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The difference is you don't have a girl who has got your back and go out of her way to make you happy. Face it bro, you just hired a sex machine with a guarantee of maintenance fee.
With a girlfriend, it's a guarantee of dedication and love which is not basically monetary (for real girls).
So my brother, although we are aware that many normal girls have more than one boyfriend and are prostituting, this term has been reduced mildly to minimize the depth of the meaning with words such as flirting, cheating, promiscuous, etc. But it is what it is. We'd rather have one main girl, one on the side and possibly one waiting to kick out the one on the side, than have none at all and pay for sex always and call it bliss.
Damn! You sound lonely bro.
Getting it good? No doubt.
But lonely.

The leader of a Pakistani Islamic council has proposed a bill that allows husbands to “lightly beat” their wives as a form of discipline.

In a 75-page proposal, Mohammad Khan Sheerani suggests a light beating is acceptable should the need arise to punish a woman. The proposal bans forceful beating, saying only a small stick is necessary to instill fear.
The Council of Islamic Ideology is a powerful constitutional body that advises the Pakistani legislature whether laws are in line with the teachings of Islam.

This proposed bill is seen as a response to the rejected Punjab Women Protection bill for abused women which the council shunned as “un-Islamic” and wrote its own bill, which includes the recommendation for the light beating.
“A husband should be allowed to lightly beat his wife if she defies his commands and refuses to dress up as per his desires; turns down demand of intercourse without any religious excuse or does not take bath after intercourse or menstrual periods,” Pakistan’s Express-Tribune newspaper cited the proposal as saying.

The proposal also calls for a beating if a woman does not wear a hijab, if she interacts with strangers, speaks too loudly (insulting or embarrassing) or gives others cash without her husband’s permission, according to the newspaper.

It also suggests bans on various activities, including women fighting in wars; which has been an argumentative issue for the women who feel the patriotic call of duty should not be limited to a particular gender. But allows women to participate in politics and become judges, and proposes that the need for a guardian for women of age is not required.
The proposal also says that women should not be permitted to receive non-relatives or foreign officials, and they should not use birth control pills without asking their husbands.

Proposals by the Council of Islamic Ideology are recommendations and are not applicable unless passed by legislators.

Source: whoehelp.com

My kid bro caught me right in the act. I was squatting in front of her while she sat on a chair and both me hands were buried inside her skirt. He drew apart the curtain, looked down to my hand and back up again. He maintained his gaze on my face until I told him what to do for me and he left. Though I know he'd never talk about it shaa and he never did.

Op no vex o. How many states in Nigeria have have u visited and how many of their foods and Palm wines have u tasted? Speak for ursef. Go taste nsukka palmy then come back and edit.
Also on qualifying cali chics, u talked about beauty instead of confirming the real 'hmm hmm' thing we use sabi them. Abi ur name na chop and clean mouth?

I'm tired of reading clueless stories here. If nairaland does not exist, if u know that person u for talk to, kukuma go there and not bore us with ur senseless love story. If na ur guy come to u for advice with such story, if u know whatever you'd have given him as an advice, DO IT YOURSELF.

austinedu2008@yahoo.com - phc

The greatness of America was not built by Americans. The citizens of America are descendants of many races. The people that hold it great migrated from different continents to he hold ýhe American dream. That's how a country is made great. Wish we could learn. ....

ademasta:
Tell am "Bros I hail o, I remain loyal". Make him laugh small. Give am small change to buy ganja then leave the vicinity. Something wey person no see no dey smell for im nose. That's all

Do this and become his Jimmy for life. You'll soon be paying for his handouts, bike fares, tgif's, even money to use flex chic sef...... Think smart. Get him in the act ie on tape giving the threats. Be not so smart in doing that at ur own risk.

I'll argue the snake bite mortality rate anytime. Your information is wrong. The dense populated areas of India alone can boast of more than 30 deaths per area annually. These occur in mostly in farms and in homes. Check ur source again.

