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Still, they won't hesitate to jump to another man of higher value and leave the one they were once willing to risk so much for. That's Hypergamy and it's in the nature of all females. About your mother taking care of you and nurturing you. That is a transaction too, see it as a sort of investment. Also she doesn't have a choice, if she cares about what society thinks, dropping you and running off is not an option.

Have you ever been to a women's meeting where they are discussing about one of their dead members, maybe one who just died recently. You'll keep hearing the same thing from every woman's mouth. Oh her suffering was in vain. Look at all the pain and everything she sacrificed. All in vain!!! You will also hear the same thing if they are conversing about a woman who lost her young son.

If you catch them talking about a young man who died in the university. All you will keep hearing is waste, waste and waste. To conclude my rant, I told a friend of mine that if your mother ever disturbs you to get married again. Tell her that you will cut off all kinds of benefits (especially financial) coming her way. So that you can be able to handle the new responsibilities effectively. Be dead serious when you say this. Let's see if she brings it up again.

CamusMidas:
Would you rather your Mum don't show you love and care just so that you won't owe her anything?

Oga instead of you to get the message, you are here trying to form a baseless argument. What is the essence of your question? I posted this message before in the past and most of them came for my head, even that undercover guy who is well known and respected here. Some even said they will quit the red pill lol. The guy you are quoting just managed to break everything down. And yet you are not willing to unplug.

We have been preaching in the past that a woman's love is conditional and opportunistic. But we did not have the balls to put our mothers in the scale and measure them with this younger generation. The truth is that women's nature have always been the same. The only difference is that this younger generation have some kind of freedom to show their nature and truly live life the way they please. Whilst the women of old were a bit controlled.

Your mother never loved your father, because women are not capable of the word. Telling you that they love opportunistically is just a fine way of putting it. They can only be subjected to your power or value as a man. Sure, they can up and above, fight each other, kill if they have to for a high value man but that is just because they don't want to loose their place of comfort. Women have tasked themselves from birth to find the best mate they can. When their age and beauty cannot pull the kind of man they desire, they settle for whoever comes their way. Not because given the right circumstances they would love to settle with anyone of low value.

Disgusting.

I'm afraid people are more hyped to see DC's The Batman than Marvel's Dr Strange and the Multiverse of Madness. Marvel will have to reveal more information if they want people to get excited. Perhaps a new and longer trailer will do. Just saying.

Taking her out to dinner = buying her free food unless you are willing to split the bill.
(My take)

You can't blame her for bringing her hungry friends along, that's what good friends do. They look out for each other.

When we small, if I hear say them dey do party, I go carry all my guys go chop party rice.
Na so e be

Cc: heartofcity12

sajmark:
Where did we get it wrong, 1000+ pages and redpillers are openly encouraging oneities in the name of vetting?
Vetting is very very important but using CCTV to supervise a woman is kind of overdoing it.
Maybe very soon we'll start discussing about how to quit our jobs and be staying with our women at home, asking her to put her phone on loud speaker when she receives a call, following her to the market, saloon etc.

You guys just like to take things over the top.
How did we encourage oneities. Didn't you read where we said kick her out if you find anything. The you go ahead to shoot yourself in the leg by saying vetting is very important. Simple idea una carry ego full everywhere.

ThomasShelby:
Can anyone fully have a girl’s heart? Lol..

WOMEN CHEAT FOR DIFFERENT REASONS.

Your first question made me laugh lol. I went back and took my time to read posts from all the guys talking about controlling the relationship with game and to be honest I think they are all right and it's not like I've been trying to fault their logic since yesterday.
Nobody can underestimate the importance of game in a relationship, power control, nobody.
The trick is to have your woman constantly on her toes, she should be the type that never wants to lose you.

If you want to go down this road, having and showing an abundance mindset will surely come in handy. First your woman will be proud to be in a seat where she's sure other women will want to be. Second, she knows them hyenas are always lurking in the dark so she has to guard/protect her mate because she doesn't want to lose her place. In all honesty, if you can get a woman to feel that way about you. It tells good about your level in TRP.

