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Thank you Tink___sh

I completely agree with you.  Mobo is gold bullion - a true treasure to behold.

We can make money with Mobo - I smell it sooo strongly - his tongue is his pen
With the proper housing and framework
Mobo will make millions

You see it - and I see it and he definitely knows it.

Yes we will take him for free and at whatever cost - he is no longer in the drain.

Sorry 190 - you sound like a great fellow - but we want no one but Mobo444

oh my goodness Dyt - hahahahahaha

where did you learn to talk like that? Mobo IS NOT AN ORANGTAN or whatever you just said

you are soo funny - what is WRONG WITH YOU PEOPLE?

Thank you Tink___sh

Where in the world would NL be without Mobo? I really enjoy his posts - his thought process alone would make me pool my monies and resources with yours to afford the price on him.

On a personal level once we have finalized the sale - I would have to bow out gracefully and leave him to you or my man would have my head on a silver platter.

Whattt!!!!!

Don't flush Mobo down the drain.

[opening drain cover and snatching him back out with plans of revenge with malice in my heart towards anyone that pulls that stunt again] 

Mobo is worth a lot of money, he is priceless.

I like you Tink____sh you are a good person.

It is my deep belief that Mobo is misunderstood - he is really a great person and if I were available I would bid $50,000.00 - $100,000.00 US dollars for him.  He is unique and very funny and that is priceless

Dyt:

Where is Mobo444

List him please

I want flowers delivered to someone at their office on November 5 in the morning in Lagos - please someone how do I do this? I am in the U.S.

I like this very much on Seun - and a nice picture too. This is very, very humorous.

If my man can't sing - please don't force me to have to listen to you as my comfort level will be ruined totally and completely!!!

If my man can sing - I want him to sing to me all day and all night. A man who can sing for me is VERY VERY SEXY,

I would be extremely upset if my man would online flirt with another female and he would be upset with me if I flirted online with another male.

No online flirting

He is ok with me answering questions, giving my opinion on topics, etc. But absolutely NO on online flirting and we are both on the same page - he knows it is wrong and I know it is wrong for us in our relationship as our commitment is EXTREMELY DEEP - he for me and me for him.

hahahahahahahaha

lolololololololol

[gasping for air]

lrlrlrlrlrlrlrl - hahahahaha

Ladies - I do thank you for that wonderful, hilarious read.

Mobo:

Is this "really true" about Yoruba men? Or are you over-exaggerating here. Please advise.

oopss!! I don't think soooo.

@ Akebulan

I LOVE YOUR THOUGHT PROCESS - YOU ARE SOO CORRECT!!!

An igbo man values his money more than his life? Ohhh ok - that is good information, I just learned something.

@ poster

run, run, run - quickly

if you run and he "really loves you" he will run behind you and START separating himself from some of that money and you will have some of what you have already given to him - FINALLY

run

TURN TO GOD

He will rid him from your thought and your heart and give you the strength to run and maintain your distance.

God doesn't love this man more than he loves you.

You are doing what God doesn't do - God doesn't love this man more than he loves you.

You are loving this man more than you are loving yourself.

There definitely are good Nigerian men who won't use you.

You already know that this man is using you that is why you cannot tell your family. You are not his social worker or his bank or his therapist.

Let him cry and tell him that he has joined the crowd because you are crying now to yourself and to this thread. Why have his tears affected you emotionally? Your requests for money hasn't affected him emotionally. His problems are his problems not yours collectively. He doesn't share his finances but he has his hand in your pocket.

If he were an Asian man would you do the same for him?

Run from this man and turn to God - he will replace him with one that is worthy of you. If you don't you will be singing this same old sad irritating song for many moons to come.

run

run,

One Word

"G.o.o.d.b.y.e."

Her very lack of "printing out her bank statement" or even "having the conversation regarding her bank statement with the bank official" in front of you her lover of 5+ years and future husband - MOVE ON

I hope I am not offending you as that is not my intent

TO respond to D-Sense:

I am on NL to see how my future husband lives and how Africans interact and how they view the world outside of Africa as well as how they view each other and how they talk to each other and how they treat each other. Also, how African men and women interact together and what they expect of each other.

My fiancee is Yoruba, he also is very active in his church and he is a parent and so I am investigating from a culture perspective. It has been very interesting and informative and entertaining.

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The threads that I respond to: Ones that I like are regarding areas that I have personal experience: sex topics (as long as they are not too x-rated and not too vulgar in nature), men and women interactions, human rights, women's roles, men's roles, when a writer asks for NL for help - if I can respond I do and if I cannot, I don't.

Anything too specific, I stay away from, I am not interested in dating as I am "spoken for" and I am really focusing on honesty, I have shared my NL id with him and so he knows who I am and will read my responses, the few times he is on NL (which is not often as he works long hours. I am really blunt and speak my mind and hold very little back even if it isn't what others want to hear - I still say how I feel.

Not good, not good, not good. Something is definitely wrong here.

Phlegmatic describes me best I think.

ok - well, I think you are very honorable and your statements about encouraging the men to marry is very good

thank you

davidylan:
hmmm i may be a little slow but how does washing dishes or helping out with house work "place God first" or "encourage both partners to be happy"? My woman likes things a little diff, she prefers me out of the kitchen while she cooks and cleans. My duty is to take out the thrash when she's done and most of the time she never mentions it, i just find it neatly packed by the front door! That's what works for us . . . is that not ideal as well and are we putting God last?

God doesn't compare so why are you?

God sees individuals and sees their VAST AND MULTIPLE QUALITIES and what works for you that is blessed, works differently for others and THAT TOO IS BLESSED.

So you both are putting God first - as God has created MILLIONS OF TYPES OF FIRSTS - THERE IS ONLY ONE HARMONY

Harmony = working together IN DIFFERENT SHAPES, COLORS, TASKS AND SIZES.

As long as the home is harmonious THAT PUTS GOD FIRST. Your home is harmonious the way YOU AND YOUR WIFE DOES THINGS, KOKOYE's HOME IS HARMONIOUS THE WAY HE AND HIS WIFE DOES THINGS.

God is love and harmony is a trickle down effect of love. How don't you know this?

@ 190

It is my sincerest wish that you and omolola can work through this somehow

I really looked up to both of you

You were good together and it showed to everyone

However, if you aren't able to work it out, you can still love each other from a distance and be kind and patient and considerate of each others feelings

She is feminine, kindhearted, sweet and appeared to be quite loyal to you and regardless of how many women you spoke to or flirted with, it seemed as though you had developed many deep and fond feelings for her that are still there now.

I hope I haven't upset you or spoken out of turn as obviously, your life isn't my business - I just wanted to take this opportunity to share that with you and I do wish you well with your endeavors

People can come and People can go - but qualities and character traits remain. You are both very good people, don't forget that on your daily walk.

Mobo:

That is so very honorable of you, hmmm, so you are showing another side of yourself to others.

But, you are married?


You're not married right? Your other post said that you married someone when you moved to london, but you are still married now?

And you are having sex with someone that isn't your wife? That's not what you are saying, or is that what you are saying?

@ kokoye

thank you sooo much. i love what you have said throughout this thread. that is the type of relationship that we should all have.

it is normal and should be viewed as the norm. it is my idea of a "real relationship" as I will have none other unless it is like that as well.

it encourages both partners in to be happy and comfortable with each other and it places God first.

again thank you for your contributions.