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This girl isn't married. Of that, I am sure! The Lebanese she posed with was just to throw scent off her. Who even marries Lebanese and Indians? She is just an unrepentant courtesan.

Colourich:
I'm even tired of the whole wife material trash, all the wife material trash I did with my stupid ex what did I gain? if my boo no wan marry me, make him leave, its not by force, I don't like what I hate neither am I desperate. I will go to his family house and I won't do shii, ain't nobody complaining.

Lol. Real talk!

You don't have to bend till you break. When the right guy comes, he is not going to put you under pressure. He will even adore your flaws!

You go girl!

UyaiIncomparabl:
Whoever that has eyes, let her read and assimilate. This is very intelligent. I commend this, Amarabae.

Several months ago, I was in a relationship with whom I presumed 'Loved' me so much not to loose me. I loved him too. It was an abusive and intolerable relationship. I didn't want to loose him, thereby I did everything in Love's book to keep this guy. Not that We had plans of settling down soon, but I was ready to do whatever he bidded. At a time, I used to visit his parents' home to say 'Hello'. I always did this and His mother abused this use. She'll always want to send me errands like her slave. I patiently adhered to this torture for sometime until I couldn't tolerate further. Her first Son and his Fiancée visited. I happened to be around on that day.
What actually infuriated and perplexed me was that she asked me to go to the kitchen and boil rice for the 'Fiancée'. What nonsense!
I had an appointment. I was vexed, and my ignorant boyfriend couldn't explain to her about this development. I was surprised i was polite all through the fracas ensuing. I wasn't my normal self anymore. I was raging. I told her sternly and firmly that I wouldn't be able to do what she asked. She felt slighted. Oh, so the girl doesn't have hands to boil rice for herself, right?
I politely excused myself.
Thereafter, my boyfriend called and told me that I had a negative attitude. Oh really? Is that how 'A Wife Material' is being known in your village? He told me to come and apologize to his mum on my knees. I cursed and ended the phone thereon. He never called. I never called. He took my desperation for stupidity. I learnt the hard way.

To the ladies, never allow a man treat you like trash. You all are phenomenal. If he doesn't accept you for being a lady with poise, excuse yourself. A better relationship awaits. I'm not discouraging that you shouldn't help when the need arises or when you find yourself in the midst of a gathering like that, but then, NEVER over-do it. Washing their clothes will not earn you a 'ring'. It's not bad to be principled too. Know your worth.
I'm happy I took that decision. I've never been more happier. If he is meant for you, no force can tear you apart, and vice-versa.

My dear. A good read. The worst feeling ever is being treated like trash by someone you love. I fell in love with this guy some months ago, treating my like trash is an understatement. I picked up the pieces, groomed myself and God brought an amazing guy my way. He isn't perfect but he is great. When he has time, he cooks for me and invites me over.

Yours will come. Good riddance to bad rubbish!

Secure the bag, girl. Enjoy the ancestor while it lasts.

This useless Garki hospital where one idiot that calls herself a doctor was asking me irrelevant questions.

Heartless people everywhere!

Rest in Peace, Girl.

[quote author= post=68987437]Keep slaying pretty gal.
You rock!
And don't forget EDUCATION IS BAE, while slaying dear.
All the best.[/quote

Let us all create a "Go Fund Me" page for this nigga to help his grilling business.


You thirsty asf!

LastSurvivor11:
Don't ever let them tell you that your Nothing..
Don't ever let them bring you down..
We are all God's favourite in our own ways..
We are all special..

Loud it! There are too many cruel peeps out here.

mimimile93:
I got so many pms from folks here wanting to know why I killed my ex while others want to know why I bash women.

Some were already calling me names and it's crazily surprising how some people judge others by the page they walked into their lives. I believe some of you here would do same if you were in my shoes. If I am to write in details what I went through in the hands of women, I will take a whole month. What I am dropping here is just a tip of what I've gone through in the hands of ho.es.

Please read through this piece carefully with understanding before jumping to quote me.
I come from a family were every child is a male. No sister, female cousin, niece and all that. I have Aunt tho..