However, your second statement says it all. Women can cheat on whoever for whatever reasons. As long as AWALT is real, hypergamy and the likes are always present in female nature. Her mate guarding and consistent show of insecurity is no guarantee that I'm not getting played. That is where I stand and I'm not ready to move from there. Again it all boils down to the question I've been asking. Who is fooling who, the beta who got information about his wife's affairs (which ever way he did) and ended the relationship or the alpha who feels it's not important because his woman is on her toes. When in reality he could be the fifth cock on the fûck list. Unless you are saying the alpha cannot get cheated on.

Herbsworks:
Which would you prefer; get hurt as a result of going through your partner’s devices or allow your partner to cheat on you continuously without your knowing?

Sometimes knowledge of something most especially someone you’ve decided to be committed to hurts but you will surely be fine. The reason why most women continue frolicking around is cos they think their partners doesn’t know.

In my own opinion, it’s better to know the kind of partner you have at the earliest stage than to know later on after you’ve invested so much.

Get cheated on continuously without knowing.

We want to be ALPA

This is why I was a bit scared of validating those guys. Before anything else, this is a men's thread. When you bring such topics before a council of men, they will call you insecure, tell you, you lack trust, etc. Truth be told, most men don't care, they don't know and they don't want to know. A woman legally married to a man could be getting ploughed by different cocks during the day and the husband would not care, as long as she reserves his own share for him to ride at night. Everything is good.

On the other hand, a woman could be all up in your business, trying to make sure you are not cheating her in the relationship and she could go to any length to achieve this, she will invade your privacy if she has to. But when a man does it, he becomes insecure. This is why a lot of men were hesitant to conduct DNA tests in the past because they don't want to be told they lack trust or worse be called insecure. And women leverage on that ego to do all kinds of stuff. But again we don't care.

A woman could be right next to her husband, and she will be texting another guy but he won't care to look because that's some insecure bûllshit only women do that. There was a trend on tiktok where men were told to ask their partners for their phones, just to see their reactions. A lot of men didn't participate because that's some insecure bûllshit (not minding what they could find). There was a reason I said you can do it secretly if you can't handle the whole emotional rollercoaster when your wife finds out. She doesn't have to know.

Women do it all the time, and if they find anything they will send you to hell. They will even book you a VIP seat with the devil if they want, even if they have been cheating the whole time. No problem with that, they are just mate guarding.
It proves you are an "alpha"
Oh you gotta be fûcking kidding me.

Personally, I don't care what my woman does with her life or her dealings behind my back because I know from the start that the relationship is not going anywhere. But when you are talking about a woman you plan to take home to your mama. Asking you not to care is like asking you not to vet. By all means then, go to the market, get one hòe and tie the knot ​because she should be the one mate guarding you and not the other way round.

As far as I'm concerned, adambeatz and Quoteit have given valid and useful pointers for those who are heading for something serious. And no, vetting and invading your wife or girlfriend's privacy will not automatically make her a unicorn. They never said that, that's just some emotional bûllshit coined up by a manipulator to try and ridicule their standpoint. We all know there is nothing you can do to change female nature. That's why it's called nature.


Also, vetting your woman is not supposed to make you appear insecure and overprotective (another emotional bûllshit). We've talked about these things before and how it's meant to be a secret for it to work effectively. The trick is to act as though you don't care when in secret you do. The same thing can be said for men who go behind their wife's back to conduct DNA tests for their children. If you find out those kids are not yours, you can dissolute the marriage when you get back with your proof.

On the other hand, if the results are good and the child is your blood. You can do away with the result secretly. Nothing spoil, nothing has to. It's not as though red pilled men in relationships are not ready for anything. You can't fault them for not wanting to raise other men's kids or continue serious relationships with women who are fûcking other men. I'm just trying to make it simple.

ThisisIkemefuna:
What the heck is "filled with the holy ghost"

SMH. It's not possible for these people to separate religion from good attitudinal background.

Filled with the holy ghost means when they open their mouths heaven will come down. When they love you, everything in your life will immediately change for the better.

@Herbsworks, you see those holy girls in the church looking for husbands, always following pastor around, attending Shiloh and the likes. Run from them. In your write up you said she was beautiful and sexy, you never said she was young. And then you said she gives mad sex, wonderful, the girl don dey conquer prick no be today. If you had gotten into a serious relationship with her, she would have fûcked you to hell.

