sageb:
UYO is the best in terms of good road network. One of the legacy of the uncommon transformer Godswill Akpabio.

When it comes to good road networking, I think Anambra is the best or one of the best...

Only 3 is at fault. The white line allows 2 to overtake but not not permit 3 to overtake... A lot of people don't know driving sign rules.. So it's expected that 80% won't get it right....

Someone that did a recent live broadcast on social media die? Hehehehehe.. Gullible people believe fake news

You want to feel secure?? You don't want to loss her? Then Marry Her...

428,941 Nigerians Got Cash In 24 States, 130,455 From Katsina – . If this is true then the minister and buhari are animals. Is kastina lockdown as long as Lagos, Ogun and Abuja had been lockdown??

YES!!!!! Abba Kyari is Gone forever!!!!! when the wicked perish, there are shouts of joy.

When the righteous prosper, the city rejoices; when the wicked perish, there are shouts of joy. Abba Kyari is gone!!!!!

I wonder which religion taught you this, I mean where you learnt this theory of yours.. It's so ridiculous tho..

pussyphilia:
Yes! Men are supposed to be the submissive partners in marriage and romantic relationship generally, but they turned it against the female folk.

1 The females give life by carrying the baby in her womb up till birth and nurturing it to maturity.
2 Women are better decision makers because they are smarter and more intelligent. Check the number of first class female graduates and best graduating students these days, they trump they of males.
3 Women are more stronger than men. Forget what you have been conditioned to believe. The excruciating pain of childbirth which women endure is a pointer. Besides, many women are there who can easily beat up their male counterparts.
4 Women do better in anything they set their minds on. They have just been victims of restrictions by religion and by societies.
5 Men too dey fvck up. Once small change don enter his hand, he begins to look for side chicks and drink alcohol, living his wife and children to go hungry. If women can take charge of leadership in the home, she'll be able to control the stuppid man's excesses.
6 Women take better care of the children.
7 The man is supposed to work and hand over his earnings to the woman who will then control how it is spent.
8 Men are more sexually thirsty than women. Women can take advantage of this to control him and their home
The reasons are endless but lemme stop hia

If the post vex you, i dey ma lodge, comman beat me

This is not an insult but an average Woman is selfish, you may argue it ... Let me ask you a question.. What is the different between a wife and a mother-in-law?

Vyolet:
A mother's love is different, that of the wife is also different.
It is just unfortunate that some men don't know how to differentiate it.

I'm not trying to be biased or sentimental but I think this issue is getting out of hand. Every group is talking about the same thing,and what's it? It is husband's love.


So many ladies will tell you not to marry a man that's too attached to his family. Some will tell you to marry someone that have a mind of his own,a man that will stand against his family just to protect you.


Not disputing that a good husband should always stand by his wife. I'm only concerned about those that wants their husbands to love them more than their mom and families. Some ladies today pray for their mother in-laws to die before they arrive cuz they believe mother in-laws are evil.


While you are busy thinking, don't forget that it's his mom that birthed him,breastfed him,clothed him, protected and provided for him,trained him to be the man you now admire and love,backed him up both emotionally, spiritually by prayers and physically. Even when he had his first fall,his family were there to list him to stand again. Before you came into the picture, his family were there,even after you came,his family were still there. And now because his marriage to you,you want him to concentrate more on you? Because you're his wife he should forget his root? Family will always be family,it's the group of people related by blood,not by cake, wedding,water and even ring. Blood will always be thicker than anything else. Treat his family the way you want to be treated and stop blaming anyone.


Don't you ever forget this,you will some day be a mom and a mother inlaw. You will know the feeling of your child standing against you the mom.


Remember,I didn't type to impress anyone,I only typed to correct the errors I see in this our generation.

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As long as there is a written agreement and duly signed..He will take the child..

As a lady cannot impregnant herself without the a man sperm. And the man cannot bear a child without a lady. Who then should be the custodian of the child? Only the written agreement answers this.

