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Seahawk:
If you need me to explain that simple post to you, no wonder you think the rosy poster is making sense.

Read what you wrote initially, it makes no comprehensive meaning to someone reading it.
The poster you are talking about made more comprehensive meaning .
Go back and read those posts.

Seahawk:
Because most women know better than to fall over themselves to keep someone who has not one iota of care in the world about them. Stinking hypocrisy

kindly explain better

rOsy247:
She should show him more love, respect and care. She should Take good care of herself, her body and home . Look very attractive and sweet. Be good on bed. Call him while he's at work just to tell him you love him(not stalking him tho) Be romantic. There must be some special things thats attracting him to this woman that the wife is not doing . If he's getting more of these from home the outside woman na jara to him. Note: no amount of threat on the other woman or her husband will change anything. Twill even draw them closer. Don't even be confrontational even when you must ask him about it else you'll push him away from home and give him a free pass to the open arms of the other woman.

If you do all of these, it's his conscience and his God that will be fighting for you not even you.

May God increase you in wisdom.
Most women don't have these qualities .

Kindredspirit1:
Buhari, Over to you

You are telling him over to you, can he hear what is happening ?

Botanics:
Your hubby is sick. The fact he derives joy in inflicting pain on u: despite your resistance and discomfort, he puts his needs first , those are the attributes of a rapist.

I pity you because you can never satisfy such an individual. Bookmark this thread when you eventually stumble on ur hubby cheating. It wont matter you shag 5x a day and give him different styles.

What kind of pain is he inflicting on her, people will just write anyhow because someone asked for an advice.
Remember he goes to work and come back , how many hours in a whole day does he sleep with her?
She should learn to adapt.
Abi which does she prefer that another woman satisfies her husbands urge?

Gloriawinning:
He's a sick man, I would have filed for a divorce long time ago. What nonsense!! Sex everyday ? God forbids evil

Marry first before you write this rubbish .

Chukwumalinda:
I hate sex from the buttom of my Life

so how e take concern us?

stane007:
The Minister of Power, Works and Housing, Mr Babatunde Fashola, has said Nigeria's electricity problems cannot be solved by magic.

Fashola, while speaking at the inauguration of the 2x100MVA, 132/33kV power transformers at the Ejigbo Transmission Substation, Lagos said;

“Between that time and when President Buhari came three years ago, some people were there. But they will come back to you; so, when they come back, ask them if they didn’t know where to buy transformers.

“The problem of electricity is slowly being solved, one by one. Anybody will tell you he will do magic; tell him, ‘How?’ He should explain to you. We inherited 800 containers for power equipment left in the port for 10 years. President Buhari gave us approval, and we have recovered 690.”

Source: https://lailasnews.com/nigerias-electricity-problems-cannot-be-solved-by-magic-fashola/

Lalasticlala, Mynd44

Then you have to apologize to Goodluck Mr Fashola.
You can’t give what you don’t have.

24hoursreporter:
Finding the right woman to spend the rest of your life with is no easy anymore. As a matter of fact, Wife material, money and trustworthy leaders are now the most difficult things to find in Nigeria these days.

However, there is no accurate way to know the perfect woman. But you don’t need a soothsayer to know once you see the “Miss right” you have been looking for. Therefore, in this article, you will know the 5 types of women you should never let go.

The 5 Types Of Women You Should Never Let Go

#1. The One That Is Uncomplicated And Sincere

One of the types of women you should never let go are the sincere ones. Those that don’t play games with you.
In fact, there are no shady conversations with an Ex, no male friend too close to comfort. She made it clear that it is you and you alone, Guess what? That is your soul mate, go for her..

#2. The One You Can Confide In

One you can confide in a woman, she is definitely the right person for you. A good lady should listen to you and allow you say your mind without judging or ridiculing you.

Also, if you trust her so much and she has never betrayed your trust, go for her. In fact, if I were you, I will cross 7 seas, just to be with her.

