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RomanceRe: 11 Differences Between Dating A Girl And A Woman by sonickay(op): 11:34pm On Jan 03, 2014
Danhumprey: Nice article. I think you should use "Lady" preferably in place of "woman",as it make it more coherent.
Thanks, I think you are right; I thought as much too. However, changing the word "woman" to "lady" kills the spirit of the article as well as alter it. Likewise, I seem to think using "lady" in place of "woman" amounts to tautology in correlation with the word "girl" which could create confusion; I think that's why the writer left it as such.
RomanceRe: 11 Differences Between Dating A Girl And A Woman by sonickay(op): 11:30pm On Jan 03, 2014
ellarry: ladies feels there is much more grounds to cover and more places to explore where woman has seeen it all
True talk! No. 12
RomanceRe: 11 Differences Between Dating A Girl And A Woman by sonickay(op): 11:28pm On Jan 03, 2014
Dyt: 11?
Hmmmm
I still play games with my man o
Get a new number, text/whatsapp him
Claiming like some new gals hehehheh
D dude will jst be like IDAYA, stop it
*i don't let no one do d games for me, I don it myself lol*
Its fun actually
Sometimes I wish d man cld jst ask me out over again, do shakara
Its romantic
My views


Btw na strategy be dat o, so if any lady tries such, he will jst call out my name
Hehehhehehe
That's cool. The dude simply assumes its Idayat, then watch out for xtaristics and signature of the new babe. If it matches with yours, he goes from "Red Alert" to "Yellow Alert" and "Green Alert" and vice-versa. "Idaya stop It jare!!!" Lolz
RomanceRe: 11 Differences Between Dating A Girl And A Woman by sonickay(op): 11:24pm On Jan 03, 2014
Acidosis: Everyday article... Everyday break up




I'm sure the "Prof" who wrote this article is very very single...
I heard he has an "acid scar" on his face as well. grin
RomanceRe: 11 Differences Between Dating A Girl And A Woman by sonickay(op): 11:22pm On Jan 03, 2014
xynerise: Na wa o. It has tay o. Happy New year cheesy
lolz, same to you
RomanceRe: 11 Differences Between Dating A Girl And A Woman by sonickay(op): 11:04pm On Jan 03, 2014
Dyt: Every grown man knows this na
Well said. Alas! Only a grown woman/lady would agree with the distinctions.
RomanceRe: 11 Differences Between Dating A Girl And A Woman by sonickay(op): 11:02pm On Jan 03, 2014
Let's discuss.
Depending on individual experiences, differences 1-10 remain moot. But sometimes going by number 11; I can't believe that I have been involved in games with girls in the past. Just too awful, when guys start playing games as well, they start calling them "Players" who cheat them at the slightest opportunity.
What do you say?
Romance11 Differences Between Dating A Girl And A Woman by sonickay(op): 10:50pm On Jan 03, 2014
sonickay: 11 differences between dating a girl & a woman
A girl may be so used to feeling validated
through her looks and sexuality, that she
uses this as her primary tool to get what
she wants in life. A woman, knows her
worth is beyond her physicality.

1. A girl throws tantrums. When displeased,
upset or angry, she reacts just as she did as a
child when she didn’t get her way with her
parents. This often consists of screaming, pouting,
giving the silent treatment, being passive
aggressive and/or punishing. A woman still feels
the emotions of being upset/displeased, but has
cultivated the skill of responding versus reacting.
She comes to the table as an adult, and
communicates clearly what is bothering her.

2. A girl perceives herself as a princess and
believes people should treat her like so. She
is entitled and feels that she is owed and
therefore expects more than she appreciates. A
woman, has standards (what she holds herself to)
not expectations (what she projects on to others).

3. A girl uses her physical beauty as her
currency and basis of value. A girl may be so
used to feeling validated through her looks and
sexuality, that she uses this as her primary tool to
get what she wants in life. A woman, knows her
worth is beyond her physicality. A woman bases
her value on her intelligence, her strength, her
integrity, her values, her contributions, her
humanity.

4. A girl banks on a man to be her financial
strategy. A woman plans to be financially
independent – she banks on… herself. And if she
so happens to enter a relationship dynamic where
it makes sense for her partner to be the primary
breadwinner, it’s considered a bonus, not the
expected life line.

