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Happy birthday, may God be with you and protect you in all your endeavours.

praizblog:
in a viral video shared by gossip mill, This pretty lady was seen eating Roasted Rats, in the comment section some people said shes eating roasted bush rat while some said she's playing with Ebola.

See photos below

Gist From praize news


Source ; http://www.praizenews.com/pretty-lady-pictured-eating-roasted-rats-call-barbecue/


Cc lalasticlala fynestboi

If I say some people too like meat e go be like insult, ask my TIV people.

Correctgist:
Nollywood actress and singer Timaya’s ex, Empress Njamah, has opined that an ex who wasn’t good for her, is definitely not good for a friend.

She said this in an interview with Potpourri.
According to her: “An ex remains an ex and true friends remain true friends and we ride into the future. .

We don’t have any business with the past. Ex! If he was not good for me, why would I recommend him to my friend?”


More below:


https://Zenithnaija.com

If you say he is not good for you, where you good for him is another question ooh?

If the man goes to meet another woman now you will say he cheated , for you to open leg now turn problem.
If not for the violent aspect the man no get issues.

You just remember Say na today dem born you.
Happy birthday to you.

delkuf:
Please I need your advice. Is so happened that I know this lady for years now. we are good friends. But the problem is, I know that as a Christian we can't really get married because she is a Muslim. So I have been trying to keep the relationship on just us being friends, even though I love her and I know She has this little feelings for me. If I had been serious, I know we would have gotten married or close to that, but I keep avoiding her and sometimes I do it on purpose.

Now, where I get really confused is that, any time i pray for God's will in marriage, she keeps coming to my mind. This is not infatuation or something. It has been happening over and over again. I know God also talk to us through giving us this deep impression in our heart.

It was so deep on day that I told the Holy Spirit that I can't marry her. I spoke with my pastor this week concerning this issue, and he said it is not possible for God to tell us to marry a Muslim and this thing keeps coming. am really confuse. because of this, have not been praying concerning marriage.

PLEASEEEEEE, I need Christians to comment on this.

My brother your sister can’t be elk you that.
She is a Muslim, and that does not mean she is not a child of God.
If truly the Holy Spirit spoke to you, follow your heart, but before you do try and know if the Spirit is speaking to her too.

Mcpadosky:
Good morning my fellow romance landers, please I want you all to pardon my grammatical errors because am not too good in writing.

I work as a project coordinator east covering the entire south east and south south in one of the leading advertising, promotion and marketing agency Nigeria.

So I deal mostly with women, beautiful ones because of the nature of my work and every woman wants to identify with the boss for favour.

4 years ago I met a girl in one of the south east state and she was even the person that gave me green light and one thing led to the other we started dating but my mum never likes this girl but she can't tell me her reasons not until I gave my younger graduate sister a work to work as a supervisor and no one knows that she is my sister, so when she sat with other girls numbering more than 200 because the project is big and a beverage activation in one of leading breweries. Girls started their normal gossip that was when my sister found out that my so called sweetheart is a heavy runs girl, but am not always around because of work and her school is a bit far from town and she leaves in the school hostel.

When my sister told my mum, she told her that her spirit never accepted the girl and am very stubborn so mum is just being careful not to offend me. I later confronted her but she started crying but since all this while I never suspected her due to the love I have for her.

After Six months, my office had Issues, because of that she broke up with me, although the issue never affected me that much because I have some investments which she doesn't know that sustained me throughout the trying times. Not more than 4 months, we bounced back and we got more contracts from multinational companies, when she heard that we are back she wanted to come back which after pleading, even from her mum I accepted her back, Because am like the bread of her family, I gave her brother work as a supervisor and her sister and the brothers wife is one of my brand ambassadors.

Something happened again last year I broke up with her, although we're still friends and have sex on some occasions and am still close to her family. She wanted us to come back which am still considering and she still works for me in a double project, one she earns #75,000 per month even as she doesn't have her results ready because she is yet to do her NYSC and I lied to my office because all my workers documents in my region is with me. The second work she works as a supervisor which I always cover her up even when am not around my city rep always covers her up because of me and she earns around #81,000 minus allowance. I can't say everything I have done for this girl.

Last month, one of my distance guy called me and said that his girlfriend works for me I said wow which of them she mentioned my girlfriend, I was surprised and I kept my cool. Then told me that they said that am her oga and am very good to her and the family, I said ok, he now asked me if the girl is good him that no one is bad or good that it all depends on what he wants.