At a very young age I started girl's business. I experienced my first heart break at the age of 7. She was my second lover. The first girl I had, distance tore us apart. This second girl of mine was my class mate in primary school. I remember during that time we were together, I did stuffs for her. Gave her my sweets, ice cream, pencil, pen, copied notes for her, I'd abandoned my note to write hers, do home work and class work for her. Since we were sitting together on the same desk, I'd let her copy me during test and exams. Some times should would have higher marks than I do. After all those sacrifices I made, a b!tch got the guts to tell me it's over just because a new boy came to the class and was giving her stuffs double has I did. The boy was from a rich family while I came from a ain't rich ain't poor family. Mehn I was hurt.

I got into secondary school though boys school (boarding) I was opportune to have access to opposite sex. I dated girls then and all of them cheat. I can't stand a cheat no matter what. So I was changing girlfriends every time. Cause once they cheat I dump them. I never had a relationship that lasted for a year because all my girlfriends cheated and lie a lot. When my girlfriend cheats I dump her real quick. I didn't give room for second chance and that was my MO. Whenever I broke up with a girl, within a week or two I'll find myself in a fresh relationship with another girl. That was my own way to heal fast. Since I was operating on (you cheat I walk out), I had like 5 girlfriends in a year. B!tches weren't loyal. I left secondary school at 16yrs (2006), gain admission into Maritime Academy of Nigeria (MAN) to study nautical science. I stated dating matured girls and most of them were older than me but guess what? They were even worse than the girls I dated during secondary school days and I wasn't tired of dumping them tho some we broke up due to bad habit they exhibited or I exhibited. I have dated girls from all the six geo-political zones, I've dated Muslims and Christians. They are all useless and cheated. Two of my ex girlfriends got pregnant to other guys while being in a relationship with me. One said she was raped but during my investigation I discovered she wasn't raped. I dump her ass immediately. One thing about mimimile is, when I love, I love with everything I have and when I hate, I hate more than I ever loved. My moniker (mimimile) mimi is my name while mile is a name friends gave me because I am the type that go miles to do and undo. I'm a do or die kind of person. I don't believe in giving up. I was doing ND program at MAN. During my ND2, I and my course mates went to Malaysia for IT. Getting to Malaysia I made friends with foreign cadets I met there, we shared contacts and all that. A company in Malaysia told selected some of us that they were impressed with and told us after our program we should come back for employment. There's a particular certificate the company required from us and we were glad because we did courses that beget that cert. That cert would enable us work in Malaysia. We did other professional courses so it was a plus for us. During my ND2, I met a girl and we started dating, so when returning from Malaysia I told her about going back to Malaysia for work as soon as am done with my program at MAN. She was happy, we all got our certs and we were preparing to leave. A week to leave my traveling documents got missing including my cert. I searched everywhere even went to the school to confirmed if I've collected it and the school proved I did. I went to my friends houses to check but couldn't find it. I was confused. My girlfriend followed me in the searching and all effort to find it proved abortive..

The day came, and I escorted my friends to the airport and couldn't go because of my traveling documents. This happened in 2008 and few months later I saw my traveling documents underneath my pillow. I was scared and started asking myself who could have put it there but I checked there earlier and did not find it. That evening I went out with my girlfriend to hangout and while spending time together she started crying and telling me she took my documents. I was shocked and asked her why she did so she told me that she was scared of losing me that she knew I'd forget her as soon as I start working overseas. I was shocked and dumb. She told me she saw a chat I had with one foreign female cadet telling her how I couldn't wait to return back to Malaysia. I was so mad I left her there and told her never to come hear me again. She went me messages begging me that she did that out of pure jealousy she never wished me any bad. I was hurt but I had to let her go.. We broke up. I sent mails to the Malaysia company if I could come that I've found my documents I never gotten any response from them. I began hunting for jobs and I started doing odd jobs while chasing the real deal. In 2009 I met another girl and we started dating. I have dated so many girls between 2007-2009 none of the relationship lasted over 3months. The ladies I was with were all useless. It's kinda hard getting a full time job with a shipping company most of the jobs were on contracts and once your contract got expired you start hunting for job again and before you could find one, your papers might got expired and to renew is money. I thought of all this and I planned getting a degree in any science related course. I told my girlfriend and she welcomed the idea. This girl was great. The longest relationship I ever had was with her because she proved to be different from other girls I've met. While embarking on admission process, I got a job with one shipping company in PH. The job was based on slots and I paid to get it. It was a contract job.
My girlfriend came to my place one evening and told me that since I've gotten a job and might not be able to go to school and acquire the degree that has someone who can do that for me. I was really glad. One thing I loved about her she was quite a wit. She introduced me to a guy and told me the guy would be attending lectures, write tests, assignments and exams for me while I pay him. I met the guy and we had a deal. My girlfriend was also a student of that school. Every now and then the guy will call me or send me mail that he needs money to buy this and that, settle lectures and all that. I would call my girlfriend and she will confirmed it's true. I will send the money and some times I will send more than what he asks for. I even paid my girlfriend's school fees.

