₦airaland Forum

perestroika19:
Yes , the place is sandwiched between Agodi Police station besides Methodist church at Gate and Testing Ground at Idi Ape. But it's closest to testing ground though

you are right, it's just surprising there is no security in security anymore in Nigeria!

splashbaby:
Na me Bleep up...we too sabi things for head...Na man city exit I take write am. But still the team didn’t decline after the sales, infact Rooney declined instead

go and sin no more!

udemzyudex:
Clubs have not started paying unnecessary amount for players then.

you are joking right? Did you read the part Rooney was offered £200,000 a week? If that is not outrageously much in 2010 then I don't know what you are talking about

sammhi:
Best response I read
Rooney questions are motivated by love for the club
Others would have kept quiet and then there would be dip in form or request a transfer
Alex was wrong ....he should have explained to him
Dictator ..no wonder he left Manu same way he met it

What are you talking about? Manu still won the league 2010-11 and 2012-13 even after those players left. That shows the quality of a good manager to me. You don't match to your manager's office to question him on such, no player is bigger than the club...even Rooney!

splashbaby:
That wasn't true afterall from Rooney...he lied in the statement afterall. Ronaldo and Tevez didn't leave the same year. Tevez left in 2013 while Ronaldo left 2009. Before Tevez left MANU, RVP was brought him and topped even Rooney in goals scored. He came in just one season and became highest goal scorer in the league. The ambition showed by MANU left Rooney in the cold for been so stupid to consider joining Chelsea.

you mean you still wrote this when there is Google?

Lumig:
Sorry Rooney it was a period when the Ronaldo charm was very potent on Sir Alex Ferguson.
His eyes don clear now

Ronaldo's charm was potent on Ferguson but he sold him....please use your brain, you obviously didn't read the story!!!!

VEHINTOLAR:
She said the state had been locked down to prevent the robbers from escaping from the state.

How do you lock down Ibadan of all places ? Ibadan is too big to be effectively locked down in a situation like the one at hand ma ! I just wonder why is it that whenever there is a gun battle between armed robbers and the police,the robbers seem to always have upper hands? Why ? Poor training or something ? It is rather unfortunate that even in this case a police station (Agodi ) is very close to the robbery scene yet,the robbers robbed their victims successfully, killed them and escaped with their booties ! What exactly is working in Nigeria again ? Nothing ! May God rest the souls of the departed ones.

what do you mean by Agodi police station is close?.....testing ground where the incident happened has police station oooo

chiokeman:
What's the essence of cashless policy by CBN?
Who moves cash around in this modern world? This shows we are far frm third world country.

moving cash and cashless policy has nothing to do with third world, bullion vans still move cash in every part of the world even US and Canada

YinkaOlusesi16:
How can she foolished to go back to him after travelling to turkey. Opportunity wey some nigerian girls dey find, they will not even come back.

do you have trouble reading? Do you also have trouble understanding English from the video??

We4all:
I am not part of the problem but just stating the obvious truth. He should be prosecuted here as the Government of America would have done the same if the roles were reserved.

We don’t have to dance to their tune cos they don’t own us. Do you know what the biggest fraud is, allowing millions to pay for Visa and SEVIS fee only to be told that there is no interview date.

Plus, do you think Nigerian fraudsters would be successful if their American counterparts were not aiding and abetting them?

Let Abba Kyari face the punishment here and not some damned country with a sense of superiority and entitlement.

I'm sorry if I don't subscribe to your claims, let an American commit a crime in Nigeria first before making such claims. The crime committed here was in the US and that's why they will be tried in the States. There is no reason for debates here....he should go face his trial abeg. Also, the big question we should ask ourselves is "is there an extradition agreement signed between Naija and US?" If there is....then no reason for debates but if there is none, then you might have a point!

We4all:
Why not reverse the question, if it were a US citizen, would the government of America hand him over? Of course not! So, why must we dance to their tunes?

you are part of the problem....even if what you are saying were true, does that mean that criminal should roam freely? It's because nobody would trust the judicial process in Nigeria for such a criminal in high place!!!

enonche85:
Is there anything like a super or spotless cop in Nigeria?.

yes I know one....he died in 1914

Wawelexy:
What does it take to handover a crimanal to the us police?_

Imagine if the us is asking Nigeria government to handover kanu for prosecution? Will it take this long?

you can't compare the two of them, Kanu is not a friend to the government but this criminal here, he is part of the government (think about the criminal friends this criminal has in high places that will be fighting for their secrets not to go the US with him)...just my thought!

oilmane:
Your brothers wife stopped their kids from going to school, they didn't go to school for a whole term, your brother is aware but didn't do anything about it, they are still not going to school in this new term, your brother is still not doing anything about it, guy your brother day use he wife cover face, they agreed on it, no man, no matter how weak he is will allow this, is the wife the one paying the kids school fees? Your brother just day paint his wife black and u day join am too, she's not alone in this.

I think I am with you on this...is he saying the school fee is paid and and none of the kids show up in school?

