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mavinkalot:
Me wey dey cook serve my wife and kids! Is that one brusing ego? Please men spare me that ego BS. cooking for my family on many occasions have increased and consolidaated my other half's(wife's) love, loyalty and respect. Marriaage is like a box; you put in strawberries, vanilla, chocolate, then u get many more of these flavors. If u sit tight and demand a list of attitudes from ur wife, without u doing much u are archaic. Just as u love to be served food just when u are hungry; the woman loves same. No be same intestine she get? Foe me, It all depends on how u see ur wife. When I wash my wife's panties n clothes, cook and serve her, I am see it as I am doing that for myself or my other half. I feel joy n effortless in doing it. Cus na my own. There is a way u wud treat ur wife, u get the best of her not insults. Bring the best of her out. My wife is me. No big deal try ooking for ur wife n serving her. Try helping her in domestic chores esp those times she maybe getting choked with home chores only for her to see thaat it has been fixed by u. JOY, u hv reinjected life in her. Just as she is busy rushing back from office for market, just to make soup. She gets ur call akin her to come home straight n forget that stress. She meets the delicious soup served by u for her. Bro it takes notin from ur ego but adds to ur respect n love bank. I hv boys or wud be havin boys, so I hv to teach them how to handle a womn. My wife being the only femaale amongst four men needs all of the lov and Protection. You beat ur wife up the next minute u expect her to cook, kiss n pet u before u eat. Haba! U be witch? It is gabbaage in and gabbage out. GIGO! Wot u give her she multiplies n brings back. Give her abuse, she multiplies it n gives u back. Give her sperm, she mutiplies it n gives u baby. Wake up men!

May ur days be long. You are indeed a real man. May peace continue to reign in your home

stingbreed:
I have been in a situation where i was being held hostage, i tried walking away but i was roughly pulled back, the door was locked on me & i had no where to go.. Women scare me

Very bad I must say. Very very bad

coachwilcox:
5 ways to avoid becoming a woman beater

1. Develop ego and self respect for yourself as a man. A man who respects himself will never put up with the petulance and provocation of a woman. He'd rather walk away. No matter what the woman has to offer.

2. Be goal driven and ambitious. Never live a woman's dream for her and leave yours. Some men get married and forget about self development. They begin to live their wives dream. As soon as she's stable and independent and he's static, he begins to fade in their eyes. Respect is gone. Ego is bruised. Never make your wife's personal development supersede yours.

3. Avoid drama women like a plague. A lot of women are drama driven. They thrive on the dramatic relationship and must feed that drama fix.

4. Marry for the right reasons. Never marry a woman for beauty, her career , sex, pity, cause she had your child. Etc. marry only for lov and a woman with good character like in Proverbs.

5. Develop the fruitage of the spirit found in Galatians.

This ought to be a thread. Well said

sabiguy:
So what about a man who goes out to work in order to feed you and the kids while you stay home doing nothing also have every right to insult, deny u sex and beat the crap out of you right??

You are a good example of r e t a r d e d n e s s and imbecility. The man wey go marry u don suffer. I rebuke your kind of Lady in my life. Amen

Stay at home mums don't stay at home doing nothing. Correct that impression

Danfuster:
so also real women don't provoke men... It goes both ways.

Ps: I'm no misogynist and I'm with the motion any man who hits a woman should be dealt with accordingly

Provocation must happen in marriage because disagreement/quarrels must arise. Any man that isn't ready to be provoked isn't ready yet for marriage.

Toks2008:
If you know me very well,i have no issues with people disagreeing with my stand-view but what i loathe is people using vulgar words and that is not new on nairaland so go back and read the original comments of those i responded harshly to and you will see what i mean.

Apparently you are not on same page and i don't think you were unintelligent or immature about it but some people will use very appalling comments.

Nevertheless i respect your opinion and i have no influence on how you understand what i have up there but what i wrote is aimed at educating teh women folk about how to avoid domestic violence and it is clear enough.