In 2012 I lost my dad to stroke. When he had the stroke he was paralyzed, I brought him to my house to stay and I paid someone to care for him since I don't have sister or mom and my brothers were far from home. While on water, I do tell my girlfriend to be going to my place and check on my dad time to time. She did and am always delighted to have as a girlfriend. I spent most of my time on water due to the nature of my job.
I rented 2 bed rooms flat. Because of lack of time, I sent my girlfriend most of the things I'd do on land and she's always ready to help. I sent her money to buy my home appliance which she did. She bought TVs for the 2 rooms including sitting room, bought fridge, a/c, dinning table, chairs, in fact she bought everything needed to make a house comfortable. She bought them little by little depending on the money I sent. She was a good planner and whenever I returned back home to meet the house am always super excited. I bought a car I was using whenever am around and when am on water, she drove the car. My properties were ours. One day, she advised me to buy a land and she told me she saw one at a nice location. Because of the trust and love I have for her, I gave her money to buy it. She bought it and fence it. She once took me to the land. I was so so thankful to her I bought her gifts that day.
I asked her for the land documents later that night she told it was with a lawyer friend that there are certain things to be done before hanging it over to me. I told her when the documents are ready she should keep it.

In that same 2012, I went back to MAN to do my HND. In 2014 the guy called that I should send him 300k for project and I asked my girlfriend she confirmed it so I sent him 350k through my girlfriend. I always sent him money through my girlfriend. That same 2014 my contact with the company expired. I was doing my HND program at MAN and I began job hunting again. I asked my guys abroad if there was any vacancy in their company they said they will inform me whenever there's one. Now that I wasn't working again I had much time for yourself so I went to my girlfriend's school to see the guy and know how far he has gone with the project. Getting there to my greatest surprised I discovered this guy was defrauding me. He didn't do anything in fact my name wasn't in the school. All the papers he sent me were fake. It's not good to be deeply in love I swear. Love and sense are enemies at any time. I went to my girlfriend I was very mad at her. How could she do this to me, I mean I love her and did stuffs for her and she did this to me? Hire someone to defraud me? I wanted to arrest the guy and the girl but a friend advised me against it telling me I'd put my self in trouble that I wanted getting a degree illegally. I kept cool and told my girlfriend that it was over. She begged I told her no way. I was very hurt. I gave her a date to come to my place and pack her clothes from my house. That day came she came, guess what! She came with a big van, two policemen and two boys. I was wondering what she brought a van for and the police and I thought maybe she brought police due to fear of being beaten. They entered the house and my girlfriend started packing my tvs, fridge, chairs, tables I was shocked. I told her those things belong to me though she bought them but they are mine because she used my money to buy. She deep her hand into her purse and brought out receipts. Lo and behold everything she bought in my house has a receipt in her name. I was very shocked and almost fainted. The police men were ready to arrest me if I do anything silly. I sat on the floor and watched them pack my things put in the van and zoomed off. The only thing she left behind was beds, plates and pots. The next day I called her to bring my land documents she laughed and asked me which land, if I've bought any land before. I was confused and wanted to kill myself. I went to her place and discovered a b!tch wasn't living there anymore. I went to her brother told him everything the niggah never supported her. He told me he will help me track her down. Few weeks later her friend called me and demanded to see me I told her where to meet me and she came. She told me that she had a some to tell me I told her go ahead. She told me that my girlfriend killed my dad. I don't her she should stop that joke that my dad died of stroke. She opened her phone and showed me the chat she had with my girlfriend in 2012 how my girlfriend told her that she was going to kill my