My brother when will you get sense? If you don’t have borrow from people .
Am not saying you should quarrel with all her people and her but you should dissociate from having anything serious to do with her.
For your friend to call you saying she is his girlfriend, what other proof do you need to chase the Olosho from your life.
Abeg ho borrow sense and act wisely.

damiloladuke:
Osun State Governor, Rauf Aregbesola, has implored Nigerians to be hopeful on the plans of President Buhari to build a new Nigeria and that the pains that are being experienced at the moment are just the price to pay for a better tomorrow.

Aregbesola, who stated this at the weekend, while hosting the Committee on South-West Youth and Women Sensitisation Programme, led by wife of the Deputy Governor of Katsina State, Hajia Mariya Buhari Munir, appealed to Nigerians to be patient with the Buhari-led administration.


According to a report by The Guardian, He told the group that was on a courtesy visit to him that despite the challenges Nigerians are faced with, there is still light at the end of the tunnel because they have a president who can be trusted.
Aregbesola said:

“For whoever that has grievances with the present Federal Government, I want you to know that it is not always easy to correct an already damaged situation. It is obvious that there are challenges and pains, but I want us to see it as the challenge of building a new Nigeria.

“We should accept the hardships we are facing now as the price to pay for building a new Nigeria of our dreams; that country where everything will work the way it ought to is what our president is working hard to achieve. We shall get there and we shall all be better for it.

“We cannot give up on Nigeria at this time, we are almost there, let’s have faith in our president; we can do it and I know it is possible. Nigeria is redeemable and the process has already started with the present administration.

The governor said the rot inherited from the past administration could not be hurriedly fixed in one or two years, explaining that the nation would have experienced serious doom if the present administration had not berthed when it did.

He described Buhari as a partner in progress and a pillar of strength and support to many states that could not finance themselves, citing the various forms of assistance given to them in the form of bailouts, the Paris Club refund and others, which helped them to find their feet.

https://lailasnews.com/accept-hardship-as-price-for-building-a-new-nigeria-aregbesola/

lalasticlala

Many of us should suffer for the few so that Naija will be better abi? My prayer is that you and all your family members and unborn generations to come always have sorrows that you have made many Nigerians go through.

praxs:
Its not yet confirmed but we are suspecting pregnancy. I am 28yrs of age and my girl is 22years. We started dating not too long. We made love sometime last month and she missed her perioed. We used strip and it shows she is pregnant. We will go for a proper test today to confirm. Now here are the issues disturbing me:

A: She wants abortion but I don't want that: she's a student, hence keeping it will be complicated for her.

B: I have been thinking of ways to convince her but she's adamant, abortion is the best for her. Please more ideas for me on how to convince her. And if I successfully convince her to keep the pregnancy, how do we go about this?

C: Both of us come from a very strick family.

D: I am still thinking of how to report myself to her family. I could end up in police station tho. Do I go straight to see her parents (suicidal), do I go tell their pastor so we could find a way to break it to her parents. Do I go tro her parents siblings?

What is just the best way to report myself?

I need your advice's urgently please, coz we are doing the test this afternoon.

My brother as her a simple question if her parents aborted her, will she have been around to take this decision?
I know it will be difficult, but she has to keep the baby. She will always be grateful she kept the baby in some years to come.
Ye deed has been don then face your fear.

tobillionaire:
HND1 marketing students of Yaba College of Technology came out of the exam hall today lamenting the kind of questions they saw in the ongoing first semester exams.

many were complaining bitterly that they saw what they were not taught and hence couldn't answer the question the best way they can.

see picture below....






mynd44

The lecturer is testing time value of money, he just used Davido and Chioma just to move with trend.

madjam:
She said:

Lalasticlala, Mynd44

More @: http://trendinghelm..com/2018/07/if-i-date-man-for-3months-and-i-dont.html

https://alexis.lindaikejisblog.com/photos/shares/5b5848728458f.jpg

Olosho continue

Justhere:
never you go to the park to pick that boy
never you open the door of you home to him too
the best thing you can do for him is to give him again exact t-fare from abuja to any park in lagos without including pure water money
lastly[b], never you divorce your wife. let her choice btw you or family but always give to her family what you wish not what them want.[/b]

I agree with what you said except the bolded ones, the wife is not different from her family members, its a family thing based on the way they are brought up.
In the part of divorce its always a last resort especially when one of the parties does not want to shift grounds and life is under threat. So if he is facing any of this, better he comes out from this alive than die in it.

apeleone:
Divorce should not be your next line of action,call your wife to order. She has to choose between building a new family with you or sticking to her biological parents. For your in-law make provision for him to leave over the weekend with a standing order that visitors/family can be welcomed on invitation.

how do you call a wife to order that insults and threathens you because you refuse to pick the brother that came to abuja without your consent?
Sincerely the young man gave room for all tis and he should close the door to them all including his wife.
They want to rep where they ever sowed.
If it where them will they tolarate it?