What have you done to educate men or your own qualification is on women education only

Anything to blame women is food for Toks.
Blame a woman for a man that can't control his anger if that will boost your Egg-shelled Ego.
So you want to tell me once you see a woman that has been battered by her husband, what comes to your mind is that she's the cause. Crap! Big time Crap! Many of these abusers have psycho issues.
I'll take you seriously when I see you do a post condemning domestic violence in its entirety and advising men on how to tame themselves.

zimunachimdi:
Good evening wonderful mothers. Hope we are all doing good. Welcome new mothers.

Wey my senior and sabi mothers dey?? I have questions to ask.
1. How will I know that my cervix is opening small small?
2. At times,i do feel a muscle stretch in my v.j.a.y but today's own was different cos it made me stop abruptly while walking. Could it be that i ve started having contracting?
3. Is pelvis examination really necessary?
4.How do I dispose placenta after birth?
Forgive my naivety pls.
Cc:babythug,lovinam,zaynie,ozycy,kaffy4bill and others pls. Thanks.

1. You can't know if your cervix is opening except a VE is done
2. Contraction can't be mistaken it's felt in d stomach, back and waist not vjay. It's like menstrual cramp dat gets stronger
3. By pelvic exam do u mean vaginal examination (VE)? If yes, it's a must.
4. If u give birth in a teaching hosp they dispose I themselves but I think it's given to u in private hosp, you can dispose by burying.
All the best

@princesskiki, within 72hours after delivery.

Congrats to all the mamas that have offloaded.

God's grace to the remaining May mamas

easyconnect:
Hellow mothers, my 3yrs old son went and swallow vasoprin. I don't even know what the drug Is used for. Pls what should I do?

How many did he swallow. If it's more than one pls take him to hosp, if it's just one tablet, I don't think anything will happen but if there's stomach discomfort, u can give antacid (mist mag).
Vasoprin is low dose Aspirin and Aspirin can be used as a blood thinner and pain killer but can cause stomach discomfort.
Pls keep drugs out of reach of children. This can't be over emphasized. All d best

shiller:
plz mamas,i mistknly bought SMA GOLD(small tin) of 0-6months,instead of 0-12months/6-12months,my DS is 8months,i notice it wen i finish adding d milk to his food.
shld i continue using d milk lik dat,or discontinue?

sabi mamas help ooo.

Abeg use the milk jooh, or you dash me
But next time you buy d one appropriate for d age. Cheers

tatacherie:
Really? Huh! I tink its bath water then.but I try 2 clean afta every bath.
Pls does b.reast feeding while lying down cause it? Thanks Ma'am. regards 2 ur cuties.

I hv heard it does but don't know how true it is. Cheers

tatacherie:
Gudpm mamas.
Pls is my baby's weight in line?
She weighed 3.25kg@ birth, 4.4 @ 6 weeks and today @ 15 weeks 5kg.
She was examined n discovered she has ear infection. Paed said both ears are swollen inside.antibiotics hv been prescribed.but pls wat cud b d cause as d Dr didn't give me any gud reason,just said its common with babies?TIA

Could be as a result of bath water entering her ears, could be due to catarrh etc. Sorry dear

ifyjip:
Haaàaaa see soonest ok .......

Lol, you are welcome to this thread dear. Kisses to ur princess

favoredgal:
Pls my daughters bcg injection spot is bringing out pus

Dint experience such with my first child

Is this normal?

We are told its normal. Clean with cotton wool and discard into a toilet. Wash you hands.
Pls remember to discard the cotton wool properly.

@mulberry, congrats
@mitchy, probably baby's weight
@ambient, many FTM pass 40weeks, d practice is not to pass 41wks+6days.
Team May, una dooh ooo

Lovely bumps I see
Teegali, u look regal.
@mitchy cute bump
@melly245, d skinny area should be an elbow or knee poking. Hope i'm right
@ britneystacy, ds bump go big o.
How many I fit comment. They are all lovely, I wish u all happy bumping.

Congrats HD16 and omaibaji. I rejoice with u both

Mulberry, wish u an easy delivery.

GAZZUZZ:
13k. (ladipo)

Tnx. God bless

Good morning all, please who has an idea of the price of HONDA Accord 2006 rear windscreen.
Cc: Gazzuz, Luvinhubby, experts in the house

inze:

. . . kinda found my way around it. Next time it goes gaga, try start the car with its driver door open and engage the neutral gear before you shut the door.