dad reason because my dad was messing up the house pooing on his body and she needed privacy and all that. I asked this her friend why didn't she tell me she said the had a deal and since she couldn't keep to her own promise she decided to exposed her. Mehn I was weak on the chair I was sitting. I wanted informing my brothers but was still confused about this. I quickly recalled there was a day me and my girlfriend had issues and she told me if am not careful I'll die the same way my dad died. I couldn't decode what she was saying because I knew my dad died of stroke. Was she saying am going to die of stroke.? I didn't pay mind to that statement. I met a friend who told me to report to the police and still Nigeria police system is faulty I abolished his opinion. I called my girlfriend I asked her why she killed my dad she asked me who told me I told her nobody that I remembered a day she said I will die like my dad. She cursed me on phone and ended the call. I was so hurt couldn't hold myself together. I started hating women, posted stuffs against women on my FB until I was banned on Facebook. During her birthday I paid someone to poisoned her drink and sh drank and died. Immediately sh died I was name first suspect. I was arrested, charge to court, pleaded guilty and sentence to jail. I didn't complete my HND program, lost my house properties, didn't have a degree, no land.
In court I showed the judge the chat and how she killed my dad (her friend was no where to be found) the judge told me he would do same if he was in my shoes. He gave me a lighter sentence I was sent to prison 2014, Dec 2017 I was released. That same week I was released, a lady mistakenly stepped on my while walking and before she could say sorry I hit her on her breast she fainted. I was arrested again and 3 weeks was released, went to rehab. My psychologist told me if there's any way I can leave the country I should leave that he's afraid of what would happened if I remain in Nigeria. I called few of my friends abroad and the helped me I got papers and move to Thailand. I am in Thailand working in a bar at my age. Someone should give me a reason why I should love women especially Nigerian women. I hate them. Whenever guys bring girls to this bar and I discovered the ladies are Nigerians I feel very bitter. I can't get erection from a Nigerian woman no matter how sexy she is.

Women have done more harm than good.

Presently my cousin is serving term in US prison because of a woman. That one is a story for another day.

Oh my God! My God! I can never, ever fault you. Jesus Christ.

Someone I know very well served four years in prison in the US because of a girl that lied against him.

This is so shocking.

UyaiIncomparabl:
IamPlato
SoapQueen
Makydebbie
Yettymuse
Cococandy
Delugajackson

Happy New Month Uyai!
May God bless you and yours!
May your business experience great heights.
Amen.

YeyeGirl:
If its to press bwezz,u wee nt miss anytin o,ur hand go dey flexible pass new agege bread.. To score goal nao,ur nyash and legs stiff pass 1978 padlock.... Yeye ram...

I laugh piss for body.

jidobaba:
The Irish can sing. And they can drink.

Thought the Scots are worse drinkers. Yes, I agree with you. They can sing. The Westlife guys are from Ireland and a plethora of others.

Be thankful you are alive.

UyaiIncomparabl:
One thing is to live, the struggle is to keep living. Until we sniff out, we are very unsure of how turbulent our lives can turn in an instant.

Oh yea, you're alive and you smirk or with a shrug of a shoulder dismiss how easy it is being alive? Know this, Everyone will DIE, someday. You escape death, and you term it luck? Nay. You're not lucky. It's not just your turn. When it is your turn to bow out, no force can rigidly withhold the possibility of it happening. Now that you're alive, make it count. We live to leave. I've come to realize, that life is very flexible. It hangs on a thin thread, and in a second, it snaps.

This is really a tragic month. Too many deaths have taken place in a flash. Whom could we've wronged? Sometimes I wonder, Is God really immune (If that's the right word to use) to the menace and dastardly acts, gory sights and never-ending killings quadrupling by the day? Were some people destined to die gruesomely? Even if they were, why in such horrific and unpleasant manner?
This are but rhetorical questions. These things. I repeat, these things baffles and gets me thinking till I doubt that there is a God somewhere watching. But what do I know?

