It’s not new, It’s being around for a long time.Virus that infect rodent.Then when physical contact with them you can have it.. Do your research Op..

KaideeGee:
You had beta have that baby oh
It is beta 2 be guilty of incest dan 2 be guilty of incest and child murder

Did I hear you say incest

Blyzz:
Bro, na there be the matter. Me nor get single cash for start up now. Me when dey look for ways to take pay my 6 months rent. I don apply for job I don tire. You know, I'm into a agent job for some months now. I have Boss who deal on hiring and purchase of equipment. So I do advertise via Jiji, these customers will call me to place Thier request, gbam. I nor go hear from them again.

Smile... Trust God Almighty, it a process! Though it may tarry, it's a matter of time and things will fall in pleasant places for you..

Undissputed:


The one way I identify amateur business people is that they talk too much about ideas and not execution or partnerships. I bet in 10 years time that blyzz guy would still be here talking about hoarding his ideas from theft. SMH.

Haba!! Na curse? You should just make him realize the way forward..level of reasoning differs.

Blyzz:
You're right. One Chinese I told about my information, he got
It and block me on WeChat. Well thanks for the encouragement. Investor won't help me without me showing interest in paying some amount also. Abi I dey lie?

Most of the Chinese are scam.. They have the same brain of a yahoo boy..lol... Sorry, such happened to you.. Investors will want to know what your efforts are so far.. How much commitment you have put into it so far.. They want to see a prototype/sample.. They want to know if it offer value for money. They want to see your feasibility study.. Above all percentage of profit sharing is their final bus stop..lol.. Haba! You too should be able to have some capital no matter how small it is... For instance "this project is worth N10 and I have being able to come up with N3. So I seek for an investor that can invest 7naira into this potential lucrative business" I think this is ideal

Blyzz:
Ok, noted. So what do you really want me to do? I should share my idea for the entire world on NL? For individuals who can keep to the terms of non disclosure agreement, he's welcome. If you have the fund to fund my project. Such, we're good to Go! Thanks

lol.. Still within the reasoning of my above comment... I'm not saying you should share the secret of your ideal project... For instance, I can tell you "let's go into soap making" does it mean I told you the secret that will make my soap making stand differently or look superb?.If you are within a platform where you can get potential investors, be mindful of what you say else a potential investor won't even come knocking.. Even if I have fund to fund your project, do you expect me to run after you? In cases like this, investors are the KING.. Did you watch the program DARGON'S DEN? ... Every good idea without execution is as good as dead.. Just tune your orientation on this a bit... I wish you the best bro

Blyzz:
Bros, I get your point. We're two different individuals. Your ideas and mine ain't same, I'm naturally gifted when it come to creativity and ideas. I'm a creative thinker. Have you received invitation letter from any international country? Have your exhibition be accepted? My exhibition is currently at Pennsylvania US, accepted since last year April, until now, I don't have the acceptance fees to begin my production. Although I shall comply very soon.

Let me explain something I did personal research on. Westerners preach love love love . Even the Bible affirms it . When there is love everything fall in place. In Africa(Nigeria) the only thing we preach is religious bigot , hate,hate hate . An average african that is blessed want to be worshiped . He or she will refuse to pass on the talent . An average westerner want everybody to enjoy same thing .

If reverse was the case . If one person had Einstein brain in Africa especially in Nigeria . Instead of to use it to help others or use it to explore the world like westerners do. He won’t but will rather want to be worshipped . Until we change that bro’s sorry Na him be our name .


Now relating this to the issue at hand.. If you won't share their business idea, having the fear it will be replicated; how then do you get started? Especially and knowingly that you don't have the capital. The whole business idea dies with you at the end right? Chaii so pathetic.. Do you know there is such a thing like non disclosure agreement? In my terms.. NO IDEA IS ORIGINAL.. Whatever idea of production you know, a million people else where knows it and some are already into it.. What makes the different could be the extra value added..

missimelda01:

If there's any chance of me saying yes, I wouldn't say a plain NO.. it's okay to get confused about what you want for a while, that doesn't mean the guy's feelings should be toiled with, asking for some time would be better than saying a NO. I wouldn't advice my brother to ask a lady out for the second time after she said NO the first time.

Well said.. At least there should be a blink of light in a lady reaction rather than an outright NO..affection should be given freely.. Most one that comes in a strenous way don't even last..

missimelda01:
If I manage to tell you a plain NO, it means I am not attracted to you.. it's not going to change after you ask the second time.

You've just proved his topic right.. Given a reason why he shouldn't ask you out for the second time because it could be a pesistance NO and a waste of TIME. So, if you could proof hin right with the above,why your first comment??

Amberon11:
What has feminism got to do with this? The man never narrated the actual cause of this but you're already bringing feminism into the equation.

Feminism is the reason women are able to vote today. It is the reason women are able to hold positions of power today.

If it was a woman that did this to a man, you'd have insulted even her ancestors and called her a witch, but since its man let's just blame feminism as we know for certain it's the women's fault. Olodo.

