Crystalom5:
shomutuski, ChrisP92, dawoyo, windvane

Sorry that i have not been able to show my appreciation earlier during the day. But still, I want to take this time out to thank you so much for everything you did. Thank you so much for giving. It is not the rich that gives, it is a kind and compassionate heart that gives, one that has been specially moved by God.

I thank you so much with deep gratitude in my heart. And my prayer is that whatever you set your hand upon, I hope God remembers your kind did today and deal with you mercifully. I hope he makes you prosper in health, wealth and happiness. I hope he guides your footsteps wherever you go.

I wish I can show my appreciation beyond this.

To those who offered words of encouragement, I pray there is always someone there to uplift your spirit whenever you are down. To everyone else following and reading, I pray God bless you immensely.

Once again, shomutuski, ChrisP92, dawoyo, and windvane, thank you so much for all you did.

Dm me your account number

MrPRevailer:


Show me one Christian that has killed in the name of his religion, I will show you 100,000 Muslims that have killed in the name of Allah.
Shouting Allahu Akbar.
You can go to liveleaks video and watch your brothers.

And why not? because killing infidels and apostates is commanded by Allah in Quran. And in the Hadith, there are sufficient examples from Mohammed and his companions.
Contrarywise, Christians are commanded to love their enemies and never retaliate.
More importantly, all the apostles of Jesus showed that example.

I’m not here to answer you! If you look closely at yourself, you are already looking like whoever you are describing. Someone that has never read the Quran telling whats inside from google, like the christian crusaders never killed or the Bible Old Testament did not mention about killings.

Go and seek happiness, regardless of what you say I am happy, my family is happy, we good.

bonnyhope:


European countries like?

ICELAND
CROATIA
POLAND
ITALY
SWEDEN
CZECH REP
ETC

zanebaddo:
Bro can you list those IT skills one can acquire for such jobs please?

DEVOPS
CLOUD COMPUTING
IT SUPPORT
DATA ANALYSIS
CUSTOMER SUPPORT
FINANCE***PLENTY HERE
ETC

YOU CAN ALSO GET MENIAL JOBS LIKE ASSISTANT, MACDONALD ETC

Crystalom5:
Yesterday was quite an emotional day for me here on nairaland.

It was the first time I ever begged for anything here.

Normally, even if I was dying, it'd keep it to myself. Las las we all go die, today or tomorrow.

Anyways, I was stuck and had no where to stay,. Even after paying my school hostel fee, they were still demanding 3k for department fee before I could move in.

I had nothing again. Nothing in my account.

So I thought I'd ask for help here, if anyone would help.

Started like a joke.

Was online all through trying to keep the thread alive, some asked for my account. Others just tried to derail the thread.

But nothing came out of it.

I also tried the politic section. Same thing happened.

I got nothing.

God knows, I was almost moved to tears yesterday. Considering, I have previously worked for a Nairalander here and he refused paying for it.

That thought alone and the shame of begging made me almost curse myself..

I hope no one is ever in such a position in life. Certainly, I pray never to go that low again.

But I went even lower still.

In the afternoon of today, I say I must get my accommodation after loosing all hope of finding help here.

I went to school. Met the portal and she told me the usual "I can't allocate room to you unless you show your department fee receipts or a signed statement from your financial secretary".

Hmm.

I was really desperate, my next line of action was to go beg the secretary for his statement. I was a little hopeful.

After all, na student him be, him suppose understand.

Went to this guy and he started talking what I don't know. Omo, see person wey come beg us make we vote am now now sha. Hmm politicians.

After pleading with him that I'll pay the money and all he need to do is to sign a write and sign a statement.

But he said no.

I turned back and went to the portal.

Hmm, ma na me and you now.

I know there's no hope of getting money from anywhere, so na either I get this accommodation or na classroom I go sleep.

No amount of beg wey I no beg this woman today. Ha, if na shame, shame comot from my body today o.

Naso I beg am sotey, she cum give me the accommodation slip and allocate room gimme o.

Hmm. No be small thing, now at least I can start preparing for my test tomorrow.

As for here, I pray I never come this low in life to beg anyone online or offline. I no know how this week go run but God wey gimme place to sleep today, go gimme something to chop.

Below is my accommodation slip

bros, DM me let me help you with the little i can

Birniwa:
The problem with these pigs practicing this ill-conceived and half-baked religion called Christianity more especially the Nigerian goats is that they lack manners and respect for other faiths.

Muslims anywhere they are, will never insult other faiths, it's a teaching from the Holy Quran. Why can't you just learn from this excellent teaching but instead you jump into attacks anywhere you see a topic of discourse about Islam or Muslims.

