₦airaland Forum

sulasa07:
The black guy is just eating anyhow, already three plates on top another 3 takeaways

Asin ehh... Like i said earlier, what we experiencing here ain't Covid-19 thank God shaah

This is seriously danjelos....!!

Lol... I don't even knw what to say about this virus anymore, but i don't know why there are too many fuss surrounding the Madagascar herbal drink, even BBC castigated it, there is something WHO ain't telling us...

helinues:
Is this Ranthq ?

But what has buhari done to you...E don clear from Sarrki eye remaining you and Corrinthians

SeverusSnape:
helinues will say so, Just wait .

Lol obviously... I don't even know how to classify that fellow because he's irredeemable, but trust me he will avoid this thread like a bad habit, just go to the thread with Nmandi Kanu and see how he's littering everywhere with his ignorance..

And where are the lies here...?? With this statement, some factions of nairalanders (I mean the ones living in denial) will automatically tag Yakassai an IPOB member.... But those with sense knew governance ain't a rocket science, one cannot give what he doesn't have.... You cannot expect change from someone ruling with a Nepa bill certificate, Just go to Abakiliki today and see massive transformation from a Governor with vision..

dukeprince50:
The only person who is close to tormenting FG is wike, the rest are clowns and noise makers

You might call them clowns, madman, noisemakers, cowards and all manners of words... But take it or have it, there is absolutely sense in their nonsensical words

Nusooo:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2020/05/nnamdi-kanu-to-fg-ill-start-charging-you-for-free-education-on-my-facebook-page/

And inspite of all, there are no lies in this post... Many of you might chose to act adamant and ignorant towards his words, yet he will keep on tormenting the Nigerian FG with the truth....

Just yesterday on NTA news @9pm, I noticed 3D version of the VP Osibanjo addressing a house all in 3D formatformat as well and it was switch up after 2-3secs...

star4ever:
I have a 42 year old brother who for over 18 years has been on hard drugs. He started this habit while in secondary school and couldn't finish tertiary education for same reason. Efforts made by the family to stop him from substance abuse and rehabilitate him at several occasions failed. Each time such effort is made, he recovers after a while but returns to the habit. Currently, he has become mentally deranged and there seems to be no solution at sight.

He has been admitted to different psychiatric hospitals on two occasions. At both times, he was treated and confirmed fit and sound to return to the society. The moment he was discharged, he quickly went back to his old ways and all the resources spent went into the drain. In one of the occasions, we were strongly advised to engage him as joblessness was one of the greatest problem causing the abuse. We got him engaged by securing a fantastic job which he also left after a week of working there. Other meaningful efforts geared towards engaging him to enable him to become occupied and start earning a living as a man also didn’t work out.

We have organised prayer sessions by powerful men of God, nothing has happened yet. I do want to sound like someone without faith. I strongly believe that our able God will make things beautiful at His time. However, the situation has gone out of control and we need to act fast.

These, amongst many, are some of the interventions already done by the family and we cannot fold our arms and watch people mock us in shame every day due to his abnormal activities in the community.

Now what he does is forcefully, take money from our aged mum, sell any family property at sight in exchange for money to buy his drugs. Beat my mum up at any slightest refusal to give him money. He has been jailed many times for committing several offences related to this habit, yet the problem persists. Maybe we have not applied the best approach?

I am calling on fellow Nairalanders to assist with solutions. I believe there are some of us here who may have experienced this problem in one way or the other, or have an advise to give to solve this lingering painful situation. Your personal or professional experience (s) may go a long way in salvaging this situation for us.

I believe a problem shared is a problem solved.

18yrs of habit is no childs play, this type seems irredeemable....Only him can change his ways with Gods intervention

ogawriter:
I feel for edolites right now. Obaseki is more concerned about his re-election than fighting the corona-virus.

I was opportuned to chat with a taxi driver yesterday who confided in me that his sister sneaked in from Lagos during the weekend. I was quick to remind him the borders were closed and that his sister should isolate herself just incase.

The guy laughed and said that she was not the only person he knows who beat the lockdown on the border. All you need is 500 for taxi and 1k for bus. Nah so I weak for we country.

