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This days things are really happening and in other to follow up trend, you ought to be very smart, you should have used your phone to record your conversation with her when she came to manipulate you with tears... It's quite unfortunate your friend might not believe you even if you tell him but you just have to try...!!

Tell the useless bit*h that you are giving her some days to willingly confess to your friend else you will do the telling yourself...!!

Anago55:
. You are right, that's why we the izzi nation will do anything possible to ensure he completes his tenure so that power will come to us the Ebonyi north

Igariwey is a joker. I swear he dare not show his face in Abakaliki

Oga there is nothing you or anyone can do once the court judgement upholds, you can only rant from your comfort zone...!!

A player of Mane's quality should be earning way higher than 100K...no wonder he wants to leave

That's some real facts up there...!! I pity some guys(simps) tho, they will learn with premium tears the hard way!!

Na that Boogyman old Kala I need borrow take blast your left leg....

Datboredberry:
God! Why would I hate my ex?

He cheated on me... We broke up and I've found someone a million times better... I'm not holding a grudge... I hope he's happy too...

Many people split and are okay...

My relationships never ended too badly...

If you're wishing your exes bad... Or you can't call them without catching feelings... Then you're an idiot whose still hooked... Your hate still binds you with them...

I wonder why you are ranting as If OP called your name, can you defend all women?? You see what OP posted, one of my useless GF did that to me...

Just take a chill pill, drink water and sleep...!! Na who get time dey always carry girls matter for head!!

jmoore:
Beer parlour economic analysis.

This type of sanction no follow abeg, there is nothing like beer parlour analysis here, you owned a business and decided to shut it down when there are many competitors out there willing to take over front you, who is losing...

Whazar:
U go chop breakfast I’m not capping ye

Breakfast too over sure for this one

And at OP....you ought to know when you give a woman power, she will abuse it

Well, just carryon with the deal, it doesn't change the fact you lost to a woman, deal with that... African women are not your regular french soft ladies.

Better wash those plates make e dey shine....!!

JustPowerApps:
You are on the safe side if she is Yoruba, you can still talk things through with her later. It will be better if you let her be right now though, just try as much as possible to accommodate her bossy behavior. I am very sure she will come around later.

just negodu this one

She wan bill you...Better respect yourself and don't pressure her, she will come around when her feelings suppress her wants, Na there way bdat maka O chaa gi billings kita, you will still come here to complain...

Rambo.... I hail oO

You see, young men are getting broke and dying like fowl on the streets because they acted/acting like husband to this ladies...!!

Well, I learnt the hard way in 2015... There was this beautiful damsel where I did my diploma one certain time, A friend of mine and I has been looking for a way to win her over, although we have been glancing on eachother at intervals but she's always in a company of friends and well wishers....So one evening, we went to the ATM to get some funds around Ekwulobia roundabout, on getting there, we saw this damsel shouting at the top of her voices, she only told us the guy slapped her, without wasting much time nor ask questions to what led to the slap, we picked on the guy and shaaah gave him the beatings of his life...But as we dey beat am, I was shaaah hearing some soft voices, nobi e fault oO Then I stopped and this gave the guy enough space to runaway...

So eyewitnesses started explaining to us what transpired and I must confessed that girl deserved that slap because everybody cannot be against you in a queue, babe wey don withdraw go house self...!! Then one good Samaritan quickly walked up to us and said "if you love your lives better start running home now because that guy is a dreaded cultists and an Oko indegene and he only ran away to mobilize his members"

Omo we hear Oko indegene, we sharply stop bike japa... But we later got an intel that they are looking for two guys that evening and they won't stop until they get them...

Brethren...!! That was how we left that town the next day and never returned back till today, we shaah don finish diploma but....

Clearance, we no come do...!!

Our properties, dash some/A friend sold some at giveaway prices...!!

Freedom, we no get...!!

Babe, we no get am...!!

Whenever I remember this scenario, I always felt stupid for fighting a guy because of a woman and I said to myself never again will that happen...

Marshal9:
I doubt that, they barely know each other and I met her a virgin.

When a girl is crushing on someone, she tries to adjust and coordinate herself whenever her crush is around and not to avoid him totally...so delete that crushing mindset from your memory

Your only sure bet here is that they have known eachother from somewhere and your questions should be channelled to either your friend or your girl...

