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NCDC just wanna put fear in Nigerians...

I cheat on you and u smashed my Car, asin for what naw...I don't hit women but any babe that tries that shit with me will never use those arms for life anymore....I go so beat her like criminal

paulolee:
na 2.1m b dt na...e no go even stand bangalow, dts Y emeka run am street

Nobi lie shaah, perfect house built with cash at hand

cheango:
He and we all have many thing we can lose with his carelessness.. This is a science,
leave it for science, isn't this NCDC tackling Lassa fever and Ebola? Why now are they now fraud, he just want to shine, so people like you will praise him

Praise him for doing what?? He still remains one of the most useless youth governor no matter what... besides Nyesom Wike that was hellbent on making sure Rivers state is free from covid-19, both the Federal Government and most keyboard warriors in Nigeria sabotaged his effort... So what do Nigerians really want

cheango:
KOGI WITH A JOKE
IMAGINE THE STATE SAID THE TWO POSITIVE CASES BY NCDC WAS PEOPLE ATTACKED BY BEE
AND THEY ARE REFERRED TO ABUJA FROM FMC LOKOJA
AT THE END NCDC COMFIRMED IT WAS COVID I9 AT ABUJA, INDICATION THAT MANY PEOPLE HAS IT IN KOGI, BUT STATE GOVT DONT ALLOW TESTING

I WONDER HOW PEOPLE ATTACKED BY BEE WILL BE TAKEN BY AMBULANCE TO ABUJA FOR EMERGENCY,
THE MOST USELESS STATE GOVERNMENT I HAVE EVER SEEN IS KOGI, BUT CAN WE EXPECT LESS FROM A GOVERNOR WHO RIGGED TO POWER?

THEY ARE THE ONE THAT CREATED ANDROID APP FOR TESTING ,WHAT DEVELOP COUNTRIES DONT DO.
THEY ARE THE ONE THAT SENT ONLY ONE SAMPLE TO NCDC EVEN WHEN DOCTORS SAW MANY PEOPLE WITH SYMPTOMS
THEY ARE THE ONE BUYING TESTING KIT THEMSELVES

WE SHOULDNT DECEIVE OURSELVES IRRESPONSIBILITY OF ANY STATE CAN AFFECT ANYBODY IN THIS COUNTRY, BECAUSE WHEN THE VIRUS IS SUCCESSFULLY CONTAINED, KOGI CAN STILL SPREAD IT BACK. DONT LET US FORGET, COVID I9 STATED FROM A PERSON, IN A TOWN, THEN TO THE STATE, THEN TO A REGION, THEN TO COUNTRY, THEN ALL OVER THE WORLD. ITS A WAR WE MUST COLLECTIVELY FIGHT ONCE AND FOR ALL.

AND FOR THOSE PEOPLE WHO ALWAYS SAY DO WE SEE PEOPLE DYING IN KOGI, PLEASE LAGOS THAT HAS OVER 4000 CASES DO YOU SEE PEOPLE DYING ON THE STREET?
LET US BE RESPONSIBLE, MAY GOD HELP AND PROTECT US

As long as Yahaya Bello is concerned... Kogi state is covid-19 free but don't you think there is something he knows about NCDC gimmicks?? He stand nothing to loss if he's deliberately disrupting NCDC from carrying out testing in Kogi State but a lot to gain from the Sinzu money, although he already embezzled #7Billion canopy isolation center that common ordinary breeze sweep away...

Na them sabi....It's obvious NCDC is confused, today high, tomorrow low, random figures.... And they expect people to still sit at home, biko let them open schools, bars and hotels, it's obvious we were expecting Covid-19 but ended up having Covik-1-9,Buhari has been right all this while

Gundel001:
Hi good day my fellow Nairalander please I will really need your experience about this issue. Please help me read to the end as it is a little bit long.

My junior brother is 14 years old and to be sincere I haven’t seen anybody as dull as him. I don’t know if it is natural but I just can’t understand why someone at that age could still be struggling with very simple arithmetic. My brother can’t write 1 – 150 correctly at 14.