Lol....People are traveling like never before... Just that u will encounter lots of traffic

It's well....For how long will they keep counting scores?? Now people are more focused on the daily increase...
#Let the strongest immune system wins

geezynoni:
Over reported bi ti bawo... What would you say about other countries that are reporting higher numbers... Are they over reporting too..... Those numbers show how fast the virus is spreading

Those countries ain't playing politics with the virus,But here the more the cases, the more money they receive from WHO to tackle the pandemic, like you don't follow up news, perhaps u may have noticed our cases started to escalate the moment Nigeria was omitted among African countries that will benefits $147m from WorldBank to tackle the virus, we had less than 20cases then (in fact Nigeria has to beg WorldBank to consider them as if WorldBank is doing giveaway for nothing).... Bro ehh if the Original undiluted coronaVirus hit this country, government won't even need to lockdown the nation, everybody go enter house willingly...

kikero:
And as I said later, if the patient's mother was bathing her and sharing a bed with her, chances are that she was in isolation with her daughter, and therefore positive.

And you have no proof of your malaria assertion and you know it. If you are dissatisfied with your government, join a party and change things

Lol...And u think power is awarded to individuals by merit in this nation? Don't worry, I have other plans

Wizvicky:
show him love and at the same time watch your back. does it really make any sense. the nigga is clearly jealous. for him to say he was come to Nigeria and will be staying in your house after all he knew he did to you clearly shows he's got an ulterior motive. be wise brother. forgive him but take him as a fan now and not your friend. no friend would ever be that cruel to his friend after just 5days.

We are still saying dsame thing bro...

pquaver:
At this point I will ask you your type of question. Did you see it with your 2 eyes? Let her show us a video or photo where the mother was sleeping and bathing her.. You want to believe her without proof but your ask for proof aof illness that soe people rejoiced that it killed Abba Kyari

Are you not a mumu for requesting a video evidence of someone taking her bath/sleeping just to prove a point to you?? It's a question

kikero:
Hmm

1. The woman is most likely in denial

2. As has been seen time and again, not every contact with a covid case tests positive

3. Even if they showed her the paper work around her test she won't believe it.

4. Many cases are asymptomatic. El rufai and atiku's son are two classic examples, and there are cases that have tested positive for longer than that.

5. The reason for denying that she is positive? A) avoiding stigma b) she feels upset that she was placed in isolation.

My opinion.

You lied about number 2.... Even western world, Doctors and nurses wearing all security gears and outfits still manage to contact the virus from patients....Many people with the acclaimed virus has been saying dsame thing yet u saw nothing wrong with it... Yes the virus is in Nigeria, but NCDC is busy counting Malaria scores on daily basis....

geezynoni:
Malaria cases..and our economy is in shambles. You are misinformed ...the virus can be treated only the symptoms can be treated.

Get the point straight, I'm not saying there is no covid-19 in this nation, but its cases is over reported with about 80% been malaria cases... Yes because we chose to crumble our economy, Most states went on lockdown even without detecting any cases e.g Anambra, Delta, Imo etc what do u expect to happen to our Economy? The gov't shutdown Lagos, Abuja, Ogun when it detected about 50cases or so, now it's over 5k cases and still counting, they are easing the lockdown... In this Country it's either CoronaVirus has been politicize or is a scam, or a means of embezzlement nothing more.... Hunger and our security forces has killed more people than the virus itself...
The earlier you realize NCDC is cashing out massively with this scheme, the better for you and everyone, The covid-19 provided a swift way of embezzlement without trace, hope you saw the tenth Yahaya Bello built with #7Billion for covid-19 patients that was carried away by ordinary wind oO, now he has collected his share of sinzu money and refused NCDC entry into his state to cash out as well... Bro things are happening, but your type is been blindfolded by fear of the unknown been instigated by NCDC

maasoap:
Tell that to the family members of those who have been killed by the covid-19 in Nigeria.

Well I haven't seen any yet, perhaps u can show me

30K for utilizing your brains and 30million for showcasing nudes online...We can never get it right in this country as long as immorality is more lucrative than intellectuality

Well.... Most of us knew what we having in this country is mostly Malaria cases, when the real original covid-19 from China hits us, body go tell us, for now lets just pray & hope we won't get to that level...