#3. The One That Loves You Unconditionally

Unconditional love from a woman is as rare as diamond these days. However, whenever a lady shows you, such love, don’t take her for granted.

Any woman that loves you unconditionally deserves nothing but your loyalty and good treatment. Please, I am advising you as a brother, don’t mess it up.

#4. The God Fearing (Those With Conscience)

One of the types of women you should never let go is the God-fearing women. To put it differently, women that have a conscience. There are several ladies out there who have fed their conscience to the dogs.

When it comes to making the decision on who to spend the rest of your life with, you must be very rational. As a matter of fact, Love should be the last thing you consider. Forever is too long to spend with a lady who is not God-fearing.

Once you discover that your babe is God-fearing, no that she is the Miss right you have been searching. Go for it and prepare a permanent space for her in your heart.

#5. The Hardworking And Humble Ones

Is your girlfriend hardworking and humble? Does she have entrepreneurship spirit or she is just another slay queen looking for the next guy to slay?

Once you are certain that she is hardworking and respectful, never let her go. There are countless slay queen out there looking for the next man to devour financially.

So, if your girlfriend is working hard for herself rather turning you to an ATM card, she is the right person. never let her go.

Source: http://www.24hoursreporter.com/2018/10/18/5-types-of-women-you-should-never-let-go/

My brother you can’t let go what you can’t see.
Almost impossible to see all this qualities in one woman.

Assume the quantity of apple each has is X, there for

BIMEDELE HAS X

Mohammmed has 3 time X of Bamidele = 3X

Ijezie has 2 (3X) of Mohammed = 6X

total apples is 360

there
X+3X+6X = 360
10X= 360

x= 360/10
x= 36

Mohammed is 3* (36)= 108

Explorers:
7days later, Friday, 12th October, 2018.

She's Grace Adeola Oluwafireyimika Oluwadarasimi Oluwatobiloba Ayomiposi Ayomikun Inioluwa OLUBUSADE





Modified


I appreciate you guys and i say sound 'AMEN' to all your prayers and wishes. Wish i could reply everyone.


May God bless you all.

Congratulations
but on a lighter mode, computer sheet will not contain all this names ooh.

spyg1:
The reason why i came here for advice is to avoid taking a decision that i will not regret in future.
There is a girl I met at a friend's wedding sometime last year, she is 24 years and a 200L student while iam 30 years old postgraduate student but an amateur when it comes to relationship. We started dating, at first I wasn't serious because I don't have enough money to take care of a girl, as a student sponsoring myself, I hardly have enough money to take care of her needs, she always complain that I don't take care of her which her friend's guy use to take care of her, the girl in question always advice my girl to quit our relationship because iam a broke guy and even if I get a job in future I will dump her for another lady, that iam just deceiving her, nevertheless she do assure her that I will not disappoint her, despite her friend's advice the love grew even stronger, at times she will buy me some gifts, me too I do buy some for her, having seen the commitment in her, then I started paying attention to her hoping that if things work well I will take her to the alter.
But, there was a day she called me to come and meet her at a particular Junction, on my arrival to the place I saw her exchanging phone number with a guy in car, upon enquiry, I discovered that she did not know the guy before, then I left home quietly she later called and apologized which I accepted. Another time I called her around 10pm and I discovered that she blacklisted my number, she did this twice which I confronted her and suggested that we should quit, she begged me and cry for Africa then I accepted her back again, After that, sometimes she will not pick my calls in the night and the following day she will giving excuses that she was sleeping, her phone is on silence or she plugged in her neighbors house etc, I started withdrawing from her, she called me one day and started crying that what her friends were advising her was true, I was just using her, iam just like other guys, she know the reason why iam doing this, is because she asked me to go and see her parents bla bla. To fast forward the story, she login her Facebook account on my phone and she forgot to logout, when I went through her chat I discovered that she use to give people they meet on Facebook her phone number and according to the chart I discovered that she met one yesterday, I also discovered that she is still having an affairs with her ex.
Note: Anytime i call her to come to my house she used to come.
I feel like quitting the relationship but because of sympathy and I don’t want it to look as if I disappointed her. Honestly iam seriously confused, now my question is this; is it wrong that I went through her chat?
Second, what should I do? should I confront her? or should I quit quietly?
Pls I need your sincere advice, insults are welcomed. I will appreciate if the modulator push this to the front page.

