide. no young girl want to marry a yeye old broke man

And yet these decent girls are ready to be 4th and 5th wives of any man willing to marry them.
You seem lost or ignorant to your immediate environment. Go to Lagos and see what's happening these days?
Naija women just want to marry - it does not matter if the suitor is single/married/broke/hump-backed/albino.

71 years old ko, 132 ni.

Siddon dere.
Maybe na Tafa Balogun you go still marry.

Akolawole:
This officially end this thread.

Thanks to all the actors

Akolawole, why are you milking off last night's events. . . . U clearly told us Jose was no genius and he was no fluke.
To get things in perspective, Dayokanu started this thread based on the events that happened around then when Jose was failing in Europe.
Managers peak and drop form, players peak and drop form. . . .12 months ago, Guardiola was the best, 12 months later--Jose is being hailed the best.
Who knows what will happen in 12 months time? It could be Wenger or even Benitez.

eyoniggar:
How can you post something as dumb as this?

You are a consummate retard. . . . .
A useless geriatric beast of burden with little or no brain cells in an empty cranium casing.

Who wud be seeing Akin in person  if he decides to place the names in a cup?
Besides we all know how politics on NL is far more worse than the one of PDP, so why suggest voting?

It's Akin's money. . . . . .He can do whatever he likes with his money abi na your papa give am the money?
If he decides to do PDP with his own ballot, so shall it be!!!

Akin you be big boy, pay for your mistake by upping the amount to 3 hundie, any1 of d winners that
disputes  should be evicted from the money sharing party.

See his mouth like $300.
Anuofia Valerie. . . . . .The poof needs the money so he can afford his pedophiliac moves in Yaba Mr Biggs.
Ewu Ara!!!

oyinda.:
a guy's prime for marriage is around 26-31. while a girls prime is 23-28. are you sure you are still in your prime?

Who's talking about PRIME for marriage?
I am talking PRIME as a man. . . . . . A guy can marry at anytime. . . .From 17-71.

i'm not talking about guy's prime when they make the most money ie mid forties because by then they should have already been married and have a family.
if you are in your forties looking for wife, unless you are really rich or somthing, it is a smart idea to look for someone not too far from your age.  unless u are just looking for casual dating or girl to sleep with. which is a different case.

A man has the flexibility to date any age group.
He can go for older women or his age-group or even younger women.

so can  you plz clarify what u mean by dating. do u mean serious r/s or just fling?

All of the above, ma'am.

and the thing abt menopause. that's just messed up  . unless u want 10 kids (ie one kid per year) then the woman is fine!!
and besides, the guy is older as well. not exactly all that desirable for long term r/s (unless he makes a lot of money).

It seems you have not realised evolution has pushed menopause further down. . .
The average age is now mid 30s instead of mid 40s like women encountered it few decades ago.

HNIC:
You won't give up this gibberish you have been yarning.
Brazil attacked from beginning to the end

U musta seen this game on a transistor radio.

After losing an arguement, u start to type nonsense,wher in my post did I say hitting the bar was a shot on target?I only said Kleberson who in my opinion, had an average game, had a shot that hit the bar, I never called it shot on target.

Shut up your rotten mouth. . . . .U said Brazil had 6-7 shots on target in the first half then u added Kleberson had a crack on the bar.
U are thus implying Kleberson's crack on the bar is one of the 6-7 shots on target you were fibbing about.

Who is arguing with you over whether Henry was useful or Maradona's protege?
You claimed we were negative in nthe final and I told you Henry had 2 shots on target in the first few minutes and we led 1-0 at half time.

4-5-1 is a negative formation for a manager that had 5 strikers in his squad.
Arsenal were negative. Your goal came against the run of play when Eboue dived and Campbell scored from the resulting freekick.
The goal did not come via Arsenal dominance. . . . . .

You then claimed Henry's shot was blocked(ridiculous) and the other one was. . . .
I can't even remember.Please, go and watch the match again, You must be confusing it with another

Sharrrrap . . . . .stop being confuzzled.
Henry did not cop a clear-cut chance. . . . .They were just huffin n puffing nonsense he does in big games.

I wonder what to blame it on.
Lehmann must have been sent off as soon as the ref blew the whistle for the match to start,abi?
We switched to 4-4-2 when we attacked for the 20 odd minutes that it was 11 vs 11.

I saw no 4-4-2 in that game before/after Lehmann was sent off.
Wenger packed the midfield like he did against Juventus, Real Madrid, Villareal in the games before the final.
4-4-2 ma arse. . . . . .Why make transitions between 4-5-1 and 4-4-2 at all if Wenger wasn't negative?

That was we had the chances that we had.
Your spin theorie hit a brick wall tonight.
Plenty claptrap.

This boy is a goat.
Henry's chances you were talking about were from dead-ball situations.
2 corner kicks and one indirect freekick and you call that attacking football. GAYnners can't get their facts right for once in their miserable lives,
Useless fans, useless manager, useless club.

bandely:
Politics don set in. Should i start a campaign. Lol

It's not politics. . . . .
Just because your post was the first correct prediction does not mean you are better than the others. . . .
Others might have seen the thread LATE. . . . .That KEY FACTOR cannot be ignored.

akinalabi:
We have 2 options.
$200 and we share

or
$100 for badely

Do a raffle draw. . . . .
Write the names of the predictors in a paper, place em in a cup and ask anyone around you to choose one.
The chosen one wins $100. . . .

Better still. . . . .
Put their names in a poll.
Let Nairalanders vote and choose a winner amongst the SIX members.

RecentPost:
Guys when is the second leg??

Next month @ Camp Nou.
Ribery will feature then.

Eastbay:
At this level,Rafael da Silva is at par with the best right back in Europe.No Champions League medal.Shall we say John O'Shea is equal ti Philip Lahm as well since they both have lost finals?

O'Shea won UCL in 2007/8.
At least he participated in the games that got Man Utd to the final.

How a fully-developed human being says a tie decided on away-goals is humiliation is beyond me.
Next thing he will pull out stats about the tie.But when Zenit was giving them the annual pole-axing from the rear,the stats were nowhere to be seen.
I wan laugh die when I saw Mario Gomez entering the game.Even DK musta felt embarrased.

Dayo is a wet asswipe. . . . .Ignore his rants.
4-4 scoreline can never ever qualify as HUMILIATION. . . . .His manager gave a proper assessment yesterday and i respect Van Gaal's HUMILITY.

Eastbay:
The best right back in Europe doesn't have a champions league title,yet pensioneers like Neville and Giggs have two.
DK,abeg,go sleep.

Neville and Giggs are even far-fetched.
Gerard Pique(United trainee) has TWO medals and Phillip Lahm(the bestest full back in Europe) has NONE