₦airaland Forum

She said her parent prayed about our relationship and theirs no clear road....This na gal wey dey track me Dat year for uni ooo, wey me sf come later like, for final year I cm make am know sey I want smthn serious but not marriage for now, not knowing anoda broda dn dey toast am for I'm papa church, na so I receive one call like Dat with above message, like a week after na I'm I realize say na Dat broda wey she dey talk sey dey disturb am for Im papa church she dey follow, bfr I Sabi anything like ds, na wedding bells ooo... Two pikin dn drop wdin 3years,...Las Las na she chat me up lately on whatsapp and I flowed well with her, she was trying to know my update kindof but me just dey play her mind games... she no no say me sef dn marry and moved on.
But e pain me sha, it took me to shun many gals to like am back den, but when I wn cm balance na so she use vision drop me.

Orubebe01:
Let's assume that you were made the president of this country, how would tackle the insecurity that is plaguing the nation at the moment.

-Restructuring
-Community policing
-Capital purnishment( including Public execution in the hometown of the culprits if possible) for banditry, bokoharam, armed robbery and kidnapping and murder,illegal possession of armunitions and erring officers of the law.
-Investment in education and making a production economy instead of importing and weakening the naira.
-Jail terms for public office holders misappropriating funds and blacklisting such families from holding public office for life.
Do this and watch every one sit up... Nigerians are fearful people, instill fear and watch them adjust and responsible. If nothing is done quick Nigeria will fail as a nation.

Franckelv230:
Going by the inflation, recession and whatever thing they use to qualify this hardship we are facing in this country at the moment, how do you most salary earners cope?

When I say salary earners, I mean those earning 50k, 40k, 30k, 25k and some even 25k to 10k. Not you that's bagging 100k and above, you be oil worker jor.

So, I see most families where the man being the head of the family, is a private school teacher. Of course we all know how much they are payed nothing. Same with most company or factory casual workers. How do you guys manage to cope with family at this crucial time?

It's not like I'm earning big or own any business, but one good job in month will cover me for some times. Since I'm not married yet, it just myself and my aged mum that I think of.


So how do you manage your 30k that it will last you for a month, Assuming your extra teaching after school will cover your transportation to and from working place?

Whenever I am traveling to visit my family for the weekend, I withdraw 30k on Friday before leaving Lagos for ibadan and by Monday when I return back to Lagos, I will barely have upto #3-#4k remaining on me without drinking or spending on Olosho nor doing any unnecessary extracurricular activities, just on my family, probably one outing after service on sunday. I always wonder how individuals who earn within this range permonth in my env, cope with life.
This country is a mess already, our std of living is too low, the poor are getting poorer while the rich are getting richer, one day the son of the poor that couldn't afford to go to a school due to lack of funds will ask questions from the sons and daughters of the rich... I pray something is done real quick to fix the economy and improve the std of living of the people.

Electrochemistry:
Gullet and Stomach taken together. Don't be inclined to argument; it doesn't pay!

Either taken together or separately, don't be negative to correction... Nothing like gullet in humans, stomach and duodenum sounds more intelligent.
Drop it pls!

Electrochemistry:
While moderation may not be a sin as it even reduces inhibitions at low rate(medically), a lot of people have been turned to drunks and rendered useless from starting with just some sips of it. At this high consumption rate it can cause cancer to our vital internal organs: liver, kidney, gullet and stomach. Therefore it's better to avoid spirits in all its forms so we won't get addicted to it. The Bible says a wise man foresees evil and hides himself but a fool goes instead and he's punished. Prov. 22:3

So you get gullet abi?
Nawaooo Electrochemistry indeed. U need review ur modern biology again.

Niger republic guys dn full una village, dey are the ones u see on ur roads, romancing u and begging for money.. Dre fathers are the kidnappers and armed robbers... They show no. Mercy whatsoever if u enta their trap.

Dino as a public figure in naija and all his abnormal show of clueless Ness on social media is a reflection of how bad governance has eaten deep into our marrow as a nation.
Baba Dino u be correct fool.
U wey get "certificate of attendance" for university... Not even a third class ooo.. Come dey here dey talk like person wey get sense.

No be juju be dat??.
But seriously even in Spanish league, Athletico Madrid have some chances of winning the league over domineering power of Madrid and barcelona. But in naija, na either APC or PDP, more so, rivals don't switch players anyhow in those aforementioned leagues, but in naija political league, wait and see how they would start switching strikers (Policians) anyhow once election comes near.
No naija politician is in support of disintegration because many of them would loose relevance in politics once that happens.

He get inside info, monitor those boys he is working with.

The only reason she went to the BBNaija house... They kept saying, "I only need the platform"... Expecially the ladies.

MansoryMX:
As a man If you get married outside Nigeria, know your boundaries with your wife, always make sure your name is not written in your wife’s book of death or else if y’all go through divorce path, you are definitely losing everything. If I were you, I will advice my friend to make peace with his wife, tolerate her and get back everything, plan on how to leave her with the kids back to Naija afterwards. Same thing happened to my wife’s elder brother in the UK but he was smart enough to outsmart the wife, sold off everything they have secretly and liquidated the money into bitcoin, did travel papers secretly and before she returned back from work one day, house is emptied and her husband already back in Naija with their two kids. The woman has refused to come back yet to Naija despite her own family plea fo her to come and face family meeting.

