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chaircover:
HouseWife Type 1
Husband is very rich
She doesn't work or own a shop or do any business
Tells her husband she is going to Dubai to buy Jewellery to sell but she doesn't sell any and ends up using them herself
Rarely supervises the cook or go to the market
Doesn't do any housework
Spends day in her friends shops, at the salon, gym, shopping, gisting
Does not contribute financially to the family purse

HouseWife Type 2
Educated
Got married, fell pregnant had a baby but decided not to go back to work after the baby because she didn't trust anyone well enough to look after her "new" husband
Does not contribute to the family purse

HouseWife Type 3
Works from home e.g. Fashion designer, Hat maker, bead maker, Caterer, Writer, Runs internet business etc
Contributes to the family purse

HouseWife Type 4
"forced" to stay at home by low esteem husband who is scared that other men in the office will maul his wife; after all that's what he does to his secretary's and all those young youth corpers serving in his office
The wife is resentful & nags at the husband every other day anyway.

HouseWife Type 5
Lazy and doesn't want to work. Spends all day on the phone chatting, gossiping and causing mischief.

HouseWife Type 6
Chosen to devote her life to her family for a period of time until the kids start school and can look after themselves.
Husband doesn't earn mega bucks but she chooses to cut her coat according to her size and downsize for a number of years until she can go back to work.

HouseWife Type 7
Victim of circumstance due to illness, redundancy etc

These are all I can think of for now

What a very good post, not some on this post that have allowed civilisation to brainwash them ( over my dead body, never, i can never never, because i'm selfish, ). Keep it up sister.

topsy25:
Eyi a ba wi f'ogbo ni ogbo ngbo
Eyi a ba wi f'ogba ni ogba ngba
Oro ti okete ba ba ile so ni ile ngba

Adetunrayo oooooooo
mo pe o l'oni o
nitori bi a ba pe oku ni popo
alaye ni ndahun
latoni lo, bi o ba ri mi, ki o ma le sun
igbe topsy ni ko ma fi ba enu ooooooooo
Ase gun un

Kai iro lopa emi skyone oloro
emi ti a fi oba lo to ko si le bi ounje anaa
oya egbiripo eberipo ko ma yii ko mayii
otele otele ko ma ro ko ma ro
gbo' un ti topsy25 ba so ko ma do mi
oya ko ma mi

bad upbringing
greed
laziness
foolishness
poverty
lack of morality
many reasons

@JJYOU, Redfox, Mazi and fhemmy

I so much respect your opinions regarding this post.

It's sad to see Nigerian ladies reasoning in such a ridiculous way, i understand it can be tedious to go full house wife but i can assure you there are lots of benefits to it. Benefits that the money and career you are pursuing can not buy. You can be a house wife and still have a very good career life and you will be extremely happy; however it all depends on how you manage your life.

What's whole point of making a ludicrous amount of money while your house is not in order .

tpiah:
oh, I see you're one of those "oldish" new users who "know" tpia. In other words, a smartaleck.

As you met yours on this thread and started crying over being called a cow, I wonder what you'll do the day your actions really bite you in your behind. Cow na small thing.

I do hope you dont feel you have the monopoly on abusing others yet you hate it when others abuse you?

Keep on the way you're doing now and we'll see about that.

and what's with the little sister et al? Who be your sister? Whether you say little sister or aunty tpia is irrelevant if you want to get your a$$ whooped oh. A word is enough for the wise.

After reading your post, i can again conclude that the entire Nairaland users will now agree your reasoning are so shallow and very aggressive therefore they will all regard you as one of the baby in the house. Once again i'm not mad at you but cheer up and have manners so that you dont loose turn in future. Take care

[quote author=Tudór link=topic=285032.msg4065305#msg4065305 date=1245596236]How MANY slaves did he set free when he was alive? Okay he allegedly raised some dead.heal a few blinds but how many slaves did jesus LIBERATE?[/quote]A lot but by figure/data record Tudor i dont know, however have you read Luke, John and James. Include Mathew as well.

[quote author=Tudór link=topic=285032.msg4065305#msg4065305 date=1245596236]God is not happy with captivity yet his best buddy abraham had a sex slave. . . When will you xtians stop deceiving yourselves[/quote]He's a Just God, he will forgive your sins if you sinerely ask Him to forgive you.

toneyb:
Oh yea? So one of the ways to "save" people is by lying that it does not rain on the top of mount carmel because Elijah cursed the mountain . Don't you know that you and the moslems are all suffering from the same delusion?

We call people like you a big dumb fool, and do you why you are so so foolish, it's because as old as you are you still rely on your pals and mother to tell you informations which results to pack of lies.