I think I think this is Frontpage material.

Just as yours lacks same qualities mentioned above and won't make the front page.

lanregbade:
Someone needs to speak sense into their head

lanregbade:
Why Can't the igbos swallow Their lost pride and obey the rules ?

I'd have started this with the reference 'my brother', but you're too stupid to be associated to me. What lost pride? What rules? And you believe you're the one to speak the sense when your utterances suggests you're deranged. They should go home? This tribe is the business building tribe in this nation. And even though their problem might be worse should biafra secession become a reality, it should be none of your problem if you believe they are wretched enough to co-habitate in your state. You've never wondered why the hausas are so scared of that igbo dream being fulfilled. Guy ibu ezigbo nne ezi. Abum onye igbo. 247 anam asu igbo. Igbo ga adi.

Her issue is not ur hypothetical big dick or her hypothetical tight vag. This is commonly experienced by a lot of females. Google is ur best friend, and so is a gynaecologist. Nairaland is not a hospital.

OP, your experience is quite painful but I cannot tell u to leave her. I'm in a 6 yr old relationship and my gal has cheated on me twice (that I know of). I forgave her. Myself or anyone who really knows me would have sworn that could never happen but it did. I still don't know why. A female friend I told the experience said to me that she's not my wife to be but I'm just calm about it. I love her. But one thing for sure is I don't trust her like I used to so rather I give her the benefit of doubt (rather than use the word trust). I think I forgave her cos I cheat too. But I know for sure that I'd never have forgiven her if we were about to get married. So even if u forgive her, will u live a troubled life of suspicion? Can u trust her again?
Tell Adaeze whom u guys were close to what happened and hear what she has to say. Try to keep an open mind and remember......it's your decision to make. Goodluck.

Godswillnwaoma:
100% true

Never let a girl know how much you love her.

It's better you act as if you don't love her.

Treat her like a rag then she will love you.

Be nice to her then she will take you for granted. So show some bad boy character and don't be a yes man

Don't be too close to her, give her some distance and she will value you and this is where economics comes which says that scarcity creates value.

Don't give her much money even if you have much to spend, but make her believe you have money by spending it on yourself.

Don't call her everyday keep some space.





This is the policy I made about women and it's worked and keep working perfectly for me.
Op if you like emulate me or you keep being mugu to women.

My broda, ur analysis goes for a gal with low self esteem and dignity. Maybe you've been conquering on that level does not make all this heartless rubbish u just wrote right. True that they abuse our full expression of feeling. True that the power in a relationship lies with who cares less. But so untrue that she'll love you when u treat her like she's nothing, don't take care of her yet show her you've got the money to, among others. Show her love,take care of her to the extent u can but still, never ever disclose you're the one madly in love with her. Emotionally, we're stronger than they are that is why we can cheat and still have our priorities straight (it's not okay to cheat o). But never treat a gal u love like a rag esp for no just cause. So wrong, degrading, heartless, and boyish.

Emmatdayo:
she was standing when she shot her self,the blood must have splashed on the wall b4 she fell down

The victim was not standing, the victim was sitting. do the maths on how tall the victim is and and where the blood stain on the wall would have been had a he been standing or sitting, then you might be able to tell the difference.

epelumi42:
Is falling love that easy for you? Come on. Just mind your speech. You may not have had luck with the good girls but I have. This lady knew what was gonna happen if she told me. I want to believe she did it in the best interest. I'm just pissed and I ruined her surprise.

*modified; Trusting people is a problem here. I just didn't wanna lose her. So I assumed all the possibilities. She apologized and kinda assured me. Maybe I'll be indifferent. if she comes back to me, then so be it. Because I don't think I'm eager to fall in love again. Nairalanders can be funny tho.