PLS IGNORE MY GRAMMATICAL ERRORS

Never ever marry or date out of pity because you will surely regret it.

anayolity:
Friday is here already and lots of people are gonna get their groove on today and through the weekends Guys and girls will definitely wanna hook up...
Overtime there's always been an issue of who pays the bills off course everyone knows in Nigeria, the ladies feels its the guys responsibility to foot the bills, infact it shouldn't be splited between both parties on a date even when some of them (girls) demand outrageous stuffs ..

Now the question is; should bills be splited on a date?

Ladies have you ever assisted a guy to foot a bill on a date?

Guys have you had a lady share the bill with you before?

Share your experience!!!

Cc : lalasticlala, mynd44, farano , Rocktation

My brother anyone that initiates the dat pays the bill.
Most someone pay for what you initiated.?

troublemakea:


how I wish these ipob yoot could know stealing cable wire can't fetch them money like selling earpiece or gala on express... funny enough they're everywhere even here in Anambra

how would he explain to Nnamdi kanu in heaven what killed him now

Your moniker says all about you, I rest my case.

busky007:
*and the days shall come when mad people will be admired

is it a spiritual quotation?

OneCorner:
Kelechi Nebu (30), Ndueso Sunday (45), Tochukwu Egemuka (33) and Obinna Oforkaja (30).

20% are in to drugs, robbery and prostitution, 20% operating baby factory, 20% on the road selling fake cd and expired gala, 20% at home looking for who to blame for their predicament, 10% on their way to lagos to do house help or shop help and the remaining 10% on nairaland atikulating to serve fulanis

And a slowpoke is typing this shit>

Amagite:
From; Amagitesblog.com

Nollywood actor cum politician, Yul Edochie has said it's an abomination that Dim Chukwuemeka Odumegwu Ojukwu’s widow, Bianca Ojukwu was subjected to a primaries election and lost.

According to him, it is an insult to the entire Igbo race and to Ojukwu who formed APGA.

"It's an insult to the entire Igbo race & to the Great Ojukwu who fought for the wellbeing of Ndi Igbo, same man who formed APGA, for his wife to be subjected to primaries & even announce that she lost.
ABOMINATION!

Automatic ticket should be given to her.

Uphold honour!" he tweeted.

Recall that Bianca Ojukwu lost the APGA senatorial ticket to Chief Nicolas Ukachukwu
According to the the Movement for the Actualization of the Sovereign State of Biafra (MASSOB) she lost in the senatorial primary election of the All Progressives Grand Alliance (APGA) due to disobedience.

https://www.amagitesblog.com/2018/10/bianca-ojukwu-deserves-automatic-ticket-its-an-abomination-she-lost-yul-edochie.html

What's makes it an abomination?
My brother she is not better than the person that won the ticket.
Don't look for cheap popularity .

Blainz:
Kayode got people talking laughing with this post

"If you can not grow more than 317 votes in a Presidential primaries, then how do you #GrowNigeria ?

Mesujamba should just call the guy holding
@OfficialPDPNig @NGRSenate Kwara Central ticket for him and take the back seat."

At lest he contested and had some votes, you have Not contested because non of your people will vote for you.

made4naija:
These curvy Nigerian ladies in flowing white garment robes are causing a stir on social media after their photo surfaced online.