Ok thanks

@metrotee, most times this thing we call nla is fungal and if it's fungal infection then it's transmissible

Bolade005:
Okay, I admit the man is insensitive and selfish but I just believe the woman can try to be a bit flexible and open to exploring other means.

3weeks post partum, d baby isn't yet adjusted and the woman trying hard to catch up on sleep and rest and she has other kids. Pls where does she find strength and time to be flexible and open to exploring other means.

Bolade005:
I think that's because she find the thought of him erupting in her mouth repugnant. Why would a woman have a problem tasting her own man? I don't understand

Is it ice cream?

Happy workers' day all.

Congrats HD16 on ur BBB. Awaiting ur uninteresting BS

Congrats Aghaibiam and Jummy004. Happy bumping.

Aghaibiam, you should be team January and the very first team January 2017 here

May mamas, safe delivery to u all

inze:
. . . Came back to Lagos yesterday and found the car has corrected itself against as previously reported. Doors no longer locks itself while engine is ON and remote now unlocks all door at second press.

Meanwhile, have you had any success as to why it occurred because i myself have not

Sorry I just saw my mention.So far so good
No idea on d cause still.

Bolade005:
Pls do teach us the other ways, I'm interested. Btw, what makes you think the man is not open to other means of sexual satisfaction? The woman cannot even give her man head till he climax. The selfish person here is the OP.

OP, you're married to this man and you find the thought of him erupting in your mouth repugnant? Smh

I pray God gives you the wisdom to do the right thing. All the best.

It's the man that needs wisdom pls. Gosh! How selfish can people be. Just 3 wks after birth. Nawa o

UyiIredia:
That is true.

Pls what's d significance of that. What's the connection between sacrifice in d market and the announcement of the Oba's death. Please can you enlighten me if you know.

I hear presently markets are closed because of some sacrifice they want to do in d market

Happy birthday Brownsmoothie and many happy returns.

Ginababy, pls get well soon.

stadora:
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pls mothers I need your candid contributions on ds issue; I noticed d raw pap I made 4 my lo (1custard bucket of guinea corn) usually has white pathes on d surface anytime I bring it out from d fridge 2 prep 4 d day. pls wots d cos of ds white patches n its effect on d body. 4 dos dat doesn't experience d white patches, how els do u store ur pap Apart from refrigerating?
pls ur contributions I ll apreciate ....thanks

Howz d light situation in ur side. I guess d pap isn't blocked hence the mucor you are seeing. I don't think it's safe for baby again o.
*Next time store in d freezer and from it you bring out little portions and store in d fridge for use or
*You put d pap in a big bowl/bucket with cover. Pour water and make sure it covers the surface, then ensure u change d water morning and evening.
*if light isn't sure in ur side, then make small quanties like 1 painter or buy from a trusted hand,in that way you will be able to use it up before it spoils.
Also,after processing d raw pap, make sure you get out most of d water by putting it in a Muslin bag and putting weight on top. In dat way d pap comes out caked wit less water and it's able to last longer without spoiling.
I hope this helps

MumZ:
Sabi mamas pls o, can drip b taken orally, dat is by drinking it? My dd was running a bit of temp 2dy so I bought lukozade boost 4 her so she ll take b4 I give her paracetamol cos she refused 2 eat. Only 4 my neighbour 2 say I shld av bought drip N50 for her cos d lukozade boost is sweet. Dis is my 1st time of hearing such o. Is it done cos if not I need 2 caution her.
Cc nurse kaffy4bill, babythug, soonest n all Sabi mamas. Thank u.

'drips' as in IV fluids are to be taken intravenously and not orally. I guess your neighbour meant ORS. Some call it drip and also there's no IV fluid 'drip' dats sold for 50naira. Cheers

Julie2015, congrats on d birth of ur princess. Fast recovery to u.

@tyconcepts, so so sorry. Pls accept my condolence

mitchyy:
I was trying to prank you so you'll get scared but i didn't see enough details to use to convince you that we've met. #OnToMyNextVictim

LOL