All of a sudden nobody is talking about Ventilators anymore...

Mogbe....

slyfox35:
Best friends or closest friends as some people term it is quite normal in the life of 80% of world population,I had one too
We grew up as teens together,matured as adults together, he came to our house always and ate all his meals with us,my mom was really nice to him when she was alive,he wore my clothes and never returned them,I did not ask because my parents always provided for me although they were average citizens.
Then the worst thing in my life happened,I lost both my parents within the space of four years.
Things turned downhill for me(orphans do suffer a lot..too much suffering for you to believe there is even God in heaven who takes care of the fatherless and motherless).
My friend travelled to an African country.He kept telling me to come over there to work that things are better there,I kept declining but after a year of constant pressure,I decided to man up,packed my bags and travelled to meet him.
Guess what?I did not stay up to 5 days with him!!!
His attitude changed by the second day,he yells at me at every given opportunity,from his best friend,I turned to his boy,the heat he was given me was so bad that when he leaves the house and he comes back,I get scared just by hearing his footsteps,I virtually turned to a nonentity to him,I had no money on me because the little I had left,he collected it when I arrived,I knew no one,I felt so miserable and alone,and I started regretting why I left Nigeria,on the fifth day,I woke up early in the morning and shook him up,I don’t know what got into me(but I am glad it did),I told him I can’t stay with him anymore and I want to leave,he did not even feel bad about this,he did not think of the fact that I know nothing and nowhere in this country,he let me go
I packed my bag amid tears and went into the street,Mind you,I had no one to call back in Nigeria...It was tough on me but as a naija guy and as God will have it,I did not spend even a night on the streets,I was shocked that a total stranger took me in,clothed and fed me
Taught me everything he knows,I worked for 6 months and was able to make 2million Naira,this was like a dream to me(If you get money ehn,to praise God Dey sweet o)
I came back to Nigeria,rented an apartment,Furnished it and continued working from here.
This so called best friend of mine saw my posts and pictures on Facebook and video called me to check on me(I guess his eyes did not believe what he was seeing) he asked me if I am in a hotel,I said no,I am in my apartment,he was shocked (me I nor keep any grudge against you) he told me he was coming to Nigeria and that I should please forgive him and forget everything that happened,I told him I can forgive but can’t forget.
What surprised me most are this exact words he said “my guy,if I come,na your house I go relax first abeg”
Now my fellow Nairalanders,I am asking,how should I go about this?
I have forgiven him,but should I allow him into my home?

Ponder on this words "Some people will only need you when it's beneficial to them"

Well i guess his attitude made you to locate your destiny helper, so show him love for that and always watch ur back...

funkmrflexx:
We Have Been Dating For 1 Year and 6 months now. I’ve met her parents, we wanted to get married last year but her dad told me to wait till she finishes school which is supposed to be next year. I’m 25 years old and she’s 22 .

I live alone in the city while my mom lives in the village. My younger sister who I’m sponsoring through school sometimes comes to my place during holidays and weekends. My girlfriend practically lives with me because she comes from a type of an Abusive family. So she lives with me and I even assist her with school fees and house rents sometimes. I’ve spent even more than her father for her school.

Everyone In my family knows her and she’s a very wonderful girl. Typical wife material. She supports me every time even when I’m broke. I’m not the type of guy that dates a lot of girls . I don’t even cheat on her. Since I met her I’ve done away with a lot of ladies. I’m 100% committed to the relationship

But the problem is that she Has very bad anger issues. I mean she can destroy your property when she’s angry and I’m the quiet type. I don’t like hitting a lady execpt once in a while a general brain resetting slap. When she starts she doesn’t listen to anyone. Not me, not even her parents. So anytime she’s angry like this I will just find a way to make her laugh. Both of you can just be eating and she will get angry if you ate the fleshy part of the meat and left oily part for her (we have quarreled because of that I mean serious quarrel) . Sometimes I get tired of the whole situation. At the end even when she’s wrong I’ll let her for peace to reign. So I try to manage the anger at home so it shouldn’t go out

So we went to visit my mom in the yesterday. Because of curfew we slept over. So my mom bought us mangos this morning and told us to carry.

