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starbuck:
When i read the news, i was really ashamed of him for demanding 14k bride price as a refund

Madam it's not about the money, but what it's signify.

Simdyofficial:
Stress or no stress.. Everybody go die... U no want stress but you go still carry big gbola dey panelbeat big ass. Lol.

Live life bruh.. Only poor men reason this way..

Very typical, same reason those poor men are engaged in fetish stuff to get rich, how old are you, everyone can't be rich, everyone can't have everything they need, that he love sex doesn't mean he should die of stress.

Every man his own, if you as a guy don't learn, you see ladies like the one quoted above, run for your life, they are just vampire, they suck until you are dry.

I once asked my Aunt, why is it that, when I was struggling, trying to make anything of myself you never said or persuaded me to get married, but the moment you discover things are going well you keep ringing the marriage bell.

In other words, once you are comfortable, they feel you are too comfortable, add a woman to complicate your life.

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Acidosis:
Lol. I get respected by people who don't have any idea how much I am worth financially. That's enough.

That's because you don't rely on them for anything, try and ask them to lend you money and see how much respect will remain, if possible, don't pay after it's due, they will so rubbish you, you will think it's manner of approach

ashewoboy:
It doesn't mean. A wife material would wait. If he says he doesn't want to eat then she can now eat her own food. That is how wife materials do.

You are joking right, I am 70% sure your girlfriend doesn't know how to cook, ,

You come you order yourself, if you don't like it, sleep like that, I am not your slave.

Ladies of this generation don't give a Bleep, they can't cook, if they try it's rubbish.

AmazonTopaz:
First and foremost I don't support cheating and deception I can never support deception or paternity fraud but I wonder why some men are outraged over paternity fraud.

We live in a society or some of us grew up in a society that gave excuse or justified infidelity amongst men under the guise of "men are polygamous in nature"they forget that men can be used to refer to women too and that polygamous is a gender neutral word for men it is polygyny for women it is polyandry.

When you justify infidelity or adultery you reap paternity fraud because these married men sleep with married women who are wives of other men who are at the receiving end when it comes to paternity fraud.

You men cannot always eat your cake and have it you feel bad when cheated on and call women who commit adultery all sorts of names but hail men when they cheat on women what happened to what is good for the goose is good for the gander.Some people seem to forget that the cheating men don't sleep with themselves they sleep with people's wives and girlfriends too so maybe that shows that women are polygamous in nature and two can play a game.

You cannot be preaching morality and chastity on women while failing to hold yourselves to account as well it doesn't work that way because it is a small world afterall if boys are not taught morality, decency and chastity we will continue to hear tales of paternity fraud and infidelity.




I think we should ask men why they are outraged

Firstly, paternity fraud has nothing to do with who you sleep with, many married people cheat, they use protection, morning after pill, this is not news.

The fraud implies giving another man child to someone else to protect your infidelity, a married woman having unprotected sex means she wants to get pregnant, if you have unprotected sex with anyone else apart from your husband, be prepared to give the said man the child.

Both of you should be responsible for the child wellbeing, don't deprived the father the opportunity to call his child son/daughter because you want to protect your marriage, if you really want to protect your marriage, stay the f*** away from another man.

The party with the most burden, should be more careful, if you think, just because he can sleep around, you should, then do and face the consequences squarely.

Fahdiga:
All this because of money. If at all it gives them money how do they enjoy this ritual money when their conscience won't be at rest? The perpetrators will never know peace. But at the same time all this money hungry whores will never learn

The problem is, he didn't have peace before when he had no money, so, the no peace talk doesn't make any difference.