We need muslim cleric to debate here not a confused and deluded man of the first order like you (oh we also call you atheist) Ode alai ni ironu.

[quote author=Tudór link=topic=285032.msg4064617#msg4064617 date=1245570644]How can you say slavery started 400 years ago?. . . Father abraham had slaves and it's well documented in the bible. The isrealites were held as slaves by the egyptians for years and later released. Upon gaining their freedom they were commanded by yahweh to raid,loot and kill taking slaves where they can.
Jesus came to set captives free indeed. . .Show me where he outrightly condemned slavery in the bible. . My point is your god has no problems with people enslaving their fellow men and as a race who were once victims it's an insult on our fore fathers to bow to the god of the slave master. . .[/quote]The bolded part is very wrong and stop mis quoting the bible,

A simple phrase; HE CAME TO SET THE CAPTIVE FREE, i hope you understand the meaning of captivity. Get a bible and find the bolded part in the book of Luke, John and James. By the time you read through diligently and be sincere with your bible study i bet you will see yourself in darkness.

[quote author=Tudór link=topic=285032.msg4064617#msg4064617 date=1245570644]My point is your god has no problems with people enslaving their fellow men and as a race who were once victims it's an insult on our fore fathers to bow to the god of the slave master. . .[/quote]God is not happy with captivity and that's why He sent His Only begotten son to deliver us from captivity. John 3:16. I would have love to engage you but you need to be delivered from atheism by prayer first before you can actually see the light in the bible study. Other than this i would be wasting my time with you.

tpiah:
@ bolded

check your posts.



[size=14pt]and let someone with two heads start running mouth around this forum because I pointed it out.[/size]

well' you will meet yours in future carry on my little sister and happy father's day.

justybaby:
mr skyone y r u so interested in knowin more about dat stuff dat dosent exactly speak well of my beloved country, u know wat? explore ur country, research about all those ugly stuff; mafia,disgusting incest, lesbianism nd d numerous drug crimes commited their everyday post it here on nairaland  then  u can come back nd i wil tell u more about black magic in Edo state. sincerly i will, i promise

Have WE crossed each other's boundary before, by the way all you've mentioned about UK are all true but don't you think they are even worst in Nigeria now adays i.e mafia = cults in Higher institution, disgusting incest = tuari by malams, cele and c and s, lesbianism= just vist shagamu FGC GIRLS, nunerous drug crimes = weed, cocs, herro are all on the rampage on niger streets  prettybabe Nigeria is almost worst in everything.

Anyway i was baffled when you said enuf women own there homes (and) tanx to sex work, edo state is fast adaptin, their women even hav more power as far as black magic is concerned . Plz elabo for me i beg

justybaby:
Edo state? Edo state where enuf women own there homes tanx to sex work, edo state is fast adaptin, their women even hav more power as far as black magic is concerned

To be honest r you really serious about this? Plz enlighten me on this

tpiah:
you've been flying around this forum calling people cows all day, yet you're weeping like a tap at being called the same.

You well so?

na your female family members you dey expose oh. 419er yahoo yahoo boy like you.

Maybe you're the OP sef who knows. Na only winch you date? cat human nko?

sweet dreams.

Where plz, anyway from what you've just posted i can sense you are a grown girl with babyish reasoning but my advise for you is this,  develop your brain and learn manners.

Again do you have problem with me explain the problem of the poster

tpiah:
you're a COW.

You are a big fool does cow use the computer

tpiah:
@ topic

you don enter hot pepper soup be that oh.

If your story is true.

You see how foolish you are, you've got nothing to say about it, every other normal thinking human being contributed sensibly but due to your empty brian and low insight for reasoning, instead of you to post sensibly you rather decided to call your uncle a cow, shame on you, go back to school and learn how to relate with people on a forum like this or you learn manners.

However if i have exposed you spiritually take it or you leave it.

GOD BLESS FASHOLA THE MORE , GOD BLESS HIM

@ Tudor
I thought slavery, civilisation and development all started in Egypt and dated back to 400 years ago (if i'm correct) before liberalisation.

The negroid were only enslaved for half a century and that's between 1850 - 1920 compare to those who were enslaved by the Egyptians which includes the English, Americans etc as we both understands process of migration.

To my understanding, i believe the world goes round and the issue of slavery exist in every country of this world before civilisation took over. Slavery in every country includes Britain, Nigeria, America etc, in fact here in Britain what will you call the situation of the Queen, She doesnt work, non of the Royal family works but we the nation pays them an unimaginable amount of money.

Slavery is part of the reason why Jesus came to earth, to liberate and set the captive free, but only to those who are willing to accept him.

