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Please where is the train at? I love to see it

What fact? Oga you have no fact sir...

Oluromantic:
Forget the story. Your long post does not nullify my fact

Oga this isn't a matter of tolerate. Most rel'ship problem comes sexually. If that's what he prioritized, it is better to break up and look for someone who will match his need.

Now he's complaining of what he needs but could not get from his partner. In the future it could turn into a big issue btw them. Then, he starts been unfaithful with different girls and the wife will probably pour him hot oil or kill him over a mere cheat.. It is best to break off and avoid that happening to be now.

I've often say this, that signs come people's way when they are about to marry but most people ignores it. If people give meticulous attention to such signs, half of the divorce cases will never have existed..

Oluromantic:
You shd learn to tolerate others more at this stage. It's necessary than expecting to find a man to tolerate you

With your reasoning and what you've said so far.. You must be a big clown... Make it simple for the guy and do the job.. That's if you even know how to drive.. Gush! Some people reasoning ehn! O ma se oo!!

Oluromantic:
What's funny. At the present rate of fuel N123.5, 8k fuel is enough for a Toyota.

I drive a Peugeot 206. When petrol was N145, 8k fuel fills its tank from empty to full and it goes to akure from Lagos and back

Maybe your car transmission is faulty hence increasing fuel consumption and you're now thinking that's the normal thing

And who said he must sleep it her? Now listen even if he decides to take her in as a wife, it is not an abomination neither did Bible or Quran condemns it.

Does marriage vow excludes a man from taking another wife? Please educate me on that sir....

Acidosis:
It's not an abomination to sleep with another woman while you're married? It's not an abomination to marry another woman after seeing the magistrate to make your vows?

Just make sure you marry a poorly enlightened village woman from your community while your lazy chiefs are passing that judgement.

Don't go and say this nonsense in a society or family with lawyers and magistrates.

You're so on point.. Technology has made it so easy this days that he mustn't sleep with her to impregnate her. The woman has an in-depth love for the family. Doesn't want to leave the family.. And don't want a mix blood in the family.. All this young ones advicing what they have no knowledge about..

Nairaland adviser are so funny...You all should go to your villages and ask the wise elders, this is not an abomination..

clintz:
In the Bible book of genesis 38 God kill Onan for refusing to impregnate his late brothers wife. Nigerian Christians and hypocrisy we select only what we think is right in the Bible.

You such an idiot.. What does IPod has to do with the fact that Nigeria system is not working, that it is actually doomed.. We have a failed government operating with a failed system and subjecting her common citizen into more hardship everyday... A nation where if you have 5000, the government says you are rich...

Infact Ipod kee you dia
Tribalism finish you dia

Instead of you to admit the government has failed us.. You are wailing iPod.. Shame on you

PVision2020:
Ipob miscreants doing what they know how to do best, venting their hate filled heart. Children of hate and perdition.... Wailing since 2015, Una no dey tire?
Spit

Why do you people cover up evil in the name of MIND YOUR BUSINESS. Now if finally the madam goes bankrupt, who is hurt? The madam is hurt the most as well as him who refuses to expose the illicit activities of the evil employees.He will lose his job and back to the street looking for new job..

Madam is hurt
He is hurt
Every other innocent one is hurt
Everyone loses his or her job

This is collateral damage/ hurt..

My advice; devise a way to tell your madam, since you said she is a very nice person. Do not allow her fall, it's more evil.

Fabulouzjoseph:
Life itself is not fair. Suffering and pain is part of human existence.

You are in a dilema any action you take now you will still end up hurting someone.


If you report: you are going to put your co-workers and their family in trouble, they will lose their job and they will also go to jail if not for life.

If you choose not to report you will be harming the md and she might lose her business.

either ways you are going to hurt people.

And as such i will advice you to focus on yourself and mind your business.

October 10th

Why are you so quick into insulting yourself? I asked a simple question that demands YES or NO and you keep acting like an educated slowpoke.. I never said 10 commandment was the only law, I asked since if it's part of the old testament, was it abolished? Yes we are not under the law but now under grace through our Lord Jesus Christ... My notion is to reset your brain that not all commandment in the old testament was abolished, so you don't go about saying things of the old testament are no longer valid...

omonnakoda:
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Are you alright ?what are we saying and what are you saying?
Are the 10 commandments the only laws in the old testament?
There are 611-3 laws in the old Testament. Educate yourself and stop talking foolishly.

