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Safiaa:
This ‘hole’ between our legs runs the world and can ruin the greatest man. I’m proud

That is if you know how to make good use of it.

okitiomas:
People say the devil you know is better than the angel you dont know but seriously am now thinking of going for that angel
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Adaku whom happened to be my fiance lies alot first it was petty things one day she told me she was going to see her mum whom was seriously sick, i offered to drive her there but she refused so she left
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On my way to a business seminar i saw her in a moving vehicle gisting and laughing hard with the guy inside the car, i quickly call her to know if am not mistaken she told me she was already in the hospital and i could see her answering the call inside
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I asked for the name of the hospital and she said it is St Philips Hospital i asked people in the neighborhood there is no hospital like that
PLEASE HOW DO I TELL HER IT'S OVER

The devil you know you avoid should be the right saying, because devil na devil.
The way you are telling us now what she did, call her and tell her its over.

Ubijus1:
Lauretta Onochie said this on twitter while reminding Bayelsa state indigenes that President Buhari is carrying out some road projects in their state. Read what she wrote below...

http://wakanda.ng/bayelsa-state-produced-worst-president-history-nigeria-lauretta-onochie/

Lauretta Onochie am not surprised by your utterances , I don’t expect anything good from you.
You can never be better than your master.

Amagite2:
From; Amagitesblog.com

Relationship expert, Amara Blessing Nwosu, has found a new man and reportedly got hitched to him recently, making him her third husband.

Although the name of the man is not known, Amara flaunted his picture on her Facebook page some hours ago.

She has however not come out to confirm her new status.

Last year, Amara shocked many after her marriage to her second husband, Van Lere crashed.

A few years ago, she revealed how she suffered terrible domestic violence in her 6-year marriage after she was given away at the tender age of 17 to a much older man. After leaving that marriage, she started to write articles on relationship and marriage on Facebook and helped other women going through what she went through.

Then in In 2014, she announced she was getting married again to a US based pastor named Francis Van-Lare and last year a photo showing her husband grabbing her boobs went viral on social media.

In August last year, she went on her Facebook page to announce that her marriage to Francis had packed up.

It appears she has found love again as photos of her and her new man dressed in what looked like a wedding attire has surfaced.


https://www.amagitesblog.com/2018/05/relationship-expert-amara-blessing-nwosu-has-remarried-for-the-3rd-time.html

Cc; Lalasticlala

She is an expert in marrying every other year.
Someone that can’t keep a hope what maker her an expert when it comes to relationships?

UnknownQueen:
After the incident, I briefly explained to my hubby what happened but I didn't go into details cos I don't know what his responses will be,
When my hubby wants to have deep discussions with me he ensures he is not very angry and finds a time when I'm in a light mood before bringing up anything...So yesterday after church service, he said he would like to have a very important discussion with me and that I should remind him if he forgets, so I suspected someone already gave him the 411 of what went down at the vigil, I have not reminded him yet and he's yet to discuss anything deep with me, I'm afraid our discussions might lead to marital crises, because I know my husband too well, he would choose the church over me any day any time, he was once their youth president and he got his present job via a vip in the church, plus he is a function member of the choir with key responsibilities in his care....Sincerely I don't know how to go about this....

Tell him what happened the heaven will not fall.
Make him understand your stand and how you felt in respect of what happened that day, you should not make him hear such things outside. Apologies for telling him late and tell him your mind, let him do whatever he wants but you have made yourself clear.
Next time they will know how to address you.

Lakeside79:
SMH
When you refused to stand I assumed it was in a very obvious way and everyone noticed ...

I don't think it's about your refusal to stand but how you did it..

Either way what is done is done no use crying over spilt orange juice

Now it seems you never eat liked the church then why do you attend it in the first place ?


Marriage isn't bondage where you force yourself to do things you just don't feel good doing..hence communication, you need to sit with your husband and explain your feelings to him about the church I am sure he will understand...

