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a gift can and would never fade my emotions/feelings especially in a cheating case.
The guy's resolve never to repeat such action is way better than all the diamond rings in the world.

stale story!

that's your effing business Mr.Tuface or whatever.deal with it!

there's always a placard with the words GOOD WIFE plainly written on her forehead.

Orikinla:
The ideal age is the age you would be on your wedding night.

unrealistic and unpracticeable in this age and time.

the letter-writer is probably Hon. Patrick Obiagbon's son and that letter is communicating nothing!

sexkillz:
Why should i marry a lady that has slept with 15 boys, so that they'll all call me and describe her arse and punny to me? telling me what turns her on, or whatever? laughing at me for marring their left over? Huh?

why should 'what people will say' be your greatest concern in a relationship?why should you even listen to them at all if you find a good woman in the lady with a dirty past?why can't she be forgiven her past?
He who has no sins___

ashiri1:
CONGRATS!! Do u stay in a brothel? just asking

yes.me and your momma run the same biz.i see you've started crying already.

coogar:
have you slept with 15 men?

ashiri1:
OR MORE?

yes,about 200.oya start crying!

y'all are here running your mouth and castigating one who has slept with 15 MEN!u berra take your  equally GUILTY arzes outta here b4 i vex.

Se. x is  usually the only topic of discussion.

toba:
All good. the deduction has been made already

whatever

r231:
High Millage

thats like buying a 1986 car in 2011

high millage for real.methinks it depends on the guy though

[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=780715.msg9328866#msg9328866 date=1318496418]Guys pls help me out:

Just met this new sweeeery  am toasting but has slept with a total of 2 guys: My friend and my long time enemy. But am  confused. Should I ask her out and can ssuch females be TRUSTED?  Please advise.  Cheers!!      [/quote]see your mouth.yanyanyanyanyan.jobless puppy.mtcheeeeeeeeeeew

my heart is breaking as i'm writing this.
Her mum is my sister and my niece is in JSS3.she's just stepping into puberty
She was caught suckling her friend's b.r.east when the latter was around for a sleep over and lying on her.
We have questioned her and she knows more about s/e/x. than i probably do right now(exaggeration).she's said she suckled her friend's b.r.e.ast when she felt like s/e/x.
We do not know how to tell anyone because it feels strange at her age.should we take her for deliverance?should we take her for counselling?should we just watch and monitor her closely?
If she's this way at 11 with her flat chest o,what will happen when she is 15 and fully mature?egbami o!

found out a friend was a lesbian once and i did nothing!she was too far gone.

nothing!
Moms have their issues,they get on one's nerves and do stuff that feels/looks abnormal but one way or another we learn to love them just the way they are.no room for HATE at all.

no way!the best i can do is wait until he finds a job(if it wont take forever).my man has to be a MAN in every sense.

toba:
but seriously is that how u are?

question!

toba:
i think based on our discussion thus far, its very easy to decipher the kind of person yemi is to some extent

i refuse to comment!

op,i might be wrong but my guess is you've also slept with someone's future girlfriend, wife and mother in the past.our past is a series of events that has shaped us into who we are today.
Live your relationship as it is now not as it was in the past.

you go fear analysis!lol

toba:
Its possible to have fun but its most likely impossible to have fun whilst angry or dont u think its weird?

maybe its weird,maybe i'm weird.who knows?

toba:
why? its just a question based on your response as a no nonsense person ready to fight back when fought. im willing to know u more and get into the personality behind the handle

you aint fighting me yet.when you do,i'll give it back to you.the personality?like i said before,talking bout it here would defeat the purpose of the whole anonymity thing i love this handle still yet.

my bestfriend is a guy and he's always the first to be introduced to anyone i date.i use pet names for him and it has never been an hidden fact from any guy i dated and it still didnt give them any reason to doubt it was more than the friendship.you'd need to work on trust issues.
Dont get unnecessarily worked up over this.take your time and build up a little trust.it will get better.

toba:
No may be u need to go look up the dic meaning of loosening up. There isnt any fun in it when u use anger for anger. U may choose to retract your comment about loosening up. If u are here to loosening up, then u must free your self from the usual argument and fight.

i write stuff and reply stuff online and giggle or laugh about it in real life.the fact that i delight in it makes it fun for me.maybe you should look up fun in the dictionary ds tym.

toba:
Thats by the way. i want us to change gear now since i have established the fact that nl=reality to some extent. does it mean if im dating u, u arent going to be submissive to me?

now,this is a topic i WONT discuss here.it would be revealing too much of my person.

toba:
U didnt answer my question on if u take some guys serious and dont take others serious

i have been a passive Nlander for a while before i signed up on tthis handle.
You cannot be here constantly for one week and not know that you should never take people like Mr. Cork,190,or MMM serious and that people like Nayah,iice,pendo98,Sexkillz,you or Mrs, Chima make a lotta sense when they choose not to jest.getting me?

toba:
BTW which section do u consider serious and the ones u consider not serious?

politics,religion,computer,books,health,autos,jobs are the more serious sections.highly important and educative issues are trashed here, i want to believe but here in romance,there are too many jesters who are capable of turning any important thread into joke.i'd pick the family section for intelligent contributions on serious romantic issues anyday anytime.

toba:
if pple are here to loosen up, why then get emotional or overeactive when tossed? if u are here to enjoy, then u shouldnt get to emotional with issues. Really i see no reason why anyone should insult and i also see no reason why any one shd repudiate after being insulted. if really we are here to loosen up, we should do so without allowing things to get into our head.

Now,you are gon make me tell all that i dont want to.
we are different in lots of ways.what appeals to you doesnt appeal to me.what makes you tick doesnt makes me tick,what is fun for me isnt fun for you.some people are natural bullies and some(like me) cannot just take it in and let it go.
I word-bully a lot on line and i give it back as much as i get it.that's what makes it fun.that's what makes it 'loosening up' but that's probably all there is to it.

Orikinla:
Better be a doer than a hearer.

Many have heard and many have read, but only few have practiced the truth.

ever heard the phrase 'do your best and leave the rest'?

toba:
Well my dear, it important for u to know that more than 50% of xters we exhibit on NL is to some extent a reflection of who we are in reality.

50% is a bit on the high side.dont you think?for a sizeable number of people,NL is a just a place to loosen up.

toba:
Does this mean that u take some serious and dont take others serious judging by your ability to decipher seriousness from unseriousness?

i think there are people who mean everyword they say here esp.in the other serious sections.every sentence has a mood.i can see into the moods.with me,every insult and trash online stays online and every useful stuff goes into my head.
What's uncomfortable about me?

toba:
1)Are u gentle, 2)aggressive or 3)moderately gentle and aggressive?

i hope you aint forgetting this is an open forum.if i answer these questions here,i'd be giving up my anonymity.besides,i dont want anyone to be able to figure me out that easily.

toba:
Do u take these guys serious based on their NL characters?

i am(to a certain extent) able to isolate seriousness and unseriousness from any writing or post.that answer you?