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RomanceRe: Yoruba Men The Most Wanted Men In Nigeria. . .By Nigerian and Non-Nigerian Women by ShyOne(f): 4:13pm On Dec 12, 2010
@ Mrs. Eve:

I completely agree with you. I couldn't have said it better.

Thank you.
RomanceRe: Yoruba Men The Most Wanted Men In Nigeria. . .By Nigerian and Non-Nigerian Women by ShyOne(f): 3:51pm On Dec 12, 2010
yankite:
@livedit

Wished  most of the American women sees from your perspective
when it comes to choosen their men,but most of them are so immatured in
their prefrences,that mr right come and go without them decerning.Most are
so used to this so call "GROWN AZZ MEN" that depends on all the government
benefits the woman gets,and those ar the guys they respect more anyways.
All in the name of cuteness,nice looking,and all this blah,blah they put on top
their priority when choosen men,to most,an african man is to local and primitive
for some of them to date,and to correct your notion we are all africans but we
are different in language,character,believes and geographic location,since a lot
of Americans still don't know in this 21st century that Africa is a continent and
not a sole country.
It sounds like you've been hurt.  "Most American Women" - that is a blanket statement and very, very far from correct.  I haven't been on "Government Benefits" for an American Man to live off of me and the majority of American Women that I know "haven't either."  I also haven't dated nor married an American Man that would deal with a woman who "lives on Government Benefits."  So please correct your statement.

As far as knowing about Africa - I do agree with you.  The majority of Americans are "ignorant" about locations outside of America as there is little need for them to research or wonder or have the inclination to learn or "find out" anything about areas outside of the U.S. [unless it's to vacation] as everything they would or could want is located "inside the U.S."

The majority of Americans when in High School and/or College focus on learning about areas outside of the U.S.  Once they are out of school and in the workplace - the grueling work schedules of 40-80 hours per week for the average American, the harsh weather, family demands, etc consumes the waking hours.  It takes hundreds of thousands to pay for this "so-called" LAND OF THE FREE LIFESTYLE.

The Home I occupied for the past 3 years was $24,000.00 per year which doesn't include food, clothing, car expense, insurance, electric, heat, etc,

I can safely say that learning about Africa or any other location wasn't too high on my priority list as it is with most Americans.
RomanceRe: Please Treat As Serious And Urgent I Need Your Advice And Way Forward by ShyOne(f): 4:53am On Dec 12, 2010
@ OP

Run

She is lying. And she isn't even good at it.

It is obviously manifested in an attempt to line her pockets.

What I find odd is that she couldn't have thought up a better line(s) than this?
RomanceRe: Leading To Marriage by ShyOne(f): 9:01am On Nov 22, 2010
I agree with JayBee but to take it further.

I would go with the 1 year man - because if we aren't married and we have been dating for 5 YEARS that is an indicator that WE WON'T GET MARRIED.  Why have you been dating for 5 years and he still has no job?  And you still aren't married?

Sounds "no good" to me.  The 1 year guy would be my choice.
RomanceRe: Yoruba Men The Most Wanted Men In Nigeria. . .By Nigerian and Non-Nigerian Women by ShyOne(f): 8:58am On Nov 22, 2010
I love my Yoruba man - I COMPLETELY AGREE WITH THE POSTER.
RomanceRe: Are Black Women Setting Their Standards Too High? by ShyOne(f): 5:20am On Nov 21, 2010
MzDarkSkin:
@ShyOne, no need to feel any way, it is just ital internet rivalry. I was bored.  wink I won't do it again and I will be nicer to what's her name.
smiley cheesy
RomanceRe: What's D Best Way 2 Relsove Dis, Ladies&gents? by ShyOne(f): 5:14am On Nov 21, 2010
hahahahahahaha

lololololololol

You guys are too much. Thanks for the thought process and the memories.

I will continue to douche and do it WITH A SMILE.
RomanceRe: What's D Best Way 2 Relsove Dis, Ladies&gents? by ShyOne(f): 5:22pm On Nov 20, 2010
I beg to differ

There are millions of women with Va-j-j, odor and NO INFECTION - ASK SOME MEN and WOMEN they will tell you different.

