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Hello Everyone,

As we all stay at home and away from social gathering, I thought it will be nice if we can put out our sense of creativities here. Welcome to [i]Soty talks[i]

Some of us have heard stories of someone out there who made something out of nothing and becomes successful in life..Now as young entrepreneurs who desire to make something out of the extra ordinary or earn a living whether on the internet or off the internet.. No capital to get started, No idea of what to do.. How do you make the impossible possible and break even??

Throw in your contributions.. Not more than 200 words....Just be brief as possible...

Most times I laugh at what most of the women here do to prove they are feminist, really I laugh out loud... The way feminism/gender equality is defined by the western is quite different from how our Nigeria sisters define theirs.. In the western world, feminism/gender equality is fighting for the right of a woman in the proper way, for instance.. Women should have equal right to same work, office, positions. Women should have right to become president and so on..

But my sisters here believe that feminism/gender equality means when they cook, their husband should bath the kids, when they wash dishes, their husband should sleep the house and the list goes on and on.. They have the right to attack and insult men such as I have noticed on this platform.. lol.. When their Husby cheats, they also should cheat too..and the list goes on and on... What a pathetic reasoning..

Surprisingly, most of this so-called Nigeria feminist or ladies were raised from a christian background but miseducation has led them astray. Even in the bible, there is no way that it is ever written that men and women are equal.. Never, God acknowledges this part through any of his prophets. Was church made equal with Christ? Is Christ the head of the church? If you still believe in the Nigeria version of feminism, then going to church makes you an hypocrite..


Please my Nigeria sisters, I know this has eaten deep into your bone marrows, you need to retrace your steps and understand what feminism/gender equality is truly about. Those who started it still respect their mens and are still submissive to them at their different respective homes. It's about insulting Men or loggedhead with men like you all do on this platform.. Let those who have ears hear.


Soty�

Since when has virgin become a criteria if good marriage home? Who you have destined to marry may not even be a virgin. Virgin as a wife shouldn't be the point. But a woman with good manners. Virginity ends in one night but good manners last for eternity�. Let me ask you, would you prefer to marry a virgin that could lead to your early grave

No way, she is certain to leave the marriage,unless she has decided to live like a nun..

For the common citizen, God almighty deliver your people.....Amen!!!


covid-19 could be an answer to Nigerians prayers... May all the Buhari, Abba Kyari and all the bad politicians never recover from it.. Amen

ubunja:
no one said fake is not fake. But makeup is the kind of fake that rich men respond to. Rich men don't do natural.

Makeup opens doors and brings opportunities.

A girl who doesn't do makeup is like a guy who doesn't go to the gym.

Do I need to go to gym? When I can simply workout at home using my home gym equipment? , just thinking aloud lol

Shugavee:
lol be like u no no ubunja. Don’t waste ur time ,, his ideologies r always absurd

Ubu what? Is just Me, Myself and I. Well, I don't subscribe to absurd ideologies that ain't right..

ubunja:
it depends on what you mean by fake.

What isn't original is fake and fake is fake.. Just like how you taught the Op to fake herself with makeup scam..lol.. Don't get me wrong, looking good is a good business.. But still Fake is Fake

ubunja:
I'm not broke shaming anyone. Look around you, how many men with real money are with a basic chick with natural hair and natural everything?? None. Rich men live fake lives and a fake woman is just an extension of themselves.

I Wonder who you would have broke shamed? . Anyway, I understand where you are heading for. You do not say rich men live fake lives.. Would someone like dangota live a fake life? You should have said broke guys who claim rich lives fake life.. I've got a lot of them around me.. So retrieve that word that "Rich men live fake lives"

ubunja:
yes good to go for broke guys.

That's your orientation..

ubunja:
How you look determines how men respond to you. Look cheap and cheap men will respond to you. By cheap I mean basic, natural, "being you" . That's what is called being a Pick Me. You wear no wig, no makeup, no eyelash, etc. You are cheap AF. And only cheap/broke guys will swarm you because they figure they can afford you. Since you look cheap.

But rich men....never.

Rich men won't give you a second look because those type of men are after the Trophy GF that will look good on their arm. To show the world they've "arrived". They have made it. There's a reason male celebrities rotate the same chicks among themselves. Those chicks have that rich look already. And those celebs don't want a basic chick who will use them to advance their own profile.

Who is this girl that rich men are all chasing? Simple. Just go to your supermarket and browse the covers of fashion magazines. That's the girl rich men want. That fake girl. With fake everything. Fake hair, fake nails, fake eyelashes, etc. Rich men don't do real. Or normal. They want fake. And magical. That average dudes can't have. Because it's expensive to get. Fake girls are expensive to maintain and average Joes avoid them.