Now look at what people with sense like America are doing to protect others. They think the teacher (as a Christian) has no right to attack any other faith and so, resorted to firing her instead. However, some adulterated pigs here in Nigeria are ranting that they should ban Muslims from entering their country. You probably do not think holy of your gods and do not care if any one insults them. Keep calm, no Muslim will ever engage in such nonsense with you.

You are not a true Muslim, you don't need to abuse anyone's faith, i get that seeing your deen dragged in the mood and described in a negative light is quite triggering but you need to go above all this petty religious beefs on nairaland. The usa is the biggest buyer of oil from saudis.

As Muslims, we should really show the true light of our religion to others. we have Christians killing and maiming others everywhere even the so called ipob they are Christians, isrealis killing Palestine are also Christians or Jews. The world is bleeped up already. If you google good deeds from muslims they are alot of them all over the world today so whatever i read on here doesn't bother me one bit.

In my community both home and abroad, i have Christian family who i love and cherish and they love me back, we eat from the same plate. Its only the enlightened ones that understand really the plan the west has for Islam, bad plans. they already succeeded with the media and destabilisation of the middle east.

Most of the people on nairaland here are frustrated and bitter i know that for sure, economy no easy so the best way is to vent.

Things go better my people

One love

muykem:
America needs to be careful of Islam. They will be playing good citizens, innocent and victims of society intolerance until they get sizeable number of disciples and you start seeing bombing, killing and terrorism.

LMao!!! At least travel out first before you give advise. Mr America

Jennyclay:
Before nko? Why won't she leave . You didn't even buy a car for Uber, you went ahead to buy Keke. I will also leave you in the relationship. abi is it Keke you want to use to carry me out on a date?

God abeg o!

This is the sad reality of men, we are valued for what we can offer. Werey they think of date ebinaa! To my guys, Please build value in yourself and your family before you reason people like this. If shit hits the fan, they will leave you out to dry, women love in an opportunistic sense which means once you cannot provide, alot will go left.

Aunty God go provide ooo! As a person I know you have nothing to show for your existence, keep going on dates while proper women are building value with men. We will visit this post once you are in your late 20's.

Reinamaria:
Why do some men stop giving their wives attention after they marry them?
One foolish one once typed "Do politicians still campaign after winning elections?"
That foolish comment got over 2k likes as at when I saw it.

Dear men (husbands), you need to do better.
Women (your wives) love attention and you owe them that attention.
You need to give them as much attention as they need, so that no other man would matter to them.
Not everything is achieved with force and order.
You all need to do better.

STOP THE CAP! A HOE IS A HOE REGARDLESS

Afodot0022:
Good day naira landers and happy holiday. I am writing this base on the challenge am having in my marriage. Some of you might have known little about the issue i had previously cos i brought it to the forum.

It happened that my wife was having emotional affairs with another man which i knew through her chat.

Though family and pastor were involved and have tried everything to resolve the issue between us. I have decided to forgive and forget and also give her a second chance even though it was a difficult situation for me, I decided to let go cos of my two daughters and don't want them to share from a broken home.

Now the issue am still having is that my wife has promise to change and be a better person and also promise to cut any emotional tile with the man. But I wasn't confident with that, so i told her to block this guy on all social media and also delete his number so there wont be any communication between them cos i sense if they both keep in touch, they might go back to what they were doing before. She got angry when i told her this and she said she can't block the guy cos they have been friends for many years even before she got married to me.

She started dating the guy last year under my roof and her reason was that i pushed her to do such act cos i wasn't giving her enough attention and love which is totally a lie.

So house, pls just let me know if i did wrong by telling her to block the guy or i over did it. I just felt blocking him will be best for us cos i noticed my wife is not fully detached from this guy emotionally.

Pls if you are in my shoes, what will you do house. If you want to get more insight about what transpired, you can go to my details nairaland.

Pls mod, help me by doing the needful.

Nigga! You stupid? your answer is in the post already, she doesn't wanna, what does that tell you. Why do you mf come on here and ask questions that are so obvious.

OH MY GOD!

FelaSkye:


Can we talk more, I’m not planning to go the fancy countries too, especially US.
Can we talk?

I can link you with people or give you free game but those are my perceptions, The only region i have concrete information is the EU and schengen areas. A little information about UK i can get from friends over there also.

politicoNG:
A follow-up to this thread: https://www.nairaland.com/7505504/assassins-set-cbn-staff-wife#119614211 (The Couple were killed with their son & some domestic staff kidnapped)


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WXj1EojmZJs


https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=pfbid02c1cuTGQF2ujrmknCNrGbz154i1LKe2hv5ohxFdiKMSZnM9xRHTnsvBzJ65Tc9J4gl&id=100065063131622&mibextid=Nif5oz

Inna lilah! what a shame, sad world honestly. They probably took ransome and still killed the poor boy

That LOL she replied is worse than all you sent to her, she knows how much of a joke you are that she didn't even bother to match your energy. she said LOL in simple terms, when woman they she no fight you when you try cause wahala her mind don they look for exit be that. If she's doing HK for real why are you trying to keep her? confusing bomb as kpansh with love abi?

siofra:
I told my boyfriends before we started dating that they must take the role of a provider to date me and they are taking their roles seriously.