But if you ask me or few NLers to be honest with you, we go just tell you say they don use preeq wire your girl before...

This one just wan chase clout...

Kobojunkie:
And do you plan to live out your married life in the village with this gal of yours, without her getting a smartphone?

I can't believe there is still a gullible man out there who still believes he can program a woman to his specs.

Lol...

BluntTheApostle:
Better goalkeeper than who?

19 matches played, only 2 clean sheets. 26 goals conceded.

Shey dat one na goalkeeper?

Immediately after AFCON, he conceded 4 against Feyenoord.

That guy is not good abeg. Even Akpeyi is better than him, not to mention Uzoho.

just look at this man, even Jan Oblak will concede too many goals in one match if he's playing for Sparta Rotterdam...e even try keep 2 clean sheets self league wey almost all teams dey play Both teams score week in week out

paulolee:
stergen was a proven keeper of quality n even won best player in barca in a season dt barca were poor bt he kept on saving us...his poor form of recent is bcox of his last surgery...d guy good pass dis maduka by miles n wen e pick form, u go notice..

Lol...I no dey compare both of them oO!! Just that I feel people are judging Maduka too much for what was not his entire fault

Lol... shey cultists score goal you cancel am ;S shey you wan collect abi...!! They go use you count scores bdat....

ensamy:
They don't hate him because of the AFCON mistake, after all Vincent Enyeama made similar mistake in world cup qualifier against Angola that denied us world cup ticket.
He is hated mostly by the other tribes especially Afonja because he is Igbo, young, handsome and has a big prospect. So anything Ibo must be hated as long as it has prospect. Even in different areas of expertise like in the civil service or other private sector, as long as you are Ibo and doing well, hate must follow you, especially Afonja.
That's why an Ibo man is always relating well with Aboki than Afonja

Another perspective...Now I see where the problem is coming from!! No fvcking Nigerian is blaming Aina for letting that ball slide through his legs, perhaps you might be right...

paulolee:
hmm, this scammer again? DM don release team list for ghana tie n e don rush save p.k to deceive us to start am ahead of others but d jazz no go work dis time..
I just pray eguwvon dont fall for dis penalty news bcox all keepers no matter how bad do save p.k..if na lie, ask barca pinto dt year..

You follow dey criticize this guy?? Our very own Ter Stegen never do worst?? Omo you fall hand oO!! Maduka was good all through the nations cup apart from shot he missed...And I even wonder why nobody is blaming Aina for not trapping the ball that led to that goal...Make una free the guy abeg

It's quite unfortunate tho...

Fxzboyz:
You’re on romance zone what did you expect morning devotion?

That was epic...

Tallesty1:
I once had a neighbor like that. Even when two of us were cooking at the same time, she still found means to eat mine.

I will be cooking and wishing the aroma will just stay with me, because once it's out, the next thing you will hear is...

"Dogo, nah you wan block my nose like this?"

Next thing she don keep plate on top fence.

She was the reason I started cooking soups in the midnight.

classicben3:
Well won't still change the fact vpn dey

which VPN?? Even VNP won't not work. You think say Russia na Nigeria, ask yourself why is the VPN not working for North Korea citizens? or they don't know about it abi...!!

Cognitivereason:
A wingloong II can deliver this result..
Looking at the image the victims seems to have been in a close gathering...

Wingloong II with 4 laser guided AR 1 missile can deliver this

well...I'm not versatile in names of weapons

Lol...so in other words Baba scored one tapin and one Penalty!! United needs to sign him asap...

Almaigaa:
It happens every hour and the casualties are usually in tens. The reason the media don't report about the insecurity in the East is because, other Nigerian dont fancy living in the East cause the region is not conducive for non Igbo.

The few media reporters who live in the East are Igbo and they don't report about the crime rate and killings in the East. Making it look like the East is crime free. But we wey dey enter East know that, Borno is safer than the East.

Olodo

gidgiddy:
That was exactly what I was thinking. If this picture is what the authorities say it is, it would mean that a group of bandits were meeting in this location with their motorcycles, and a fighter plane flew past, slow enough and low enough to score a direct hit, killing all , if not most of them.