My girlfriend then said she doesn’t like mango that if I want to eat my mango I should carry it myself. Then my mom (she is the type that always shouts at every body. The real wahala woman) told her that if she can’t carry the mango then she should just put it on my head for me to carry na (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na).

That was the only thing my mom said. Then she sparked. Started shouting at my mom. That she should stop talking to her like that, that she doesn’t like it. In fact she’s going home. So she carried her bag and started going home. Every one in the compound started saying it’s ok (Na dat thing why dem tell u Dey make u Dey vex so) she was still shouting. I was even try to calm her down but no way. She was still shouting. Even my sister who had never seen her angry before became angry (na so you b? She said). I was really disappointed In her

The issue is what even made me angry is how she reacted. If she didn’t like what my mom said made her angry. At least she should have waited till we got home (this was the first time we were both sleeping over) then she would tell me. Or she could have called my sister and told her what my mom said. After all the fracas, she went inside the room till we left. I just told everybody to just leave her.

So when we got home I told her what she did was wrong that she shouldn’t have reacted like that. Na there war start. She started yelling and shouting at me that if my mom talks to everyone like that she won’t take it (my plan was to tell her that she should apologize to her. Because my mom already apologized that she won’t talk to her again like that. Which I know she will o . So we can just forget about the issue. But she never accepts she’s wrong ) She said I took her to my village to intimidate her in front of my family people, I was really angry and called her uncle and told him what happened. He said there was nothing wrong with what my mom told her (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na) and that he would talk to her .

I even scolded my mom before I left that I didn’t like what she said what she did that’s she was just causing issue. My girlfriend said when my mom said the word (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na) that I should have immediately rebuked my mom. But me sef no see anything wrong with what my mom said( If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na)

I just Dey follow her uncle advise and leave her be until she calms down and I talk to her

So my people what’s offensive in this word? If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na)

But this her attitude don tire me. Break up is not on the card for me at least not yet. She always thinks that they are other guys out there because she has a lot of toasters but I know they can’t do quarter of what I’m doing for her. In this modern time it’s difficult to see a guy who will allow his girlfriend stay with him thereby losing his freedom to do certain things. A guy who doesn’t cheat, a guy who takes care of her does everything for her .

I just think the things she went through in her family is affecting her physiological. And sometimes when I think about leaving her I feel pity because she can’t go back to her parents house.

You mean you scold your mum because of a small girl u ain't married to yet? You are an idiot...
Now u have been seeing all the red flags, instead of you to dump her, you are here justifying issues them jazz you ni?? They no born any bagga well make e shout for my mama for my presence....
Bookmark this word "If you marry this girl, that marriage won't last upto a year"

To whom brain is given, sense is required...

GodPunishBiafra:
Ope88
You girls should take care of your father until his sanity is restored to a good state

After that, he should get a good lawyer and he should write his will.

Your brat brother has gone out of control.
If he doesn't kill him las las, he'll kill both of your parents...

Which will?? That guy can kill all sisters if everything ain't willed to him, since they are both married, they should avoid him like bad habit, very soon him and his mum will surely meet their waterloo

Lol....I don't expect anything from a regime that rode on a chariot of lies and hypocrisy just to clinch power...

Remember someone once said "An attack on boko haram is an attack on the North" so don't expect any action from the presidency, the best they can do is to condemn the attack publicly on social media and that's the end of that chapter...

jaxxy:
Only in Nigeria, like if they don’t pay who will pay? Or will they let them mix with the populace or starve to death? Even refugees are not ignored like that talkless of quarantined citizens. Lmao

Asin eh...Personally left for me, I won't pay shi-shi to quarantine in hotels when i have home

wickyyolo:
Surah predicted what Isaih says. Isaiah was there before Jesus and Islam.

You need to go through your bible once more...