HarunaWest:
Na me know why i talk make him no apologize. If he does, its just for formality sake. Someone like him doesn't feel remorse that's why i just asked him to change hence forth. I could still see a big ego in his write up. No need flogging a dead horse, e no go wake up.

then he shouldn't come here asking for how to apologize when clearly he is not ready to. If he truly wants to change, he should first bring down that shoulder he is raising by apologizing for his past....then change for better. Regardless of how things turn up later in their lives, because this op will go back to being wicked once online business no bring money again oooo

HarunaWest:
He shouldn't apologize for the past. He should just change that's all. His wife has already taught him how to be caring,so he already learnt his lesson.

read through the write up again....no, he has not learnt anything, he is only here because the wife makes more money. He would have continued in his wickedness if the wife was broke. He needs to be truly sorry and apologize!

All I can deduce from the op is....he is not ready to apologize and he doesn't feel any remorse yet but shocked there can be any woman who after going through the different phases of depression, oppression and belittling from this mofo called husband could turn out to be this nice even after God answered her prayers. This id*ot thinks marriage is a competition and he is the husband in that family but alas the real husband just showed you how to put a family together. You would not have come here if this woman wasn't making that much money but continued in your wickedness. As for apology, nobody can teach you how to apologize to your wife of 11 years if truly you are remorseful.


I remember when my wife had our first baby, she woke up one night and started crying with the baby in her hand. I took the baby from her and shouted at her for crying in the middle of the night after asking her what was wrong and she said nothing.
About 2-3 years down the line, I took a course at work and was taught about post-partum depression. I went back to her to apologize for my senseless behavior as I was totally naive. Swallow your stupid pride and go apologize to your woman. God only showed you everything in this life can be temporary. My 2 cents!!!!

WoundedLamb:
@bolded, it's obvious the only reason you're considering saying sorry is because she now earns much more than you do, and you fear she might hold it against you or start treating you the way you used to treat her. Sir, you were evil to her. You probably put her through series of depression phases, and you would have been doing that up till this moment if she was still earning less than you. And you're telling us you're just like that. You're just like how? Just naturally wicked? How would someone that treats his wife like this treat strangers?
You can't even bring yourself to say you're sorry to your wife of over a decade. And please, don't say you just wanted her to braze up (whatever that means). That's what you tell yourself to get rid of the guilty conscience that's obviously eating you up. You obviously know that's not true and that's why you feel this way. Acknowledge your wicked acts without excuses, that's the first step to your peace of mind.

I pity the poor woman. People like you hardly appreciate others. So if you're saying she's such a nice person, then she must have really endured so much to the extent that you're even surprised yourself. She might not tell you this, but she hasn't forgotten how you made her feel. People forget what you say or do but not how you make them feel. The apology you're yet to give started losing its value the moment she started earning more than you, and if you wait till she officially brings up the past before you eventually apologize, the apology will be almost valueless. You are a lucky man. This lady has shown you love that even your hardened heart cannot deny and it's unlikely she'll stop now. So just go and apologize whichever way you know how to, she has obviously at peace with her fate.

Two important things:
1) For the sake of your mental health, don't give yourself excuses for treating her the way you did. Saying things like "I only wanted her to braze up", "that's just who I am", etc. might make you feel better temporarily but the guilty conscience will always come back.
2) Your attitude after the apology is more important than the apology itself. Anybody can apologize but it takes a genuine heart to make changes.

wow!!!! God bless you for this!

Dchampion65:
Let me be sincere with you,

She is wiser than you think.

Her strength is in her meekness. You can never win against her.

Better make sure you sincerely apologize now and come down from that husband horse you are riding. Change the properties to both names or register a company where all the names of your children also will be included and use the company name in all properties.

Listen sir, your karma is waiting for your old age when you will not have strength to do anything.

I pity you, just know that she is not DUNDEE UNITED

you are smart!

HarunaWest:
Dont Apologize for the past for it has passed. Rather, appreciate her for what she has done and start footing the bills henceforth. Also buy her little gifts from time to time whenever you return from office and take her on weekend outings at least once a month. Cinemas, shoprite, parks, clubs, trade fairs et al. Do all these and have peace.

how can you say he should not apologize for the pass? I wonder what the difference is between you and the op....like really? Do you think the op would have said anything to Nairaland if the wife's status had not changed?

tunize:
Left Colombia not Canada, her name was Canada ashley

are you kidding me? She is Canadian. British Columbia is in Canada

PAQ:
Bugatti's interior needs to grow up. The benz is superb, but if u get werey woman, no make am vex inside o!

trust me, Bugatti is definitely not for people trying to buy their first car but those who would add it to the likes of benz, Bentley and Rolls that they already have. So most of us (billionaires) don't look at the interior but adding a Bugatti to the collection is dope!!!

olugabbie:
Mercedes is not in the same class with Bugatti & Lamborghini. They are way more expensive. They sport cars mentioned above are built for speed. They are equipped with mad engine.

you are so wrong on this one. There are benz in the same price range as a Lamborghini urus. Bugatti is usually more expensive though

AmazingELixir:



Op you no try oo.....nairaland wey somany bad mouthed Mofos full naim you tell your kid sister to come see comments...anyways happy comment reading.

but surprisingly the comments have been reasonable

CountVersailles:
It's really sad what has happened to your sister. But firstly I put the fault at the door of your father. He didn't make the right decisions. I'm sure he's one of those people who think being strict with his children is the best way to raise them. I'm sure his eyes don clear now. He needs to grow up and start taking the right decisions starting with welcoming your sister back and offering her a good support system.

