₦airaland Forum

Mrlance15:
The sucking of nipples and bitting of ear is what comrade?

Hassanmaye:
Lol I learned the hard way until luck get me to read redpill thread on nairaland since then my life has changed, now women ain't stress, no wonder everyday no matter How busy I must login to nairaland

Hassanmaye:
So you even admit you are a SIMple man

Munzy14:
I think every man should experience break up issues..It comes with a huge advantage..Your senses and alertness will be top notch.

And it will teach how to spot good ladies from a distance.
The bolded explained that reason every man need that break up with a lady/ladies he cared soo much about.

If we men realise that Loving comes only from men while caring is a thing from the female side, the better we live happy.

Men express love with providing, women reciprocate with care.

MrMacinterchi1:
how will you now know who is good and who's not ?

NamelessOGBENI:
I might borrow a page from your book, man.

Ade3131:
Many of us have been through it too. It's hard to escape it especially if you're a kind person at heart. Naija girls will always find a way to soil the pure heart their inner soul craves for....I learnt the hard way too. I came to the conclusion that good girls love the bad boys and vice versa.

As much as you're bent on being good to them, you're going to be in for a shocker of your life.

"Every heartless man once cared too much"

That quote just defined my present state of mind. I can sense it that all my emotions are gone.

annyz:
For 6 years you never married the girl. She left you and moved on and you are hear crying. How many years do you want her wait for you.
When she start getting old under your watch only you will look for fault and dump her while jumping into a younger girl.
What would you have adviced your sister if reverse is the case here.

Freedom2022:
Hello people. Please i beg someone here who is sincere and have the fear of God and want progress for his fellow human being to recommend a place where i can receive deliverance. The last 8 years of my life has been HORRIBLE. MONEY CANNOT STAY IN MY HAND FOR 48 HOURS and it is gone. I will not exaggerate, i have lost over 30 million naira over the past 10 years and i have been in DEBT for over 8 years consistently. I have NEVER been happy for straight 1 week for the past 10 years. Once money gets to my hand, it vanishes within 48 hours. I don't want to mention what it goes into because people are actually making millions from it so as not to discourage people. IT IS JUST ABOUT ME.
Now let me say something.

Whenever I have money with me, a mysterious cough starts and once the money is gone, the cough goes. It has been like this for the past 8 years. I cant explain it.

Right now, it has gotten to the worst and no matter how much is with me, it goes within hours. For example, if someone send me money right now, a mysterious cough will start in less than 30 minutes that the money gets to me and immediately i will not know what i am doing again (for real). Then i deposit all the money immediately into my Forex account, then this cough will get intense, i will cough and cough without stopping and before i know what is happening, the money is gone. Then that is when i realize and come back to my senses. I am been real and this is a true life situation.

Please guys dont joke with this because my life ruined right now. I can't boast of anything in my life right now. I have NOTHING. and the worst part of this is that i owe all loan apps money. I owe about 20 apps money as of today and all loans due and they have rubbished me already which as been going on for the past 8 years too.

I have tried to find out what could be wrong with me and i believe there is an unfamiliar force in my life. I can't explain somethings here but i need a powerful/powerful men/man of God to lead me through because i am ready to embark on a journey to redeem my lost glory. I have tried several time on my own but i think i am facing a lot of resistance and i give up almost immediately. Some people call it "agbana" but this type is so strong in my life and needed to be broken else i will be finished completely because right now, i am at the last days of destruction.

To shock you guys, i have someone in my family that experienced this thing too but in a different dimension and recently another person (i dont want to give too much information).

I have come to realize or believe that its is either a generational curse (ogun idile) or something i dont understand. See guys, something is happening spiritually in my life that is manifesting physically and this has to be broken IMMEDIATELY. Some people here may think otherwise which i agree with for a long time until i begin to see a pattern and i can tell it is not ordinary.

Right now, i have run away from home and i have promised myself never to return until this chain is broken.

I will be reading advices and recommendations here and i pray God guide me to pick the best because i know someone will recommend something that will change the narrative.

PLEASE GUYS, THIS IS A LIFE ISSUE AND I HAVE GONE TROUGH A LOT ALREADY. PLEASE DON'T ADD TO MY PAINS AND SORROWS. IF YOU CAN'T HELP ME PLEASE I BEG YOU IN THE NAME OF GOD TO JUST READ.

UPDATE

I think i need to add this. On 3 occasions, i got a very juicy high paying job with big companies in Nigeria. One is one of the top 5 big companies in Nigeria and have spread across some African countries while another is one of the top 5 companies in the world (It is a big company). But guess what? My offers on the 3 different occasions were withdrawn few days to resumption without any explanation. Is it a coincidence?