You might have seen how guys are afraid to approach high class chicks who look expensive. That's the look rich men want.


And how do you get it? When you're broke yourself or a student? It's possible to get the look on the cheap. There are shortcuts to everything in life.

EDIT:
If that is you on your profile pic.. Atleast you have a level of prettiness to you. What you need is a good hairpiece that flatters your face. Not that one you have. It needs to be thicker, especially on top. You need the eyelashes and better makeup. Seems like you're a chocolate in terms of skin complexion. Then head over to YouTube and look for dark beauty makeup channels. They'll advise you on the colours for your skin tone.

That lipstick you have on isn't doing you any favours. Or did you just put lip gloss??
And tell me why are you not wearing any necklace? Hope its only on that pic that you don't wear them. Because jewellery is a big part of the rich girl look.
Let me stop here.

Wait a sec, are you teaching her makeup scam? Funny dude!! Makeup scam no longer last.. If that's her on her profile, then she is good to go as long as she dresses smart..

Blyzz:
yes oh, that's why I'm painstakingly waiting on the lord. Also applying for job opportunities. I'm a mechanical technician, I study mechanical engineering.

Nice course....

It’s not new, It’s being around for a long time.Virus that infect rodent.Then when physical contact with them you can have it.. Do your research Op..

KaideeGee:
You had beta have that baby oh
It is beta 2 be guilty of incest dan 2 be guilty of incest and child murder

Did I hear you say incest

Blyzz:
Bro, na there be the matter. Me nor get single cash for start up now. Me when dey look for ways to take pay my 6 months rent. I don apply for job I don tire. You know, I'm into a agent job for some months now. I have Boss who deal on hiring and purchase of equipment. So I do advertise via Jiji, these customers will call me to place Thier request, gbam. I nor go hear from them again.

Smile... Trust God Almighty, it a process! Though it may tarry, it's a matter of time and things will fall in pleasant places for you..

Undissputed:
The one way I identify amateur business people is that they talk too much about ideas and not execution or partnerships. I bet in 10 years time that blyzz guy would still be here talking about hoarding his ideas from theft. SMH.

Haba!! Na curse? You should just make him realize the way forward..level of reasoning differs.

Blyzz:
You're right. One Chinese I told about my information, he got
It and block me on WeChat. Well thanks for the encouragement. Investor won't help me without me showing interest in paying some amount also. Abi I dey lie?

Most of the Chinese are scam.. They have the same brain of a yahoo boy..lol... Sorry, such happened to you.. Investors will want to know what your efforts are so far.. How much commitment you have put into it so far.. They want to see a prototype/sample.. They want to know if it offer value for money. They want to see your feasibility study.. Above all percentage of profit sharing is their final bus stop..lol.. Haba! You too should be able to have some capital no matter how small it is... For instance "this project is worth N10 and I have being able to come up with N3. So I seek for an investor that can invest 7naira into this potential lucrative business" I think this is ideal

Blyzz:
Ok, noted. So what do you really want me to do? I should share my idea for the entire world on NL? For individuals who can keep to the terms of non disclosure agreement, he's welcome. If you have the fund to fund my project. Such, we're good to Go! Thanks

lol.. Still within the reasoning of my above comment... I'm not saying you should share the secret of your ideal project... For instance, I can tell you "let's go into soap making" does it mean I told you the secret that will make my soap making stand differently or look superb?.If you are within a platform where you can get potential investors, be mindful of what you say else a potential investor won't even come knocking.. Even if I have fund to fund your project, do you expect me to run after you? In cases like this, investors are the KING.. Did you watch the program DARGON'S DEN? ... Every good idea without execution is as good as dead.. Just tune your orientation on this a bit... I wish you the best bro

Blyzz:
Bros, I get your point. We're two different individuals. Your ideas and mine ain't same, I'm naturally gifted when it come to creativity and ideas. I'm a creative thinker. Have you received invitation letter from any international country? Have your exhibition be accepted? My exhibition is currently at Pennsylvania US, accepted since last year April, until now, I don't have the acceptance fees to begin my production. Although I shall comply very soon.

Let me explain something I did personal research on. Westerners preach love love love . Even the Bible affirms it . When there is love everything fall in place. In Africa(Nigeria) the only thing we preach is religious bigot , hate,hate hate . An average african that is blessed want to be worshiped . He or she will refuse to pass on the talent . An average westerner want everybody to enjoy same thing .

If reverse was the case . If one person had Einstein brain in Africa especially in Nigeria . Instead of to use it to help others or use it to explore the world like westerners do. He won’t but will rather want to be worshipped . Until we change that bro’s sorry Na him be our name .