He seems too dull; note he attends one of the best private school around our area, though I know you might say maybe education is not his way but even if you want to drop out from school you should know some basic things like money, time, multiplication and so on but my brother doesn’t know anything I must say, even to write his name correctly is a problem. It is making everyone unhappy lot of money is being spent on lesson teachers and other things for him still no improvement.

I am a student of one of the top federal University in Nigeria same as my other siblings even at both secondary and undergraduate level we were always above average so I can’t say his problem is genetic. I really wants to know what is the problem with him nairalanders. After I finished secondary school I once taught some pupils in primary school though there were dull ones too there but with time I could see improvement unlike my brother i always try to teach him from time to time but it kind of frustrating as he doesn’t even seems like he will ever grab anything and he doesn’t behave like he wants to learn anything.

He makes it seems as if he is not interested book or arithmetic at all …we all tried talking to him endless time to always read any time he his less busy but he never does except he is being forced.

He rarely talks, he loves to keep to himself always, he doesn’t have interest in anything unlike we the others that are die hard football fans, most times my mom will tell him to even go out to play and mingle he will not still want to go, he prefer to stay at home seating all day without reading or doing anything, even if it is to draw or play football he wont.

This matter is not making everyone happy at home we don’t even know the solution to his problem again, as in imagine having a child that is 14 years old that doesn’t know the difference between 17 and 71 it is just so bad…..

We don’t know if his case is mental or spiritual. please nairalanders I know there are child experts in the house or anybody who have experienced something like this before what do you think is the problem and possible solutions to the problem your contributions are welcome.

Please help me push this pleaseeeeee

Hmmm.... This case is very serious, haven't seen something like this before, don't talk, don't do anything, sitting alone all day.... Matter pass me

paulolee:
jus too bad....d worst tin in life ia getting this money and falling back to poverty again...azin u go kum de visit or trek down d roads wey u bin dey use machine burst enter...e jus too bad....e better mk person die broke n poor dan to taste dis rich life n drop back to poor again...no wonder erigga said I rather die than to go back warri go de trek..its jus too bahd and the depression one would face fit even end up with suicide..
Still on #the matter...hear say one bros send him cousin emeka £5000 to stand better mansion for am for village since last year july, as lockdown finish d bros enta naija this morning and ask emeka to go show am the mansion...na emeka be dt ontop d mansion...na d matter we de try settle since morning under rain, d.p.o de here with village head n even dibia follow join come to settle the matter, we don beg d bros tire n him no gree o, d bros get strong heart oo, he say emeka must dieee, him don already dey dig emeka grave self...

Shey £5000 suppose build mansion abi

So From Monday to Friday, covid-19 will be on public holiday.... Then they will restrict movement Saturday and Sunday to curtail the spread of covid-19.... Abeg they should open up the whole country let the best immune system wins

But in Nigeria the only thing we hear from kids of thia age is "Uncle I want Caprison"

ABLESOFT2:
I Dnt Tink Opening Of School Both SEC And UNI Is A Good Idea...
If We Are To Check Doz Public Skul's Dat Do Av Almost 60 student In A Class.
Can We Just Try 2 Imagine If One Of Doz Student Has Dat Sickness(covid-19)..
Dier Knw Way Dey Won't Touch Or Speak To Dat Peson.
Let Just Stay Home 4 Nw..Until We Are Sure We Can Deal With Da Virus.