It definitely works for me - but I am not here to debate medically with you or anybody else.

I don't have infection, odor or complaints from my doctor or my mate and I DOUCHE and will continue to DOUCHE.

Just like I said DONE IN MODERATION IS JUST FINE.
RomanceRe: What's D Best Way 2 Relsove Dis, Ladies&gents? by ShyOne(f): 5:06pm On Nov 20, 2010
Nweddings:
^^^^^

Please do you mind posting a link from a govt health agency that says douching is wonderful and recommended.
Douching 1-2 times a month isn't harmful - I have been doing it for years - NO PROBLEM as I only douche after the menstral cycle and/or if I need to feel fresh - but only once or twice a month.

If you do ANYTHING IN EXCESS from eating to drinking to sleeping over a period of time IT IS ALL HARMFUL

Here is an article - it isn't from a GOVERNMENT HEALTH AGENCY as I don't pay much attention to Government Health Agencies as many of them HAVE THEIR AGENDAS to sell products and such - I just know what works very well for me:
http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/213485/to_douche_or_not_to_douche_a_womans_pg2.html?cat=5

I refuse to retain ODOR.
RomanceRe: What's D Best Way 2 Relsove Dis, Ladies&gents? by ShyOne(f): 4:59pm On Nov 20, 2010
misanho:
@ moralistli, y r U alwayz takin your head down there nd/or smellin your fingers afta diggin d honey pot?
@ shyone, we suffer from poor orientation in 9ja, tnx 4 educatin our chicks, Men dem stop usin vaseline n all dis plenty oils on those kitties it makes sweaty n smeally,lol, water based lubs r betta off. And kitty owners nylon panties r bleep n cheap, go 4 cotton kinda lacey undies dey provide ventilatn, funny abi. Crazy post, lwkmd
YOU ARE 100% CORRECT.

I hate cheap nylon, satin panties, thongs because they make you sweat really bad.  I LOVE MY COTTON - however if you are in need of silk or satin make sure that it has a cotton crotch - VENTILATION IS KEY.  You can find some really pretty, feminine, colorful cotton - if I do lace or silk it is only on special occasions for my guy.
RomanceRe: What's D Best Way 2 Relsove Dis, Ladies&gents? by ShyOne(f): 4:54pm On Nov 20, 2010
Nweddings:
Shy-one douching is not recommeded by health professionals

http://www.womenshealth.gov/faq/douching.cfm

The best way to keep the vag clean is to shave, wear cotton underwear, washing regurlarly with mild soap and water.
-----------------------------------------

I can find an article that says "douching is WONDERFUL and RECOMMENDED" - Health professionals every other year come out with differing information.

Some articles say eating bananas is harmful - other articles say eating bananas prevent cancer AND IS GOOD FOR YOU.

Douching is water - using douching too much offsets your chemistry - just like DOING ANYTHING IN EXCESS IS HARMFUL.

Douching isn't harmful if only done 1-2 times per month. You still need to wash the INSIDE - mild soap and water on the outside ISN'T ENOUGH.

Eating right is ESSENTIAL. I douche and I'm going to keep on Douching. I don't like smelling va-j-j - and that includes my own. When I do for MEDICAL CHECKUPS the doctors always MARVEL at the condition of my va-j-j - and I am not overexaggerating.
RomanceRe: What's D Best Way 2 Relsove Dis, Ladies&gents? by ShyOne(f): 3:56pm On Nov 20, 2010
THANK YOU for posting this thread

YOU ARE COMPLETELY RIGHT - many, many times - I will go to the toilet (public) here in the U.S. at a fine restaurant and another woman has just come out of the stall ahead of me and I have to "hold my breath" her va-j-j - STINKS/REEKS sooo bad.  White women, black women, wealthy, poor, old, young. 

Also - the interesting part of this is that MANY TIMES these are very beautiful, well groomed women who just DON'T KNOW and haven't been properly trained TO KNOW - I guess they think that the smell/scent/odor is natural to all women AND IT'S NOT.