Either way now is a good time to change Church since this whole drama seems to have escalated and also you need to worry leess about people and what they think about you, as long as you aren't hurting anyone then it's just dirt in your shoulder

Sit with your hubby and have a chat with him about switching to a new church then next time you run into the pastor in public ask him if you may be sitted

Stop worrying it's not such a big deal .. but if you want to remain in that church not because of anyone but because you like it then if they demand an apology just give on and remain there

Life is about compromise but your happiness is Paramount

If I may ask, what is your husband saying about this?
Will he because he wants to be among he will allow his wife to be humiliated by an association?
As him his opinion then I will tell you what to do:

Tiwaz2:
Source: http://www.currentnewsinnigeria.com/nigeria-will-change-if-we-obey-god-vp-osinbajo/

Charity they say begins at home.
Mr Osibande as Bubu calls you, I will appreciate if you obey God before coming here to teach us what you don't practice

OfficialDad:
Okay. My first attempt at following her to anywhere would be tomorrow, and that's for the test or ultrascan which would determine my next line of action. I don't want to act now till I'm sure of my point. If she's found guilty, I will useless her existence on planet Earth.

Following her at all shows you are still suspecting that it might be yours.
If going by what you have written don’t do that let her go and bring any report she like you just tell her you don’t care or interested on the outcome, she should continue with her lif and let you be.
Don’t go anywhere with her.

OfficialDad:
Which means , I would be the father to another mans baby, care for the baby and the mother. Everything on my expenses. That's so much a burden. Don't you know?

I never said you should take responsibility of her expenses .
Tell her point blank you are not responsible and stop following her about to confirm paternity.
If you keep on following her that means you are not sure of what you are doing.

OfficialDad:
Okay brow. But we would be going for blood test tomorrow to check if she is pregnant for real. If yes, I might administer a pill to her unknown to her.

Don’t do that it’s not good or morally right.
If you are sure the baby is not yours, you don’t have to do that or even lead her on by going to tests with her.
Let her sort herself and don’t get involved in what she do or does.

OfficialDad:
The baby ain't mine. I did my calculations right, but she's trying to force it on me.

Then tell her she is on her own, and shoot entertaining any rubbish from her.

OfficialDad:
Its over 3months we broke up, and all of a sudden, she came out of the dark and claimed that she's pregnant for me.

I'm finding it hard to believe and at the same time, I'm so confused. She was the same girl who is always conscious about getting pregnant, and not willing to ruin her future with it.

What should i do? . A DNA test is the only solution here, but that would be after 9months. Should i provide for her till she puts to bed?.

Lalasticlala

Do small arithmetic, when last did you sleep with her and how old is the pregnancy?
I will suggest you ask her what she wants to do and you are not taking responsibility until the paternity of the baby is confirmed .
string mind ooh if not she might just hook it on you.
But if you know you shine the Kongo within that time you wait until she gives birth to have full confirmation.

biacan:
The guy is probably a loser.... she only ask for help because she was stranded and he couldn't help her out like WTF Why can't he help her or probably lean money from his friends and help her out...... Broke guys everywhere

Since you don know the story abeg borrow her the money.

Paperwhite:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.dailytrust.com.ng/amplite/i-ve-done-better-than-16-years-of-pdp-s-misrule-buhari-250524.html

True talk Mr Bubu you have done better in destroying the system in less than 3years.

EmergencyCase:
amen. And He could work a miracle if possible

Nothing is impossible with God all you need is to believe.

EmergencyCase:
As I lie helpless and feeble, I'm not totally sober. Some sweet memories from the past just crossed my mind and I smiled. Though my transcending (to the earth's bosom)seems imminent, I'm glad I got to experience the following:

Sweet memories, may God Rest your soul well.

i dont think she is.
postinor 2 always change a woman cycle

prinsam30:
I was planning to publish a thread about one of my colleagues Ex-girl love advances towards me when I eventually goes through my current babe's whatapps messages, I had to put that thread on hold.

I want to categorically say that some men are terrible but most ladies are the devil's advocate, I'm very sorry if I sound too hash on our ladies. Most, actually are very great women.