So in the nutshell students should stay at home till next year abi...Because that's when a vaccine may be found (it's not even guaranteed)

Any phone that doesn't support Google, as long as you are in Nigeria, please run away from it, I repeat run away from it.... You will suffer, I learnt the hard way

Blessamaka:
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I wish to start same business there because I've gotten enough customers but I'll join their union where as the law the union is dishing out is not favourable to me. There's no good reasons for their law.. the law is only favourable to the leaders. If I'm to sell clothes in that same market I'll also join a union. Every business has it's union. I'm not trying to do this to hurt my mum but to break free from these bondage called law

Then i think you have ur answers already... Join the same Union so that u and your mom will start buying 6bags instead of 3bags, so u can make sells throughout the week, them purchase new stocks the following week...Because fighting the union will completely take your mom outter business entirely

Positivechick:
I broke up with my boyfriend today,

I met him while I was serving, he was nice and the only friend I had, I served in a village. While we were serving he doesn’t give me much, I practically kinda fed him cause he was always in my place. He had a roommate and I didn’t. Before he gives me any money we always had issues, not like he doesn’t hv to give. He just doesn’t want to. I don’t even ask for much.

After service we continued dating, he had no job so I told him to get a teaching job he said never ever, he rather follow he’s friends up and down , I kept quite watching what his plans maybe, I hv never asked him for a dim since we finished service mid last year, got a teaching job so taking care of myself.

My birthday would be coming up, his just passed, I told him that I would be expecting some cash on my birthday. We talked today and he’s telling me he spent all he’s money for he’s birthday, that if money comes he will send but right now he has no money, placing me on the probability table, so I said u couldn’t keep the one u would send me, he said people were buying drinks and buying drinks and he couldn’t tell them to stop. Am like are u serious ? I had to remind him that my birthday is few days away and he started saying he won’t be able to send anything. I told him without him doing the needful that there is no us.

Am tired, he has no vision, No focus , no aim , he depends on his friends and it's annoying. I think about he’s future more than he does , he’s always in the present. He’s making me feel like a bad person that he would make it. I hope he makes it but the relationship is so draining and I am 100% faithful to someone with no sense of reasoning. He’s Saying I am dating someone that’s why I want to leave him. He isn’t even addressing the issue we hv on ground .

Thoughts??

Maybe you just want to receive bashing here and I'm sure you will surely receive what you asked for... Because i just can't imagine how Covid-19 ia ravaging the world and all you care for is to collect money from your jobless boyfriend....You are so shameless for voicing this hokum on NL..... He has no vision, yet you want to drain the little he doesn't even have, you both are perfect for each other by the way

But we are in a Country where "Until e happen" before drastic measures and maintenance are put in place....

So till then, Government no send at all

dairykidd:
Hahahaha na 33" tears? Omor see as u make cold beer hungry me right now

I swear... The day Bars & confirm joints go finally open ehh, na too just go chill off covid-19 stress with better chilled Heineken

Denique:
1. Every youth can't go about creating a vaccine for "one virus". There are other fields their expertise are required.

2. It's rude to involve one's parents in an argument, more so, his grandparents which I'm sure are well older than you... Besides, the guy didn't have the conversation with you but Otedola... Speaks a lot about your upbringing. One thing is certain, you just refused training


3. You don't know him, so don't conclude he is jobless. If he had done what you suggested, you'd be the first to call him an online beggar

4. I know you want attention, so here you go:
a. By "Nigerian men" , I hope you know that includes all the men in your family except you don't understand English?

b. Sex starved? Girl, you should change your circle. It's obvious you've been hanging with " chewing-gum boys" and these set of guys are known to want sex all the time.

You need an upgrade!

I hope you are ready for what is to come on this thread?

Don't play the "women supporting women card" here cos you alone called them out and they have a right to defend themselves.

You really don't have to comment on every thread as you seem troubled

Cheers!

Thanks for this comment, that girl really has no shame at all, always quick to showcase her empty skull on every thread... But we are not bordered at all, we have seen her type before(men are scum crew) and we know it ended in premium chilled lager tears...

Genset:
This hurt me. I didn't really do anything to him to be honest.

Lol oya don't take it to the heart dear... just enjoy ur money after all you didn't asked for it

Chai... These one of the best thing any one can achieve in life

Genset:
My ex-boyfriend just me money out of the blues, should i be worried? We broke up since the beginning of the year and haven't spoken since then. All of a sudden he texted me asking for my account number and then sent me money. It's just weird.

