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FrontRunner:
Yea but it's really surprising to know you were put through all that.I also lived in Family House during my Service year and know alot of Shiit went down ooo.Like a time we had to pray for a sister who was used for money rituals by some Rich Dude,She Left the House and later came back very ill but That's by the way tho.
So why would everyone(mamay,papay,Prayoo etc)believe one person over you.Were you giving them the wrong impression about yourself?
PS: I'm a Backsliding Born again Christian.

like I said pray make them no set you up, even you will not believe yourself, anyways the person that came up with the evil idea is the mama. do you now understand why they ll believe her word against mine. About the lady you said was used for money ritual, I'm curious she went out with a rich dude, fell sick and y'all concluded she was used for money ritual?

FrontRunner:
So they wanted to Lynch you for being a witch instead Praying for your Deliverance.Abeg Which State and Where was this your Family House exactly?I need to get to the bottom of this Story.

lol, deliverance? Abeg pray make them no set you up bro. Imagine trying to deliver you from something that you know nothing about? Telling you to confess you are a witch? How on earth am I supposed to do that. Ever heard of psychological torture?

Don't try to convince those religious people that it's not spiritual. You ll only be wasting your time and energy if you do.
PS: I'm a born again Christian

Well I was accused of witchcraft during my NYSC days because of this.
Someone who hated me convinced all the people I shared room with overnight that I was the one pressing them. It was corpers fellowship house with those religious folks who thought they had the right to lynch me for being a 'witch'. It was traumatic guys.

Call him to congratulate him for a new grandchild, even ask him to give the baby a name ( do all these just for the sake of peace) love your self and your new little one, be happy and have fun.

CAPSLOCKED:
WHILE MATHEW TRACES HIS ANCESTRY TO DAVID THROUGH JOSEPH, LUKE TRACES IT TO DAVID AGAIN THROUGH MARY.
NOW I WONDER IF JOSEPH AND MARY WERE RELATIVES.

they are both descendants of David.

Better take your baby to a better hospital, maybe a general hospital or a teaching hospital, we can't afford to take chances.

Any Muslim wey ready to share eid food abeg. Of all the problems in this world na whether to chop Muslim food be some people headache.
Please don't quote me o I have not eaten.

Insist she gets a job or a shop. Or if this would work, keep making jest of her that she's just a slave to another family. A whole married woman reduced to baby sitting and doing chores for another family. God forbid bad thing.

seglabsy:
not like that we are talking spiritual.someone called you to help and within 24hrs he just begins to fright you,etc.like dat like dat.

don't be frightened sir. As you can see I don't 'korira' you. Nothing is wrong with you. Do not be afraid.

The person that told you is only trying to instill fear in you, Manipulate you and control you . Not everybody will like you and its fine. Nothing is wrong with you. Repeat after me 'Nothing is wrong with me'

Stop listening to religious bigots.

Datagric:
What if the boy had the evil spirit and so? Why do Some Christians and Muslims in this country find it very difficult to tolerate other people with different belief. Wicked mother f**ka

No true Christian will do that to a defenceless child

Op, I think you should just buy the land in the name of your kids, ask your husband to support in the building of the house too and, even if he doesn't you are good to go madam.

Nonsense and Covid-19

Zaronxpanol:
Thanks all for your comments.
On a serious note, I need a bible scholar or a religious leader to read my story and advise me in this scenario. Because it seems I am the one been painted as a black sheep. My ex-husband has an innocent face and he is good at gaining public sympathy and pretending.

you don't need any bible scholar, God gave you brain, use it!

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Op don't kill your innocent baby, That's the only person I feel sorry for.

ShenTeh:
Seems her incantations are already working. FEAR!

First what you did is cruel to both man and animal, and should be condemned in every possible strong term. You need to learn tolerance and communication.

That said, to be brave is to meet the woman in the middle of her incantations and say "Mama, stop that nonsense!. Stop wasting your time and energy. I did it because I warned you repeatedly. I have been looking for the appropriate time to tell you. Please don't disturb yourself again. If you have 100 goats and you don't control them around my place I will do it again!"

That is the brave thing to do. Otherwise, you will live in perpetual fear. Even when you have headache, you will attribute it to the woman's incantations.

She will shout, she will rant, she will fuss and swear, but everyone will respect you and your space.

Op, listen to this advice, fetish and diabolical people do not respond to begging, their tool is fear, do not be afraid and face her, fire for fire

JOBgame:
I want to get marry to a yoruba woman but am sacred of their stuffs

what stuff exactly are you afraid of?

Kamani8:
Op stay away from talks like this. U don't need blames not this time, not ever.


As per your hubby's attitude;
Ignore him and pay him no mind, that's the best way. Please don't try to appease him over your inability to birth a son. Never ever accept it as your fault cos its not.Thats the mistake ladies make.

Find something doing, raise your sweet baby, and move all the way on.

If he likes let him get a baby boy outside, not your business. You'll at least be alive to raise your daughters.

That's how my neighbour killed herself trying to birth a 5th child(boy) because of her husband.
In the end, she and the baby died during labour and while she was still at the morgue, the man was busy at unilag with slayqueens.

Ladies it's time some of u borrow sense. I hate nonsense

seconded
This isn't gonna be easy, but trust me it ll be worth it

I don't get it, will she live in your family house or how else will they know your wife isn't breastfeeding

So sleeping with the lights on and not seeing her going to church is now an issue? I dunno whether to call you a pervert or a religious bigot

I now understand why your mum warned you to stay away from her.

If you are comfortable living under the same roof with your CHILDREN and a pedophile then its fine.

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tetralogyfallot:
I used to think these guy perform real miracles before but covid 19 don expose all of them

Only God can perform miracles

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Mymynd4u:
I wud love to marry an ekiti lady seriously.... I love That state so much.. Even though I be Ghanaian

same sex marriage is illegal in nigeria

Belafonte:
Doing what his wife wants even after the foolishness of her demands is apparent is not allowing peace to reign, it is simply falling for cheap emotional blackmail that will put him on the back foot almost irreversibly as far as both sets of children are concerned. Acceding to her demands in this situation would be the worst thing OP could do

well, its my opinion tho but there are still ways to manage the situation without the op appearing to be weak, the op can change the younger kids school and explain to his wife that he's doing it for peace to reign, trust me its not easy as a woman not to feel jealous in cases like this. Personally I won't marry a single father because I don't like trouble in my life.

If you want peace to reign, take your wife's kid to the school too.
We understand the motive behind the decision but there are things married people do just for the sake of peace.
You married as a single father with a kid, you have to be extra careful when doing some things. My opinion tho

Kenlinks546:
Take the bank job, wen u start, tell your supervisor to fix u into night duty. you can still teach if u r hardworking 40+20k =60k

so he won't sleep again abi?