I will make this thread very short and straight to the point.

I met this vibrant and beautiful young lady on the 26th of March this year, and on the 30th of the same March which was a good Friday to Easther, she came to my place and we both spent the weekend together.

We have been doing great together not until last week Monday when she told me she will be going to Abuja on Friday to visit one of her cousins who has been on a sick bed for a very long time due to a terrible motor accident.

On Thursday of that same week, I gave her 5 missed calls, she never called back, on Friday she was to leave for Abuja, I gave her another 6 missed calls still no reply. But what surprises me was that, she was online all these while on whatapps for the period she was away.

Then on Sunday evening, she visited me, I was like, babe what happened to your phone that you couldn't see my missed calls and you couldn't call back either, her excuses was that, her phone fell into water, she had to borrow a phone from her sister, she didn't save my number on her sim and she didn't have it off head and she was sorry for that, I smiled and never said anything.

Two days ago, she called and said her phone slides off her hand fell on the floor and the screen got cracked but still working sha.

Yesterday morning she brought the phone to me and I took it for repairs in one of my guy's shop closed to my office. In the afternoon I was going for my launch break then the guy called me and told me, he searched for the screen and he couldn't get it, I collected the phone, had my launch went back to the office then something somehow from somewhere pushed me to open her whatapps messages, oh my goodness wetin my eyes see my brothers and sisters my mouth no go fit talk am all.

She dates about 31 guys at the moment excluding me this is not exaggeration its the fact and 27 of them, she had slept with frequently. In the whatapps chats it was
revealed to me that she purposely went to Abuja last week to visit 5 of them, lying to them that she was coming to Abuja for her sister's wedding and she had sex with all of them in just two days.

It was also revealed to me in the chats that she has a daughter since 2014 after she had lied to me that it was 2016 her first guy deflowered her, three guys are dating her at the complex where she works presently and these guys knows me wella, infact the story too plenty. I'm not saying I don't double date, I told her my love for women, I'm a ladies man, she accepted to date me despite that but she lied to me that she have only one guy in her life.

Wetin dey pain me pass for the matter be say, she no Sabi how to say NO to man, any kind of men that comes her way na YES, she no get options, as in eh the class of men she moves with are not up to standard at all.

Since yesterday I've been thinking what to do with this lady, should I let her know that I saw all her whatapps messages or should I just keep banging her and when I'm tired with her I should just dump her sorry Àss, I don't just know what to do with her right now, she's a beautiful lady with hips and shapes but her life style is just too awkward.

Abeg make una tell me wetin I go fit do this girl

My brother God don save you, just thank am very well and move on.
She be minister of sharing affairs .

Safiaa:
I don’t have a problem with mouth action. But if you’re not good at it, I’d rather you not put your tongue down there. It’s not just to use saliva and scatter the place, there’s a certain skill you need to have lol. Maybe that’s the issue with DJ khaled lol.

Hmmm interesting will like to know you.

Amagite:
Big Brother Naija (Double Wahala edition) may have ended but its reverberations are still being felt.

Collins, a former boyfriend of one of the former housemates, Nina has said he has moved on with his life and that's all that matters.

In a chat with Sunday Scoop, Collins said;

“I really don’t want to comment on this issue. I have moved on with my life and that’s all that matters.”

When pressed for further comments, he stressed,

“I don’t want it to seem like I’m seeking for cheap publicity and I don’t want the issue to drag unnecessarily. That’s why I haven’t said anything.”

Meanwhile, Miracle has said he is more concerned with making money than exploring a relationship with Nina.

He had explained during an interview,

“My relationship with Nina does not change outside the house; we are still good friends. I plan to make good use of the friendship with Nina; at least, it will reduce the proximity of female fans and all. With her, it is easier to set the barrier.