The question was did Jesus/Christianity abrogate any of those 611 laws

Yes or No

Stop the rignarole

When I say the law (10 commandment) was it given in the new testament? You failed to answer that... I'm not talking about those law which moses set due to the hardness of the heart of men....

omonnakoda:
Are those the ONLY LAWS?

The question is
Were some laws destroyed

Yes or no?

Can Christians eat pork?
Are women required to make guilt offering?
Are adulterers still stoned?
Do you kill witches?

He HAS DESTROYED THE LAW.

THE ISSUE is which one us kept and who decides

You failed to answer my question.. I asked again was the 10 commandment given in the new testament or in the Old testament?

Youngzedd:
People are experts at justifying themselves be it good or bad provided it's for their own interest.

They will quote Mathew 5 vs 17 for you, but they won't tell you to read from 17 - 20. All for selfish purposes.

You must understand that there's no perfect being, the only perfect being I know is Jesus. Your Pastor just like every other person is prone to make mistakes.

Why did Jesus said He haven't come to abolish the law?

Now, Jesus wasn't preaching to them like others and they were surprised, so they were thinking He has come to abolish their laws and traditions. They thought He brought something new entirely different from the scripture (old testament) which they already knew, then Jesus said to them in the book of Matthew 5:17

"Do not think that I have come to abolish the Law or the Prophets; I have not come to abolish them but to fulfill them.

Jesus also told them this.

Mathew 5 vs 20
"20 For I tell you that unless your righteousness surpasses that of the Pharisees and the teachers of the law, you will certainly not enter the kingdom of heaven."

It's obvious, Jesus made them understand that obeying the law cannot take them to heaven in verse 20 ☺.

Jesus broke the law in the book of Mark 2:24 and they were all calling for his head. It was because of the laws He broke and his teachings that made them choose a thief over Jesus.

Do not allow anyone impose the laws in old testament on you. Read what Paul said.

Romans 6:14

14 For sin shall no longer be your master, because you are not under the law, but under grace.

Now, see why old testament laws shouldn't be practice by Christians.

Read Galatians 3 vs 15 - 29

Be a true Christian not a Christian who practice Judaism.


* The death and resurrection of Christ is the fulfillment of the law. The old covenant chapter has been closed and new covenant established.

I was making research and I stumbled upon this great page which explained Mathew 5:17-20 bit by bit.

Visit https://bible.org/seriespage/14-not-abolish-fulfill-matthew-517-20 for more understanding on this subject.

Christianity in Africa has been mixed with so many things which shouldn't be
found at all in Christendom. Do not allow anyone teach you their selfish doctrine even though they use old testament (laws) to justify their doctrines.

If it's not the doctrine of Jesus Christ in the new testament, I say to you, RUN and NEVER look back.

Happy Sunday

I meant the old law.. Was the 10 commandment not given in the time of moses? Did Jesus Chris destroy it? There are other laws too... You should have said that the 10 commandment was of old testament and no longer useful

omonnakoda:
What a confused refrain
Did he not destroy the law of Moses?
Yes or no
The law of Moses is even worse than Sharia law and inspired Sharia law

I stand to be corrected Sir. Jesus Christ said "I'v not come to destroy the law of moses" He came to teach us about the greatest commandment...This means that we cannot rule out old testament completely, rather observe them and follow them diligently..

In all the tithing verse, perhaps you have not notice that certain people are often mentioned there "Levites" now who are the levites? Ain't they people dedicated to serve in the place of worship of God? Hence, the Pastors and alter servers...

It may also interest you to know that those verses also stipulated this "A place where God has chosen" now anytime, anyday Church is the place God has chosen to be His dwelling place.


Nevertheless the the book of Matthew 23 vs 23/and Luke 11 vs 42 made a clarification about tithing.. While most people are concern about rushing to the church to pay their tithes, they forgot thing which are weightier.."Justice And the love of God(mercy & faithfulness)" These you ought to have done, without neglecting the others.”

Now understand that when you pay tithe and you could not help that poorest man in your area or that needy or hungry man, you are not doing it right... The point here is that you cannot neglect one for the other...