It is completely ridiculous.  I really detest going in the bathroom behind most women - even when they urinate - the smell is at times very, very strong and foul.

In the past I have tried to approach a few to give them some tips and a heads-up - but have not been accepted well.  So I just focus on maintaining the condition of my own "Va-j-j" to keep me and my mate happy. 

I have deduced that those smells come from:

- cigarette smoking (what goes in must come out)
- drinking alcohol (what goes in must come out)
- NOT DRINKING PLENTY OF WATER
- NOT douching the "va-j-j" regularly after menstrual cycle each month and when not smelling fresh
- Douching should be done with vinegar and water at least twice a month
- Va-j-j  suppositories should also be used which flushes the area
- Shaving as much as possible (hair HOLDS BACTERIA, SWEAT AND ODOR) - if going "bald eagle" isn't accepted - washing the area more than once a day is MANDATORY
- NOT EATING PLENTY OF FRUIT AND VEGETABLES
RomanceRe: She Refuses To Wash His Clothes by ShyOne(f): 3:45pm On Nov 20, 2010
I love doing laundry - but a washing machine is a must.
RomanceRe: Are Black Women Setting Their Standards Too High? by ShyOne(f): 3:27pm On Nov 20, 2010
MzDarkSkin:
^^ok. *puts key in pocket and waits*

@ShyOne mind your damn business, I was just bleeping with her.

*deleted*
cry
RomanceRe: Marry A Chinese Man - A lot of them are Single and Hungry for a Woman by ShyOne(op): 6:39am On Nov 19, 2010
[quote author=Ms. Potato link=topic=553419.msg7173107#msg7173107 date=1290141774]I know Chinese men very well cause dont forget, Im half chinese maself.

Chinese men  loves money too much cause he thinks that with all the money, he is able to give his children the things which he never had. Therefore he works like crazy day and night and night and day forggeting that he needs to give love to his wife and children at home as a family but he forggoten all about it cause all he ever thinks is getting the money.

He thinks that with money, he is able to get away with the times he didnt spend with his family. The times where he had missed his children's school competition or the times he promised to pick his children up from school but never did untill his kids had to wait at the bus station till midnightor the times his wife has given birth to their child in the hospital all by herself.

When he becomes rich, he is so happy to start moving to a bigger house and to buy new cars for his wife and each for his children and by the years, he buys them cool gadgets like laptops and handphones and Ipods and he thinks that by buying stuff for his family, that is what you call love. Oops! I mean unconditional love cheesy

So there u have it people/ If you want a chinese men, its your own cup of tea. As for me, Ino way am I going down that road  wink[/quote]Ms. Potato:

No offense - but really ALL CHINESE MEN ARE NOT THE SAME - just like all African Men aren't the same. And I am sure that there are many women that will appreciate a man who provides and WORKS ALL THE TIME. I can appreciate your being half chinese - but I am ALL BLACK and I don't vouch to know ALL BLACK MEN.

Also, with the shortage of women - I am SURE THAT Chinese men who want a wife and girlfriend and female in their life - will at this point be ready to compromise. This epidemic is growing and you haven't in your lifetime seen the effects of the large shortage of women in China that is going to be paramount and therefore what you are used to seeing in men - won't compare with what you will definitely see in men in the coming years. As the shortage is of epidemic proportion.

Personally, I as well as many women that I know would prefer a man who works and provides versus one who doesn't. I thank God for my baby every single day.

I don't buy into assumptions. I am in America and my guy is in Nigeria - he sends me money - he isn't dating me for a "green card" or a ticket to the U.S. - I don't fit the "mold" of the worst scenarios and I am sure that many millions of Chinese men won't fit that mold that you have painted for them either. There are definitely people that live their life "outside of the box."
RomanceRe: Marry A Chinese Man - A lot of them are Single and Hungry for a Woman by ShyOne(op): 6:32am On Nov 19, 2010
She is HALF CHINESE AND HALF BLACK - LISA WU HARTWELL

[img]http://atlanta.metromix.com/content_image/thumbnail/3x4/351/659560[/img]



https://www.blackcelebkids.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/lisawu.jpg

