₦airaland Forum

yuzedo: Please instead of killing yourself for free and going to hell fire for nothing, submit yourself to Okija_juju & Co. Ltd to use you for money rituals. Your family will be paid N215,000 every month (this is higher than Suicide Bombing compensation at N112,050).

For further inquiries and bookings plis contact Sweetus & Sons but no daughters Nig. Plc. 1 Alaba Macket, Alaba.. Tenk!

Airforce1: I do not see wizkid marrying these girl if u ask me..

She go just grow old like Rita Dominic waiting for wizzy's proposal.

simpleworld: thanks for your study link but my aim is to work not study because i no sabi book

heisenberg33: Normally i try not to comment in this section of nairaland but posts like yours necessitate some exceptions once in a while. First of all, may be in an attempt to impress a targeted audience here on nairaland, you made lots of assumptions and wild conjectures. How does not having money correlate with the prevalence of Aids in Africa? I really need more explanation on that. Does the availability of money in anyway whittle down the prevalence of the scourge?? Is the cause of the pandemic the absence of money or being jobless as you implicitly stated? Secondly, you said "instead of them to focus and be innovative and creative like their mates in Europe and America". This is a sweeping statement which erroneously alludes that the youths in America and Europe are more focused than those in Africa. There are no trusted statistics to prove this, what they have is a government that enables the innovative and focused ones reach their goal. There are lots of youths in America and Europe wasting away just like you find them in Africa, a few innovative and focused ones may not be representative of the entire sample. Furthermore, i fail to see how being innovative and focused would reverse the spread of the scourge.

The biggest Faux pas you made is stating the age long Nigerian relationship "maxim" that "you want a girl to be your honey, yet you do not have money". This is a gaffe highly reflective of the Nigerian mentality of aggressive love for materialism and consumerism, and you need to rid yourself of such thinking, it reeks of low self esteem. How does being in a relationship translate into being a financial house? I am really mystified at such thought process. The girl is not rendering you any service so why are you compelled to pay her? why isn't she paying you? Yes, once in a while partners can share gifts and live up to some financial responsibilities, but this is not a right of any of the partners, it should be solely within the capability of the partners, and should not be restricted to any of the sexes. Guys like you are the reason why our girls get the wrong message and i don't blame them. Now, you may bring the issue of sex as a justification for the guy to bankroll the lady. Need i remind you that sex is a mutually enjoyed activity by 2 consenting people, so none of the partners deserve to be paid any more than the other.

I believe in being generous in a relationship but that is not a responsibility, it should be out of the magnanimity of the partners. It is preposterous and very parochial to assert that no one should go into a relationship without money, this is the quintessential Nigerian thinking which you need to extricate yourself from. A boy deserves as much right as a girl to receive financial aid in a relationship, it is not the sole prerogative of any sex.

Finally, i do not know your aim of writing this, but if it is to lament the spread of Aids, then the issues you have raised are tangential to your objective of righting this. Also, if your aim was to emphasize the importance of spending on a girl compulsorily, then these points you have raised are incongruous with judicious reasoning

SugaryBelle: 1000 likes for what nah? Your posts on this thread contradict each other,which side are u on abeg?

Sweetlemon: That's not what I meant.
The bottomline of my point is that guys of nowadays are not as hardworking as guys in those days.
Fine, you don't have a job, but why can't you start a business? Just start something no matter how small. I'm a firm believer that whatever you sow is what you will reap. Work hard and gradually, you will begin to reap the fruits of your labour.
The bitter truth about life is that love is not enough to make a relationship last. There are so many other little ingredients that are directly or indirectly connected to money. In fact studies proves that most broken homes are either caused by sexual or financial issues.
My mum usually tells me that love makes the wedding enjoyable, but there are so many other things involved in making marriage enjoyable.

Advice to ladies: you can marry a broke guy, but make sure he has a clear cut plan for his future and make sure that future looks bright enough and not too far away form the present.
(You don't want to wait till you are 50 yrs old before you can be able to take the kids abroad on holidays do you?)

Sweetlemon: Op God bless you! Guys like you are so rare!
You see the broke a.sses giving the excuse that they want the girl to love them the way they are. Please how many of you can sincerly love a girl that does not have a womb?
Nonsense!
Guys of nowadays are so damn lazy!

idnoble135: @slap, is it the general stats that brings in the money or the amount of time/clicks(aside advertisement) spent on the site?

homesteady: it is true oh!!