Ranchhoddas:
He should buy another TV and put in his bedroom.

ure so reasonable.

hian!

Mtchewww

swiz123:
Stand in front of a mirror and practice.Try to speak aloud with your mouth wide open,that way you won't fumble with words

My thoughts exactly.

CheeBoo:
One significant characteristic of introverts is that they are always great writers. This is chiefly because introverts do not fancy talking much and so as a result, they channel that energy into less 'extrovertal' traits such as writing.


But then, majority of the channels of breakthroughs that are common in this country have to do with talking.

So I would advise that while you hone your writing skills, you should also endeavor to develop your verbal communication skills as well.


Also, never allow your inconsistencies with respect to speech deter you from expressing yourself when the need arises.

Try to calm down by taking breaths at interval, make sure your opening words catches the attention of your audience, and take charge of your buccal cavity.

Thank you.

internationalman:
Be prepared for more along the way

internationalman:
Be prepared for more along the way

burggerx:
One thing that scares the hell out of me about my girlfriend is her attitude. When you talk about a disrespectful and unsubmissive lady, my girlfriend is the headquarters of all the disrespectful and unsubmissive ladies I've ever met. Even if she does something good, I don't tend to notice it because her bad attitude has already overshadowed the good side of her

Even if she acts respectful to me, it's so obvious she's only forcing it since it's a trait she lacks. Just when a little brawl ensues, curses and abusive words are usually not far-fetched from her mouth. She has even insulted my family before during a heated argument. The only thing my girlfriend is yet to do is to beat me up

I believe they say respect is earned but I've done everything a man should do to earn respect from his lady yet this lady talks to me like a kid. No sign of humility at all

My girlfriend is not only dominating but toxic and does not accept correction. She makes it look like giving authority as a man is slavery and she questions my authority every time. The annoying part is that she argues a lot and always wants to be right at all times. Feminism is written all over her to the extent that even in movies, my girlfriend will have the back of a woman who is unsubmissive and disrespectful to an innocent husband.

Although she acts like a respectful girlfriend in the presence of my family but my mom in question is smart enough to know that she's only faking it despite trying all my best to portray my girlfriend as someone that gives me joy in the face of my mom

Before my mom traveled to the UK in September, she sat me down up to three times and advised me to let go of this girl if I really want to spend the rest of life with peace of mind and that if I insist on marrying her, she doesn't have a choice than to respect my decision but she will remind me of her advice which I didn't yield to if I eventually end up as a frustrated man in the future

I've tried to terminate the relationship but she cries and makes the whole thing look like I don't love her and that if I do, I should be able to cope with her flaws. There was even a time she told me she doesn't have a choice than to respect me if I marry her and I was like WTF!

I have decided to call the relationship a quit once and for all since I'm not in for any future drama. I don't want to end up with a woman that will be rude and disrespect me in the face of my own children.

But there's one question I want to ask is that, can a ride girlfriend ever change after marriage? Is it worth taking the risk that she will change with time?

Ure asking this question because u still love her . You know the answer in ur heart.

i just see two lovely couple who love and care about each other. Hubby is just mindful of his wife and pls a little jealousy is healthy.

Deceit Adultery Lack of proper Communication lack of Fear of God

SBL28:
A myriad of reasons including but not limited to;
a) infidelity -
b) domestic violence
c) Family interference -
d) finance
f) lack of commitment
g) lack of fear of God
h) Spiritual attack.
I) infertility

For some it's for a reason, others it could be a combination of three or four. In this particular situation, if she fell out of love, I believe it's possible to rekindle the love. But if she never loved him from the start and she's still not in love after 4 years, I'm not sure there is anything the husband can do...

truth in its sense

godliman:
1. Bad foundation, ladies don't marry who they love but who is ready.
2. Sexually promiscuous society, nudity, desperation among singles, pornography,
3. Internet chatting and online dating,
4. Worker-holic husbands who have no time for their wives and otherwise
5. Lack of fear of God
6. Love of money
7. Having many sexual partners(Exs) before marriage

uve said it all

Tell ur wife ds story just as u have posted, she is d only redemption for u from her sister. i believe she will forgive you , that is d only advise i can give.