I am not here to argue but just to impact the little I know unto other.. Let he who has ears, hear the little voice speaking... Stay blessed sir...

MasterJayJay:
THE TRUTH ABOUT TITHE.

Introduction: If your pastors say giving the needy, widows, orphans 10% of your income is not tithe, that you must pay it to him, then you are attending a business centre, not a church.

Malachi is the favourite book most pastors use to preach tithe. And it is very obvious, they use it because it contains a curse for those who don't pay it. Therefore, it is the 'best' verse used to brainwash Christians.

If you want to preach tithing, preach all verses related to it. Most of these men of God know the other verses but the only one they preach to their audience is Malachi. The sheep they are leading are even lazy to read their own bibles to see the truth for themselves. Note that quarter of truth is no truth, truth must be whole. Don’t add, don't remove.

Tithing is an Old Testament concept, just like circumcision and animal sacrifice. Things Christians were meant to abide to have validations from New testament after death and resurrection of Jesus Christ. There is nowhere tithe was clearly instructed in the New Testament after the death and resurrection of Jesus Christ.

The New Testament focuses on giving without compulsion. 2 Corinthians 9:7 captured it very well “Each one must give as he has decided in his heart, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver".

If you believe in tithing, then you should see other verses of the bible to know how it was applied thousands of years ago. Tithes were not for gentiles, it was for the Jews. Tithes were for the Levites, descendants of Levi. How many of your Pastors that preach Malachi to you are descendants of Levi?

There is a particular portion of the bible most pastors will never preach to you, and that can be found in Deut 14.22-29. Tithe was instructed to be given to the strangers, orphans, widows etc. How many pastors can boldly tell their members to give their tithes to widows and those in need?

Conclusion, if you want to pay tithe, that's your choice. But don't use outdated and obsolete verses like the one found in Malachi to threaten people. Are some verses outdated? Animal sacrifices were allowed in the Old Testament. After Jesus Christ paid for our sins, it made animal sacrifices to be outdated, and that includes tithes too.



For detailed explanation on tithes see this thread


https://www.nairaland.com/5783004/sentenced-asking-members-tithes-drama

sageb:
UYO is the best in terms of good road network. One of the legacy of the uncommon transformer Godswill Akpabio.

When it comes to good road networking, I think Anambra is the best or one of the best...

Only 3 is at fault. The white line allows 2 to overtake but not not permit 3 to overtake... A lot of people don't know driving sign rules.. So it's expected that 80% won't get it right....

Someone that did a recent live broadcast on social media die? Hehehehehe.. Gullible people believe fake news

You want to feel secure?? You don't want to loss her? Then Marry Her...

428,941 Nigerians Got Cash In 24 States, 130,455 From Katsina – . If this is true then the minister and buhari are animals. Is kastina lockdown as long as Lagos, Ogun and Abuja had been lockdown??

YES!!!!! Abba Kyari is Gone forever!!!!! when the wicked perish, there are shouts of joy.

When the righteous prosper, the city rejoices; when the wicked perish, there are shouts of joy. Abba Kyari is gone!!!!!

I wonder which religion taught you this, I mean where you learnt this theory of yours.. It's so ridiculous tho..

pussyphilia:
Yes! Men are supposed to be the submissive partners in marriage and romantic relationship generally, but they turned it against the female folk.

1 The females give life by carrying the baby in her womb up till birth and nurturing it to maturity.
2 Women are better decision makers because they are smarter and more intelligent. Check the number of first class female graduates and best graduating students these days, they trump they of males.
3 Women are more stronger than men. Forget what you have been conditioned to believe. The excruciating pain of childbirth which women endure is a pointer. Besides, many women are there who can easily beat up their male counterparts.
4 Women do better in anything they set their minds on. They have just been victims of restrictions by religion and by societies.
5 Men too dey fvck up. Once small change don enter his hand, he begins to look for side chicks and drink alcohol, living his wife and children to go hungry. If women can take charge of leadership in the home, she'll be able to control the stuppid man's excesses.
6 Women take better care of the children.
7 The man is supposed to work and hand over his earnings to the woman who will then control how it is spent.
8 Men are more sexually thirsty than women. Women can take advantage of this to control him and their home
The reasons are endless but lemme stop hia

If the post vex you, i dey ma lodge, comman beat me

This is not an insult but an average Woman is selfish, you may argue it ... Let me ask you a question.. What is the different between a wife and a mother-in-law?

