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Make me feel like a woman

Every Person on this thread has experienced virginity - SO CELEBRATE EACH OTHER

We are special during different PHASES OF THIS LIFE CYCLE EVENT WE LIVE

I was a virgin for 18 years and proud of it

I am now sexually active with ONLY ONE MAN and physically speaking I am ONE OF THE CLEANEST WOMEN when it comes to feminine hygiene

Do the right exercises and your va-j-j will definitely feel VIRGIN TIGHT

So what is the hoopla?

Every man on this thread has been a virgin

And if the sex is right you can definitely still make your man feel like he's with a virgin if that is his desire

To each society its own - Depending on WHO YOU ARE virginity is either overrated or underrated

LIFE AND IT'S DAILY ISSUES IS SO MUCH BIGGER THAN who has or hasn't been between your thighs

[quote author=saridon_p link=topic=546443.msg7097345#msg7097345 date=1289157743]The best thing about having a beautiful white girlfriend is that she is ready to earn her own income and She need nothing from you except to love her and be around for her whenever she needs you.My girlfriend is white and I feel more relax for the first time in my life in a relationship.You also have to know that I earn more than her and somehow have more needs than her but she just dont give a damn about my money.I always pay the bills when we go out,even now that we are living together,I also pay the rent but she try to make me understand that she need to contribute but I didnt allow it and I gave the usual African culture thing.But she is not asking for money to shop from me or to give to her parents,she never talk about any problem that needs money.Believe me if you can find a girl that is not demanding any money from you except love,you will have some relief in your life!Maybe not all but it is very hard to cope with most black women[b]!If you found one that is less demanding and self reliant then cherich her whether black or white.[/b][/quote]I agree with this writer.

He is basically focusing more on "being able to focus on the relationship versus material things" because his mate "who happens to be white" doesn't have her hand out all the time. That is what he is saying as his last sentence specifically states that if you have a mate who is "less demanding and more self reliant" it allows him to cherish her regardless of her race.

My mate and I work very hard in our separate careers. I haven't ever asked him for anything because our focus is on each other. I have never relied on a man financially unless we were married and then we relied on each other as we supported each other in everything. So I can appreciate the thought process of this writer. The problem with forking over money prior to marriage is that you don't know what the woman is dating you or your wallet. It also puts soo much pressure on the man to perform - I don't want my man stressed out because he is working so hard to pay for both of us. I want both of us working to provide for each other so we can have time to laugh and love - I definitely don't want him worried laying in the bed next to me for it will affect his mood and temperament. We should be a joy and not a burden to each other. I feel STRONGLY ABOUT THIS.

First of All:

There are things hanging out in panties that a REAL WOMAN isn't going to want her man to see.

OK?

I wouldn't dare hand the love of my life my used thongs and g-strings and ask him or tell him to wash them. I WOULDN'T DARE. I love him too much and I would be humiliated for him to even see them.

Replace her immediately because she is going to replace you. I want a strong black man. That isn't even sexy. I don't want to see my man washing my feminine items. And he definitely wouldn't ever see the used ones.

The only panties he would ever see would be fresh, new, pretty. What have you done? Does she suspect that you are cheating on her and she is testing your love for her? If she is testing you this is a piss poor way of doing it.

Drama - I refuse to do it

You love me - YOU DAMN BETTER TELL ME

I don't do BS

No games - I tell you I love you, we tell each other all the time

I am not on a debate team - We argue every week?

Good bye

I know there is a man out there that will love me peacefully and I will give him everything I am and everything I hope to be.

Get rid of her or you will be back and forth and back and forth and back forth like a child on a see-saw on the playground at school.

This is your life - God built you to LOVE - God didn't build you to love one person - He built you to LOVE - your infatuation with her can be replaced by a new infatuation with someone else who is steady, consistent and peaceful.

I was a virgin until I was 18 years of age.  That is TRUTH.

I hated dating guys my age because they were inexperienced, and fumbled when we would kiss and hug -they were clumsy - they didn't know what to do and because I was a virgin physically, mentally and spiritually - I didn't know what I was doing either. 

I wanted an older man - because older men didn't rush me, didn't pressure me, they were gentle and seemed more concerned about my pleasure then their own.  That's why I didn't want a young man or a virgin.

Also, young men who were inexperienced would latch on too much and seemed more jealous and insecure and overly possessive and would be more likely to front me off so other guys wouldn't even look at me.  Very immature and too much drama for me.  Also I didn't want someone poking around my va-j-j and hurting me because they don't know what to do.