Calm your nerve sir.I'm not the regular nairalander who insult at every comment. So go easy on yourself and try not to vent negative energy here.. I can see you understand faminism .. I would have applaud you if you are a lady but you ain't.. I derailed from Op's topic to hit a bit about feminism because of certain comments from some people.. If you take my comment as an insult, sorry I cannot help you, so please channel that your energy to those who are interested in doing your normal insulting things.. Enjoy your evening sir

What a world.. I'm not here to advice the Op.. You all have tired but from what i noticed there isn't a sign of true repentance in her...Confession is only to save your soul that you be in peace with God.. For every sin, there is a consequence.. The bible also said that no sinner will go unpunished.. In future, you will realize that some of the comments here are right and had I known would be the case

vRendoh:


That was costly! Ten year of bitterness and anger and frustration just to pay back a woman who i guess cheated on him. He just tagged himself and made a wrong history for himself. Maybe he will spend another twenty year reevaluating this action if he had acted right. After concluding he will then take another willing(?) bride to the alter. Then he will realize his mates are way ahead of him.
He wasted his 31,536,000 secs of his life planning and hatching a revenge.

lol.. Well, there you have it... Now let's turn to the other side of the coin.. If the avenger is a lady, she won't mind killing the Guy and she will take time to plan it near perfection..She won't rest until the deed is done..When it comes to revenge, all hell is loosed and you don't get to reason no other thing than your planned revenge.. So most successful revenges take time to plan; months or years after the offender had forgotten his/her deeds. Then boom! Avenger strikes... God help us not to offend an unforgiven heart...

Reichel99:
He is senseless, he should have dumped her since.

Most men are emotionally insensitives.. Let him with his mistake... But it just getting worst.. Most girls has turned to jezebel these days.. Could it be that our parents failed our generation? Certainly, some of our parents fail abysmally... Again most girls have the wrong ideology and often emulate the wrong part of the Western culture... "Feminism and gender equality" has caused more harm than good to a lot of girls now

Reichel99:
The guy still wasted his own resources, he should calculate all the expenses he made for the wedding and the relationship.

The bride will still get a new man, the man may even be in the wedding location.

When it comes to revenge, people are ready to waste the whole world for a piece of it.. So, it doesn't matter how much he had wasted, what matters is mission accomplished... Damn!! The heart of men(man&woman) is full of deceit.. Who knows what the girl might have done to him 10 years ago, that he waited till their wedding day deceitfully?

HRMK:
stop dcvg urself!it has happened in all the regions even though some were carried out by colonial masters!!

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Do not compare colonial era to now

I don't see any faulty her.. The only person that is creating sef headache is you... Why do men allow their emotions get the better of them when it comes to rel'ship.. Brah try and face the important things that are before you and worry less about what is not important

Why are some.men so insensitive? All the signs that the girl isn't his is shown to him yet he choose to ignore it.. I really do not see why divorce is always an option for little quarrel, the scripture says Moses law of divorce is due to the hardness of the heart of men(man &woman). It wasn't meant to be so..

The guy has made a great mistake...Did he even look or check the family background of the girl? Most men just lust after beauty,forgetting that the facial beauty of a lady fades.. Men deliberately choose to ignore the important things and go for the secondary thing. At the end, it surely comes back to hurt them whilst leaving them with regrets... It's a pathetic situation for him...

There are regions where the King has lost their powers not all regions. Remove a king? It is never possible in th benin kingdom not even in states like Anambra... Can the governor remove alafin iku baba yeye?... Where the kings are strictly by heritance, the governor has no such power as to remove them from their thrones..

Why do most girls on this platform talk rudely? Also most of them are claiming feminist yet they do not know the meaning of feminism... Gosh! I never like to engage with rude ones, so I mostly read comments ...

Wait ooooo, lemme get this. . . Engagement is same as Traditional marriage right? When you do the main wine carrying and paying of bride price?

Funny you..Traditional Marriage is the proper Marriage and most important of all... You can engage your partner the introduction.. I just wonder what most people think!

RisenPhoenix:


Because I believe that polygamy is a viable system? Lol, no.

For what it's worth, and since people always feel the need to put a handle on others for the sake of argument, I am a theist. This is because I think that the argument for a creator makes logical sense, but I am not currently affiliated to any organised religion. I was once a christian, but no longer subscribe to it now.

If polygamy is an option for you.Please ensure you have the resources to take care of your family. Even out grandfathers that dive into polygamy were rich.. The poor among them didn't... But wait a sec, logically, One wife, One problem.. Why will you want to shoulder multiple problems? lol

Crazy world where some women accords nudity. Supporters of indecency are likewise indecent.. Birds of a feather will surely head the same direction.

ubunja:
then tell us what happened.

Gather the "us" take seats and relax..

ubunja:
you can type the whole day or you can go out and experiment.

lol. You could not answer a simple question. Besides, I'd tell you I had experience; so why experiment?

ubunja:
you can't conduct the experiment?