Before we advice we should able to know what she actually did or what transpired before the guy ran for his life.

Gidilagoon:
Pls house, I don’t know if am being stupid or not man enough but I just have to share this with you guys just for an advice.. it might be long as I really want to express myself pls.

I have been dating this girl going to 2years now and we are planning to settle down probably next year. I have known this girl for a very long time because we have dated before when I just got admitted to university but we ended after short period.

So After few years that we’av graduated, we met again and fortunately we were both still single ,so we decided to start dating again and this time we are more serious and planning for future, I realized she must have dated many guys when I left her because it was a long time ago, so I decided to change her phone number just to avoid any connection with any guy from her past since am planning my future with her now, but after awhile I noticed some of these guys still chat her on FB and Instagram and she replies, and one even sent her money and I was totally mad at her but later we resolved it.

So back to the main issue that just came up recently . I don’t know what took me to her Facebook profile and I decided to go through her messages, I noticed one of the guy she claimed to be her uncle was a man friend she has known from the past, this guy Is married with 2kids living in US. I noticed my girl sent her nude to him and they were having sex chat, so I acted like I didn’t see anything and I invited her to my house the next day and tell her what I saw, then she started crying, immediately I gave her 3 hot slap and asked her to leave my apartment but she wouldn’t leave but kept crying on the floor and said she’s ready to swear with death if such ever happened again, that she was just stupid.

Well I dragged her out of my house, and since then all her family from different places have been calling me pleading on her behalf except her Mom and Dad which she can’t tell about it. I noticed she has changed her phone number and delete her Facebook account after what happened, but I told her it’s already late when her aunty called me...

Honestly I still love her, because she’s the only girl I ever fell for but won’t I look stupid if I accept all the pleading and continue with her? And can such girl make a good wife? She’s too vulnerable, too emotional and she has dated a lot of guys in the past, so it scares the hell out of me to settle down with her, so that man no go die untimely death..

Her aunty said she wants to come and meet me this weekend but I told her I will get back to her. Do you think I should let her come?

Pls mature men in the house don’t abuse me, just advice your guy abeg.

My brother sincerely you did not act properly by slapping her, you should not be violent in settling issues when the other party is not violent.
What she did was a behavioural issues to offend you so you too use behaviour to let her go.
Sincerely anyone advising you to take her back when you have the opportunity to let her go now does not like you.
My people say dem no dey learn left hand for old age.
She will never change, the only thing she will do is that she will be more careful in doing what she does .
Any man or woman that cheats once will always continue to cheat no matter what he or she promises you that it will not happen again.
My brother move on and be happy so you don't remain was in all your life when you marry her.

download this App from playstore plant snap it will help

BlackAfrican:
Hello NLs,
I'm too emotionally drained to make sound judgement so I need your contribution on this issue.

I found out recently that my gf has been living a secret life online. My findings suggest that she may be cheating on me... Why? She's been communicating with an ex that practically broke her heart in the past...

She's also frequently communicating with another guy on Facebook who has repeatedly called her my love, honey, sweetheart and other romantic pet names and she has reciprocated most times.... At a point, the guy said he was naked and waiting for her at home... And she said she's coming... I guess they took the conversation offline...

She's also been chatting with several other guys... the ones I saw on FB indicate they're either asking her out or she's outrightly flirting with them...

On WhatsApp, only God knows the content and direction of her chat with other guys...

The painful part is I found out she's been having this online/offline double life by accident... That's a story for another day...

When I confronted her with my findings, she's been claiming she has nothing with any of the guys and that I should forgive her for hiding her online life from me...

I feel betrayed... I doubt if she'll ever change... I just want to move on...

What should I do?

Brother you have been betrayed and wil always be betrayed by her.
Now that you have caught her, she will be more careful in doing what she is doing.
I tell you , she will never change she will go deeper and you will have a more broken heart.
You can move on now that is fresh and early without strings attached.
That’s an average Nigerian woman for you, never satisfied.

Rachelsblog:
A Lady named Faith Ekine has dragged lots of avoidable backlash on herself after she shared some photos of herself, Everything was fine until you see the makeup face...

And while her fans reacted, telling to take the post off, replied that its Lady Gaga's Style.. To think that she even stepped out with it tho.

See below!