SKhanmi:
You are one of their girlfriends. Yes I spelt it right.

ALLNIGERIANSMAD:
it depends on your environment, I'm talking base on my environment. I base in Abuja, this kind of situation, you report it to public Opinion, public Opinion overrule even president of a country. No matter how highly placed you are. You will not want to be drag in the first place. That what I'm saying

ALLNIGERIANSMAD:
No, you don't allow wicked people get away with there wickedness, Op should get that woman arrested imidiately. Life is full of challenges, you have to face it when it comes, that woman isn't going to pay for service rendered unless someone stand against her and she will continue to treat her workers thesame way.

BabaIbo:
No be who first call police or first throw punch they win.

I hope Russia will be able to stand the reaction due to her action.

I am observing sha.

Nonexisting:
Putin is a coward for targetting civilian buildings. Shebi na war he wants, be will see war in the hands of Ukrainians who are masters of guerrilla warfare and run. Ukraine is not Nigeria, they will continue to defend themselves until the last man standing falls which will never happen.

Penguin2:
I beg to defer.

This attitude of having everything cheap in this country is the reason foreign investors are not enthusiastic to invest in so many sectors of the Nigerian economy.

These airline operators said they now buy aviation fuel at N410 per litre then add other charges that they pay at airports yet Nigerians want them to be doing Father Christmas for them.

Must you travel by air?

Look at Power Sector, we are against paying the right bills that will allow investors put the right money into buying and installing equipments and facilities that would have improved our light situation.

Now investors are not willing to borrow money and invest in the power sector because they can’t recoup such money since we insist on underpaying.

Same thing with subsidy.

We don’t want subsidy out even as it is totally unsustainable and highly weighing on the nation’s finances.

Please we need to stop that madness.

If we want quality, we must be ready to pay for it.

I’m sure most of those protesting are those who use 25k to book flight and take pictures to oppress people online to feed their fake live.

Patrioticbreed9:
It all started last year November when my lil sis called me jubilating about how she got 90k with just 30k in just 3 weeks.

I asked her how and she explianed. In her words. I met this guys some weeks ago and they talked me into crypto, at first I declined, but I finaly decided to play along with them by staking a token of 30k with them.

They called me today (3 weeks later) saying that crypto market has crashed! BUT before it crashed her token was able to tripple! that had it being she invested earlier that it might even be ×10!. I was happy for her. I asked to invest again but she said that the market is down, but they will let her know when it rises.

January 10th this year they called and asked her to invest again. She wanted to invest 50k but they adviced her to invest with a big money, so should it case it the market didnt last long and it only double or tripple, there will be no problem. She called me and explained everything to me, being a novice in crypto, I just asked her to be careful. Am coming guys..

Ladycewhy:
The popular phrase is "what do you bring to the table" and men usually ask women this question.

But what does "table" mean for a man? . It simply means financial capability. Which is directly or indirectly proportional to his job or business.

I have seen men wail and nag about how women only rate them according to their pockets or what they do for a living. But when the only thing you have on your table is money, well you might as well be sized up by what you have on the table.


In a scenario where a woman offers support , loyalty, home making, care on that table ,it is regarded as incosequential except she has financial input as well sometime equal percentage with the man.

Men have subconsciously sold the idea that all they have to offer is money, yet they cry when their pocket is used to size them up. What an irony.

Medianna:
Some ladies get mind sha..

valdes00:
Finish the story na.. How u take pursue her

PrinceMike24:
I’m very sorry for the topic but right now I feel hopeless
I’ve been suffering for as long as I can remember,from one menial job to the other,my uncles will be making promises but fail to fulfil it.I got a loan from LCredit some 2 weeks ago when my uncle had promised me he will send me some money to use and sort myself,but since then he’s not been picking again and the loan was overdue yesterday,they called me this morning with threatening words,how will I survive this,they have threatened to post my name as a fraudster just to tarnish my image
Please someone should help me out of this mess,I would refund the person back by month end,I don’t want my image to be tarnished please

Deicide:
I think I am very lucky because anytime I enter a relationship with a girl, I automatically go broke! I don't know if it's my guardian angel that's doing it to protect me

Jennyclay:
heheee, tell me something? Your mother and sisters must be a professional in this Golddigging job.

Thank God you were more specific.

Rubbish, nonsense and Buhari!!

deflover:
one wey i carry go hotel
broke ass oh
she see another gal send me pic of wedding gown
she vex
begin fight me
she unlock my phone as i dey sleep

omo see person wey na me pay her transport to come see me begin call me broke ass

even as we dey fight she still ask for transport back
i drop am for table


leave hotel room wey i pay 12k for am

i go house straight
yet na me broke oh