Lisa's Mom is African or Caribbean - Lisa's Dad is PURE Chinese

Lisa was a dancer on Soul Train and is a Reality Star "Real Housewives of Atlanta" and she was Keith Sweats - 1st Wife and she is the Current Wife of a Pro Football Player here in the U.S.

http://atlanta.metromix.com/movies/article/mmx-talks-to-lisa/659560/content

-----------------------------
HERE IS A PHOTO OF LISA'S PARENTS - THEY HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR YEARS

https://www.asiancemagazine.com/files/active/0/200811_Wumomanddad.jpg


http://www.asiancemagazine.com/nov_2008/atlanta_housewive_lisa_wu_hartwell
RomanceRe: Marry A Chinese Man - A lot of them are Single and Hungry for a Woman by ShyOne(op): 5:07am On Nov 19, 2010
Gotta Go - Gotta Work

Will log back in tomorrow
RomanceRe: Marry A Chinese Man - A lot of them are Single and Hungry for a Woman by ShyOne(op): 5:06am On Nov 19, 2010
If a website were created - for "women of color" to meet a Chinese Man - I don't know how hard it is to get a visa for a Chinese Man - but many of them have the funds to Visit Nigeria if they have been talking online to Nigerian Women - they have the means to visit and to relocate to that area and/or to relocate a Nigerian woman to China if that is her desire.
RomanceRe: Marry A Chinese Man - A lot of them are Single and Hungry for a Woman by ShyOne(op): 5:01am On Nov 19, 2010
rokiatu:
Well I guess time is changing. Most Chinese man have never been attracted to African women and vice versa.
Thats a fact. And I admire them for that. Their determination for work and study is just unmatchable thats why most of them over here drive the best cars and live in the best houses.
Actually Rokiatu - that is the same in the U.S. for the majority of White Men - wouldn't dare look at a Black woman here - but ooooo baby when the lights go out and they are away from their friends - THEY LOVE BLACK WOMEN. Now since Michelle Obama - white men are much more open.

These Chinese Men will definitely be looking at Women - the nationality of the woman will mean very little - also you are in Africa - go to China - They won't be able to take their eyes off of you. I had some friends who went to China - most of those Chinese have never ever been out of China and have never seen a Black Woman before - they were touching her hair and asking to touch her skin.

http://news.yahoo.com/video/world-15749633/washington-state-makes-big-bucks-in-china-23080691#video=23098317

All I know is that we women can either choose to live alone and beg for attention - especially in the U.S. as many black men are dead and/or imprisoned - I always encourage women that you deserve to expose yourself to a "different thought process and try new and different."

God created us all.
RomanceRe: Marry A Chinese Man - A lot of them are Single and Hungry for a Woman by ShyOne(op): 4:48am On Nov 19, 2010
Bruce Lee and Jackie Chan are Chinese and they ARE NOT UGLY

They are very good looking men
RomanceRe: Marry A Chinese Man - A lot of them are Single and Hungry for a Woman by ShyOne(op): 4:46am On Nov 19, 2010
rokiatu:
I will be glad abt that. I heard that in fact I know that they work very hard so a lot of cash gonna be coming in at the end of the month grin
Also, they know very little about Black women and you can bet that:

They will cherish you
Work hard on your behalf
Our beautiful skin will be a huge turn on for them
Black skin - regardless of how light or dark it is - feels soft and smooth as butter
Many Chinese people study and work very, very hard and are big on FAMILY
Millions of Available and Eligible Chinese Men
RomanceRe: Marry A Chinese Man - A lot of them are Single and Hungry for a Woman by ShyOne(op): 4:42am On Nov 19, 2010
rokiatu:
Very rarely you see a Chinese man with an African woman.
I know - they don't get out much

But because you don't see it - DOESN'T MEAN YOU WON'T SEE IT.