Vyolet:
A mother's love is different, that of the wife is also different.
It is just unfortunate that some men don't know how to differentiate it.

I'm not trying to be biased or sentimental but I think this issue is getting out of hand. Every group is talking about the same thing,and what's it? It is husband's love.


So many ladies will tell you not to marry a man that's too attached to his family. Some will tell you to marry someone that have a mind of his own,a man that will stand against his family just to protect you.


Not disputing that a good husband should always stand by his wife. I'm only concerned about those that wants their husbands to love them more than their mom and families. Some ladies today pray for their mother in-laws to die before they arrive cuz they believe mother in-laws are evil.


While you are busy thinking, don't forget that it's his mom that birthed him,breastfed him,clothed him, protected and provided for him,trained him to be the man you now admire and love,backed him up both emotionally, spiritually by prayers and physically. Even when he had his first fall,his family were there to list him to stand again. Before you came into the picture, his family were there,even after you came,his family were still there. And now because his marriage to you,you want him to concentrate more on you? Because you're his wife he should forget his root? Family will always be family,it's the group of people related by blood,not by cake, wedding,water and even ring. Blood will always be thicker than anything else. Treat his family the way you want to be treated and stop blaming anyone.


Don't you ever forget this,you will some day be a mom and a mother inlaw. You will know the feeling of your child standing against you the mom.


Remember,I didn't type to impress anyone,I only typed to correct the errors I see in this our generation.

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As long as there is a written agreement and duly signed..He will take the child..

As a lady cannot impregnant herself without the a man sperm. And the man cannot bear a child without a lady. Who then should be the custodian of the child? Only the written agreement answers this.

It's already happening these days.. What do you say about sorrogate mothers? There is just one difference... But las las the man takes his child..

sexylassie2:
Take away child when he is 5? That can't happen.

Why are you bittered?

veave:
Please can you just shut up? Do you know what it is to wait for children?

Many girls will disagree with this especially the slay queens and mamas. Although it's not for such people but those who are still responsible.

Question for a Question

You should answer mine first

Besides it's nothing but just felt like asking such a question

FYI: That was a nice suggestion you made there...lol

frozen70:
Why the question

Are you a feminist?

frozen70:
If you are sure that you have talked to her about her wastefulness and she is not helping matters, it's time to go to drawing board

Share between the followings and give her to chose the one she will be handling as the more is no longer flowing as it use to due to bad economic situations

1, House rent, school fees, medicals

2, Feeding the entire family

3, Utility bills, fueling the generator, books and text books, compound leavy like packing away of soakaway

Tell her to choose one out of this three

Every other thing in that list is hard but feeding looks small, I bet you tgat feeding is theist difficult of it all

Give her tgat feeding aspect and her senses will be reformatted

People must get sense by force

Lol.. Same America has been using 5G since last year and it didn't kill anyone till date?

5G test run last year in Abuja for just a month, did it kill anyone?

You guys had better have a rethink..

Jokerman:
Of cos... Tyrese posted a video of 5G masts being installed in America amidst this lockdown

softwerk:


Stingy aboki!

You don't know most of them can no longer hussle because of Coro?

Kindly educate me on marital vows.. What are they?

Ishilove:
This is deep-



It is still no excuse for the dogs among men to break their marriage vows by dipping their wayward preeks into every hole that drips moisture. And for you single ladies, stay away from people's husbands. Don't be unfortunate.

It is sad that we are living in a patriarchal society where the odds are deliberately stacked against women. What is sauce for the goose is poison for the gander. Where I come from, a cheating man can commit adultery and get away with it, but a cheating woman will endanger the lives of her husband and children if she commits same adultery and does not confess. The husband and kids may fall sick and die, or his business may suffer severe set backs if he keeps making love to her and eating her food in her unconfessed state of adultery. I don't know if it is programmed on the day of the traditional wedding or of it is an ancestral covenant with unknown deities.

Whatever it is, it just makes me mad! It is so unfair. There should be equal punishment for adulterers