“Yes, we are still good friends. We can be (together in future). I have feelings for her but there is time for everything. We are both young now and marriage is not the next thing. The goal is to make money o (laughs). You never can tell what happens though and I hope you know that Nina and I are both from Imo State. So, anything can happen.”


https://www.amagitesblog.com/2018/05/bbnaija-ive-moved-on-collins-ninas-boyfriend.html

You for no move.
my brother any which way Una two don popular, na maintaining am remain.

lai Mohammed dey learn for this one side.

is the condom made of gold or na normal one we all know? Let me know before i give my advise.

itzjwizzy:
Drawing board

My guy u Dey laugh abi I for say go back to the street!

itzjwizzy:
I don't think it's hard na. It didn't work shikena, but don't make the mistake of revealing her misdeed, cos
1. It's immature
2. You gonna regret it more as they surely will make fu. Of you.
Just say, you guys are good friends.. At least God knows better

My brother gbam, thanks for adding to my knowledge this your two points Na the bomb.

antidisestablis:
Thanks very much once again my guy, I have made up mind this time to break it off and d only person that might want to stop me is my sis which I respect so much. I have told her everything,she was so shock with all my findings. She has told me to dump her ass without looking back.
The major challenges is that everyone has known her with me, the two families, the Church of God and my place of work. I know I will overcome it.

as they know her with you, they should stop knowing her with you .
It might not be easy but you will be better off.

antidisestablis:
Hello guys, I hope you are doing good, also i want to appreciate everyone that contributed to my last thread I created last year. https://www.nairaland.com/3803311/dont-trust-anymore

Pls read through the thread .
It is true saying when people say, 'a cheat is always a cheat' . After the last incidence everything returns to normal for us but early this year God reveal to me in a dream that my fiancee got impregnated by another man. This awakens my me and I decide to check what she is up to of a recent because our introduction is slated for this month.
To cut the long story short I discovered she has been cheating again with her ex not with the same guy of last year . They have met in the city where I reside now many times according to the recorded conversation between them. Though she told the guy she has chosen to marry me, she still professes her love to him ,also she calls the guy several times at times she spent over 20 minutes, I also discovered she hides her number when doing so. The guy was trying to win her over because he knew she is a relationship with me.
Also I discovered she saved the name of the guy she was caught with , with another name and she spoke with him recently.
I regretted for not dumping her last year, but I know God still loves me that is the reason he is revealing all these to me before we tie the knot.
My sis who has been making some preparation for our intro when I told her all my findings, she was heartbroken and devastated she said that was the least thing she expected from her, she said I should have told her when the last incidence happened.
I have not confronted her again with her all her escapades yet, I want to seek advice what's the best approach break up with her because I have made up mind to end everything between us. God bless you all

My brother a leopard can never change its spot, thank God you found out and finally confirmed it now.
I will advice run for your life because it will be worse if ever you get married to her.
Go back to the drawing board and pick a new woman.

Juliuss01:
he's not the type that is after my money, he spends and cared for me when he was still working at least I'm certain of that. I don't want to say this but then, i lived in an area where water was an issue to get, he bought kegs, and always arrange water to my house, even sometimes when I go to night shift, he will cook and bring food for me in the morning before he goes to work, he just have his way of knowing what I want at any point in time and he will get it @least to his capacity and he will never demand from me. I'm always happy to be with him. The issue is my mum and the guy that is ready, just want to know if i could go on my life and settle down with the guy that is ready even though i don't love him, not only that, he looks older than his age.

This is more insightful by you.
since you don't love the other guy and you believe you can grow with this one, sincerely from my heart i will say you both build your dreams together .

Juliuss01:
Hello house, pls kindly assist.
I am a working class lady, I'm 25 years old but I'm confused about an issue. There are two guys proposing to me, one is financially ok and he has a good job, even his dad has been the one playing front for him before he gained the courage to propose to me, his dad has also been acting so nice, telling me to go get visa that we may travel out, that his son is also about to finish his house, we can move in after wedding.

The father even told his son to call my mum and now my mum is having interest in him but i don't love this guy no matter how much I try to, though he's financially ok. At a time I prayed over it but the revelation I saw was against the guy, I told his dad about the revelation because his dad will not stop pestring me but his dad said I should not be bothered about the dreams as a believer.