5. A girl sees the world from a place of lack
and scarcity. She competes and will even tear
down another in order to secure resources or a
mate. A woman helps other women. She knows
that there’s plenty enough to go around and takes
the high road of integrity to get what she wants.

6. A girl cannot be bothered with anything
domestic and is proud of the fact that she
cannot cook or clean. A woman understands
that being domestic is not a duty, but
understands that it is one way of taking care of
herself and others. She also understands that in
the event she wants to create a family, having a
person in the household who can contribute
domestically is important.

7. “A girl wants attention, a woman wants
respect. A girl wants to be adored by many. A
woman wants to be adored by one.” -anonymous

8. A girl does not respect her body. She has
not yet understood that her body and heart are
sacred, and that it’s important to be mindful of
how she treats it and who she shares it with. “A
girl cherishes handbags, diamonds and her shoe
collection as her prize possessions. A woman
cherishes her health, her sense of self, and her
talents as her greatest assets.” – N. Mah

9. A woman takes the time to reflect on the
type of human she wants to be , the example
she wants to leave and the vision for her life. She
has put thought into her values and what she
stands for. A girl has not established her moral
compass or values and consequently, is often
inconsistent. “After spending time with a girl, you
feel exhausted because she takes more than she
gives. After spending time with a woman, you feel
invigorated, because she empowers you with
possibility, and a passion for life.” – N. Mah

10. A girl has a checklist that prioritizes
superficial qualities above anything
else. Here is an example of how this checklist
may look: Hot, popular, wears skinny jeans, over 6
feet tall, rich.. This is the checklist of what a
woman may look for: High integrity, intelligent,
kind, good communicator, emotionally available…
Now, a lot of these differences require taking the
time to know someone to figure out if the apple of
your eye is indeed a mature woman, or someone
with an immature mindset. However, one of the
quickest filters that you can notice from the
beginning is this:

11. A girl plays games. A woman doesn’t.

Source: http://naijauncut.com/2014/01/03/11-differences-between-dating-a-girl-a-woman/
RomanceRe: Dear Ladies, We Do Not Appreciate It When You Do These In Our Presence by sonickay(m): 10:41pm On Dec 31, 2013
Ah, how awful. I hate it when a lady snores. It feels like the ground is about to open then
Science/TechnologyRe: Homebuilt Radio controlled Helicopter by sonickay(m): 6:13pm On Dec 30, 2013
Pakingzzz: [color=#990000]This airhog Rx was built to drive a micro motor that ran at 3.2v,and drew 1amps.
I wanted it to drive a motor that draws about 15amps at 12v with it. I knew this impossible without destroying the mosfet in the Rx.
I simply built an amplifier to amplify the 3.2v to 12v,and the current as well.
I am very much interested in this part. I have been trying to build an amplifier circuit; to amplify volt and current from a minimum level to optimum/maximum level. I made some research but I couldn't find these ICs: MAX756 and MAX757 in the local market or online stores till now. Please fill me in on how you built your amplifier, it doesn't matter if your output is adjustable or fixed, I badly need some other way to amplify voltage and current. My mail is sonickaybid@yahoo.com I will mail you, its likely you won't see this.
PoliticsRe: President Goodluck Jonathan's Reply To Obasanjo's Letter by sonickay(m): 10:26pm On Dec 22, 2013
MMMua'zu:
Baseless response.
Hmmm, Jonathan the "Saint" letter writer, OBJ the "villain-cum-hero"
Dear God, when will this end, "the flimsy facáde of your name..." In a country as Nigeria shrouded in so much mystery and secrecy.
We need "City Hunters" who will set the law into motion legitimately and selflessly for veritas vos liberabit: John 8:32, "then you will know the truth and the truth will set you free".
Christianity EtcRe: Why Are Demons Afraid Of Atheists? by sonickay(m): 10:38am On Dec 20, 2013
aManFromMars: God, demons and Satan love to breed in gullible minds.

You stop to believe in God and he moves out with his faithful servant Lucifer, JesUs,Gabriel and friends.

