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@ Hazel E

Am good babe and trying so hard to keep my head up for some days now

maybe u are waiting for a towing van to come and tow u out of that relationship.

That was sure funny pal!

@ Topic.

What you need to do is to keep working harder to get more money to keep is sorry-lazy ass! Stupid!

@ Poster.

Like 'Funmi said, you need to pray about it. Aside that, please try as much as possible to find out if the guy is hiding something from you. You know questions just keep popping out of my mind.

How long was his first marriage?
Why did he divorce his ex wife? (though you will have to consider the ex's reason too) You can't just believe him without hearing the ex's side of the story.
Very importantly, why are there no kids while his first marriage lasted?

Friend, get him to answer some important questions and pray seriously. there's nothing marrying an older person.

@ Poster.

I really don't think there's anything wrong with you. I quite share your opinion of older women to "an extent". The point is just that older women seems to be much more matured and understanding than their younger counter-parts. They dont really "go off" over little issues like the younger ones will do. They are more composed and quite reliable.

I've gone out with two women that are older than myself my whole life. And I must tell you I enjoyed both. The first one was brought to an end by my elder sisters and my mum. Though I was very young then (think 18 and the lady was 25). The second one was fantastic and it was the most enjoyable relationship I've ever entered. I was 23 and she was 30.

All am saying is that, you shouldn't think there's something wrong with you. You are great and you just can't cope with the headaches the younger ladies are filled with.

The question you should ask yourself is, can you marry an older lady? For me, yes if we understand ourselves.

@ Coolkaboom.

Am not married yet. Hope that answers your question? I must say that you are not being rude. you were only asking a question.

Am not against marriage. I'll just like people to think well before doing a long lasting stuffs like that. It could either improve or devastate one's life if a wrong person is being married. When one is in "love", you usually don't think "well". It's just the emotions that keeps ushering your acts and thought.


@Akinagirl

Yes mam.

His craziness

@Iice  craziness in what way

Crazy people know what i mean. . .and no i don't mean mental disease

Laughing seriously  

@ Topic

I like her so much because she's just stubborn and strong-willed. Her understanding of my weird and naughty nature also gives her several pluses.

If there is one topic women like so much and talk about with much enthutiastic, it's marriage. That's a reason so many of them has been hurt so deeply. A guy will just promise them he's gonna marry 'em and before you say Jack, dem don fall "yakata"

Sincerely, I wouldn't expect the women on Nairaland to say something else than congratulations,best of luck, treat her well and the likes.

CONGRATULATIONS bro.i hope i will be invited to the wedding as the antie (joking) .God bless u

congratulations my guy. its so good to know you have this conviction about her. i wish you guys the best, and please never let your love go sour.

I actually feel lik hugging you! Use the rest of your days treating that woman right k? Make yourself worthy of her love! And if u hurt her in any way, i'l come after u with a stick! Have a good life man

What would you expect from a woman?

@ Coolkaboom.

Pal, please don't even think that am not wishing you well please! I have no reason on earth to do that. I just want you to be sure you can drop all that freedom now when it can actually wait! *shrugs shoulders*

@coolkaboom.

You don't have to convince me pal, it's all your decision. I'm only trying to make you reason deeper.

@ deyour.

What's pathetic about making him "look before he leaps" ? You didn't even say anything tangible other than CONGRATULATIONS ! Any dumb person can say that you know?

. . . . there must be a(some) jealous woman (women)!

@Poster

Congrats oo. I wish you all the best marriage has got to offer

But hope you've taught about it thouroghly?
Are you ready to give up your freedom to look at all these chicks in tight claddin' pants?
Are you ready to keep you face straight while driving with your wife beside you?
Are you ready to change baby's diaper in the middle of the night?
Can you cope with the sight of a very potruded tummy sleeping beside you for months?
How about the nasty inlaws?
Fuelling her car?
Won't you be bored sleeping ("fire" with the same woman all your life, when you can actually start a little bit later?
How about coping with a nagging woman simply because you want to hang-out with your guys?
Are you ready to follow her to church services every Sundays, when it's most likely that Chelsea will be whipping Man U's ass?

Just think about all the things you could enjoy a little bit longer before signing a "life contract" . this is just an advise from a compassionate brother

Best of luck.

@ Ayeesa.

I can't just help but keep wondering where you get this your "GBOROMIRO" topics from
You must have lived with your great grand mother for a long time for you to have all these funny and archaic topics. Please for your spouse sake, pack out of your great grand mother's house!

@ Topic.

I would simply let my friend have her as long as I can have his wife and daughters too

she taught me to be more persistent, dedicted, responsible, self-controlled. she's also teaching me to "chasing" women and to be more generous.

@ TOPIC

I've got nothing to say. Sorry.

@ Lux.

Where have you been pal? I've bn wondering wassup with u. Thank God you are back. Pal have got a good news for you. Do you still remember lady we were talking about then? The one that doesn't want to admit some stuff? Please tell me you do remember! Well, she finally "jelled"! . I've got gist, but don't wanna share it here.

yeah. a babe can date two guys from d same office, but believe me, even the security guy at the office would like to taste her "honey-hell pot" because the whole office would have gotten the gist that the babe is CHEAP.

Multiple dating guys will always be PLAYERS, while their female counterparts will always be WHORES


Bebe2007 how are you doing? Long time

most of the responses to this topic are dumb

The poster doesn't mean the girl's spanish is the problem. All he meant by "now speaking spanish" is that she's got a changed attitude !

@ Topic.

Yes. I can date a girl that still cribs with her parents. . . . Oooops sorry(the question is meant for ladies). Well, my fiancee started "seeing" when I was still with my parents. But have got job then shaooo.

I really don't think that's a problem. In as much as you show her determination to be responsible and get some jobs done. And you are so sure the lady really likes you.

@ Hazel

BECOS hee hee, if i agree i no go stop ooo

What do you mean there pal? . . . is it what am thinking?

I love this thread!!

Big head, Afro head, small head, thin soldier outta school? Didn't finish school maself!

Guys keep it on thot this was suppose to be Dating and meet up zone.

@skyhighh.

I salute and admire your courage bro.

@ Hazel eyed.

Na by force!

@ Sweetlove, kissme and other IDs you've used

You are FAKE!

Looking at all your posting, it's quite obvious!

@ topic.

Idon't share those bullshit types of kisses. I just kiss the way I want and get done with it!

Boobs are like pillows, the bigger they are ,the more succullent and comfortable they are

I pray my fiancee develops a bigger boobs, that way I wouldn't be jealous of my unborn kids when they are enjoying their mama's boobs. It'll be so much that it will go round for their papa's enjoyment too.

@ Hazel eyed.

How you know say na this kind topic I like? I no accept that friendship declination you proposed ooo. I'm your friend by force!