Hmmm... Never knew people pay to quarantine shaah

Joyousjoe:
I'm currently face with this same experience and I need advice!
I have known this girl for about four months now and we have been making out severally strictly with condom.
Few days ago I.e. May 14, 2020 she chatted me up that she did a pregnancy test on herself that she was pregnant just 10days after we last had sex which was on may 4. I was shocked and surprised. she saw her mense last April 26 and the next one is over a week ahead.
So I suggested she come over to my place so that we can go for a confirmation test. she said she had no money for Tfare. I sent her money through her acct. she promised to come the following. the following day she said she didn't get alert for the money I sent and couldn't withdraw either. No one to borrow money from too. I asked her to send her sisters acct detail which she did. I made another transfer through her sister and called later to inform her that have sent the money, she should notify her sister and equally make plans to come the next day so we go and confirm the test. All of a sudden she got angry and said she doesnt like it when I say 'confirm'. what is PT test that she can't do. infact she isn't coming again. I will see it after few months when I see her. I should leave her alone that she can handle it. the pregnancy issue is none of my business. she will clean it off in such a way there will be no trace. she thought I love her.
I have been so confused and don't know what to do or believe. I will appreciate some advice here

Alaye that was a format bro... Nothing else

Since 2015?? This is serious

Ishilove:
Samicine, be patient. No parent is perfect and some have them even worse than you. Manage the woman like that until you can stand on your feet because where do you want to go to with 19k? Is that for tfare or recharge card?

Humble yourself, swallow the crap and use it to build emotional muscle for the task ahead which will be coming up in a couple of years.

You have spoken well.... Sometimes it's like people on this platform reason via their anus, telling a young boy with 19k in his account to leave his mother's house and get his own apartment... #Ike gwuru

God knows if i were to be an admin here, I will ban a lot of people for not having sense...

ken711:
I have been dating a girl for about 18 months now. Very pretty but my brothers, let me tell you... Look before you leap when it comes to pretty girls.

From the minute I met this girl it has been one money request after another. If it was small sums I guess I wouldn't really mind, as I have always worked for blue chip companies and can afford it. The thing is, her requests are always very big!.....20k this, 20K that.....but my brothers, I have to tell you the one that has made me even disappointed in myself.

She lives with her parents and they are the most dysfunctional family I have ever heard of... Everyday one person is fighting the other, and this my girlfriend, as fine as she is, is the most arrogant, prideful, violent & rude person I have ever met. She hounded me everyday that I must get her an apartment of her own, so she can escape her home, and I agreed to but by saving monthly.

Would you believe, one night, when she was working at a bar as an usher for guinness, she gave her number to 2 different men just because of this apartment. My spirit kept telling me that she gave her number out, but she kept lying...only for me to catch her texting one of the men when we were at church of all places.......

She even went as far as going to meet this rich man at a hotel, but the man ran away when she made that request, and I as a fool decided to finally do it for her. (I suspect she cheated on me that night and I always tell it to her face because she has cheated on me twice before)

I live on the Island and tried to get her to rent here as well, as I really want to keep an eye on her..... She has too many guys around her who live in that area and she is this kind of person who cheats out of revenge, even over small things.....this girl refused and threatened to break things off!....bro, as a mumu I sent the money to her to rent the place and for other things, about 400K.....

Ever since that money left my account, it's like my eyes cleared!!! I couldn't believe that instead of saving my hard earned money, I went and sent it to a girl that has cheated on me twice (or even more), lied to me, slapped me and done so many things.....but I just decided to leave everything for God, seeing as she was desperate.

The problem now is that the demands for that apartment is now becoming too much!!! The expenses just to get the place finished are such a burden on my financial and mental state...

The worst happened about two days ago, she wanted me to pay 20k. Infact I just got so tired of bills that I kinda was stalling on it, but what happened next truly shocked me. Would you believe this girl started punching me, slapping me and even tore my shirt cos of 20k. She even threatened to break my office laptop (working from home) until I sent the money, after that she left........

Now she is trying to apologize so that I will pay for bed and gas and the remaining things....my brothers, I know u will say am a fool!...I accept...I am a handsome guy, studied abroad, I just don't know why loneliness made me fall in love with such a sadistic user... My only problem is, do I pay for the bed and just finish what I started or just free the whole thing and the nearly 500K I have already spent...

Please help!

Guys can so mumu shaah....Brother u are under the influence of "Do as I say" and lemme tell u something, you must still renew that rent next year as you don't wanna receive sense...