Now relating this to the issue at hand.. If you won't share their business idea, having the fear it will be replicated; how then do you get started? Especially and knowingly that you don't have the capital. The whole business idea dies with you at the end right? Chaii so pathetic.. Do you know there is such a thing like non disclosure agreement? In my terms.. NO IDEA IS ORIGINAL.. Whatever idea of production you know, a million people else where knows it and some are already into it.. What makes the different could be the extra value added..

missimelda01:
If there's any chance of me saying yes, I wouldn't say a plain NO.. it's okay to get confused about what you want for a while, that doesn't mean the guy's feelings should be toiled with, asking for some time would be better than saying a NO. I wouldn't advice my brother to ask a lady out for the second time after she said NO the first time.

Well said.. At least there should be a blink of light in a lady reaction rather than an outright NO..affection should be given freely.. Most one that comes in a strenous way don't even last..

missimelda01:
If I manage to tell you a plain NO, it means I am not attracted to you.. it's not going to change after you ask the second time.

You've just proved his topic right.. Given a reason why he shouldn't ask you out for the second time because it could be a pesistance NO and a waste of TIME. So, if you could proof hin right with the above,why your first comment??

Amberon11:
What has feminism got to do with this? The man never narrated the actual cause of this but you're already bringing feminism into the equation.

Feminism is the reason women are able to vote today. It is the reason women are able to hold positions of power today.

If it was a woman that did this to a man, you'd have insulted even her ancestors and called her a witch, but since its man let's just blame feminism as we know for certain it's the women's fault. Olodo.

Calm your nerve sir.I'm not the regular nairalander who insult at every comment. So go easy on yourself and try not to vent negative energy here.. I can see you understand faminism .. I would have applaud you if you are a lady but you ain't.. I derailed from Op's topic to hit a bit about feminism because of certain comments from some people.. If you take my comment as an insult, sorry I cannot help you, so please channel that your energy to those who are interested in doing your normal insulting things.. Enjoy your evening sir

What a world.. I'm not here to advice the Op.. You all have tired but from what i noticed there isn't a sign of true repentance in her...Confession is only to save your soul that you be in peace with God.. For every sin, there is a consequence.. The bible also said that no sinner will go unpunished.. In future, you will realize that some of the comments here are right and had I known would be the case

vRendoh:
That was costly! Ten year of bitterness and anger and frustration just to pay back a woman who i guess cheated on him. He just tagged himself and made a wrong history for himself. Maybe he will spend another twenty year reevaluating this action if he had acted right. After concluding he will then take another willing(?) bride to the alter. Then he will realize his mates are way ahead of him.
He wasted his 31,536,000 secs of his life planning and hatching a revenge.

lol.. Well, there you have it... Now let's turn to the other side of the coin.. If the avenger is a lady, she won't mind killing the Guy and she will take time to plan it near perfection..She won't rest until the deed is done..When it comes to revenge, all hell is loosed and you don't get to reason no other thing than your planned revenge.. So most successful revenges take time to plan; months or years after the offender had forgotten his/her deeds. Then boom! Avenger strikes... God help us not to offend an unforgiven heart...

Reichel99:
He is senseless, he should have dumped her since.

Most men are emotionally insensitives.. Let him with his mistake... But it just getting worst.. Most girls has turned to jezebel these days.. Could it be that our parents failed our generation? Certainly, some of our parents fail abysmally... Again most girls have the wrong ideology and often emulate the wrong part of the Western culture... "Feminism and gender equality" has caused more harm than good to a lot of girls now

Reichel99:
The guy still wasted his own resources, he should calculate all the expenses he made for the wedding and the relationship.

The bride will still get a new man, the man may even be in the wedding location.

When it comes to revenge, people are ready to waste the whole world for a piece of it.. So, it doesn't matter how much he had wasted, what matters is mission accomplished... Damn!! The heart of men(man&woman) is full of deceit.. Who knows what the girl might have done to him 10 years ago, that he waited till their wedding day deceitfully?

HRMK:
stop dcvg urself!it has happened in all the regions even though some were carried out by colonial masters!!

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Do not compare colonial era to now

I don't see any faulty her.. The only person that is creating sef headache is you... Why do men allow their emotions get the better of them when it comes to rel'ship.. Brah try and face the important things that are before you and worry less about what is not important

Why are some.men so insensitive? All the signs that the girl isn't his is shown to him yet he choose to ignore it.. I really do not see why divorce is always an option for little quarrel, the scripture says Moses law of divorce is due to the hardness of the heart of men(man &woman). It wasn't meant to be so..

The guy has made a great mistake...Did he even look or check the family background of the girl? Most men just lust after beauty,forgetting that the facial beauty of a lady fades.. Men deliberately choose to ignore the important things and go for the secondary thing. At the end, it surely comes back to hurt them whilst leaving them with regrets... It's a pathetic situation for him...