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dominique:
How can a mother separate from her child for a whole 16 years? What kind of money is she looking for? If I were the daughter, I wouldn't be so welcoming.

Papers

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What took the wife to the cinema if she didn't have her own rendezvous?

Well unless she was stalking her husband, then in that case she doesn't deserve to be a wife.
She should be sent packing.

A woman whose brideprice was paid for by a man has no right to question his philandering culture.

Tradition and nature has permitted man to be polygamous.
That is why a man can release trillions of sperm in a month but a woman can only release one egg, two at most.

Any woman who can't accept the fact that ALL men must cheat has no business getting married. [/quot]

But it's hard to accept

SixDividedByTwo:
kinda. i will never believe in a Nigerian guy living in Nigeria ever again.

What happened..

Check your inbox

More importantly how did this get to front page

tracyfemmmm:
Haha. Honestly i can't feel pity for Nigerian men. After all the cheating, lies ,family maltreatment, and even violence you guys have put women through
now you are tasting a small portion of your own medicine you are crying. Alot of women share their husbands with mistresses and even know about illegimate children. Its just that our own is secret. So please take heart and manage. The lord is your strength. Dont let enemies that no one can see destroy your marriage. Pray away the infidelity. Maybe if you could provide more or if your sperm was not watery you would have given her children.

Well said, I know women who have taken in their husband's illegitimate children for sake of peace.

MetaPhysical:
My brother,
The Christ is derived from Greek word Khristos.
Jesus was not Greek. He was an Hebrew and spoke Aramaic, a dialect of ancient Hebrew. So how did Christ come about?

In ancient Hebrew and Aramaic, there is a word called Masheah. In modern Hebrew they call it Messiah. It means anointed, or one who possesses Divine Authority! The Greeks only knew of one authority and it belongs to their Ceasar or Kings, no one else. So they refused to assign a King's attribute of authority to Jesus but instead translated Masheah to Khristo. This is how Jesus CHRIST entered Bible and Christianity derived. If you had to study and render Bible in ancient Hebrew as Muslims do by learning and rendering their religion in Arabic....you will not be known as Christian...but instead as Masheanite (follower of Mashead). Instead of Jesus Christ we will be sayong Jesus Masheah. I can even take you deeper than this but I dont think its necessary to waste my time on public forum revealing things that are of no use to you anyway.

Now, how does all these connect with Yoruba?

In Yoruba, divine authority is called ASHE. Ifa adherents (Awo) say ASHE to prayers.

You can see how Ifa and Christianity connect when you go into their ancestry and uncover the connection between Masheah (Christ) and Ashe.


Enough said abeg....Nairaland is not the place to make revelations, it will be denigrated.

Well said my brother, there is a in history that people don't know about

One thing I find very odd is that this foundation is all over social media all the time.

It seems like it is chasing likes all the time.
The people pictures are they happy having their pictures online.
I know Africa might be different but it's like a photo opp all the time.

Not saying feeding the nation is not noble, but sometimes it should go on unpublicised

Drastic times call for drastic measures.
Get your cousin or someone to act as a girlfriend and come to your flat.

The annoying thing is yes you helped her and she is not even looking for work.
You have to be brutal to get her out

My question...

How does he keep it up when doing the deed?

Or he doesn't bother help keeping her plumbing in working order

With a name like Jodeci he should have been crooning us with songs not dealing drugs

donsiqua:
Iam a professional, I work in the medical field. The country is U.K. and the job pays at least 10x my current salary plus benefits.

Ok if it's UK that's ok.
However you will pay rent, council tax. Transport costs to your place of work and maybe indemnity insurance.
Note rent will need deposit in pounds.
You might need to take exams too.
Depending on salary you will be a 40% tax payer.
Just putting it out there for you.

Also note saving in the UK is hard.

Do not leave Nigeria without letter of employment, note if you don't satisfy certain checks the offer will be rescinded.

So think carefully

YoungLionken:
I have said it before... The people who are supposed to be in the university, should be those who want to make a career out of what they are studying, not those who want to go just to have a certificate. Many of us rush into school of higher learning just to have a "sense of belonging". A word is no longer enough for the WISE!

However, to get a foot though the door in Nigeria you need a degree in the corporate world. Which should not be the case.

This is the reason why in ancient Egypt, your right to the throne was through the mother's side.

As only a woman knew whose child she was carrying.
But alas we will never be able to return to those times.