WorWorBoy2:
Whatever, now face front and stay away from my mention.

WorWorBoy2:
Whatever, now face front and stay away from my mention.

WorWorBoy2:
You can't read or what? I air my Opinion.

It's not my duty for you to like it or not.

same way i aired mine.

isthatso:


I am simply saying the stress of married life, responsibilities, nagging, etc, is a major factor why men die before their wives. That part of my comment was just coincidental that he is talking about a widow. No connection.

Also if you read my comment, i paid particular emphasis on divorcees. Either way a man does not need to be carrying extra baggage if he can avoid it, life is hard enough as it is and our life expectancy for a married Nigerian man is already low enough as it is.

That said there are decent widows and divorcees out there but they are the exception rather than the rule . As a rule avoid them especially divorcees!!

okay noted.

MedicH:
seriously with my eyes closed right now i am seeing your post which you captioned "my life is finished now, i ma HIV positive, i want to kill myself" . lol ive onye cho k'ovu. the fear of HIV is the beginning of wisdom

MedicH:
seriously with my eyes closed right now i am seeing your post which you captioned "my life is finished now, i ma HIV positive, i want to kill myself" . lol ive onye cho k'ovu. the fear of HIV is the beginning of wisdom

that lady is either Hiv positive/sti, just wants a child from you or wants to trap u in2 marriage. whichever way, 4get emotions nd run bro.

isthatso:



he asked a question? ....in the same way as you are commenting


Most men die before their wives for a good reason. Open your eye when you marry wife!!!

the poster earlier mentioned that he had an accident.

isthatso:

is she lying? Nigerian women have too much drama, even without Drama of late husbands family and child that is not your own, they will still drive you to your grave before your time so why add another man's wahala on top when there are single women toro kobo 2 a penny without ex-husband baggage desperate for husband?

is it your marry? is it ur choice? if he loves her, y not let him be happy? one mans food is anodas poison.

Pubichairs:
don't break de bro' code..u should know this is de only way to still keep her relevant around me, as man u be u suppose understand

bro let her go, e go worse pass if she find out las las say d relationship na joke. e beta mk u hurt her now than wen una don go far or say her hopes don high say na you she go end up with. free her.

pls make proper findings and if u do love her, pls go ahead bro. But u must be matured enough to handle the children ,loving their mother alone isn't sufficient. God bless ur good heart and help u mk d right decision.

EASY112:
Bro look for single ladies, is better u remain single.Dont start what u can finish.

coming from a woman. pathetic.

WorWorBoy2:
Godforbid, them swear for you? of all the women to marry na widow with 2 children na you wan go marry? spit.

which kind advise be dis, so widow no deserve love or wetin u dey try talk?

chenzen:
Oops! maybe the accident was caused by her village people.

ure unserious o

Logobenz:
Some people still dull sha.i wonder why a person will believe in such nonsense
Bro if you get money,go marry one clean 25yr old,buy am one clean gs300 and enjoy life in peace bro.
Will be doing same this year end to a 21yr old.never been happier

nonsense and ingredient.

bro ure not alone o,I just hate portharcout cuz of ds criminals.

And I knw one of ds officers...ds is tragic,bad news 4 ds new yr. Rip

TruePass:
Niggas get mad when they can't come and live lavish with you.


They can't love n support you when is not beneficial.


They see you doing good is hard to leave u.

Fake friends

pls remind me the title of this song?

I love ur post,thank u

oladimejiX:

Shestrong my darling come and laugh.

hahahahahahhahagahahahahahahhaha,that cracked me up@oladimejix

NemzySeries:
faithful wetin? D ones i met during my NYSC days is a shocker + wonder........ Eastern babes fvckkk more dan Guinea pigs aswear

nemzyyyy see ur life?