It's already happening these days.. What do you say about sorrogate mothers? There is just one difference... But las las the man takes his child..

sexylassie2:


Take away child when he is 5? That can't happen.

Why are you bittered?

veave:


Please can you just shut up? Do you know what it is to wait for children?

Many girls will disagree with this especially the slay queens and mamas. Although it's not for such people but those who are still responsible.

Question for a Question

You should answer mine first

Besides it's nothing but just felt like asking such a question

FYI: That was a nice suggestion you made there...lol

frozen70:


Why the question

Are you a feminist?

frozen70:


If you are sure that you have talked to her about her wastefulness and she is not helping matters, it's time to go to drawing board

Share between the followings and give her to chose the one she will be handling as the more is no longer flowing as it use to due to bad economic situations

1, House rent, school fees, medicals

2, Feeding the entire family

3, Utility bills, fueling the generator, books and text books, compound leavy like packing away of soakaway

Tell her to choose one out of this three

Every other thing in that list is hard but feeding looks small, I bet you tgat feeding is theist difficult of it all

Give her tgat feeding aspect and her senses will be reformatted

People must get sense by force

Lol.. Same America has been using 5G since last year and it didn't kill anyone till date?

5G test run last year in Abuja for just a month, did it kill anyone?

You guys had better have a rethink..

Jokerman:
Of cos... Tyrese posted a video of 5G masts being installed in America amidst this lockdown

softwerk:


Stingy aboki!

You don't know most of them can no longer hussle because of Coro?

Kindly educate me on marital vows.. What are they?

Ishilove:
This is deep-



It is still no excuse for the dogs among men to break their marriage vows by dipping their wayward preeks into every hole that drips moisture. And for you single ladies, stay away from people's husbands. Don't be unfortunate.

It is sad that we are living in a patriarchal society where the odds are deliberately stacked against women. What is sauce for the goose is poison for the gander. Where I come from, a cheating man can commit adultery and get away with it, but a cheating woman will endanger the lives of her husband and children if she commits same adultery and does not confess. The husband and kids may fall sick and die, or his business may suffer severe set backs if he keeps making love to her and eating her food in her unconfessed state of adultery. I don't know if it is programmed on the day of the traditional wedding or of it is an ancestral covenant with unknown deities.

Whatever it is, it just makes me mad! It is so unfair. There should be equal punishment for adulterers

Indeed, you are wise in thinking.. This is what I do tell all those girls that are miseducated. If you are luck to have your both parent alive "ask your mum how she was able to cope with your dad" also ask "parents above 60yrs, how they are able to cope".. I read a lot of comments from most girls here and shake my head in pity for some... lol..

NobleAngell:
Truth is, our parents endured alot just to keep their home. But we kids of nowadays are looking for the perfect man, home and circumstances.

And what is wrong with that? Especially since they are sharing different flats.. Is it now a crime for families to live together??

Femsyn:
Why are you staying in your husband's brother's house with 5 children?

What's the duration? What's the code ? I also use glo...

WalkerMichael:
Airtel are scam. I stopped using them weeks ago.

I now use Glo, 1,500naira sub gives me as much as 8-9gb. + did I mention the huge call bonus I was given too? Glo just needs to work more on their Internet. They offer the best data plan in Nigeria.

I really don't understand why you're so pained Ma....Please, I'll advice you go and look for your kind. I'm not on this platform to exchange insults..Henceforth, All attention denied.. E.O.D

kaziblake:
I Pity your wife!You are an hypocrite!

Do you want me to say that you are dumb not to have noticed where I said that? You need not remind me of that..lol...

I rarely do not answer people that approaches me with insult.. Channel your energy into getting a client that you can cook for or run errand than looking for who to insult.. If my opinion is not OK by you, just pass. You mustn't comment..

lol

kaziblake:
I read all your comment and discovered one thing..
An hypocrite!

lol.. Apart from the politicians and business typcoon children, rarely can we live the life we want in this part of the world.. No thanks to bad leadership.. We are so grounded to suffering and smilings here.. It's always survival of the fittest deep in our marrow..