Don't bother about it.... He sent you that money just to show appreciation that you left his life, I guess it was a blessing in disguised because things are much more better for him right now without you, Nigga is just like me....

Seekness:
Please permit me to bring my marriage issues here for the very first time. Its true I've been on this forum for almost 10 years, I'm not very good at opening threads. But because of the necessity, I had to create a new Moniker so that I can briefly share my worries to ease off the pains in my heart.

Though she is very hardworking, generous and kind, but she has some very negative traits that belittle whatever admirable ones she may have.


This marriage has lasted a little over half a decade. But the problems I've always complained about right from the start is what I'm still talking about.

(1) My wife bottles up her anger a lot. If I offend her, she will never (hardly) tell me about it, I will only get to know about it through her facial expressions or her response to conversations, and if I ask her if anything was the matter, she will simply say "there is no problem".

(2) She takes too long to forgive. I can plead with her for forgiveness till "Thy Kingdom Come", yet she is not moved by my pleas. She will continue to wear a sad face for a very long time, (sometimes hours or even days) before she will grant me forgiveness, sometimes even in minor issues that I sometimes overlook if she was the one that did it.

(3) My wife hardly apologizes when she wrongs me. Even if she does apologize, she will expect me to accept her apologies immediately she said "I'm sorry" but she will not do the same if it was the other way round. That's pride!

All of these I have dealt with in silent pains with no hope of improvement in sight.

As I type this message, she is all alone in the room because of a situation we could not resolve. For over a week, she has carried a long face for reasons I do not know. I have asked severally, she keeps telling me "its nothing".

For over two weeks, she has not allowed me to touch her, neither have I had sexual intimacy with her. She keeps refusing all my advances to the point it was so painful after I pleaded with her for over one hour she still did not yield that I almost forced it on her tonight, but I exercised restrain.

All effort to have her talk to me in sincerity has not yielded any positive result for the past eight days.

I've told her of my suicidal thoughts (I'm not joking) but it fell on deaf ears because whenever she crosses her mind over something, bros, forget am! She can't be convinced to take up a contrary view.

Modified: As a result of these, I have relapsed once again to masturbation which I had overcome in the past. Since cheating on her is not an option for me, at least for now. Though thoughts of it are on my mind, but I can't just do that.

Please help a brother. Depression is gradually setting as my thoughts are going wild.

I need good suggestions please...

Seekness!

It very simple, since u have pleaded but to no avail, avoid her like she doesn't exist in that house, until she comes back to her senses... It works like magic..

But on a second thought, your wife refused to open her LGA for you and you are already thinking of suicide...?? To whose benefits if i may ask?? But seems to me her love for you is fading away....
The problem about most Men is that once they get married, they stop doing those romantic things they used to do for their partner when they were dating as BF/GF, she still deserves those treats you once gave to her e.g outtings, surprise gifts evening clubbing together.... All this will cement your love for eachother and make it more stronger and better

You need to understand your woman, know her strength and weaknesses and always capitalize on it whenever her mode swings... Try getting her what she likes and when she comes around lively use pattern to chip in why she usually goes mute on you over little issues...she must tell you, This one works wonders

TheMohican:
This is solid advice.... for a 16 year old.

the MAN IS TWENTY TWO YEARS OLD for crying out loud, he's not a child!!! It's not "cute" infact, It should be a crime for someone to be this naive, and although the advice is 10/10, I believe it endulges such behavior.

At 22 my mother had graduated from University and was giving life to her 2nd child, at 23 her elder brother had started his first business and was welcoming his new wife into his home, at 21 my eldest brother was leaving the shores of Nigeria to a strange land where he knew absolutely nobody.

At 22 bomboy over here is going to report himself to his parents for kissing a girl. Damn..


Editted: just wanted to add that at 15 my father was going off to fight in the Biafran War.