When they are done fûcking the whole world, they will join one church, repent and become one of the holy sisters. When they get the chance to have a one on one conversation with the mummy G.O, they will tell her why they came. Also one brother who after struggling for years has finally arrived will head back to the church to find one morally decent and God fearing woman to settle down with.

He will go to mummy G.O for counselling and prayers. One faithful day, mummy G.O will call him, my son I had a dream and in that dream you and this sister bla bla bla nonsense. Don't play with this message o, it came to me as a revelation after I descended from the mountain. Before you know it, they have gotten married. Inside life. The mummy G.O that recommended the wife will not endure the marriage with you o.

Mad people everywhere. My brother, I'm sorry for what you passed through. Glad to know you got back on your feet. More winnings bro.

Palazee:
The bītch above me is really trying

What the actual fûck
I swear we need her for this thread for entertainment. I've been rolling on the floor since, I pray she never leaves. No be everyday person go give you good laugh like this. Fûcking clown hahahahaha

Chiagozieking:
I have been prioritize my self growth since 4 months now (since 2021), I am bigger now, and girls are now cutting eye for me left right center, I am not shaking, I almost through the redpill away yesterday when one girl, will I say 8/10 was seriously giving me greenlight, now my question is how much more further till I quit, because I have gotten almost everything I want now, should I still continue or maybe I should take a shill pill and flex life ...??

Wait oh, four months into self development and you want to discard the red pill. Imagine this guy, because you feel you have achieved most of your goals. What the fûck? There is no end, you are stuck with this philosophy for life. I can agree if you want to take a break from all the work and chill but you can't disconnect yourself from the red pill. You just can't, no matter what you accomplish in life.

You want to get out of monk mode and flex life with women, don't you know that's where you need the red pill the most. Oga, there is no quitting the red pill, because the blue pill world will not hesitate to make you suffer if you submit yourself to them. This is not school, there is no graduation. You are not better than any of us here. You will navigate life through the red pill till eternity!!!!

cappyolu:
Apart from watching football, it's insane you subscribing on DSTV

Lol even the football self, I dey stream am for phone
The thing just dey useless.

Jessepaid:
Hehehe...

If you enter street wey guy men full and you no offer salutations, best believe you will be mugged or beaten or worse..

If them no reason your matter, you get a free pass for your stupidity that day...

Or them wait make you pass again before Dem drill you..


Women like to feel themselves alot


I noticed that women tend to greet strangers (men) when the road is quiet and alone for fear of being robbed, raped etc...

But in another circumstance when the road is busy with people, the strangers will be treated like strangers..


If you are new to an area or environment, before you ask questions greet!


I support what Osas did 100%

because I do it all the time to women that think it's possible to think I am invisible but still ask for my help..


I remember a story my friend told me of how a his friends girlfriend lost her job...


According to him...


His friend went out with another friend, the two men were chilling at a bar waiting for the babe to show...


When she finally came, she went to one of the men (my friends friend) which is her boyfriend and greeted him, hugged him and sat down completely ignoring the other man at the table..


Not knowing that he was her boss at the new company she started...


She lost the job after that weekend..

I agree, but I only act such way in the presence of my fellow guys. I don't greet female strangers especially if they fall under the age of forty. I'll never lay the ground for such familiarity, if I want something from a girl I'll go for it. Because when I form unnecessary acquaintanceship with females it's only a matter of time before everything falls back to square one.

When they feel you've known each other for some time, they bill you or try to use you in some other way and you serve them a cold reply. The next day, they will act like they didn't see you and they will send the update to their friends. Conversancy with these young chicks will bring nonsense in the near future 90% of the time.

Seandisputed:
No PDA in public. No holding of hands, no nothing. Be stoic.

Hahahah

Jessepaid:
Hehehe...


Bro during exam time all those slay queens wey no dey give me face but want sit down beside me to copy my work..


Them dey pay 2k each before I allow them...



Exam go finish I go dey carry like 6-8k dey go house...


I mean am nothing dey free for woman especially when you dey carry body like senator pickin for my side..


Another girl been dey form American idol near me..


We were in the same project group she was faraway and was calling me to get project topic for her...