5G poses more threat to us and surely it will increase unemployment rate. Human will destory this earth ourselves. Now is the time to hustle hard, acquire assets before the drought that is coming. God help us...

emmaodet:


I tell you bro, capitalism destroyed the whole system, alllllllll.
I don't read novels anymore, now it is all about make money, make more money, i said make more and more money eeeeeehhhhh
Money money money, sexx sexx sexx, more money more money more money
A very dangerous rat race, insatiable.
Sometimes i do think about it - how did we get to this stage??
Sometimes, i just get tired and really want the quite, gentle , slow natural life.
Really missing it bro because the world is too competitive now.
Now, am not even scared of competing with my fellow human beings anymore.
By the time the 5G network comes online fully, 50-80% of people will lose there jobs and businesses to machines/robots.
Bro believe me, you can't compete with those useless things called robots.
A good example is the common machine we all know and like to use called ATM machine.
It displaces a lot of workers from the bank, saves cost effectively, can work 24hrs a day without complaining, tired, regularly asking for pay raise nor fraudulent like humans.
That is exactly what autonomous cars will do to drivers, pilots, sailors. Even the agricultural sector won't be left out.
I watched a youtube video of robots planting, spraying herbicides and insecticides, fertilizers, harvesting and clearing the farms effectively with little to none human intervention. It means the small scale farmers, local farmers will all be wiped off the market by gigantic agricultural companies with latest robots to produce ridiculously cheap and plenty foods.
Bro, the future for the first time to me is really Scary

Remain blessed.. God shall lift you up continally..

Tankunland:
aww God bless you so so much. Wow you and few people kept me alive ooo. O I'm so grateful and God bless you for that wonderful piece of advice that day. I really appreciate you. Have a lovely night rest

The girl is a clown.. She succeeded in taking the guy on a ride..hahaha.. Even the guy was lost! Funny girl!!

Smile.. Happy you embrace such advice.. Now you have find your way back to being happy because the future is bright .. Thank God for you...

Tankunland:
Lol were you the one sir ? Were you the one that give me that advice sir ? Wow

Just as I adviced you back then....Now go forth and advice people in such circumstance that you were; to learn a skill too.

Tankunland:
It was a Thursday in the month of September and i had walked and trekked all over IKEJA from 12pm till 5pm knocking on the door of every single hotel I could find asking them if they needed a new staff because I had been jobless for close to 6 months after loosing my job in the hotel where I worked.


I so needed a job because I was dead broke, hopeless, tired and on the verge of losing my mind when I got home tired and hungry by 7pm from my job hunting with just 50 naira left in my pocket when my neighbor came to knock on my door to tell me it was my turn to load our prepaid meter and I needed to get it done ASAP as it was gonna finish anytime soon.


I sighed in helplessness, I looked up the Sky looking for the savior in desperation and told her mu neighbor that I would get it done, When I got into my bedroom I collapse on my bed and called both the only 2 friends I had to send me 1k to load my apartment's electricity but both of them gave me the same answer GUY ME SEF BROKE PASS YOU and as I was contemplating my next course of action my neighbor MAMA CHINEDU came to knock again on my door but this time she yelled and called my name Mr Michael ( not my real name) you are the only one that stays at home and finishes this light please go get it done soon as I was making dinner for my husband because it won't be funny if this light gets to go off and as I laid helplessly on my bed I had her grumpling and walking away and right there and then I said yes it's enough, I can't take it again, no more, I was weak, i was defeated, i was empty and no will to fight again as the fight of the last 6 months had taking every single bit of strength from me and i went into my bathroom to take a bottle of sniper I had bought a week prior to that day and when I got back to my bedroom i cried, I prayed for the acceptance of my soul in heaven and called on my mom to come wait for me at the gate of heaven and on the verge of downing it all with my heart pounding so fast and my hands shaking uncontrollably a spirit just told me to bury my head in shame and beg publicly on Nairaland and live to fight another day and guy's with tears in my eyes and my bruised pride and ego I wrote an epistle on a DAVIDO and CHIOMA's thread even with my social media account as prove that I was real I begged on this forum that day and some people called me a scammer, some called me a liar but some encouraged me and told me not to give up and some beautiful soul send me all together 9k but one advice that changed a lot of things was a guy that told me young man instead of looking for a job while not create a job for yourself that's me learning a skill so I would sell to people and right there I decided to learn how to fix CCTV camera.