Also, I want you to realize that "A woman can never change a man because she loves him? A man changes because He loves the woman" that brings us back to what I said earlier.. For MEN(Go for whom you love) For Women( Go for who loves you)..

ubunja:
you can't conduct the experiment?

Already I speak from experience. So, don't you think that experiment has been done years back?

ubunja:
it's not about maintaining any stand. Go find two girls. One who Chooses you, another whom you Choose. See who'll submit. This is not theory or ideologies. Do the practicals. Go out and check for yourself. Then come share with us your experience.

A man do not need to go for whom loves him but who he loves.. If the right girl accepts the man, its a matter of time, she will start to reciprocate the love knowing that the man loves her truly.. Quote me "the right girl".. If you go for a girl that loves you, I bet, there will never be peace. The tenderance that you will not love her back and keep fumbling is very high. Why? Because this heart of a man who is emotionally stable rarely love..It's easier for women to love than men to love.. Mostly men often feel lust than love.. The one person that a man loves easily is himself.. I am not asking you to agree with me but I am telling you what is factual

Korllami007:


If we go by what you say, nice guys won't have problem in having a girl or in relationships but reverse is the case because na them they get relationship problems pass. Na them de commit suicide pass because upon all their niceness and do everything to make a girl happy; they never believed they could still be jilted.

Lol pally.. Check out the girl, she isn't the right girl. Probably she is one of the kinds of girls I have observed on this platform.. Quote my word "the right girl" many atimes, the so-called Mr nice choose to be adamant and blind rather than to see clearly what he's wanting to commit into. If you fail to see, then I bet you will keep falling into the hand of the negative energy ones. How can you be blind to signs and happenings?

Take for instance, you meet a girl and its obvious she's in a relationship and then you try to incorporate yourself into her.. What're are you thinking? Or you meet a girl and start playing the nice girl without defining your stand, what do you think?

The so-called Mr nice guy often walk on the path which they out not to walk.. Sometimes, they know that there is no way yet they still choose to follow the path.. The end is bound to doom!!! Weak and emotionally loose men. Men can't keep been foolish, Men need to be wise, to be in control..

ubunja:
it's only the woman who loves you who will submit and allow herself to be molded into what you like. She has to love you first or else she won't ever allow you to have any power over her. And key to her love is that she must love you more. It's then that she'll submit.

I maintain my stand.. You are yet to realize that the nature of a woman is love..The determinant to stir up the natural nature of a woman is a man..

Now I am not talking about these days daughters of Jezebel or those negative energy girls that clamour or kept shouting gender equality craps. Meet the right woman, love her rightly and see if she won't reciprocate rightly.

The fact remains that many men are loose emotionally. Relationship is a moving vehicle, men are suppose to take up the wheel and control the journey.Not the other way.. Every man should Man Up..

ubunja:
allow me to clarify.

Generally when a man and a woman date, its imagined that both love each other equally. Like 50/50. But that's not usually the case. There will always be an imbalance. One will always love the other more. While the other will love less. This is why there's always that one party that fears losing the other. And will beg, compromise and do everything to keep them happy.

This can be the guy. This can be the girl.

Let's say it's the guy. For an example.

Now, the reason why the guy fears losing his girl and is desperate for the love to work and will give her gifts and money to keep her happy is because the guy LOVES THE GIRL MORE THAN THE GIRL LOVES HIM. The guy has more love than the girl has. And that makes him Weak in the relationship in that he has to keep working hard to please her to keep her.

The girl loves the guy. But not as deeply as the guy loves her. So she has the power to keep the guy on his toes with demands for things. Because she knows the guy loves her and will do anything for her.

By loving less she has all the power. She is the Prize. The trophy. The Fantasy.

When you marry someone who loves you more than you love them it gives you peace of mind because you're not the one who'll be stressing to please the other party. It doesn't mean you'll be hating the person, but she's much deeper in love than you are. And more desperate to keep you.

I quite disagree to an extend Sir/Ma.. In my opinio, women ain't suppose to love let alone loving more than the man should and there isn't a law that states that woman should love more. The fact remains that women are naturally lovers, they are love by nature.

Women are like a raw material or a clay. Whatever you use them to mold is what they will become. They are like an incubator, whatever you build in them, that's what you get as a product..

There is just a law for the women to men.. " submissive" which majority of them hard to keep, especially those who thinks they are equal to men and crave for gender equality..lol "crap from daughters of Jezebel"..

Men naturally have a harden heart and rarely can love without duplicate; in fact, they love themselves more.. And this is why the law stipulated that " Men love your Women as thyselves "


Yes, Most men are emotional loose, hence they have lost their prestige.. However for those who truly understand the above principle, they know they should love women more but take charge/control of the relationship..Let the emotionally loose men MAN UP!!

Dyt:


The people are same every where lol
The online keypad warriors
The friends
The family

I cannot agree less...lol . Too much negative energy