God they say is an unquestionable God. Know this, I have over a million questions to ask him. Why did he have to create and give us an existence if He knew we will all die someday; not determining the longevity? When I get up there, if ever I get lucky to. I'll inquire of him so much. I need to know. I'm curious.
What do the Theologians say? These are the signs of the 'End Times'. Well then, let the world end already, and let's get riddance to the gory sights and sickening news we hear and see daily. I just hope it meets me in good deed. As a non-conformist, I say, we're only but a compilation of breaths. Live it like it is your last.

Everyone is so busy with their lives and struggles(s) that we forget to sap off life's inspiration and teachings. Yes. Life in itself is a mystery and has a lot to offer than we can ever fathom. The depth and magnitude of its knowledge is unfathomable, indescribable, insatiable to man (I'm short of semantics to use). There's more to this Life than meets the eye.

Little wonder, the movers and shakers of Earth are doubting Thomases. They doubt HIS existence. The truth is, it'll only get worse, and very worse until we see Life's worst. Make your stay count. Be impactful.

Cc: Lalasticlala
Ishilove
IamPlato
SoapQueen
MakyDebbie

My sister, I am scared and really worried.

Keneeby:
Look for him and have him. His is very handsome

You sure he would have me? I'm not pretty!

See as man fresh like today bread.

Akwasi:
As these bloods continue to be spilled, the land will sooner than later fight back. There is too much blood getting spilled on that map called nigeria. beware o!

My dear, I just wrote articles about scary places to visit in 15 different countries. You will be amazed at how many things start to haunt people later.

Many places in the world are haunted and Nigeria will soon be a part of them.

This Iheoma savage,I swear!

Fine girl wey no dey ever gree.

Lol.

BluntBoy:
Soapqueen, hope you aren't struggling with any of the aforementioned constraints

Hells nah.

Today is her birthday I think. God bless you Carol!

XingXhang:
I don't even know her...and she's feeling like I'm a...

Stalker? Far from it. Probably, you're not my type. Stop taking it personal, focus on the topic. I'm quoting just any Nairalander.

Respond intelligently if you have to: you know you sound 'sane' when you do that.

I will reply yet again...JUST BECAUSE EVIL IS HAPPENING EVERYWHERE DOESN'T MEAN THAT INNOCENT BOY SHOULD SUFFER FOR stealing.

Your line of thought makes me accept that YOU CAN CONTACT a deadly disease just because there are many people in Ilorin or places you mentioned have it. You can and your belief system might ensure you do, sooner.

We Become We Agree To...


Spineless Spindles Spineless AND 'thinking
a random guy is stalking you' is childish.

Remember, you're better quiet.

I just totally gave up on you when I noticed you have eye problems. Sadly, you need Vitamin A.

I wrote "talker" not "stalker". You aren't just myopic(literally), you are hyperopic.

Get well soon.

XingXhang:
People who 'stand on the fence' in such a HEINOUS act
are WICKED themselves JUST LIKE people who stand
on the fence for 'Rape issues'.

Keep your words to yourself! You will be termed 'sensible' that way.

You are such a terrible and silly talker. All I said was I sit on the fence on this and you have the effrontery to call me names.

What does sitting on the fence mean? It means I may not agree with the mom razing her child (with fire) but she was trying to stop him from stealing. Are you even normal? Ranting and barking like a spineless, guttersnipe.

The people that killed many innocent souls at Illorin, were they not once kids who started with antics like this? You telling me that I can support rape issue over a single line of sentence I made.

Go over the number of people that have met their waterloo on the streets. Residents have meted gruesome treatments like burning them with tyres and hacking them to death because they stole.

Never, ever try to even drag me.

Just keep being the passerby that you are and stop nagging like a fishwife.

XingXhang:
People who say such things possess a wicked, devilish and inhumane heart. The world can't go round with people like you, Taa!

So much I could tell you, but I'd remain silent.

I am sitting on the fence on this one.

That is all I can/will say.

Stale gist. Even Religion cannot curb the libido of the Indimi girls.
Fine women though.