When bad things happen to us, we know the solution will not come by swimming miracle water or sowing seed faith offerings. When we go broke, we check our spending habits not blame it on some mythical devourers that are God's EFCC for tithe defrauders. When bad things happen to us, we understand that it is a cycle of life not punishment from some jobless omnipotent being.


DEMONS are afraid of reason and knowledge.
Most reasonable post so far without bondage
FashionRe: How To Maintain The Whiteness Of A Shirt!!! by sonickay(m): 5:21pm On Dec 17, 2013
Nice topic Op. I have been looking for tips to maintain my white shirts as well. I thought I have been an "Apa" but it seems some other factors militates against whiteness. I expect rational and experienced replies on this thread, too bad of people. Abeg, if you have any good advise as a dry cleaner or have the experience of using white shirt optimally, send me a "Call Me Back " by clicking "Like" so I can call the thread back, your advice will be greatly valued. Thanks.
BusinessRe: What Are The Products Nigeria Make? by sonickay(m): 8:57pm On Dec 13, 2013
What I can say Nigeria produces indigenously and uniquely according to international standard is Cement, oil production is nothing to write home about without good refineries.

36th to comment, dancing etighi...afam. Skelewu x9....who says 39 to comment is not superior than first to comment. Ask Gov. Akpabio, "16 is more superior to 19" and vice versa
PoliticsRe: Obasanjo Accuses Jonathan Of Promoting Corruption by sonickay(m): 8:31pm On Dec 11, 2013
It doesn't really matter whether Obasanjo was a thief or a villain trying to make a hero; he has a right like every prisoner has to (criticise thiefs, hoodlums, assassins and bad elements not yet in prison) say the truth as he sees it and along the lines of public opinion. Its more hypocritical of the Presidency to call Obasanjo a hypocrite.
PoliticsRe: 19,000 Benefit From SURE-P In South-west by sonickay(m): 11:15am On Dec 11, 2013
slimstanakacns: Neva have i seen any known to me benefits from this scheme ,only hear say n in d news
Same with me. However, I was awestruck when I saw people along some areas in Ibadan donning Sure-P apparel directing traffic while our traffic wardens got relegated. I expect something better to come out os Sure-P not traffic controllers.
PoliticsRe: NNPC Diverted $49.8B Meant For The Nigerian Treasury Between 2012-13 - Sanusi by sonickay(m): 10:37am On Dec 11, 2013
DaLover: Lol..the number of daft people on this forum is amazing, with total sales of oil about $70b...then $50b is reported missing by Sahara reporters..Only a dumb person will believe Sahara reporters
A copy of the entire letter will soon be uploaded by SaharaReporters, why don't you wait till then. We all know wat goes on in NNPC. Ů̶̲̥я̲ tag no says much about you, number 37 laptopdog team member.
PoliticsRe: FCT Workers Protesting At FCDA Secretariat In Abuja(Pictures) by sonickay(m): 10:22am On Dec 10, 2013
dridowu: Bala Mohammed Voice : they would have been sponspored by the opposition , the opposition does not want abuja to develop
Abi ooo, a wakeup call is always seen as a "PaidtoProtest" arrangement, d same way Gej and Mark said ASUU strike has been politically motivated. They shud just kill the opposition and make us hear word.