I just told her to get approved project topic will cost her 5k...

She agreed and paid...


I went to my supervisor and told him I need topic from him for a friend of mine..


He gave me a topic for the girl to use...



For women, especially the rude ones you will have to pay to get my help...

That's how I did in school

You are a real man.

sajmark:
As long as a woman isn't married, she is always accepting applications.
Many married women do it nowadays even.
This is one of the scenarios where lifting weights and staying fit comes in handy, because no matter how rich her boyfriend is... She automatically becomes a lil b!tch in front of a shredded man.
Whenever this happens, the girl involved is subconsciously looking to see who is more alpha.
The best way to handle this scenario is to be fit and dominant enough to break the boyfriend's bones but calm and relaxed enough to let him go because you have enough women and can't fight because of one.

100%
I agree with the bolded. I heard about a similar case but the boyfriend just walked away and ended the relationship after that. And the girl tried to put the blame on the guy for not fighting for her. Does that even make sense? Was she trying to test his loyalty or what? What could a woman possibly gain from getting two men to fight each other for her sake, if not an ego boost.

Can you imagine that? Placing her boyfriend in harms way just to massage her ego. If we had fought each other I'm sure she would have walked out of that place feeling like a queen. The whole set up was intentional.

Oh and about having what it takes to put that guy to sleep. He was trying to act like a thug but I smiled because I know it was not in him.
I bet he has never had metal pointed to his head before.

But that part of me had been dead for a while now and I'm not about to wake him up for the sake of one stupid biťch.

Martinez39s:
In that situation, only betas/simps would fight their fellow man over a girlfriend. SMH.

CORRECT.
Wahala for who dey take girls serious in the first place. I'm just afraid someone will burst my eye.

@Osas187
So the said idiot has a boyfriend. Oh dear, better thank your stars you didn't touch her. If he was one of those simps we often read about. You could have been typing this from the comfort of your hospital bed.
I've been there. In November some guy appeared out of nowhere and tried to start a fight with me because I was holding hands and flirting with his girl.

Girl wey I Don use mouth finish work, she don use eye fûck me. The vibe was there and I was ready to take it to the next level. I didn't even know she was just waiting for her boyfriend. I think this is a serious issue and we need to discuss it, because I don't know how to avoid them. Daughters of Jezebel everywhere trying to cause trouble between you and a fellow comrade.

Why send such signals when she knows her boyfriend could appear any minute. The matter just tire me.
These girls don't take their guys serious at all.

The Wheel of time season one.

Harry Potter, Merlin and legend of the seeker (just to name a few) have used this plot before. It's something we have seen countless times. But they spiced it up and added a few twists instead of giving us what we were expecting. And I believe that's what makes this series worth watching. You might make a few predictions but they will fail.

You can't even predict what will happen in the second season. The directing is OK, acting is good. Overall, I think it was a fine movie. With a plot like that, it could have been worse.

heartofcity12:
Don’t be the one they manage. Rich, average or broke, be with a female that has genuine high interest in you, even if she herself flakes, drop her. #trp

Oh baby, I love you. You are so beautiful. I think about you everyday, I see you in my dreams. I don't know how you ended up with me. I don't know what I did to deserve your love, I guess I'm just lucky. I know I don't deserve you, but please just pity me and stay with me.


Let me tell you, even if the lady was jubilating when you asked her out (because of how wealthy you are). There's the kind of senseless bullshît you will say that will boost her ego and make her think she deserves better, even with your money. It's all about frame.

Winnerly:
There’s a subtle level of woman (human) hate here though.

How do we strike the balance so as not to become a hateful person in real life? These are human beings too.

By all means, i’m still an advocate of refusing to be used but there’s a fine line between that and becoming a scornful person.

There are laws of the universe which does not really respect gender. E.g give and you shall receive.

It doesn’t matter who’s asking and if it’s a female, you best don’t give with a manipulative intent. Give with a pure heart as you would to a man and walk.

Regardless of gender, some people genuinely need help.

There are men out there that receive favours /help from women too.

N/B, happy to entertain a divergent view and I’m no simp atall.

