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RomanceRe: To Girls: The Way We Guys Want It. by slimyem: 12:50am On Jul 22, 2012
Ishilove: The typical Nigerian girl will not talk about how hot foreign celebrities are, so no, i dont agree with parts if this article.
speak for yourself babe!
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Nice points btw...whether na original or fake!
RomanceRe: Why Do You Love The Person You Love? by slimyem: 12:36am On Jul 22, 2012
....too many reasons...
Listing them would sound like bragging...cheesycheesy
RomanceRe: Women And Friendship by slimyem: 10:48pm On Jul 21, 2012
this is some real nonsensical assumption/conclusion/reflection!
RomanceRe: Ladies And Their Spouse's Families by slimyem: 10:42pm On Jul 21, 2012
ladies feel more confident and relevant if they get to meet thier partners family.
In my opinion,its a step that should only be taken when both partners are willing and have agreed to seal the deal...not before.
It complicates issues especially if they have to part ways sometime down the line.
It creates a false sense of belonging esp.for the lady.some families don't care how many partners their peeps bring home..every girl/boy would always be welcome!
It makes one prone to a lot of unnecessary assessments and judgements...and subjects one to almost unavoidable obligations.
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If you are in a relationship,stay away from each others families..do your things...have fun ...enjoy the relationship while it lasts and if for any reason you have to part ways,it'll be less complicated.
No unnecessary explanations...
No unnecessary judgements..or unnecessary poke-nosing or trying to settle or unsettle whatever is/is not there!
Keep it simple..just you and me!
RomanceRe: In Between Two Ladies And A Job by slimyem: 10:23pm On Jul 21, 2012
op,i have come again...
Forget all these people preaching about emotions and blah blah..
The truth is if your jobless situation doesnt change soon,chances are you'll lose your girlfriend...and you'd have lost this shot all because of the twist...which you can work around if you are willing to..
Its either going to be a win-win or lose-lose situation depending on how you play it.
You can have your girlfriend and have that job if you play the game bennyraz's or pendo's style..that's win-win!
And if you go with sexkillz holier than thou emotional and irrational stlye...you are likely to lose all.
Life's a game!
A word is enough for the wise!cheesy
RomanceRe: In Between Two Ladies And A Job by slimyem: 5:31pm On Jul 21, 2012
ayobase: Pple like u will still come here and cry us an ocean!
Common, for goodness sake...do u wish being treated like that by a man!
treated like what?
Who is being treated here?
That option isnt hurting anyone...
...and anyone can piss anyone off if they like it...
I piss people off everyday because i want to and i have people do the same to me.
Have i died because of that?
What there to cry foul about?
Someone's trying to take advantage of the other person's joblessness in this case...and the person in turn is trying to find a way to out play her while you are here yarning opata..
Life's generally unfair and a game...play it right and win...or do the other and lose!
Shift make i see road abeg!
RomanceRe: In Between Two Ladies And A Job by slimyem: 12:12pm On Jul 21, 2012
i'm liking benny advice...
Take the job...agree to date her and piss her off in everyway you can imagine!
Forget that your 'l'm not good at deceit' line..
Become an actor!
Help yourself!
RomanceRe: Can My Brother Marry My Sister Inlaw. by slimyem: 12:06pm On Jul 21, 2012
two sibs marrying into the same family is equal to plenty expanations and awkward situations!
RomanceRe: What Should I Do? by slimyem: 12:03pm On Jul 21, 2012
complete the story first....
FoodRe: When You See A Man In The Market: by slimyem: 11:50am On Jul 21, 2012
Wislet: A man who:

1. No lady can take for granted (can't use food to deal with- assuming he could cook too).

2. Is caring (assuming the wife was indisposed).

3. Is dependable.

4. Is economical (assuming he was a bachelor). Not wasting his money on fast foods.
just my thoughts!
+100
LiteratureRe: Nairaland's Literary & Debating Day - You Are Cordially Invited! by slimyem: 11:45am On Jul 21, 2012
PhysicsQED: I didn't read the thread. Did any actual debating of issues occur, or was the whole thread spent arguing over how the debate would be carried out?
yeah..the whole thread is more like the latter...setting the blueprints for the debate..
LiteratureRe: Nairaland's Literary & Debating Day - You Are Cordially Invited! by slimyem: 11:40am On Jul 21, 2012
Sagamite: I think almost everyone on NL knows how this would end. They all know me.

But just in case, I DARE, I FCKING DARE, anyone on NL that thinks this guy would win me in a debate to come now and out now and publicly declare their belief.

I don't need to ask those that know he would be slaughtered to say it. That is implicit on NL when you debate with Sagamite.

Anyone that thinks he would not be slaughtered, I dare you to say so NOW!