See more pictures

source :

https://www.made4naija.com/2018/10/curvy-nigerian-ladies-in-white-garment-robes-cause-a-stir-online/

Cc Lalasticlala
Cc MissyB3
Cc Fynestboi
Cc Seun
Cc Mynd44

When this ones catch you, you get special anointing.

Davindal:
I have pressured her enough. She kept saying that she feels like helping them always. That prompted me to ask her why I should be involved before she said it is now my responsibility. Note: I didn't ask her not to help but I reminded her that it was uncalled for catering for a huge family of six and pushing I your prospective husband into that while their father would just dress up in the morning and be wandering up and down in Porthercourt. Then she said again that if I don't love her mom's children and her husband, that I don't love her too.

She further stated that anybody in the military is not to be trusted. That I have been faking the so called love I have for her.

She affirmed that if I don't remit the money before this Friday that the break will be indefinite. That, it will be either I remit money and the break stops or I don't, and it continues.

OP never fall for threats, from what you wrote, she has already gotten a deputy for you.
Free her.

madridguy:
Firstly, calling someone else father, husband a stupid man on a public forum is embarrassing and you need to edit the part.

To me, you are the root of every problem if you will listen to me. You bring this upon yourself telling your GF to apply for pay cut. You should have advise her to go for weekend program program ( PT ) considering her back ground. Well, am not trying to blame you for your advise because it is out of good will.

I wish to let you know this, if you really love your girl, you must be ready to love her with her burden. Either you take it or you leave it, her half brothers equally her full brothers. Considering the fact her biological father is late, her mother's husband remain her father and don't try to separate cos it won't work.

If you're capable in helping her, please don't hesitate to do so and mind you, don't ever tell your GF to leave her half brothers because she will start seeing you as enemy.
Also, your statement that you cannot be taking care of her responsibility when you've not married is hurt and sound betraying considering you advise her to take job cut.

My suggestion, send her apology sms and let her know you're not trying to separate her family and if possible you see her real person.

My kobo.

If I talk now dem go say I don start.
Apology Sms my foot.
Pally getting married does not mean you taking up someone’s family responsibility .
The OP decision on not accepting any responsibility for now is ok. In as much he did not talk about his own challenges does not mean his family does not have any.
The stepfather should be man enough to carter for his own responsibilities.
Op if you know you can’t please don’t start.

He is preserving his bloodline

Jasen1:
Good day all

Please I really need a good advise insults are welcome also

Please pardon any error in the post


It happened like this

She's a girl I met in 2012 via 2go, we became friends we talk, chat, and call each other, we've been just social media friends we never met each other physically till 2016 when we met in PH for the first time, it WI didn't stay together for more than 10minutes she left, we were still talking


Fast forward to this year I relocated to Abuja and she lives here also. We decided to date each other, she was staying with her sister here while I just rented an apartment, she visited me and passed the night in my house (yes we had sex) so from that day, she started complaining about her sister giving her troubles, always punishing her, she always quarrel with her, soany complain, she said she want to get an apartment, I said OK I will help her get one but first she needs to start working at least when I get the apartment for her she can be able to pay her bills she said OK, 2weeka after she told her that her sister had issues with her husband and she's packing out of the house that her sister is relocating to ph and her sister asked her to leave the house or stay with her husband

She said she can't stay with her sister husband, I then told her to come to my place and stay, she agreed.

Now my problem is this, since she been here she sleep wake up eat morning afternoon and evening, she's not bothered about working anymore like she became so lazy to go out and look for work, I spend lots of money every week making sure we've enough to eat at home. But I'm really getting tired of everything


I don't know how to ask her to leave and again she don't have anywhere to go to, excepts her village or her sister place in Lagos, she has lots of friends here in Abuja but they're not good friends to her, I stopped her from associating with them, but this time if she want to go back to them, I don't mind, I really need space