ComputersRe: Nigerians In Diaspora To Produce Computers In Local Languages by sonickay(m): 10:16am On Dec 10, 2013
They embarked on a hard job. I wish them success in it. Such scheme will take into consideration whole lots of yoruba encylopedia and history. Good luck, it will be nice to read Animal Farm and Oliver Twist in yoruba, igbo and hausa language.
PoliticsRe: Diezani Allison-Madueke Elected As OPEC Alternate President by sonickay(m): 10:10am On Dec 10, 2013
wesley80: Mennn, this is bad news o! Someone in GEJ's govt just made progress and APC's e-rats wont be liking it. How are some folks going to sleep this night considering how they hate this woman? I'm thinking a lot of folks will be gulping down sachets of valium5 just to get bye too bad when they wake up her face will be all over the dailies too, Oh dear!
Oh good lord, Wesley Snipe-Anything again. How long will you continue these pre-programmed vituperations? I salute ů̶̲̥я̲ ingenuity Sir, Mandela referred to you as well, a hardworking and committed Nigerian who doesn't take any wipe at No 1 Nigerian as a joke. Good day, snipe them all before I come back.
PoliticsRe: Mandela Was Angry With Nigeria - Dr. Hakeem Baba-ahmed by sonickay(m): 9:59am On Dec 10, 2013
funky medina: I pray nigerians will keep aside sentiments and see that Madiba was very correct !
The world will not respect Africa until
Nigeria earns that respect. The black people of the
world need Nigeria to be great as a source of pride
and confidence.
FashionRe: Can You SHINE With An Aba Made Product by sonickay(m): 11:13pm On Dec 08, 2013
Why not? I have used a shoe "Mariobangi" before. It served me soo much like a slave, it was made in Aba, Nigeria. When I was at the shop where I bought the shoe, a sticker stuck inside said "Made In Nigeria". Wow, I felt so proud of the shoe, I picked it straight away and even showed friends.
Nigeria has the potential to rival and reduce importation of shoes and clothes, albeit, in a favourable environment; its sad govt. clamps down and destroy this business ideas and imitations indiscriminately without creating and encouraging the counterfeiters to make their own genuine brands.
Foreign AffairsRe: Describe Nelson Mandela In One Word? by sonickay(m): 11:40pm On Dec 05, 2013
Non-egoist
TravelRe: What Stops Nigeria From Having A Diversity Visa Lottery Program? by sonickay(m): 11:34pm On Dec 05, 2013
The desire to have a DV Visa Lottery programme now is like checking the colour of poison. Taking steps in such direction is a death wish in its entirety. However, at the pace Nigeria is going, this policy could not be ruled out by the year 2090 for smaller nations in Africa to seek green pasture in Nigeria; that's a crude reality, our 50yrs of independence has been a sham!
Foreign AffairsBreaking News: South African Icon Nelson Mandela Dies by sonickay(op): 11:15pm On Dec 05, 2013
Just saw this on news.yahoo.com, ABC News is following the life update and having a coverage of his death. Africa will miss Mandela forever, few have his spirit of nationalism and patriotism, he evn forgave the whites and allow them to stay behind when they wanted to flee South Africa after aboishment of Apartheid without prosecuting or persecuting them. Adieu Sir!