WHO THINKS HE WOULD NOT BE SLAUGHTERED? SAY SO NOW on this thread! Give him some confidence and liver as he is entering the abattoir.
I do not think he would be slaughtered...least of all by you!
You making too much noise...I have said so.
Bring it on already!
RomanceRe: .. by slimyem: 8:53pm On Jul 20, 2012
...interesting...cheesy
RomanceRe: Am I Inlove With My Bestfriend by slimyem: 8:46pm On Jul 20, 2012
Nozy Carter: i want us to date but i dont want our relationship to affect our friebdship
Nozy Carter: he is both but i told him that our friendship is more important than anything
Nozy Carter: he makes me smile and he knows how to solve my problems
Nozy Carter: we've dated before so he wants us to try it again
SMH!
RomanceRe: . by slimyem: 8:39pm On Jul 20, 2012
you died before your death...
Serves you right!
Next time...remember that relationships are risks...and for only the brave.cheesycheesy
RomanceRe: Romance Section Awards July 2012 by slimyem: 12:44pm On Jul 20, 2012
Flashaldrin: ah, take your own advice o, go die tongue tongue
after you jump off a cliff!
P.S-you are and can never be any of those things!cheesycheesycheesy
RomanceRe: He Only Wants To Sleep With Me. by slimyem: 12:37pm On Jul 20, 2012
[quote author=starlight®®][color=#990000][/color][i][/i]
You are getting it all wrong...not all girls are for keeps n besides nigeria girls ve killed the definition of love[/quote]did you miss the bolded part below?
slimyem: its like knowing you are about to be used...
Which also means you are not good enough for keeps...
No right-thinking girl likes that!
RomanceRe: She Dumped Me Over A Picture by slimyem: 8:34am On Jul 20, 2012
delimit: young man, am sure you are not financially bouyant, if you are, even if
she sees your picture with ten girls not wearing anything(naked) she wouldnt leave becos of what she would miss
she will be thinking she will be at the loser end if she eventally go
let her go becos she does not trust you and trust is one of the pillar of a good relationship
Dumb! Dumb! Dumb!
RomanceRe: Must I Be Jealous To Prove That Am Serious? by slimyem: 8:28am On Jul 20, 2012
fubbyy: You are right though but with my past relationships I think what they see as my unseriousness is not being jealous
na u sabi where shoe dey pain you pass...
I don talk my own!
RomanceRe: Leaving Your Girlfriend For Your Boss... by slimyem: 8:14am On Jul 20, 2012
tales by moonlight!
RomanceRe: Must I Be Jealous To Prove That Am Serious? by slimyem: 8:12am On Jul 20, 2012
[quote author=fresh_dude]Women! What sane man can undeerstand them? You sef go find babe wey sabi respect herself and respect ou. My advice: knack dis one bounce. No time.[/quote]Dumb! Dumb! Dumb!
RomanceRe: What Did Our Parents Do Better And Differently? by slimyem: 8:09am On Jul 20, 2012
RuuDie: They stayed together. . .even when it was wiser to have split!
+100
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Today's people do not have the kinda enduring spirit our parents have.
We can't swallow the kinda crap our parents swallowed..
We have option and we do not hesistate to browse them as soon as the situation becomes a little uncomfortable.
Blame it on 21st century and the digital age!cheesycheesy
RomanceRe: Marry Her Like That! by slimyem: 7:48am On Jul 20, 2012
what the blah is the op blahing about?
RomanceRe: He Only Wants To Sleep With Me. by slimyem: 7:47am On Jul 20, 2012
its like knowing you are about to be used...
Which also means you are not good enough for keeps...
No right-thinking girl likes that!
RomanceRe: Must I Be Jealous To Prove That Am Serious? by slimyem: 7:43am On Jul 20, 2012
the problem is not the issue of jealousy...its you not showing enough interest in your gf's lives.
Showing interest doesnt mean jealousy.
Your girl(s) want you to know more about them than you are willing.
...its like giving them the 'i nor send you attidude' or the 'dey your side,make i dey my side' attitude
no 'wanting to be serious' girlfriend would like that..
Disinterest in this case can be likened to unseriousness!
RomanceRe: How Big Is The Role Of Money In Your Relationship? by slimyem: 7:24am On Jul 20, 2012
[quote author=Mynd_44]Another big misconception.[/quote]oya,tell us the right perception!
RomanceRe: ----- by slimyem: 11:41pm On Jul 19, 2012
where is the mystery?
Person wey you nor know call u...instead make u tell am say na wrong number,you con open thread.
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Next thing we go hear na...she called me,her voice wasnt clear,pls solve this mystery!
Mtcheeeeeeew.
Next story pls!
RomanceRe: What Do You Enjoy Here In This Section? by slimyem: 11:31pm On Jul 19, 2012
I enjoy myself!

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