We need a new way to track ritual killers, we don't need to wait for God to punish them. They need to be brought to book and punished, that is the only way to reduce stuff like this, wishing they have no peace, doesn't give anyone the respite needed.

billynoni:
It's the latter... 98% most of the time.
SCENE ONE
Mr X: Mr G, if you can give my company this contract, you're getting 20% cut.
Mr G: I'm afraid I can't do that or accept the cut you offered, I believe if the board deem it fit to give your company the contract, you will surely get it.
Mr X: I just want you to put in, good words for my company.
Mr G: I'm definitely recommending the best candidate, don't worry.
*Mr X gets home

Mr X to wife: That man didn't even look, my face.
Wife: Don't sweat, I believe it's yours.
Mr X: I don't even like churchy person like that, refusing a while 20% cut.

SCENE TWO
Bf: Baby, I'm really so hot right now. Let's get down
Gf: Boo, you've forgotten we both agree to do "it" after we get married?
Bf: I know, we both agreed. But what's the difference there sef, if we have it now or later?
Gf: Okay fine, we have it now and we later break up. What does that mean? My virginity gone for a man and I didn't marry.
Bf: See where your thoughts went to, this your churchy behavior is annoying sometime s.

This scenarios are wrong.

First scenario, Mr G never said no to 20%, he only said the best candidate will be given, if Mr x who offered 20% eventually gets the contract, Mr G will demand his 20%, its just business.

Second scenario is just incorrect representation, 99% of those you see in church have had sex multiple times, the fact that she want you to wait now just means, she wants to raise the importance attributed to her cunt, knowing fully, if she allows the guy, he will lose interest after discovering the ocean presented to him.

Most ladies with strong moral values hardly take church stuff seriously, you see those that act like they want to give birth to second Jesus, its only after you have married them you will know how unfortunate you are. They are the harlots and olosho thatstarted the business from as early as 12 or 14, now they are 37, 38 and discover no more customers, they have moved from one joint to the other over the years that everyone now knows them, now they decide and give their life to Christ, thankfully, Christ is not interested in their over used body (And I mean THANKFULLY ), but you are! you see them very fervent, holding on to Church pillar and commanding fire, God will definitely save their soul, but the over used body belongs to one SIMP that feels God have given him the bone of his bone , not knowing he just picked a prayer project.

So next time use appropriate scenarios, this is not it.

chatinent:
I hear this a lot.

What is the actual meaning?

Do they mean they hate people with high morals? Or don't like people who'd stoop to their inclinations?

When you are not pragmatic, you base everything on faith and forget the work part.

When everything you do tied to a religious inclination. You are allowed to have your own opinion about things.
Its very obvious that there is no way that we as human can be completely objective, but sometimes you have to be objective.

When what your pastor says, becomes the word of God, and then you begin to grow some God complex yourself, anything you say, you want absolute obedience, when anyone especially those below you disobey, you make sure they are punished, just to prove a point that your view or opinion is the best, even when you see things work out well for them when they disobey, you attribute it to the fact that you prayed for them

Do you need more explanation or you are satisfied

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FutureIsFemale:
Men! Every man as at one time or the other molested a girl.

They say it's nature.

I take an exception in this, the fact that you would think this could be true is troubling.

ademidedavid:
Sleeping outside might be another disaster.

Althesame, thanks so much for the piece of advice.

You may think so, but a little separation will do you some good, you don't have to go to an hotel, you can stay with a single friend, but that is just silly, why can't you stay in an hotel, if after 10 years she can't trust you, your guess is as good as mine.

ademidedavid:
.... i was vexed and went to the kids room which i politely asked her to let me be at the moment because i cant withstand her nagging over a thousand naira but she persisted and i have to shut the door against her but she opened it and told me she hates me and regret marrying me.....sounded like the rapture sound initially but later realised it actually came from my woman, my mother of my kids!!!!

I don't care how angry she is, or how hurtful she wants to make you, you need to draw a line, saying something like this in the presence of your children is a NO NO!

You need to show her this can never repeat, and maybe get an hotel for a couple of days, she needs to understand, saying something like that to you when your children are present is a deal breaker.

No man should be disrespected in front of his children, if you let it slide she will do it again until it becomes her habit, at which point your children begin to see you in a different light.