Never settle for less, sis

I will wait till your prime is behind you then ask you the question I intend to ask initially, well! nothing is wrong with a man providing absolutely for a woman if she meets his criteria and he is not doing it from a place of wanting to Bleep.

rowosky:

How far bro
Which country are you.
Show me way abeg

I am a citizen of EU, any country i they enter free based on residency, I they run school for two countries sha Italy and Germany. Alot of school for Italy get remote learning options

Scamburster:

Any work there.

Alot of work especially if you are into IT like I am, although factory jobs and the likes brings in money also. the main thing is comfort, i work from home and can adjust my schedules how i please to enable pursue my masters

FelaSkye:
Is 10 million enough to leave Nigeria, people are saying it’s better to invest the money but the market is too risky. Is 10 million enough for Japa and which country can that get me into?

Thank you!

to UK yes
to EU more than yes plus you have an head-start, i didn't have.

I spent around to 2.6m to move to Europe in 2020 which include full payment for my tuition of 4000euros, flights and a little upkeep money and now i have my residency although temporary. I used the study route but i don't know about other mode cost.

You people should stop wasting money going to UK, come to Europe, alot of low-key schengen countries without embassy wahala plus your path to citizenship is faster than UK 10years, even US now is tougher.

Use this update before he cast

women are good, they are sweet when you are masculine and responsible. i love feminine women. no stress, no problem.

Braveboi1:


Afo sagbue gi there

Bitch nigga! stay pained

égbè eluigwe tiri ịnyịnya ibu gị ogbenye

Betscoreodds:
This slap will probably cost him one hundred million

Nah! he has the most feminine woman who understands family, not to say that slapping your wife is right though. They both slapped each other, she slapped him first and mans was too drunk to discern. They have been together since 12years, i doubt that will happen.

She isnt infected by the woke virus spreading in America, the only embarrassment is that it was caught on tape and their kids were there, read the wives statement she said its the first time in over 30years such happened, Alcohol does alot and i hope they both stay away from it, for sure this experience will strengthen their marriage.

The media and feminist will milk this news, hopefully their family values is able to stand strong

Moeman:
This can't be real

Honestly, couldn't believe my eyes plus all the messages from women on this thread shows that alot of men are super super super weak, imagine a girl telling me to wash plate when i can do for her what her father cannot do. Mehn! they got me fcked up.

How are women able to overinflate their egos believing they are the shit, 2's and 3's thinking they are 10's. Literally broke bitches, who cannot do shit. I am grateful for my babe then.

Lade18:
Recently met this single lady of one. Been the one footing her bills and sending her daughter (5yrs old) to school. She told me She wouldn't let us have sex until she sees I'm committed and reality love her. Although, that's not the reason I'm talking care of her daughter, I just naturally love to spend for people I care about. Just recently, she's wanting to know how much I give my mom and why I'm the one sending her money when she has a shop and making her money.

Yesterday, she told me I don't love her enough. That, if I can open a shop for my mom , then I can do more for her. But I wasn't the one that opened the shop for her, I just supported her.

Now, we had sex for the first time last month and has been denying me sex since then. Yesterday, she came around and I initiated sex, she denied. She told me if we're ever gonna be together, I should learn how to be a man. In her world, being a man involve me cooking, laundry, take her out, and clean. I told her that's cool. But I don't know what a woman will be doing in a House if she's not working while I'm the one footing her bills. If I ask her this, she would get angry.

My fellow men, why are the requirements for sex getting on the increase these Days? Is that they way it's supposed to be?

I want to coach you for free OP contact me lets talk.


Do you know how tough Nigeria is? a lot of people are earning below the minimum wage which automatically puts you in the top percent of men cus you can provide, If I am back home, I already can pick from any tribe, any women, any spec of woman i want. I mean any number of woman i want, i can have. That is value, they see the value you posses as a man and you are wasting it with a woman that cant even fck you, which is the most basic thing she can do for you, she for sure cannot help you financially. you hold more terms and power but its funny how she is able to block you from seeing your value.

Damn! you migrated your buffonery to 2023, when are you bums going to wise up shiiiiiiii! Bro you dealing with a low hanging fruit and she is also able to make you cater for another person child all because you wanted sex and you so pvssy to say exactly what you want. If you went for hookup, it would have saved you more money and less emotional investment. That bitch will milk you and leave you to dry cus you are damn senseless, you talking about you spend for people you care about like I don't.

women don't appreciate things given freely, you are suppose to reward her good behaviors and will in-turn make her more complaint, why are you sharing whatever it is you have going with your family to her? the Bleep why?