Source: http://news.yahoo.com/video/abc-news-plus-special-report-220000361.html
Foreign AffairsBreaking News: South African Icon Nelson Mandela Dies by sonickay(op): 11:05pm On Dec 05, 2013
Just saw this on news.yahoo.com, ABC News is following the life update and having a coverage of his death. Africa will miss Mandela forever, few have his spirit of nationalism and patriotism, he evn forgave the whites and allow them to stay behind when they wanted to flee South Africa after aboishment of Apartheid without prosecuting or persecuting them. Adieu Sir!

Source: http://news.yahoo.com/video/abc-news-plus-special-report-220000361.html
CultureRe: What's The Meaning Of ''Emi Nado'' & From Which Language? by sonickay(m): 2:14pm On Dec 05, 2013
olorunthobby: Eminado is simply yoruba statement emi ni ado meaning 'nah me go straf am' cheesy
I was singing this chorus today and I didn't know when I blurted out Eminado which left people within my vicinity flabbergasted. It later occured to me that my intonation changed it to "Emi Ado" which means na me go put my 1 in her Zero0 in yoruba. I laffed sotey sotey Emin ado, emin adoo
Christianity EtcRe: Women Wearing Trousers: Conversation With A Brother by sonickay(m): 2:09pm On Dec 05, 2013
udopee: Why are worldly women so crazy about trousers or pants and men are not crazy about putting on skirt and blouse huh huh huh That is a little question to ask yourself to show you that it is not ordinary....
Deuteronomy 22:5...
lolz Nigeria and its interpretation of the scripture. All who supports ladies wearing modest and decent trousers are right and more enlightened.
However, the essence of that verse is to prevent transgender and transsexual dressing. That is to prevent men from wearing things designated for women or to make them look like a woman to a man. Also, on the other hand it is to prevent women or ladies from wearing clothes designated only for men where waring them will be deceitful and present them as a man.
A simple hypothesis of this verse during the medieval period is this: men and women wear garments and robes; men's robes are plain without adornments. On the other hand women's garments are stylish, colourful and more adorned. It was easier to differentiate based on adornments of garments then. So it creates confusion and deceit when a lady wear a man's robe and a man wears a lady's adorned garment. Such was the essence of the verse to stop the anomaly.
In our modern times, a tomboy will never qualify for a guy to a reasonable man, she may have a guy's stature or looks, yet her clothing will give her away easily as a lady because she wasn't dressed in a guy's body hug or overall shirts or a trouser designed for men by Versace, D&G, Bosch et al. The designer factor says it all.
Likewise it is prohibitive for a man to wear a ladies trouser, pants, shirts no matter what fundamental and exclusive right he has to wear trousers and the likes, wearing a designated wear for ladies vilates Deut, 22:5 no matter the levels of similarity and vice-versa.
EducationRe: Obafemi Awolowo University Resumes On The 8th Of December by sonickay(m): 1:46pm On Dec 05, 2013
Otunbalarry: do u mean dis?abeg dnt tell me u are joking o,bkos dat meanx am packn my loadx
pack load keh, resume keh, if I resume nah protest I go resume for school. Students won't take that bullshit; using propaganga and denied rumours to open our schools won't work. Issues ought to be resolved.
Car TalkRe: Why I Hate "Danfo" Buses! by sonickay(m): 7:10pm On Dec 04, 2013
"Danfo" rides can be very pleasant to long distance locations or journeys. However, the ride can be menacing if it is a short or not too long trip within a metropolis.
Apart from the points raised by the Op, other points make "danfo" rides unpleasant for me. First, danfos have too much "multiple bus-stops", dey can pick up forty people and drop thirtu people within a short distance of three kilometers. This leads to loss of time as well as the incessant "I drop, you enter, you shift" palapala inconveniences.

Secondly, danfo drivers are known and notorious for their reckless driving manners, no wonder it is widely said that psychology tests shud be conducted for the drivers. They drive like "experts", they can drive and undrive. I am always alarmed at the way they drive as well as the constant curse they receive from other road users.

Lastly, I am a law student, I wear my usually regalia most times. Therefore I avoid danfos and take cabs or keke during those times. Anytime I take danfo and dressed as such, I end up with my clothes looking rumpled and brownish on getting to office. This makes me feel bad as if Its an abuse of the profession.

You see, the fear of danfos is the beginning of wisdom.
Car TalkRe: Why I Hate "Danfo" Buses! by sonickay(m): 6:52pm On Dec 04, 2013
"Danfo" rides can be enjoyable at times on straight and long distance journeys with one, two or three bus-stops. However, some factors apart from the ones listed by the Op makes it more agonizing in short and long distances within the metropolis.

First, "danfos" are found of "multiple bus-stops", they can carry people and drop them within 200meters. For a distance of 4kms/kilometers, they can stop 20 times. This "multiple bus-stops" make the ride more longer as well as the frequent "you drop, I enter, I shift for you" palapala.

Secondly, "danfos" drivers are fond of and known for their notorious driving manners, I always stay alert anytime I am in a danfo and alarmed when danfo drivers are chastised by other drivers & road users.

Lastly, I am a law student, I dress in white and black most times, I hate entering danfos when I am dressed as such, because by the time I alight from the bus I look like an agbero abusing the profession. My clothes do look rumpled and brownish.

You see, the beginning of wisdom is the fear of "Danfos" to boarding cabs and keke napep.
HealthRe: If Proper Bathing Makes The Body Clean, What Makes The Towel Dirty? by sonickay(m): 9:31am On Dec 03, 2013
Sepp360: Few days back, i purposely asked my younger brother how often he washes his towel and the reply he threw back at me kept me wondering.


If truely, we keep our body clean by bathing with good soap and clean water, what then makes the towel dirty?...
I have been wondering as well; I gloat anytime I see brown or black spots on my towel after intense lather and scrubbing of the body. I have made It mandatory to wash my towel every weekend now, yet no improvement, abi na only me!

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