Now I'm about to get into the story fully

You said it all. This is what I meant by "woman control man but some guys just jump at it without reading btw the lines..lol


[/quote author=donbachi post=88212872]Na e make my people sey "wen woman sabi the heart of her husband,dem go sey she give am love portion"[/quote]

Where there is no love, where discord of hatred has been built over some period, such can happen.. At times it could be that the married wasn't even meant to be, maybe circumstances lead to the marriage. It could be that the Husby didn't love your aunty. Yes, it'll be hard to please the man or the woman..

No doubt, some men are naturally wicked. The article is geared toward an average man.

Permit me to say this, Your Aunty married one of such men that are categorize as Saddist or a Mad Man.. Would a sane man beats himself? Whosoever beats his wife, beats himself because you has become one. So we're made to believe. Personally, I do not support violence of any nature most especially when it comes from the man..

GraGra247:
Sotland, I've seen women do exactly what you recommended 2 times over and the man is still adamant and wicked.

My late beloved aunt was an example. Her husband was a champion outside but a wicked tyrant at home.

No amount of petting or calling him good names sufficed. He beats her at every slight mistake and at that in front of their children. He makes same mistakes over again himself.

There are men that are naturally wicked. Nothing can tame them. They're only nice for a short period of time.

You know a lot of women think men are the major problem-bearers in a relationship like marriage.

First of all how easily can you say “I AM SORRY” and you genuinely mean it? You know ehh, that you hurt someone or offended someone isn’t really the issue.

Most times it’s your attitude after that offense that aggravates or ameliorates the whole issue and situation. It starts from how you talk to him.

Your I-don’t-give-a-Bleep stance or go-Bleep-yourself attitude is what brings out the demon in him and it quickly erases any chance of forgiveness.

Zero remorse makes forgiveness impossible. Trying to prove your right standing bleeps up everything even when you know you are wrong.

Go and learn how to pet and respect a man then you have got his remote control.

Everyman is easy to keep and control but you have not figured this out. You are still busy implementing what your friends told you or what you watched on TV.

As long as you are always trying to challenge your husband, as long as you are always coming off with that war, nag and antagonistic mien; my sister forget it, na fight fight you go fight for that marriage tire!!

On the inside you are a dead soul but on the outside you are forming agu nwanyi (tigress). You are forming Bruce lee but you are fed up with the fights and zero marital peace.

When last did you hail him cute names as you ushered him to the dining table to eat his dinner?

Like “Nwoke omam, utom oma, utu gbawara Igwem, dim oma your food is ready”.

Call him “papa okey”, he will be a papa okey to you. Men are gods! What you call your god, that is how your god will respond.

Your husband is your Lordship and the Demi-god you see after God almighty, argue with your left ovary.

Keep doing the wrong thing and expect to be loved and pampered. Treat him like a king then you have won him over. Then you would watch him enthrone you most.

But if you feel you want to remain a fighter, you go fight tire. Learn to handle a man’s ego then you got the keys to his heart, then you got his mumu button.

For the girls out there and as many with their Nigeria version of faminism and gender equality, if you want to keep fighting, go ahead, you would age faster than your mates.

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