That seems highly unlikely, it is a very difficult thing to achieve because in an open desert like this, the bandits are more likely to have heard or seen the fighter plane approaching at such low altitude to have scored such a direct hit

I think its most likely that the Nigerian Army captured some people, may be bandits, and their motorcycles. Then executed them, set the bodies and motorcycles alight to cover up the crime, and said it was a fighter plane that did it.

There is no way a low flying fighter plane could have approached a group of bandits in this way and they would carry on with their meeting, waiting to be incinerated. They would have run in different directions

They only way this could have been achieved is with a drone

Lol...you have said it all, but I don't think even drone can achieve this kinda hit, unless they wanna tell us they have a drone armoured with flame thrower...

Cheasystickylov:
Hello all, please all I need is your candid advice. I do not think this is the time to ask me rhetorical questions. I would have answered all those questions before the end of the epistle.
I do not sincerely if to quit my marriage or jut keep hoping that things will change in the nearest future.
I dated my wife for three years before got married in 2006. I can say without exaggeration that it has been war, except occasionally when peace will just reign for a short period of time.
Sadly I got a job in a multinational and we moved to Germany in 2014 and that just worsened everything. This made her to acquired more powers to do what ever she likes.
My wife is someone that literally fights with every single person.
During our dating, she exhibited so many of these characters. Despite all these red signs, I somehow just continued rather foolishly in the relationship hoping things will get better. This was not also helped by the pastor of our church who ensured that the relationship continued, he gave very many biblical examples including forgiving someone 7 times 77 times. I must also state that her mother was an elder in the church. So the action of the pastor is understandable.
We eventually got married, and it has been sorry tears and blood. We were able to have 3 children, and the eldest is 11 years, the youngest is 7 years.
My wife disrespects every single living thing I say, every one of them, she can insult me in public without giving a damn. I can not list all the scenario. Just to emphasize this point, her eldest brother and sisters have cautioned her many times , in my house and even when we visit them. To further emphasize, her eldest sister’s husband stop us from coming to his house because he said he can does not just bear the insults and the manner she disrespects me.
We can not have a heart to heart discussion, she is always not ready, or when we talk she just tell me to summarize, or she ignores me completely.
I have suggested counselling, however, she simply refused.
We can stay in the house for months without talking to each other, I have and still has always been the one that tries to initiate peace. Sadly most times she doesn’t even listen and walk away.
She keep male friends that I do not even have any real relationship with them, even if I try to caution her, she screams back. I have actually stopped trying to caution her, I just leave her alone with them. The latest now is a pastor who prays for her for the past 5 years, sadly the pastor and I have never had any conversation for all these years. I demanded for his number 2 years ago, she refused as usual, so I just allow her be. Of course their has been one or two case of suspected infidelity, initially when I asked she just ignored me and was even screaming. I gave her deadline of 5 days and she later cam to me to explain. Although there were still many grey areas.

The sad part is that, there is no single family member to even look into the matter
1.Her step brothers and sisters- they are not in talking terms.
2.Her mum- her mum dare not !
3.Her uncle- She is not in talking terms with any of them
4.Her Aunt-the same story, not in talking terms with them

She does not really have any close per say, and occasionally attend church online. I wish does attend a physical church, her pastor would have been the next person that might probably look into it.

Sadly she believes every one of these people including me have a problem. She feels she is right and we are all just evil people.

I am so confused and frustrated. I do not know exactly what to do.

I was boiling while reading this post, but when I got to the end point where you said "you are confused and don't know what to do" I felt like Knacking you 2 by 2 just to reformat your cranium...

For your peace of mind, Divorce her...!!

oofjm:
what is paining must is that I don't have intentions of sleeping with her until our relationship lead to something meaningful but how would I pay to have sex with someone I love and care....I have refuse to have sex with girls that offer it to me under a platter of gold because of my self discipline....I don't have intentions of sleeping with her but since she mention it....the whole thing is just occupied my mind and confuse

simply put, she has been sexing others behind your back for her to nurture such feelings that the only way to pay you back is via sex...!!

Well... congrats bro for not parting away with your hard earned money, she posted that video purposely for you to see, and the good part of it was that you ignored without saying anything, that was where you scored an A...!! Now, continue to ignore her like she never exists and you will get a dm from her one day. They will always return and try to mend old wounds when they suddenly realized one channel of income has been blocked...