I am not saying that is why she left you or that you are clumsy or anything but that was my reasoning for not wanting a virgin. For me, when I was a virgin - sex was a very, very scary thing and I was extremely afraid to have both of us poking around in the dark and it was also very embarrassing for me so it was very comforting to have someone who knew what they were doing and knew the female body - this is only my opinion. Please don't be offended.

190:
I feel like xposing mobo444

should i xpose him!!

190 - please don't expose him

Whoever he is - I like his thought process when he is Mobo

He won't be the same if you do

Basseti:
Why are u making this discussion so complicated   Abeg keep it simple and dumb for the likes of us  
Let xxcarolxx believe what she wants to believe  

ok

xxcarolxx:
I am white and i sure as hell don't pay his bills and take him shopping, and yes i do expect my gift at xmas to expensive but it depends on what he can afford,

No offense - but he said "Most White Women"

I agree with him - I have more white friends than black friends

In America on "The Average" when you see a black man with white woman - 99% of the time if the guy isn't a celebrity, she is footing the bill

It isn't because he is necessarily using her - but the hierarchy on income here throughout the history of the U.S. - blacks make less money and were intentionally paid less money so historically white men and women have made more money than the black race - which includes the black man

Documented in millions of books the income disparity

So normally when you see a black man with a white woman - she generally is making more money - you will have those that have broken through the ceiling and he is making more than she - but the norm is the opposite

factually speaking how can you not agree with fact?

No one here is bashing YOU PERSONALLY because you happen to be white

CrazyMan:
And how many of them do you actually believe?

You should know that 70% of threads started on this forum are bunch of lies; we all make our post because some people out there reading might be experiencing the same problem; so at least, our posts might provide a solution.

But that doesn’t mean the topic starter actually wants to kill himself.

You have a very valid point - I agree

Sorry:

After further reading I am going to maintain my position.

I COMPLETELY AND TOTALLY AGREE WITH SEUN.

hahahahahaha

"extortionist demands" - lolololol

you and your comparisons and wording are too much

that was a good one

Oh noooo - what have I gotten myself into?

What spin-off?

Actually - I think you are right.

I am in love and I am working on not "being impatient"

I am spoiled and am used to getting my way all the time

I am really working on not being impatient and being more patient when I don't get my way

I admire and respect him very much so it actually has been quite easy for me to this point

@ medjai:

"stopped being shy"

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I am very jealous - how did you do that? That is a great achievement

I had a teacher in school

It was weird too - he was such a nerdy type - but very, very intelligent

I love super smart men - I like zone in on those types - their smarts make them look extra sexy and I just crave them

it's weird - lolololol

Very, very irresistible to me

degubi:
Nobody on Nairaland can take away your pain we can only offer advise and hope that you will pull yourself together and move on with your life. You do not have to go begging her to come back because it demeans you as a person, if she could not be sensitive enough to value her relationship with you when the so called best friend was making a pass at her, she definitely will not be sensitive now.

Sometimes you have to let the other person pursue that which holds their attention and hope for the best for them beacause as long as you have not put a ring on her finger she does not belong to you or to the best friend in question.

The days are going to be long and hard for you, but you have to start engaging yourself now in things that will distract you instead of brooding over your lost love, you need to keep away from things that remind you about her, music, books, films, romantic gatherings, romantic talks etc, you need to forgive her, do not give room for hate because if you hate her it will only give her power over you and make you fuel the hate more by brooding over her, thereby thinking so much of her and not healing as quickly as you want.

Life goes on my brother that is the truth, the world does not revolve around one individual and there is so much for all of us out there. You were heartbroken it happens, but you have to get on with your life. Be strong and give it time but most important do not give in to hate for her or any other woman. Learn from this and continually look out for quality relationships even as you try to give quality in your relationships. I wish you the best in the days ahead my brother.

Completely agree with this writer

OK - If my man starts crying - I will runnnnn!!!

I just am not built to handle that and I know deep inside that it isn't fair.

I cry - I also am NOT ashamed to admit that I do cry and I have cried to my man - he hears me crying and calms me down - I need him in this manner because I just do.

I know that men need to release - but I just can't take it.

Soo many times I don't know what to do in certain situations and I need his strength - if he is weak, my world will crumble because SOMEONE HAS TO CAPTAIN OUR SHIP and suck it up and unfortunately that is his job and my baby does it very, very well and I thank God for him every day.