Please note she's my girlfriend, we are both in our early 20's


I want the best way to ask her to leave that won't cause problem

My brother in my own opinion all she is saying or told you are lies.
She has seen that you are comfortable and worse case scenario you will find it difficult to send her out.
My advice
If you are still sleeping with her, start using protections because very soon she will say she is pregnant if she notice your are serious in letting her leave.
Call her tell her your mind and let her do what ever she deems fit.
You take all this decision if you know you don’t want any thing to do with again . If you have intention of marrying her start the process.

lizzybet:
lol Your head is there op ( ori e wa n be).
CONGRATULATIONS TO ALL YORUBA SONS AND DAUGHTERS HOME AND ABROAD
It's a victory we don't tolerate IPOB SWINE party on our soil

As for Fayose, don't end like Bashorun Gaa, You're Omoluabi
despite being the strongest opposition voice I doubt they will give you VP slot, remember, all your political decision must benefit Yoruba nation, we love you still

You don’t have to insult to send your message, just shows you are morally bankrupt .

bigzykizzy:
I have gotten a good job in Lagos after series and years of disappointment, frustrations etc. I got this job on a platter of Gold, no IM, no connection, its solely by God. Praise God for me

Congratulations May you excel and remember those that need help as you have been remembered .

Vichot:
No be where naija men dey, cos they will start feeling jealous when they see u with another guy

What of the women?

mackii:
What does this conversation of my girlfriend and a guy means? Is it me just paranoid or there is something and I don't just want to accept.

My brother get sense and flee from her.
Sincerely you have lost her for her to be planning with someone to make you foolish.

OP be specific in areas where this is been done abeg.

flyca:
I cannot, have never and will never go on a date without having my own money in my pocket. Even when I was younger, my mum will not even allow me leave the house empty handed. For first dates, I love to be the one to pay.

Besides the only thing I eat out is yogurt, few other times moi-moi Every other thing I can invite you and cook it in my house. I even cook better than all those curry-one-side rice they serve at most Nigerian eateries. So we cannot be spending more than 1k on first date, for what nah

Anyway, it's all these guys abandoning their dates in restaurants are broke cowards! And I can smell from them 50km radius.

They are not broke cowards but wise men saving themselves from unnecessary embarrassment from long throat girls that can afford anything for themselves .

Lakside1955:
Honestly, am beginning not to understand what always goes through ladies mind when they go out on a date.

Thats how I met a girl on Saturday noon at a bustop in my area, on normal level, I asked her; can I drop u to your destination cos am with my ride, she said yes and we exchanged numbers after dropping her, like 2hrs later she beep me up that she's bored at home that can we just hang out? On a weekend level now nothing to do but catch fun, I told her yes and asked where can I picked her up, she told me the bus top.
By getting there I met her with other two friends making three, OMG, I asked her why three? She said baby they are my friend and all of us where bored at home that's why they came along with her, ( I don turn baby sharp sharp) I said fine no problem, on our way going she asked where are we heading to, I replied dinners hotel, a popular hotel bar around d area, she said no they want to go KJ as in Kingstonjo haaaaaa, alakoba leleyi o.
Well on getting there, all of them ordered for plate of rice with chicken and big chivita juice each , i don die , i called the waiter and asked for each, she said 4500 so all of them now is 13500, I jejely asked her, sandra are u paying for this? She said no now baby, I said if you are not paying for this then return the food cos am not paying.
Me dat want to carry them go dinners bar jeje then buy one big magic moment make all of us they alright go home
I just left them there and go without paying a dime, luckily for them no one don taste the food sef if not dem for hear am

Man wey sabi.

chukxie:
That's just not fair. Hmmm! Not fair! The guy that ran off without paying his bills is a spineless, ball-less scoundrel !

What is fair in this life?
Life itself is not fair.

pp802:
This is so unfair. Yes, I know some ladies can be greedy, but then he should have spent according to his pocket. Tell her, No I'm not buying......this is what I can afford. Better than letting her demand for plenty and stylishly abandoning her.

Na watin longer throat Dey cause.