There was a case in England I think two years ago, when some aristocrat found out that their bloodline wasn't what it was supposed to be. I.e. A bastard had been passed as an heir.

DNA we thank you.

Although how will twins know who is father if wife of one entertained both the mind boggles

ObservantFellow:
Well bae, you have three kids right? There's no guarantee that you hovering around them like a mother hen will keep them 100% safe until your old age. It's a shocker, yeah, but I gotta say he isn't taking the news well. I think you need to stand your ground here. Apologize whenever you will for keeping the news, but don't quit your passion or become an overbearing presence in the kids life because you (probably) can't have any more kids.
If the marriage fails, it definitely isn't because you kept it from him because you have done what you should;
1. Bear Children and
2. Apologize.

If I had seen this post below earlier, I won't have bothered commenting again. Would just have supported it.

The husband wants to punish her and how is he going to do that. Tell her to quit her job.
The reason why? I bet she has a good job that gives her fulfilment and balance.
He wants to take that away from her, so that she looks as if she worthless.
Next thing he will be saying is she is infertile and jobless.

If she is brave turn the tables and tell him it's over. Since she can't live with the deceit and pain she put him through.
But she must not quit her job.

Pretty but the child has already started losing her edges. Look at the pictures.
Most people hide their children. Smh

masada:
u posted a pic of you in business class and wat u going to do in the uk

Most embassies check ur social media profile these days

u snitched on yourself

don’t know y peeps don’t want to take responsibility for their actions

always blaming someone else

be a man for once {pun intended}

Exactly.
On the American entry form it asks for your social media accounts. Apart from that most organisations monitor social media.
This is what over sharing is doing. Stop chasing likes or online validation.

No need to spin this, you were caught out full stop.

AryaSand:
I don't even have issues with the kneeling cause the man might love her so much and decide to overlook somethings but bragging about it on Social Media is Horrible and Unfair to that man. I don't even know him and I feel bad for him already how much more being related to him.

Exactly imagine his brothers, sisters, Aunts or even grand parents.
She really needs to stop as in the future someone might throw it in her face

I think this lady should stop posting her life on Twitter .

Why are we so eager to over share everything online.

So you rock up for a new job and the person interviewing you asks you about stuff you posted.

People are being robbed, assaulted all because of this addiction to over share.

Lady someone in either family is going to get annoyed soon

brenister10:
How did nairaland got here sef? Who's the MOD that pushed this to the front page. He needs to be thoroughly beaten

Totally agree...front page has become ...

Buy liquid smoke.

That is the secret to party food, it's cooked with wood not gas.

Same reason moin moin cooked in banana leaf taste different .

greygoblings:
A pastor once said women are instrument of enjoyment... I was a child then and I asked my father what he meant. My father looked at me and said, "that pastor is a fool... I wonder why your mum keeps dragging us to this church." I still didn't understand until I grew up. Now, I really don't like anything that has to do with religion. The opium of the masses, people keep being fooled by so called Men of God. How will a pastor say that and members are happy? Isn't that plain stupid? What does sex have to do with our salvation as humans? Why will a person who claims he was called by God see women as sex instrument? Sick.

That is sick and worrying.
Imagine someone easily swayed will take those words as gospel.

Mr2wealth:
Pls where did you get your source from? From what I read, there is no known causes of fibroid. It is also common in black women.

Exactly it is common in black women, apparently 1 in 4 . Some are harmful, some women don't even know they have it. It never shows in them and they remain slim.

Research needs to be done on what causes it.

The real question is why is this front page news?

babyfaceafrica:
a Nigerian will marry white and will show it off on social media..you won't see whites doing this...what special in marrying white abeg?

Prestige and maybe papers.
However the minute you don't put the bin out or cut the grass.
Or heaven forbid... we are eating we don't open the door. You will know who you are.

It all starts with her family saying 'we know you do things differently, but we use knives and forks on a Sunday'

lefulefu:
Probably one of those nigerian men that married their foreign wives not for love but for papers and greencard. Na d woman wey he really love im come marry for naija.nothin new about this.

He true love was an 18 year old girl?
The man I think is over 60...
So unless he had been in love with wife no2 since she was in nappy!!

Nigeriapen1:
See More Photos Below...

https://www.nigeriapen.com.ng/man-abandons-his-family-abroad-to-take-a-young-wife-in-nigeria-and-his-family-get-their-revenge-on-him-in-the-perfect-way-html/

Read the rest of the story. Na real wa o.

It makes you wonder if there is a god sometimes.