I know it takes courage to cry as a man - but please don't cry in front of me - I'm too fragile to handle that - It would freak me out.

@ Jomo_gbomo

You are a very good auctioneer

That Mobo listing - I had a mouth full of liquid and your listing caught me off guard and I have liquid running down my face - I laughed sooo hard and I am still laughing.

Oh boy that was good!!!!

You are quite the marketeer and humourous character - The visuals you present are hilarious.

@TKB417

Please forgive me for being so harsh earlier - YOU REALLY HAVE A NICE PICTURE

I work all the time so the caffeine had me going like the energizer bunny

Sometimes NLers have to overlook my zealousness as it at times gets the best of me - I mean well - but tend to get a bit overexcited.

So I'm sorry if I offended you.

hahahahahahahaha

lolololol


I'm sorry Mobo - hahahahahahahahaha

That was soo funny!!!!!

OK - Mobo was bought on Page 4 - so he ISN'T FOR SALE - Tink_sh and I bought him so Jomo listing him spoke to quickly.

Mobo is OFF THE MARKET AND UNAVAILABLE. But that listing I have to say it was hilarious - lolololololol

[quote author=baby.me link=topic=544563.msg7069640#msg7069640 date=1288781911]I thot you've finally become normal till i got to the last point.
Heehehehehehe [/quote]I agree with baby.me

I was actually liking Mr. Cork and feeling so bad about the comment I made towards him in another post and then I read number 5.

[quote author=bk.babe97y link=topic=543157.msg7069145#msg7069145 date=1288777109]Not trying to say u aint got loot or nothin; like that. Afterall your standing in front of Italian Machinery at its finest.

I just got a simple question for u, boss, and pardon my ignorance. But:

WHY THE HELL DOES "YOUR" FERRARI HAVE A RENT SIGN ON THE VEHICLE SEATS?[/quote]lolololololololololol

{gasping for air and not succeeding}

lolololololololololololol

hahahahahahaha

lololololololololololol

ok - @ bk.babe97y - wow you caught that huh? What I caught was the purse and 1.50 paper cup with straw in hand that reeked of just walking on foot in heat and sipping to stay cool - the thought occurred to me that this guy doesn't own that car.

I didn't even see the "for rent" sign - I was just quietly convinced that the car didn't belong to him - and your wording was hilarious.

You Africans are wowwww! The things I have read on NL - have been creatively cruel and blunt - I just am not accustomed to strangers speaking to each other in this manner.

This has been eye opening. But your comment was funny - very funny.

slap1:
Shalap dia!

lololololol

Please if you are cursing me out - can you do me a favor and do it in English so I can at least pretend to feel bad, ok?

"the mind of little men" - sheeesh

come on say it in English - I dare ya!!!!!

lolololol

tkb417:
no ofeinse

u dont have moiney so dont talk to mr cock anyhow

You don't know what I have. But what I do have isn't in Naira. If this is your paltry attempt at trying to start up a conversation with me - you have failed. Just be yourself - I respond to blunt and upfront.

I see you are the current item for sale so just close your mouth, smile real pretty, strike a pose to profile your best features. I read that you don't do flowers or shopping and would leave your woman in the rain, you drink, you smoke, you are not romantic, and you would try to date my sister.

I own my own business so I definitely don't need you for money. As far as I am concerned you are "good for nothing".

Someone else can have you. {No bid on TKB417 coming from Shy-One}

Ladies HE IS ALL YOURS

oh my goodness, oh noooo

don't reveal this

it will burst my bubble

i won't look at them the same again.

[quote author=Cork-Mr link=topic=542902.msg7071997#msg7071997 date=1288799841]ok. apart from me, did anyone in ever here go to Univercity?  [/quote]You didn't go to a University - you can't even spell the word right.

[quote author=Cork-Mr link=topic=542902.msg7069960#msg7069960 date=1288784251]dyammm, nuff womens in Nairaland want to nyansh only Mobo, what about me?

Maybe they lesbians! [/quote]Because we are only interested in Mobo, that makes us lesbian?

WHO ARE YOU??

Odunnu:
I hope you understand your job description?

hahahhahahahaha

"job description"

that was priceless

hahahahahah

Yayyyyyyyy!!

Thank you Dyt -you are a wonderful woman.

Whooopeeee