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Ishilove: The typical Nigerian girl will not talk about how hot foreign celebrities are, so no, i dont agree with parts if this article.speak for yourself babe! . . Nice points btw...whether na original or fake! |
....too many reasons... Listing them would sound like bragging... ![]() ![]() |
this is some real nonsensical assumption/conclusion/reflection! |
ladies feel more confident and relevant if they get to meet thier partners family. In my opinion,its a step that should only be taken when both partners are willing and have agreed to seal the deal...not before. It complicates issues especially if they have to part ways sometime down the line. It creates a false sense of belonging esp.for the lady.some families don't care how many partners their peeps bring home..every girl/boy would always be welcome! It makes one prone to a lot of unnecessary assessments and judgements...and subjects one to almost unavoidable obligations. . . If you are in a relationship,stay away from each others families..do your things...have fun ...enjoy the relationship while it lasts and if for any reason you have to part ways,it'll be less complicated. No unnecessary explanations... No unnecessary judgements..or unnecessary poke-nosing or trying to settle or unsettle whatever is/is not there! Keep it simple..just you and me! |
op,i have come again... Forget all these people preaching about emotions and blah blah.. The truth is if your jobless situation doesnt change soon,chances are you'll lose your girlfriend...and you'd have lost this shot all because of the twist...which you can work around if you are willing to.. Its either going to be a win-win or lose-lose situation depending on how you play it. You can have your girlfriend and have that job if you play the game bennyraz's or pendo's style..that's win-win! And if you go with sexkillz holier than thou emotional and irrational stlye...you are likely to lose all. Life's a game! A word is enough for the wise! ![]() |
ayobase: Pple like u will still come here and cry us an ocean!treated like what? Who is being treated here? That option isnt hurting anyone... ...and anyone can piss anyone off if they like it... I piss people off everyday because i want to and i have people do the same to me. Have i died because of that? What there to cry foul about? Someone's trying to take advantage of the other person's joblessness in this case...and the person in turn is trying to find a way to out play her while you are here yarning opata.. Life's generally unfair and a game...play it right and win...or do the other and lose! Shift make i see road abeg! |
i'm liking benny advice... Take the job...agree to date her and piss her off in everyway you can imagine! Forget that your 'l'm not good at deceit' line.. Become an actor! Help yourself! |
two sibs marrying into the same family is equal to plenty expanations and awkward situations! |
complete the story first.... |
Wislet: A man who:just my thoughts! +100 |
PhysicsQED: I didn't read the thread. Did any actual debating of issues occur, or was the whole thread spent arguing over how the debate would be carried out?yeah..the whole thread is more like the latter...setting the blueprints for the debate.. |
Sagamite: I think almost everyone on NL knows how this would end. They all know me.I do not think he would be slaughtered...least of all by you! You making too much noise...I have said so. Bring it on already! |
...interesting... ![]() |
Nozy Carter: i want us to date but i dont want our relationship to affect our friebdship Nozy Carter: he is both but i told him that our friendship is more important than anything Nozy Carter: he makes me smile and he knows how to solve my problems Nozy Carter: we've dated before so he wants us to try it againSMH! |
you died before your death... Serves you right! Next time...remember that relationships are risks...and for only the brave. ![]() ![]() |
Flashaldrin: ah, take your own advice o, go dieafter you jump off a cliff! P.S-you are and can never be any of those things! ![]() ![]() ![]() |
[quote author=starlight®®][color=#990000][/color][i][/i] You are getting it all wrong...not all girls are for keeps n besides nigeria girls ve killed the definition of love[/quote]did you miss the bolded part below? slimyem: its like knowing you are about to be used... |
delimit: young man, am sure you are not financially bouyant, if you are, even ifDumb! Dumb! Dumb! |
fubbyy: You are right though but with my past relationships I think what they see as my unseriousness is not being jealousna u sabi where shoe dey pain you pass... I don talk my own! |
tales by moonlight! |
[quote author=fresh_dude]Women! What sane man can undeerstand them? You sef go find babe wey sabi respect herself and respect ou. My advice: knack dis one bounce. No time.[/quote]Dumb! Dumb! Dumb! |
RuuDie: They stayed together. . .even when it was wiser to have split!+100 . . Today's people do not have the kinda enduring spirit our parents have. We can't swallow the kinda crap our parents swallowed.. We have option and we do not hesistate to browse them as soon as the situation becomes a little uncomfortable. Blame it on 21st century and the digital age! ![]() ![]() |
what the blah is the op blahing about? |
its like knowing you are about to be used... Which also means you are not good enough for keeps... No right-thinking girl likes that! |
the problem is not the issue of jealousy...its you not showing enough interest in your gf's lives. Showing interest doesnt mean jealousy. Your girl(s) want you to know more about them than you are willing. ...its like giving them the 'i nor send you attidude' or the 'dey your side,make i dey my side' attitude no 'wanting to be serious' girlfriend would like that.. Disinterest in this case can be likened to unseriousness! |
[quote author=Mynd_44]Another big misconception.[/quote]oya,tell us the right perception! |
where is the mystery? Person wey you nor know call u...instead make u tell am say na wrong number,you con open thread. . . Next thing we go hear na...she called me,her voice wasnt clear,pls solve this mystery! Mtcheeeeeeew. Next story pls! |
I enjoy myself! |
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