The grammatical blunder of the sitting president, imagine what happened after our president speech, naira fall harder

pocohantas:
Them say I dey post cooking thread to get horseband for Nairaland. Golden girl like me? I kuku commot hand.

Golden girl, I can bet you, I cook better than you!

Mikester:
It may seem that most men appreciate a woman like this or most women feel comfortable sharing the bills but it isn't really true. Most men feel emasculated in such situations and most women will not submit totally to their husbands nor give them due reverence while sharing the bills which pierces the man's ego and make him demand respect through physical actions which hardly ends well for both.

It is best a man remains the provider. Men should hope and work towards being rich and comfortable, this is how most homes remain happy and satisfied with less trouble from the woman.

That's what I know.

You are very wrong, if she willing contribute to the growth of the family, that doesn't reduce the respect for the man.

If you have a woman that doesn't respect her husband, it doesn't matter if she contribute, she will always disrespect her husband.

You kept saying, he should work harder to make money, if he dies or loose the ability to provide for the family, is there a way to avoid the disrespect?

If she's respectful, contributing to the well being of the family won't stop it.

BelieveAfrica:
We have 3 Honda Pilots and has ever developed issue that is beyond capacity. I will recommend Honda, though I have never use Outlander.

What are your maintenance culture?

Truth is I can't go for any car that is low to the ground, I have long legs, blood flow and stuff.

I prefer something that is a little elevated, now most of the Toyota product are very costly (over 3m) as a Tokunbo, that leaves Honda and this Mitsubishi.

Your advice on year of make, mechanic, what to look out for when buying will be higher appreciated.

Greenvaiper:
too much hunger in naija. 14year old car kwa? Tufiakwa

Boss, please help your guy now, even if na 1m make I add to the 2.something wai dey ground and upgrade to a better car.

Let me know if I should send my account.

Which is more durable, easy to maintain, fuel efficient and better.

Romanoff:
Imagine if Peter thought of his wife as "evening newspaper" before he married her.

Stop shaming older single women who aren't married, till e reach your sister turn, you no go understand how e dey be.

Age is not something to shame someone for, unless you hope to die before the age of that person.

MODIFIED

The misogynists are already masturbating on my comment. Y'all can fall and die, as una no wan old.

Shior.

That she's older than him doesn't say anything, evening newspaper is a completely different scenario!

A woman in her 50s, with just one idealogy, I can't be under a man.

Nobody can tell you who to hate! But don't make it our fault if you are no more first choice!

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KillMNKnow:
Morality, Alcoholism, Gambling, Adultery in the South have gone through the roof. They'll have sex with teen girls and call it "relationship with secondary school girl" or rape by their dad/brothers hardly you'll find any 10 year old virgin in south. The North sometimes marry a 14 year old and they'll shout pedophiles. Fcking hypocrites

Madame, just because some nuckle heads do stupid and dirty things in secret, if I might add, doesn't elevate your backward, pedophile oriented sexual desires, that is publicly accepted if I might add.

KillMNKnow:
Igbos and Yorubas have ethnic domination agendas.

We in the North are all about one Nigeria and her progress. The Hausa, Fulani Kanuri, Jukun, Ebira, Nupe, Tiv, Shuwa, idoma. Are all equal.

Let me guess, you are Fulani, even the Hausa are refugees in their land, the killing going on is what?

Citygal:
He marrying her doesn’t mean he would have to shoulder their responsibilities and there has to be an agreement to that.

He probably doesn’t love for real.

If you are a man, your school of thought will make you regret marrying her oh.

You marry her, all responsibility is yours till you die.

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Flairoqy:
Did they literally did all that to you? Or you’re simply exaggerating and blowing everything out of proportion? There have never been a time south were enslaved by the north so far as my history taught me, so be specific.
In other words, if a region is marginalized by the lower IQ counterparts in all ramifications of the system, what is the best approach in such situation? Fight for your country? Systematically sabotage and take over the government? Protest? Your decisions define your ideology.
I’ve said it repeatedly power will never go to the south on a platter of gold, do your findings of other similar situations in other countries.