However, I love the other guy, he loves me more, always ready to do anything to see me happy, he's so nice, caring and love God but he has no JOB, not even an apartment of his own, though he's a graduate seeking for job, i have interest in him but my mum wants me to settle down so soon with the guy that is ready that I will later love him in the marriage.
What can i do pls. should wait for the guy I love or follow my mum’s advice.

No take your husband do boyfriend.
Sincerely from your write up the rich guy has no problem you just think you don't like him.
If he will always be there for you marry him.
The other guy to you he like you ABI? In my own opinion you are more of a value to him than he is to you. What happens if he becomes rich suddenly do you think he will still be the mister nice guy? Have you ever thought he might be liking you because of your importance or value to him because you are ok financially.
If i may ask do you cater for him financially?

Confidant010:
I met my fiancee for 6months now n when I approached her she told me that she was in a relationship then, after telling her my intention she decided to quit with her ex and be my own. I later found out that she went back and Bleep with her ex again. When I found this out through the picture her ex was posted in his timeline, she then admitted that she did it because she didn't know I was serious about the relationship and promised never to do it again. I pardoned her n ceased her connection with him by buying her new lines, except her glo line, which is linked to her account though she knew his number of head. On Saturday she told me that she wants to go and see her parents, when I called her line throughout this afternoon it wasn't going thru, when I finally get her online she told me that she just decided to switchoff her phone, and the way she sounded, my instinct told me that she was with another man n I saw a text message by another man asking her when she's coming home.
Pls friends what should I do because I love her n she claims to love me too n I have already introduced her to my people n they all like her. Pls your noble advice is of utmost importance nw, thanks.

brother just quit silently and keep her as Friend with benefit.
She is not your fiancé , this is a point of correction to you.
No matter what you do, she wll never change , instead she will continue to bring you heart ache.

mattmogan88:
I promised to buy her a phone before the year runs half, so yesterday i fulfilled my promise. I bought her one fine phone like that and presented it to her. I was expecting a romantic response like "a big hug and a kiss ", but unfortunately 4 me what I got was a total negative response; this was what she said to me " so Mr man you hate me like this, wicked man, heartless man; didn't you see what Davido did for her girlfriend? after saying all this, she packed her bags and stormed out..........



please friends Ayam confused, what did I do wrong

My brother thank God she did not go with the phone if not you would have lost fully.

blackangel0403:
pls what is the right decision to take in her case? Advice us pls.

The Brazilian guy to me is a scam, the London guy she does not like, so let her start looking for someone else she will love.

blackangel0403:
Hi guys, pls help with your honest advice and opinions, my younger sister who is not too good with social media is abt to make a terrible mistake, she was married and divorced with two kids with her taking responsibility for the kids alone, fast forward to last year she met a Nigerian man who is a divorcee with two grown kids and based in London, the guy sends her money and is willing to marry her with the kids and relocate them to London but she is not really in love with him, she met this other guy who is based in Brazil and she is in love with him but he has not shown commitment to her like the London guy does, now she is abt to loose the London guy because he is making plans on coming to take a wife in Nigeria, all she knows abt the Brazilian guy who is living with a Brazilian woman and two kids is that he works with city bank, he has never sent her money yet he always profess love to her, and keeps assuring her he is coming to marry her in dec dis year, the London guy shows commitment and seriousness but she doesn’t love him and feels she will not be happy with him while the brazillian based naija guy she is in love with has not shown any commitment atal even knowing she has two kids she is taking care of, she wants to keep waiting for him but confused and scared she might end up loosing both at the end. How can she test this Brazilian guy to be sure he truely loves her and will marry her? Note she is a single parent and such opportunity are rare to come by. Pls advice her she will read it all. Thanks a lot.

@OP
no matter the advice you give to your sister she will not take it because she already knows where her heart is.
As for you i will say you make her understand the consequences of her action and she should not come crying to anyone when she takes a wrong decision.
From your story the truth is clearly on her face but she wants something else.