Gossip From Ebiwali---
http://www.ebiwalisgossip.com/2018/07/makeup-or-madness-lady-shows-off-her.html


Cc; Lalasticlala

Why are you people worried about how she looks, abi Na una face?

Olalan:
Marrying a faithful wife in this age seems like a hurclelan task.

My brother for you to see it ehn you have to be blind.

Madlov3:
Hi! For the sake of anonymity, i decided to use this new account.

I met this girl last December, but we officially started dating in January, I love her and I think she loves me too.Everything is going so well and all things been equal, i may pop the question next year December.
The problem started when I told her to come spend last weekend with me and honestly I regretted that.

After going to pick her on friday evening, i told her there’s isn’t food at home and that i was thinking of cooking spaghetti.
Getting home, it occurred to me that i have never tasted her food so I decided to let her do the cooking.(NB:I cook! like am a very good cook) so after some minutes in the kitchen, she signaled me to come eat but damn!the food was a colossal disaster! It was so overcooked and tasteless. I was not happy that evening and I complained about it.
The next day was a Saturday! She prepared yam and veggies but that was another disaster, the yam was salty and the veggies were also so overcooked. They were no longer greenies but brown.

Another thing i also noticed about her is is throughout our 3 days together, she was always moody! I really don’t think it’s because of the food disaster because my complain lasted for just some minutes.Am still trying to figure out why someone will choose to be moody and sad for no tangible reason.
Last weekend with her was a depressing one for me and right now, am seriously rethinking popping the Question next year because i don’t want to be an unhappy married man.
I really don’t know what to do

If the only problem she has is not been a good cook, and she is ready to learn, you can teach her and make her a good cook, it will not take much time.

Secretgistblog:
A Nigerian lady has revealed how she surprised her husband by giving him N500,000 from the money he has been giving to her since January this year.

Wished most women will reason the way you did, we will have more happy homes.

Claireshan1:
no that's her husband

She have two beautiful children a boy and girl

Hmm. a you talk am ooh. o be me.[url]

Claireshan1:
no that's her husband

She have two beautiful children a boy and girl

Hmm. a you talk am ooh. o be me.[/url]

Claireshan1:
no that's her husband

She have two beautiful children a boy and girl

Hmm na you talk am ooh, no be me.

NwaOhafia:
Like Kemi Adeosun, Like the old banjo in aso rock.

The head looks like what someone crop and put on someones neck with ms word.

The both hands have difference colours.

The face? Same old face.


These people really need to have been in the show, Cosby show

Na reflection of the sun cause the colour separation .

Johnnyessence:
Woman Who Said Even Though She Is Ugly Her Vagina Is Tighter Than Most Beautiful Nigerian Girls Shows Off And Kisses Her Oyinbo Boyfriend.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NZE2QQCQGus.

seems like she hired the man for the video.
see as him dey look like maga.

horpeyemmi66:
No bashings.
No religious sentiments.
Mature Comments Please.

I have a girlfriend who I love so much. It's been more than a year now... We've had the ups and downs which makes every relationship peculiar in it's own way. Everything I do, is been done out of love. Not because I want to have sex with her. I have shown her, I am not with her because of sex. If it were that, I'd have left... And then she can say all men are the same. For her, I have done what I haven't done for my mom or sister, not even a third(I'm sorta ashamed even adding this, but it is what it is).

The issue is this, I want to make sure she is totally mine. But whenever I mention sex, she'd tell me not to think about that, that it isn't within her capacity, blah blah blah. Yet, she claims to love me... Frustratingly annoying. I find it difficult to cheat on her; my conscience is overly active I guess.

At other times, my sexual energy towards her just wanes... Because it's more or less futile. I just force myself to kiss and make out with her to keep the relationship going.

On the flip side, I have a friend, a lady who wants me to date her, extremely rich girl... Even tells me to accompany her to the UK, France sometimes, I just wave it off. She calls me to tell me she loves me(which I laugh off), takes initiative, gets me things I don't even need and a lot more. I am not the materialistic freak. I can't double date and I can't get down with some other person and act as though all is well. I just don't tick that way.

We make out and all of that, but at the mention of sex, she becomes moody, telling me it's not honorable.

What's your proffered solution?

many brother, another man dey fuvk am.

Jamariwolff:
I just came back from church and the first thing I did was to off my clothes and touch my body.
I dont think I can ever control this urge, why did God leave me with this desire?

Went through your profile seems we are not far apart.
The picture u have there is quite pretty.
Hope to hook up one day.

You never get husband, you Dey talk of the one you wan marry!
Abeg get a man first.