Do you know how valuable you are to the society? A man that can provide is worth more than 10 useless men but you need to provide to the right cause and people which includes your family first and whoever is complaint to your needs. I personally will give olosho free money because she fcks me than someone else who won't. I hope you are not in your 40s, you know nothing about genuine interest.

Let me tell y'all something, women love, they give their all, absolutely everything they have for men they love and respect, including their body, their money, they time, their attention, in fact no other guy appeal to them when they are in love completely with you but alot of men are yet to experience it due to alot of reasons.

I know you wont listen to me but i will advise you to put a foot down and take charge of your relationship, stop telling her about all your business with your family, stop giving out freebies. I can bet you someone else is bleeping her low-key while you wasting your resources abi how is she able to stay till now? listen to yourself goddammit smh. she isn't a virgin.

Tell her to her face, no sex, no provisions. you can keep paying for the kids fee only if you like but she has a father, thats his job except he is a waste-man which is more likely, men like that are why society says all of us are useless.

That woman is pussyfying you already, wow! I am sure she goes to bed smiling cus you are a jackpot, the most special type of mugu which is a mugu with plenty money. you do all of that and she still doesn't wanna Bleep you lmao. what does that say itself.


I AM TIRED OF TYPING, I HOPE ONE DAY NAIRALAND CAN USE VOICE-NOTE FUNCTION, seek help OP you need it.


1. Guys Guys listen to me, don't pay for what someone else got for free.
2. If you cannot discern a good woman from a slag, you will have problems all your life.
3. stop doing boyfriend duties when you know you want to kpansh, its a great disservice to yourself and the lady in question, own your shvt. you wan smash, just say it.
4. Alot of women are with kids due to some useless irresponsible men, doesn't mean the women are bad but unfortunately a lot of you men cannot tell so my advise is that you stay away from all of them.
5. The juice aint worth the squeeze trust me, if you find yourself always trying to do alot to get attention, sex, femininity etc she isn't worth it, forget the media brainwashing that a woman that stresses you loves you, that's a big fucking lie. they push that narrative to fuel the simp industry.
6. The game is so easy now for us men cus they is a lot of weak, irresponsible and feminine men out there, get your shit together and become the man your family deserves and the society needs.

Goldmynemaniac:

Why so bitter dude

Obama is not 'everyone'

He is an ex president of a country, and, not just any country...United States of America!
Also, not only is he just a former president of America, but its first black president!! An African!!!

Meaning that an African was once the most powerful man in the world.

No two men can be Obama. There are, were and will be presidents but no other first back president in America can ever be besides him.

Anyways, I forgive you, 'bet', don't do it again.

Pipe down on the dvck riding! Even Nigerians in diaspora no rate am. Like the initial poster said, everyone has playlist.

Braveboi1:


Afo sagbue gi there

égbè eluigwe nne gị yansh! i chere na ọ bụ naanị gị nwere ike ịsụ igbo. nwoke na-abaghị uru.

Poor MF! I’ll bet my life you have nothing to show. Idiot efulefu, no go find money.

Braveboi1:
She needs your dick, chop her again and leave her

Dumbest comment 2022 yet, that's all you can think of? Pathetic

Mindlog:


You are in denial.

The present generation and the future ones, are becoming more daring and less comfortable with "eye service" and cover ups.

The emotional blackmail the society has been using to subsidize deadbeat parents is fast losing its grip on children of neglectful parents.

Publicly treating deadbeat parents mess ups is becoming the new cool.

For those conversant with the bible: Fathers, provoke not your children to anger, lest they be discouraged.....Col. 3:21

PREACH!!!!

EBMedia:


https://igberetvnews.com/1434218/left-us-single-legacy-sad-children-write-late-dads-biography-photo/

Says alot, As men we should see how some of us were raised and be better to our spouse and kids. No one is perfect but we all can learn from this. Be responsible

jaelz:
I know most of us would swear that we can never go back to our exes or that they were so terrible while sighting all the bad things in this world.

But let's face it guys no matter how bad our exes were there was definitely this one things that they were extremely good at?

Mine was her love for business, omo she sabi business die like 110% business savvy and smart.

depends on which of them?

Thebest12:
There is a girl I asked to be my girlfriend. She said no to me. But she keeps disturbing me. Chatting me up everyday. I have tried to snub her several times but she keeps sending messages.

Pls what does she want and how do I get this girl out of my life . I want to block her, if I do so am I not overreacting?

Attention is the currency for women! Financial, emotional, verbal, physical. Those who know how to spend it wins. Do not waste your time my gee