Your sister on the other hand needs to pick herself back up. It's not going to be easy, but the earlier the better. She's still young at 21 and this is the time to do it. By the time she's 30 and she hasn't achieved much, she'll look back and regret not making healthy decisions. At this stage it won't even matter whether she's married to the guy, enjoying a blissful marriage or not, or raising a child. Nothing would matter. Time would be far too gone by 30 and picking herself up at that time will not be an easy thing. There have been multiple cases like this and most of it ended up bad. It'll be incredibly surprising if she turns out to be an exception. That won't happen.

I'm not sure how you jumped to blame the father...hope you understand it is the same father that raised the op writing this? If the op turned out well, then who go become poki go become poki pikin!!!!

WBworldwide:
I have been dating this girl for more than a year and she has been nice to me. But things hasn't been fair to me. She's an orphan, same thing as me.

I am a street boy and we are both in our final year in school. I made some money before she came into my life and then I went broke ever since, i am not blaming her or something but there are some things i can't share here about her.

So she travelled for the holiday for like three months now. She has changed, she told me her cousins are doing well and that their boyfriends' bought cars for them and that she has tried for me.

I really feel for her. That was one of the reasons I didn't want her to go home at first, negative influence. So, she told me she needed space that i have not been trying financially.

I told my friend and he said i should forget the girl for now. The thing is, I don't even blame her, I wouldn't stay with myself if I was her.

I'm just heart broken not being able to do anything.

I'm not simping o... Things are going well for me this period without her being here, i just feel for her that's all.

I'm a full stack hustler... I believe myself die... Even area believe me too

I swear, I like you already!....please keep believing in yourself, then marry her friend when you hammer finish!!!!!

fergie0o1:
She also shared a voice note (an audio recording).... You can listen to it here: SOURCE

From the voice note, the incident took place Oct 22, 2021.

Excerpts:-
Man: Harriet, raise your f*cking foot. Move your legs up.......move your f*cking legs up

Woman: No.........I don't wanna have sex

Man: What the f*ck you want, you sh!thead

Woman: Masonnnn

Man: Shut up talking to me......Stop

Woman: Stop putting your d*CK in there

Man: I am gonna f!ck you, you t.wat

Woman: I don't wanna have sex with you

Man: I don't care if you don't wanna have sex with me, damn me

Woman: Why do I have to do this, though?

Man: So I should I be polite and you won't do it

Man: I should be polite you won't let me do it as well, so what do you want me to do.

Woman: the pains.....

Man: Leave it alone

****creaking sounds, creaking sounds****

Man: Push me again one more time and see what I'll do.

can someone please send a tailor to that guy to take his measurements...we need to order an orange Ankara for his jail time!!!

dvkot:
after he raked in multi millions from assurance

how did you know that? Do you have his bank details?

dvkot:
how much did she bring in for him? How much did he make from assurance sales and besides davids not on my list?

we don't know how much Davido made or did not make from Chioma...but he bought her a Porsche and Chioma is a girlfriend not a wife

poweredcom:
True talk ...many guys are idiot ...why should I buy a high end car for a girlfriend whom at any day she can. Change am for me and the car is gone

Some men are very foolish ..small change Dem get Dem de take am please these yeye. nAija girls



Oga stop all dese ...why not tell mark Zuckerberg to start buying car for different girls in America before he got married to his wife

I no blame them na because all our girls are hungry always and blinded with materialism

shallow thinking, how sure are you that the said man didn't make his wealth through the said girlfriend? You heard girlfriend and all that came to your head are the girls walking around naija streets!!!!

Verysmart101:
But his girlfriend is also his babymama right. He has children with other women and u think Ronaldo is as stupid as u are baaaa? How much are u even worth in this life sef? Fast and pray for sense in ur life

Again, be civil and contribute in a meaningful way, you don't have to be abusive to pass your argument...I might not be as rich as Ronaldo but I value a woman and I know my worth. In the post up there, it said girlfriend...she could as well have babies for the boyfriend that bought the rover (you don't know their story)....you don't even know if the guy made money through the said girlfriend. Stop thinking like a child!!!!

Kuruptnigga:
Oga it’s my choice! I can’t buy a car for a girlfriend accept she’s my wife! Women are not to be trusted biko? You buy the car now and you see her with another man. Na your type go dey come nairaland they seek for advice about your relationship problem. Abeg shift make i pass biko.

....and your wife can't cheat abi?