Asin ehh nobi small bomboy oO.... I wonder the kinda weak men the society is breeding of recent
Just when I thought I'av heard it all

Maclink288:
Good day everyone, I'm a guy of 22years before now I've promised my parents that all through my stay in school I won't endulge in anything sexual but as of last 2 month something happened, I made out with a lady(didn't penetrate) but since then my mind hasn't been at rest, I over think, I'm loosing control, my heart beats faster, I've told my parents about it but yet I'm not calm.

In Addition: I took a substance (Man power) on that day, I don't know if it's what is affecting me. It's over 6weeks now.

I've run to God and made a vow to him if I get free...
Please Nairalanders, help me out

Look at this guy oO, you haven't done anything yet and when u decided to, you went straight and took manpower Anyways it virtually means your prick has taken control of your brain, so until you feeds him, it will keep charging at will (autonomous charging) but now it's left for you to either starve him or satisfy him...

But please how did you feel telling your parents about your sexual life... Seems to me you are mummy's boy

Donbabaj:
I could be happy now but the next minute, she changes mood all of a sudden. We dated for over year after someone match make us but this mood swing things continued overtime so sometimes I get confused even as i really tried managing the pressure. She's a nice girl, takes good care of me, buys clothes, cooks, always wants me to look good but the problem is the rate which she switches mood easily.

Financially, we are both average earner but I think she earns better pay than me.

For instance, recently we got a new apartment - 2bedroom flat but whenever I say something she doesn't like or she doesn't want to hear, she just reacts like why would I say such a thing. All the while we were dating, we never stayed with each other as we stayed in our parents house. Fast forward* most times, as the man, after switching mood, I try to pacify her by petting and apologising but she doesn't just want to listen.

Just today, we were playing with each other on the bed, touching each other (not sensitive part) and she wanted me to kiss her. So I told her jokingly that "but you know this is not biblical" as an advocate of no sex until after marriage. I have never had sex with her either. The next thing she said, "why are you talking like this" she stood up, went straight to the sitting room and slept there. I went to meet her there to pacify her again but she wouldn't listen.

Please note that I have not and can never beat or abuse her cos I'm a Christian.

I'm just tired. She's really getting on my nerves. Our wedding is 3 weeks time but I dont just know what to do. People, friends and family are already aware of the impending marriage but I'm afraid that if a lady can switch mood like this, who knows what will happen tommorrow. I cant sleep in peace...

Please advice. This is happening right now.

Seems you were the one who imposed no sex before marriage on her and you put a lady on cloud 9 and goes "but this ain't biblical" and you expect her not to react negatively towards that...And you brought this up on NL for people to advice you whether you should call off the wedding because of mood swing "bro with due respect you are mad no offence tho, but incase you decided to break up with her abeg just crossmatch me and her who knows she may be the one I have been looking for...

deolurexy1:
You shall be alive to witness it my brother

At this present era, the only one that have the potentials to offset some of their records is Kylian Mbappe... But on the otherhand if he hasn't achieved some in French League i wonder where he can achieve that as well.... But until then I guess my 500th generation will give me full gist when we meet in Heaven

azpekuliar:
Thank you but let's not mix up the issues. Going by the bolded I believe you are referring to the break-up between the members of P-square and their manager, Jude as well as their inability to reconcile and perform together again as one group & management outfit.
The feud between Cynthia Morgan Vs Joy Tongo and Jude Okoye is a different matter and was what I was addressing.

Yea i know but i just had to deviate a little bit because that's the sole reason some Nigerians wants that young mans head and i can bet my scrotum most of them gat unresolved family issues as well... if i had been in the industry just like Cynthia Morgan and MayD, I will never fall like that, even if they took away everything from them, did they also collect all the musics from their body? make they allow us rest joor

deolurexy1:
Someone will still come to beat all thier records

They never born that person... their records will last till only God knows when

sunkieisland:
Obviously some people still think that the battle is about Ballon d'ors alone. Its now about relevance at the age most footballers retire.

As Ronaldo is still relevant at 37, will Messi be? that's the question the media is trying to answer.

Messi's style of football when deployed to the midfield, he can play up to the age of 45...

What is marca saying...