I just discovered you are one of them! Tell your people we won't have it. You can sit on the iron throne you call presidency, but don't dictate who get what from my backyard. Now suh!

Flairoqy:
Lol nice, you’re playing a fast one.
They would’ve argued it and be forced to read and understand why the senate representing their region probably voted against it.
Attributes of a typical southerner is; they have preconceptions of the northern intentions and misconceptions on any actions carried by out especially a northern counterpart, they believe a northerner can never make a decision in their best interests in as much as their own reps are the top dogs swindling them because there are a bit politically oriented. If southerners read more than they ignorantly wail, they would probably have a systematic approach to criticism of an action by the government.

If someone comes to your house, sleep with your wife, marry all of your daughter, take your son as slave worker, and tells you he will pay you top dollar to use your land, money he got from your hardworking sons, and even tells you you will get a bigger share of the proceed from your farm!!!!

Do you need to learn how to read to understand that he's not just acting favourably to you, HE IS YOUR bleeping ENEMY! NOTHING ABOUT THIS CAN BE EXPLAINED!!!

You don't need to be intelligent to know, this is bleeping INSANE!

Nothing the NORTH ever does favor anyone else, but them, get it into your thick head, if this bill is passed I can assure you, slavery is the next on their agenda, except you are from the North, in which case get F out of here!

GardenOfGod:
The point is that the 3% is greater than the 30%

Young Man, there is no point here, 30% for what, why are they getting 30%? What are they contributing to it?

Besides, in his statement, he said 30% will PROBABLY be less, that means it could be higher.

Now let me explain this in simple terms, if ShopRite says a TV is 70% off! Does that mean it's cheaper, NO! Because, they ShopRite in this case have the actual figure. A TV of 100k, with a 70% off! That means it's 30k, but when they just 70% off! Without telling us what the figure they are calculating with, then a 70% of of 5 million naira for a TV of 100k is day light robbery.

The Federal Government, in this case THE NORTH, know and have the exact figure, it's whatsoever they want it to be, whatever they declare as the figure stand. This is the most ridiculous, selfish, inconsiderate, wicked act I have ever seen. They tried looking for oil in the north with money running into billions of dollars (money gotten from the oil they have no idea where, if I might add), when they couldn't, they look for a way to take a lion share of what doesn't in anyway belongs to them even though without it they already have the lion share.

HOW THE HELL ARE WE HAVING THIS CONVERSATION! NO EXPLANATION REQUIRED, REMOVE THE BILL! AND DESTROY IT FOR MAXIMUM EFFECT!

What do you mean by worried?

If you mean if she will Bleep another man, well my first and only question is does she have an opening between her legs? And by any chance is she a virgin, If YES! to the first and NO! to the second, then of course, she's definitely going to sleep with another guy.

I know lots of ladies that were engaged before NYSC, that Bleep, even had NYSC boyfriend/husband, you might ask 'how do I know they were engaged?' well I received invitation for their marriage less than two months after NYSC! Hmmm huh!

If the question in your head is 'Did I attend?' Hell NO! I can't pretend in front of her husband, when I know the guy that have used her thing to do washing hand bow! pun intended!

saphiere:
[s][/s]The Bible said so and not a motivational speaker.

Madame the Bible didn't say so, the bible said he who finds a wife, not when! It's only two good head that's is better than one, two thousand bad head is less than one.

dudusky007:
fool!!! for ur mind you don make point undecidedcan't waste time to reply church rat like you. No matured human will come in here and write this shit the op did...except unreasonable kids like you

Yeah maybe you should stick to yahoo, so it's immature to ask for advice, such hubris!

Take your drugs, I don't have time for your likes.

dudusky007:
Yahoo boy, you don pick..no better thing dey ever enter ona head...no forget the side effect oh...when e happen still come post am here make we read

Are you for real, so me looking for a foreign used car for 2m, I am a Yahoo boy, you need your brain check.

When you surround yourself with bad habit why won't you assume such.