₦airaland Forum

Zodiac61: I do believe that we are still asking this kind of stu.pid question in 2012.
Do you men feel that your masculinity is threatened by women owning their own property?
Why should your wives need your permission to own their own property?
No wonder we appear backward.

Reference: See Slimyem, if you wish to seek advice that's one thing. If you seek support for a predetermined position that is another.

Here this and hear this clear. I donot live in the same house as that couple but the evidence is glaring. They are entangled in the second prevalent cause of break-ups after infidelity - money.

If you value that union be wise to advice them to de-escalate the standoff not further polarise it because in the end they will both lose.

LilMizzGood: OK a friend of mine open the same topic but it was for the ladies... a few of the nairaland man commented saying we have no taste in man.
That is why I've open this forum for man to post their dream girl or or the hottest lady to them.

Mine is Raven Symone and Omotola Jalade... [b]apart from having beauty outside, they have beauty inside as well [/b]and you can see it flows from them.

Reference: That's what am saying, is it a loan, when will it be paid back, at how much interest.... ehm, ehm. Darling can I declare you insolvent if you can't pay, darling maybe I need to call the EFCC.

Poster are we talking about man and wife, M&A lawyers or Underwriters because the story is losing its clarity.

Clearly greed is the pervading threat to every modern union and that's why most are as short termed as 5 year bonds.

slimyem: no,she wasnt expecting a return of the money.
The husband didnt ask her either.
He had been complaining about how he needed money to add to what he has to roof the house and she offered a part of her contribution thinking'at least the house is ours not just his' only to find out otherwise.

freshmoney: That your aunt deserves serious beating, infact an immediate separation. Now marriage in Nigeria is slowly getting to 50-50 shey? What about the formulaic way of Nigerian marriage- the marriage that was filled of love, understanding and oneness.

freshmoney: For a woman to buy a landed property without her husband consent is synonymous to animosity and total disrespect. She is no different from a recusant that violates the rules of marriage; and she must be dealt with! Women of nowadays want to be preponderant over their male counterparts. Nonsense!

Bontee: Concerning the topic, there is nothing wrong in a wife owning her own investments or landed properties. she can decide to let the man know or not if she needs guidance or advice concerning that. The man also as usual can own his own investments and landed properties with the knowledge of his wife or not. They can also do joint ventures together or invest some stakes in each others business. I don't see anything wrong here in having things in your own name or doing things personally which might have been your passion.

Now concerning the topic, i don't want to comment until the poster can kindly explain to us the issue behind the 300,000 the wife gave to the man. Was that money a loan which the man is going to pay back or she gave freely out of her heart without expecting anything in return. What is the state of that money right now? has it been returned to the wife either loaned or given with free will?.

willsman: A reasonable divorced woman below the age of 40 years is welcome by me. I never marry before and i am still in my Thirties and i need here from the already known okay?

segzi cres: the brain will always make the heart feel and look stupid, the heart will do the same to make the brain look stupid. but if you analyse it well one will understand that d brain is always right, that's where we make our daily decisions, it's where u get to decide and analyse if something's good for you or not. so as far as im concerned BLOCKING out the heart is what every man needs.

Lolaabokoku: If today is declared the world stealing day what will you steal from your lover/husband/wife? As for me i will steal his heart. I need your answers..

REALITY101: In Nigeria madness and stuupidity is funny and classic? wow

shadshadyz: sorry i too have never exchanged words like this with anyone, but i really was very angry with what that babe did, i was very furious and i still saw her doing the same thing in this thread and i became angrier, who exactly does she think she is? to be judging others? what business is it of hers?
I never had any intention whatsoever to double date or cheat or even toast or do anything otherwise!
To tell you i had no such intention i dont even own a BB, dont have one and have no intention of using one!I hate BB's
Though i think that guy is smart, i can just be a facebook friend
is anything wrong with that!
If i had a wrong intention i would have asked for his number straight!
am really very angry!
do you know that dis girl has just caused an issue over what she typed?
And its the mess am still sorting out?
she is such an idiot!

bennyraz: what an Epsitle rozay dey my ees right now so i can't read until 2morow. Chao

Goldieluks: shut up!! of course you knew i was joking!!!
no let me eat you raw now slimmy.

ifihearam: Yoruba babes. Hmmmmm
For a babe. Maybe oooo
But for marriage. Godforbid
They are too lousy,dirty and dull

Goldieluks: see slimmy dey boil... but you knew i was joking right? Hence the 'tongue' emoticon.

Goldieluks: shut up...