What did you read on this thread to come to this conclusion. Did you even read from the beginning of the thread? I think that if you really read all the messages from every comrade regarding this issue, you will not utter such. We are not against giving to women who really need the money or women whose lives are in terrible shape and no help seems to be coming their way.

If you are in a position to help such a woman and you have been convinced by concrete evidence (not her lies and manipulative whims) that her situation is really bad, by all means go ahead and help her. What we are against or rather what I am against is giving money to women to solve little issues for them when they should be working and solving those problems themselves.

Giving money to lazy girls who have been over pampered by the society and who feel there is always a man at every turn to provide what they need. Giving to girls who don't even need it or worse, giving to those that feel entitled to your money. When comrades here refused to offer girls financial assistance, didn't you read their write ups to understand the situation and why they refused. Most of them even uploaded screenshots of their conversations, when you saw those screenshots, what did you think those girls were trying to do?

Unless you were expecting us to help those lazy and entitled girls because that's what we've been preaching against. I don't know what inspired you to bring this up. I don't know what you read.

Benee1000:
The definition of Prostitution is not limited by the number of clients or the form in which she gets her payment from her clients (cash or kind).
As long as there's exchange of sex for resources, she's a prostitute.
Prostitution is also a mindset.
And as a man thinketh in his heart, so he is.
If your woman, girlfriend or wife believes she deserves your resources because you both have sex, or she believes sex is something that a woman gives to someone and should be rewarded for it, she's a prostitute at heart.
You're just the only customer she has in mind.
Stop spending on your wife or girlfriend for sometime, and observe her. if she starts resisting sex?
Let me stop here...

But but, what about the love and affection they give us.

One thing I love about this Shola guy is his ability to ignore simps and save his brain cells from stupid arguments. There was a post he made and a lady countered him saying, what if the guy insists that he wants to spend on her. The Nigga said, he is finished, use him. That's when I saluted Shola. He is not prepared to save “all” men, only those who are willing to listen.

As someone who is going to share such messages to all kinds of people in cyber space, he knows what to expect. What will really annoy you is not the women who will tackle you by throwing all kinds of emotional tantrums (because you are trying to spoil their business). It's the men who will attempt to counter you with senseless posts like the one below.

All you have to do is to say it as it is and go your way. He who has ears let him hear. If all men were to be red pilled these bîtches would have known their place and this game of intersexual dynamics won't be interesting. Knowing the red pill, it's always hilarious to see women try to manipulate you and fail miserably as you remind them which side you are on.

What is worse than giving money to an olosho?

Giving it to a man that will spend it on them.

heartofcity12:
Can you just imagine...

The guy is deceiving himself. He's asking for advice when he knows deep down that he is not ready to “loose” the girl. A leech oh but he doesn't want to “loose” her.

heartofcity12:
Simps are out there suffering at the hands of ladies. This one is sacrificing and doing Father Christmas/poverty alleviation scheme for a girl on a meagre 200k salary in Abuja, I’m sure she’ll monkey branch immediately she sees a better option. This is lengthy tho . Stay redpilled

And he is tabling the matter before another woman.
He will die o.

nani667:
Episode 13

Which movie is this please.

Kaycee7:
Pattinson's Batman is different from Affleck's Batman though.

Well said, Pattison's batman is like a younger and inexperienced version. In the trailer there are shots of him hitting people repeatedly which shows that he is in so much pain and he has no control over his rage. In another shot, you'll see him with black eyes which could mean that he still having a hard time trying to live two lives. The costume looks like something that was made in a hurry.
I hope they give us a good movie.

iamoyindamola:
Red notice is another uncharted 4 in the making

Red Notice was a disappointment. They spent so much money to deliver a story that has been used over and over in Hollywood. The only thing attractive about that movie is the shot of three A list actors in the theatrical release poster.

But the cast brings nothing special to the movie. They could have easily gotten other actors to do the the same job (although the movie won't be as popular). Ryan Reynolds is being his usual talkative and funny self (he's been doing that since dead pool, fortunately I'm not tired of it yet).

Gal Gadot like most of her other movies is looking pretty and kicking ass. And the rock is still big macho man. There is a twist towards the end but they quickly make it useless minutes later. You can't praise their costume, it's not set in the 1930s or whatever. The movie is just easily forgettable.