AGAIN AND AGAIN AND AGAIN

She's an Emere meaning she's possesed with marine spirit or serpentine spirit. These group of dark power holders can let their spouse to be either rich or poor it depends with kind of mood they are.

As a matter of fact they are more powerful than witches, hence got theirs from second heaven. So my guy becareful they are real.  

You will need to go for deliverance silently first but then again she might discern but with God you are covered.

AND AGAIN WHERE ARE THE MUSLIMS IN THE HOUSE.

WHERE'S OLABOWALE

michelin89:
All wicthes and wizards need that and those who believe them need a better education.

BETTER EDUCATION ON what my little sister

AGAIN THIS THE TRUTH, LISTEN AND SAVE YOUR LIFE

skyone:
She's an[b] Emere [/b] meaning she's possesed with marine spirit or serpentine spirit. These group of dark power holders can let their spouse to be either rich or poor it depends with kind of mood they are.

As a matter of fact they are more powerful than witches, hence got theirs from second heaven. So my guy becareful they are real.

She's an[b] Emere [/b] meaning she's possesed with marine spirit or serpentine spirit. These group of dark power holders can let their spouse to be either rich or poor it depends with kind of mood they are.

As a matter of fact they are more powerful than witches, hence got theirs from second heaven. So my guy becareful they are real.

She's an Emere meaning she's possesed with marine spirit or serpentine spirit. These group of dark power holders can let their spouse to be either rich or poor it depends with kind of mood they are.

As a matter of fact they are more powerful than witches, hence got theirs from second heaven. So my guy becareful they are real.

Backslider:
you are right to some extent but to build a big building is Spiritual Irresponsibility of the highest order. Giving succour to the poor is having great concern for the poor. There is no aspect of love that is intangible. You must see love. You take money from people and you use to build big building this is called the religion of the GOLDEN CALF

Now Read

Exodus 32
1And when the people saw that Moses delayed to come down out of the mount, the people gathered themselves together unto Aaron, and said unto him, Up, make us gods, which shall go before us; for as for this Moses, the man that brought us up out of the land of Egypt, we wot not what is become of him.

2And Aaron said unto them, [b]Break off the golden earrings, which are in the ears of your wives, of your sons, and of your daughters, and bring them unto me.

3And all the people brake off the golden earrings which were in their ears, and brought them unto Aaron.

4And he received them at their hand, and fashioned it with a graving tool, after he had made it a molten calf: and they said, These be thy gods, O Israel, which brought thee up out of the land of Egypt.

5And when Aaron saw it, he built an altar before it; and Aaron made proclamation, and said, To morrow is a feast to the LORD.

6And they rose up early on the morrow, and offered burnt offerings, and brought peace offerings; and the people sat down to eat and to drink, and rose up to play.
7And the LORD said unto Moses, Go, get thee down; for thy people, which thou broughtest out of the land of Egypt, have corrupted themselves:

8They have turned aside quickly out of the way which I commanded them: they have made them a molten calf, and have worshipped it, and have sacrificed thereunto, and said, These be thy gods, O Israel, which have brought thee up out of the land of Egypt.

9And the LORD said unto Moses, I have seen this people, and, behold, it is a stiffnecked people:

10Now therefore let me alone, that my wrath may wax hot against them, and that I may consume them: and I will make of thee a great nation.

If you annalyze the passage above you will see the hearts of the people were still in Egypt. if you read your post you will see your self comparing A general in the army of God to a Civillain.

The church is supposed to be the example of selflessness. I have some many quotes but i will leave you with these

Matthew 24
1And Jesus went out, and departed from the temple: and his disciples came to him for to shew him the buildings of the temple.

2And Jesus said unto them, See ye not all these things? verily I say unto you, There shall not be left here one stone upon another, that shall not be thrown down.

The building is not neccessary


John 4
21 Jesus saith unto her, Woman, believe me, the hour cometh, when ye shall neither in this mountain, nor yet at Jerusalem, worship the Father.
23 But the hour cometh, and now is, when the true worshippers shall worship the Father in spirit and in truth: for the Father seeketh such to worship him.