The research doesn't lie

Shortage of women in China - Eligible Bachelors - I bet a Chinese man will jump at an attractive African or African American Women - I bet $$$$$$ they will.
RomanceRe: Marry A Chinese Man - A lot of them are Single and Hungry for a Woman by ShyOne(op): 4:39am On Nov 19, 2010
zubeyr:
I know south bend well I was based in Indianapolis I still have some business there
Good for you - you know your geography of this area - yayyyyyyyy for Zubeyr!!!!! whooopppeee

zubeyr:
@ rokiatu your sister gonna match you with one since there is shortage of black men and Asian girls but the add combination might be ridiculed as poor matches by whites blacks and Asians alike lol
I'm telling you - I will be like that Nigerian Toilet Man - you will be glad that you met me.  lolololololol

2 Words - Tiger Woods!!!!!
RomanceRe: Marry A Chinese Man - A lot of them are Single and Hungry for a Woman by ShyOne(op): 4:24am On Nov 19, 2010
[quote author=Ms. Potato link=topic=553419.msg7172955#msg7172955 date=1290136925]Those living in the village right? undecided[/quote]Thank you Ms. Potato - dispel that rumor - see how rumors start - it is called "lack of THOROUGH exposure and buying into assumptions"
RomanceRe: Marry A Chinese Man - A lot of them are Single and Hungry for a Woman by ShyOne(op): 4:19am On Nov 19, 2010
zubeyr:
Maybe since you are in northern Indiana and south bend is small and boring city why you don't set up your website and help out your sisters
zubeyr:
Maybe since you are in northern Indiana and south bend is small and boring city why you don't set up your website and help out your sisters
DANG - I wish I could - BECAUSE I WOULD

But I have no time for that venture - If I DID - I DEFINITELY WOULD.

Who knows - I still might.

"As far as South Bend being small and boring" - I own my own business and have clients in New York and Washington DC - so S.Bend isn't boring nor small for me - I also have relatives in the Big Apple, California, Atlanta, Florida, Colorado and several other states - so I do travel
RomanceRe: Marry A Chinese Man - A lot of them are Single and Hungry for a Woman by ShyOne(op): 4:18am On Nov 19, 2010
Isn't there a millionaire that made money off of "Portable Toilets" in Nigeria?

I bet they laughed at him in the beginning

But we all know that he is laughing at everyone else now as he makes his daily, weekly, monthly, hourly deposits into his many accounts.
RomanceRe: Marry A Chinese Man - A lot of them are Single and Hungry for a Woman by ShyOne(op): 4:15am On Nov 19, 2010
I think you are right

But - when desperate - things will occur that don't normally occur

These men are in NEED OF WOMEN - DESPERATE NEED "It is estimated that in 2020 there will be 24 million more men of marriageable age than women of the same age one million Chinese men will reach marriageable age every year and be unable to find a wife. Studies indicate that one in ten to one in six men —a number equivalent to the entire population of Canada -unmarried men between 20 and 44 already outnumber their female counterparts 2 to 1."

Those statistics - speak HUGE VOLUMES.

Many Chinese men - HAVE NEVER LEFT CHINA - you don't see them with black women because there aren't alot of black women in China. 

So an entrepreneur can introduce a website to these men - featuring black women as there is a shortage of black men for black women in the U.S. 

Someone is GOING TO JUMP ON THIS GOLD MINE.

I have also seen some really handsome good looking Asian men that are Chinese and that are productive, hardworking, honest, etc.

I am calling it as I see it.  I usually am NOT WRONG when it comes to money making opportunities.  Many times by many people I have been acknowledged as someone who can foresee events as well as profitable endeavors.
RomanceRe: Marry A Chinese Man - A lot of them are Single and Hungry for a Woman by ShyOne(op): 4:06am On Nov 19, 2010
Hey

Obama - is the first black president

So regardless of what the world is used to,

Change can and will happen

It's those of us with insight who can read the waters before the rest of the world that are the "Entrepreneurial Greats"
RomanceRe: Marry A Chinese Man - A lot of them are Single and Hungry for a Woman by ShyOne(op): 4:04am On Nov 19, 2010
Change is NOW

shortage of women in China - shortage of ethnic men in America/Nigeria

Sheniqua let me introduce you to Kim

Entrepreneurial MONEY BOMB

waiting to happen

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