My broda they can be funny o....... and also real. You may choose to see it any way you're comfortable with cos you're madly in love with her but truth be told, you're caught in a serious dilemma. Big stuff like this should be shared and I don't mean her own style of sharing the info. Have you thought of this if the situation was reversed? Mehn my broda it's possible you don enter 1.....
#whatthehelldoIknow#

What some of you do not realise is that these guys are on on a vengeance trip. Under PMB, the islamization of Nigeria has slowly kicked off. And in the west, the islamization of the world is in play. First, they got to secure the lands under their religion.
Next, they wage an all out war on the lands not under their religion.
It's a slow but effective process so far. History tells us so. And history is violent.

Topeakintola:
The reverse is the case

Igbo girls love Yoruba men

They know what Yoruba men walk with

They know that Ibo men cannot compare

They are desperate to have Yoruba babies

FFK is in his 50s but a young Ibo girl will rather he deposits his se.men in her to make a superior child to her own race

If you are an Ibo man and u have an ibo wife, let me let u in on the fact, whenever you see her smiling to herself, there is a 99% chance that a Yoruba mans rod has just ravised her ibo pu.ssie.

watch ya wives

My broda I just copied your comment and pasted it on Google to calculate ur IQ but it popped up no result. Sorry. I know how you'll feel considering the fact that u always try hard to make sense when u got no sense. No circumcision helped. #foryourmindunacarry#.

I think so. I've heard some cases where this is possible. These days our human body phenomenally defies medical knowledge. Go to a hospital to clear or ascertain any doubt.

Whoever invented this has hasa weird but cute sense of humour. I'd totally love to see my woman in this. Hell I'll even be the one to buy it for her if I set my eye on it first.yeven though she may think it weird cos her sense of humour no reach there. Sighs# That chic sef.

I think you're angry at yourself and you feel betrayed by yourself for enjoying the session. And now you want to salvage your dignity. This is how you should do it. Tell or don't tell your hubby about it; can't advice you in that department. But go back to the hospital for the next session ask specifically to see the doc who attended to you the last time. Then don't encourage him with body language o but give him a chance to repeat the performance. Then resound his assurance with a slap that'll reverberate his senses. Make a big fuss so that passersby outside the examination room can hear you. Then storm out and lay whatever accusations that comes to your mind on him. That'd do the trick (i.e if u go fit hold body when the romancing starts again cos u have a pretty good sense that he's good looking that's why u were swept away initially cos u forgot to mention his looks in ur story to reduce the blames from comments).

Oh! And good luck in whatever u choose to do.

My dear, break up is a strong word I wouldn't suggest. He's at a point where he's confused and believe me when I say that whatever broke them up before will still happen again if he choose to get back together with her. So like I told my best friends girlfriend when she found herself in a similar situation; calmly (and I mean calm if u want to come out of this on top, don't exchange words or raise ur voice) confront him about it and tell him you choose to walk away and give him time to think his decision through and that if he chose u, he knows where to find u; if it's not late by the time he does. If not, you'd understand. Give him that space to make a second and confirmatong mistake that'll help his choices be clearer to him. Do this for him and you; and for love I suppose.

younghartz:
That male

Superb!!!

Jeez!

I love dat rottie
Your dial is off

Try again bro

Prosperity4All:
Impressive. These pictures are making change my "too ugly" notion of Rottweiler.

Bro, rottweilers are one of the most loyal, obedient, protective, smart, strong and playful dogs. All u have to do is ur own part which is good training and socializing. I love my rott. She can be stubborn sometimes but it doesn't change how beautiful she is to me. See as I dey talk like say name woman she be.

logadims:
@slevin1...... Where do you base

Woji. But the dogs currently live with my bro in Onitsha. Landlord wahala.

knyte:
A thread can be created for your sales bro, no adverts on this thread. Pls adhere

Acknowledged.

dabigwalls:
Where are you located?

Anambra state

juicee1:
no.

4 weeks old or thereabout.

Thanks bro. I meant to write a month old and 4 weeks old at the same time. Hope say this no be symptoms of kolomentality.