Josephus a Jewish historian.

wrote

Josephus speaks of the house to house fighting that occurred:

[b]These Romans put the Jews to flight, and proceeded as far as the holy house itself. At which time one of the soldiers, without staying for any orders, and without any concern or dread upon him at so great an undertaking, and being hurried on by a certain divine fury, snatched some what out of the materials that were on fire, and being lifted up by another soldier, he set fire to a golden window, through which there was a passage to the rooms that were round about the holy house, on the north side of it. As the flames went upward, the Jews made a great clamour, such as so mighty an affliction required, and ran together to prevent it; and now they spared not their lives any longer, nor suffered anything to restrain their force, since that holy house was perishing . . . thus it was the holy house burnt down . . . Nor can one imagine any thing greater or more terrible than this noise; for there was at once a shout of the Roman Legions, who were marching all together, and a sad clamour of the seditious, who were now surrounded with fire and sword . . . the people under a great consternation, made sad moans at the calamity they were under . . . Yet was the misery itself more terrible than this disorder; for one would have thought that the hill itself, on which the Temple stood, was seething hot, as full of fire on every part of it.[/b]



[b]The Church Premises is not for sinners. That is the Church is for the gathering of saints. You can have a revival for weak Christians, sinners and backsliders. if you were Hungry and I preached to you and you know I had the means to help you and some idol worshippers came to you and gave you food and house free.[/b]you would immediately want to know that god that the idol worshipper worships that does not have to know much about you or even preach to you before you beleive even though they lead to destruction.

If the church says all men and women should come for free food and housing in nigeria dont you know that the problems we have would almost be solved?


To teach and to feed are not mutually exclusive. You can teach and feed at the same time. Can you teach a dead man how to fish? This is where our problem is the responsibility is the Church Read

Matthew 25:31-46 (King James Version)

31When the Son of man shall come in his glory, and all the holy angels with him, then shall he sit upon the throne of his glory:

32And before him shall be gathered all nations: and he shall separate them one from another, as a shepherd divideth his sheep from the goats:

33And he shall set the sheep on his right hand, but the goats on the left.

34Then shall the King say unto them on his right hand, Come, ye blessed of my Father, inherit the kingdom prepared for you from the foundation of the world:

35For I was an hungred, and ye gave me meat: I was thirsty, and ye gave me drink: I was a stranger, and ye took me in:

( You did not say have faith and just believe alone there was action of Love )
36Naked, and ye clothed me: I was sick, and ye visited me: I was in prison, and ye came unto me.

( It did not say you are a Lazy man you want to reap where you did not sow )
37Then shall the righteous answer him, saying, Lord, when saw we thee an hungred, and fed thee? or thirsty, and gave thee drink?

38When saw we thee a stranger, and took thee in? or naked, and clothed thee?

39Or when saw we thee sick, or in prison, and came unto thee?

(it did not say receive your healing!) and just leave at that
40And the King shall answer and say unto them, Verily I say unto you, Inasmuch as ye have done it unto one of the least of these my brethren, ye have done it unto me.
41Then shall he say also unto them on the left hand, Depart from me, ye cursed, into everlasting fire, prepared for the devil and his angels:

42For I was an hungred, and ye gave me no meat: I was thirsty, and ye gave me no drink:
43I was a stranger, and ye took me not in: naked, and ye clothed me not: sick, and in prison, and ye visited me not.

44Then shall they also answer him, saying, Lord, when saw we thee an hungred, or athirst, or a stranger, or naked, or sick, or in prison, and did not minister unto thee?

45Then shall he answer them, saying, Verily I say unto you, Inasmuch as ye did it not to one of the least of these, ye did it not to me.

46And these shall go away into everlasting punishment: but the righteous into life eternal.[/b]
We are saved by this acts. Can you imagine We have a whole book dedicated to the Acts of the Apostle. just let us look for where they built any big building.

(1) Spiritual Irresponsibility of the highest order MEANING 

(2) Honestly i see why pilgrim gave up on you, your theological understanding is very shallow, imagine you said church premisis is not for sinners, barbarick in my ears

(3) Sit back and be honest with yourself after reading what you've posted, dont you think they are completely irrelevant for goodnes sake.

you know what take care

[quote author=~Lady~ link=topic=272515.msg3893371#msg3893371 date=1242796628]ehn come which part of the world are you living in?
forget naija sef, this is happening everywhere.

ok women have never fought for u and u are hoping that they will start now eh.

Ok I will fight for u (just so u know na play play o)

any other women willing to make segyemaro feel better for himself?[/quote]you dont have to worry about 7 women if you say i do to me

[quote author=mama-gee link=topic=279489.msg3988185#msg3988185 date=1244323277]sorry adultery is unjustifiable[/quote]in all situation or some

Backslider:
To be redeemed is to be free from the Command control of sin(the only potent power satan has over man) and the consequences, which we can only receive by faith in the Lord Jesus.

This is the innitial step.