Lolz.... Which one is 'face family meeting'?
The man ran it the street way.
The truth is, it is better to be difficult from scratch to a woman in marriage, dnt be soft, dnt be too nice... They don't like nice guys, they want a Dangotes kind of man with a little touch of Kumuyi.
They are insatiable and unappreciative.. When u stay with them all day and want to build with them, they only think of themselves always.
I have a friend who would rather go out on weekends and stay late than stay with his woman at home.
This same guy was a first class student in uni and a complete introvert and church guy.

Nigeria will soon become like Niger republic, the level of abject poverty, porosity of our borders and the rate of crime and gun proliferation is alarming.

Our prisons are just being crowded in preparation for another jail break.
Why not execute as many that are on death roll, cultist, kidnappers, murderers. Release and integrate the innocent ones back into the society and falsely accused bfr they bcm criminals in prison.

I am not in support of this killings.
But herders need to know people are frustrated abt their killings and kidnappings, it is painful that, it might be the innocent ones now seeing repercussions.
The govt insensitiveness to matters like ds is why individuals has resorted into a biased and worrisome 'self help'

500level is just 1year to becoming a doctor.
He had practically seen it all.
Medical school is f.. King crazy in a 3rd world country... The lecturers do not care abt the one student who is facing challenges.
Na one man for himself.

I love parables.
'Earthly stories with palpable spiritual meanings'.
Heaven go sweet oooo.... Pls avoid road to hell fire ooo.

If you want to see original angry nigerians, come to Lagos.
You will hear stuffs like. "Aabi ogun Wan kill your papa abi"?

If anyone had played Liverpool to loose the last 6 games of the premier league with just #100 on any of the betting platforms . That individual would have won btw #27.7million and #35.3million.

This guys from Niger republic are more dreadful than the real fulani herders.
They are poverty stricken and dangerous, you see their sons, wives and daughters begging on the streets but their fathers are kidnappers, armed robbers and killers on the highways.

Most of this guys aren't smarter than you and me, they are just opportunist.
The problem in our dear country is the wrong people in power.
There are more vibrant, intelligent and upright people in that constituency that would handle that position well but na him TINUBU want.

70years old man ooo.
Now they never leave you, they have left you!!
Your mumu too much my president.

Exactly, just like your brain has been photos hopped.

PUBLIC DISGRACE AND EXECUTION FOR MURDERERS, BANDITS AND KIDNAPPERS.
And watch how sense will fall on almost everyone.
To stop crime is easy, we aren't just ready.
The country is disintegrated and in disarray. The only way to restore sanity and factory reset is for everyone to be scared Of going into crime.
Imagine someone who maimed and killed people years ago, and now he is still being celebrated like a king, I won't be surprised if he is granted a a pardon one day. Failed country.

Atleast so they can resume school on Monday.
We can also call the kidnap a mid term break.
RIP to the student that lost his life.

The truth of the matter is that, the political office holders are not that intelligent like we reason they should be... Interact with LGA reps, house reps especially in state and even federal you will be surprised at their level of reasoning and expression, some of them are drop outs, some do aren't even graduates....Especially in the south, political thugs are the ones being rewarded with portfolios and that is why our nation cannot be better again.
The educated and sensible ones have been relegated to the social media. They mediocres are the ones in power making decisions now and for our future. It is a terrible situation we found ourselves.

You no get sense.
She might have more than herpes.
Go run a STD screen on her bfr you carry cross wey dey preventable for life.
Well na Ohio he dey happen sha, not inside this harmattan for Naija.

Its a state of frustration, depression and hopelessness, not to far from being suicidal.
Some women are very wicked, she abandoned the man and wasted him in his prime to probably go after those she thinks were better than him. Now e dn clear, she wants to come back and be the 'mother of the house', the old man is used to doing things by himself and doesn't want any help from who doesn't love him.
He feels none of the children is seeing things from his perspective.
His actions are bad but still better to direct the frustration on the house than on the woman.
Some issues like this are difficult to judge expecially when you reason from mental health point of view.

Good for Chelsea cos to compete with Everton is better than competing with Liverpool.

Be like you went with Sheikh Gumi abi?

Thinking with their palms.
So they don't know, no one wants or wish to leave his comfort zone to a strange man's land.
An average Nigerian doctor has many dependants and in a country like ours where even a Consultant is struggling to get employed and even those employed are being paid pea nuts with poor welfare.
In addition is the state of insecurity, poor social amenities, poor health facilities to work with. They are not thinking of improving in these areas and make the departing Nigerians covet staying.
They on the other hand have visas to almost all the continent, spend our resources on ashewos when they travel out of the country, all their wards are the ones with FG and State scholarships in the best schools abroad.
E no go better for anybody wey reason with this govt and idea.
The average Nigerian health practitioner is poor and fighting for survival.
Fools want to deprive someone from seeking greener pastures when they have nothing to offer than to drain you.
Na upside down their brain dey.

Shoora fun awon felicitators ooo.
Make them. No turn your 10million to #10000.
Ofa aaaye koni bawaaooo.
May poverty not visit you again ooo.
You dn jaapa for poverty be that.

As much as the fulani killer Herdsmen shows no mercy to their preys.
Killing the children of any fulani is likened to anyone being killed for a crime committed by any member of one's community. None of us can even suffer the purnishment for any evil done by members of one's family.
It means, the children who lost Dre lives also have dreams and ambitions in life but that has just been just cut short.
IPOB will soon start killing their own people when there are no fulani to kill again.
They are loosing there heads already.