After this we can safely say you the soul has been redeemed. but now we need to live for our redeemer so we must  BRING FRUITS that meet for Repentance

So that if you are a

1) killer kill no more
2) Liar lie no more
3) Thief steal no more
etc etc

Now the bible does not wants to make this law no way but because we love our redeemer we must not sin or we cannot sin. now leaving that, as a christian our duty is to Show mercy to people with a pure heart not wanting any reward in heaven or earth.

We can not give back the amount of love Jesus gave us but we can endeavour to give back love and care not expecting any praise of man or God. The bible calls it our reasonable service. 

The Christian is called to serve with or without pay.

He is saved Sanctified and then filled with the holy ghost and power

Good, and it means by asking me the question[i] is Queen redeemed or not [/i] makes it clear to me that you clearly believe that Pastor Adeboye is purely redeemed which is good as well.

Secondly, if you believe Pastor Adeboye is redeemed then dont you think he has the free mode to initiate the building of large a auditorium which now serves as a road to salvation for millions of people. Let me tell you, Love is having great concern about your fellow human beings not just giving money to the poor.

A lot of people need to be redeemed first before they can be fed and after they are fed they will also feed another who is lost and hungary; hence not only hungary for food but hungary for God.  HE SAID But rather seek ye the kingdom of God; and all these things shall be added unto you Luke 12:31.

It is no good if you continue to feed a child and you do not teach him or her on how to catch a fish, not good at all. This magnificient auditorium has saved many and teach many millions on how to feed for themselves and become a trainer in the process. Today an average RCCG member is to a certain degree comfortable.

So stop mixing the full responsibility of a government with church.

Galatians 5:19-21 (New International Version)

19The acts of the sinful nature are obvious: sexual immorality, impurity and debauchery; 20idolatry and witchcraft; hatred, discord, jealousy, fits of rage, selfish ambition, dissensions, factions 21and envy; drunkenness, orgies, and the like. I warn you, as I did before, that those who live like this will not inherit the kingdom of God.

@Noetic

Pls where are the muslims to defend mohamed, where are they ha ha i just cant find them na wa o

OLAADEGBU:
It is true that many of them have no clue as to the meaning of their confusing theories which has no basis but they all have one thing in common and that is the belief in the none existence of God. The Bible is so accurate when it says "The fool hath said in his heart, There is no God" and when it is translated to my Yoruba Bible it reads "An insane man says in his heart, There is no God"

They don't understand that our faith as Christians isn't just intellectual, it's experiential. We don't only know about God but we know Him.

The Bible says:

"Taste and see that the Lord is good: blessed is the man that trusts in Him" (Psalm 34:.

The man with an experience is not at the mercy of a man with an argument.

I'm sure after reading your post they will run away but i tell you, you can still catch them making fool of themselves on other threads, just watch.

Backslider:
@skyone

Is the Queen Redeemed?

To start with what's your understanding of being redeemed?

[quote author=oyinda. link=topic=286002.msg4060484#msg4060484 date=1245486387]good question. i don't believe in psychics but I believe in hypnotists though [/quote]Hypnosis is a gradual process of becoming a psychic, hence you relax yourself and start imagining situations in deep and severe mental concenstration that graduates to nervous sleep ( eys open but away from the activities of the world). This kind of practise is not healthy for a normal human being, if cares not taking it proceeds to a state of  mental disablement.

The practise also is what the psychic adopts but conjure spiritualism into it by a means of dark powers. So be very careful about what you do.

Read this again.
Psychic is an act of witchcraft, these group of people derive their power to foretell and foresee from the dark powers of this world. Yes in most times what they foretell comes to pass but the real purpose of it is to draw gullible people who are willing to serve GOD from the right direction.

It is one among many of Satan's axis of evil to manipulate the world and lure them in to the lake of fire. So be careful and dont be doomed.

"Then I saw a second beast; it emerged from the ground;
it had two horns like a lamb, but made a noise like a dragon. This second beast was servant to the first beast, and extended its authority everywhere,
making the world and all its people worship the first beast,
which had the mortal wound and had been healed.
And it worked great miracles, even to calling down fire from heaven on to the earth while people watched."
Revelations 13:11-12

Backslider:
@skyone

I have no where said that it is a sin to build a big building. But lets us look

You have a child and you have not paid his school fees and you are building a big house?

What is needful is not the building. The holiness and Love level in the church is close to Zero.  For me personally I am just waiting for one thing.

Charity is on a rampage at the RCCG camp, among many are the free delivery of babies and free medical treatment in the camp but Of course in other RCCG churches not sure about that.

As per holiness Pastor Adeboye is a Holy man to the core but as for other RCCG pastors not convincing that much but nevertheless the RCCG auditorium is a fantastic work of God.

And plz answer my question about the Queen's wealth compare to Pastor Adeboye