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so because she doesnt have a degree, heaven should fall?

Actually to be fair the Koran says they can marry more than one up to 4 if the man can provide for them and treat them all equally.

@babyosisi
yeah it says that and men have always claimed they can treat women equally. equal treatment is not just about equal upkeep money its also about equal love (which just isnt possible)

why on earth are the women there?

why did they consent to the marriage in the first place? or were they taken in a police car to the place?

why can't some women understand that their decency and self-esteem is more important that whatever money they're after( because some of them don't mind being second wives because the guy is RICH)

@cute-ass
some women dont have a choice. if you are born into the muslim religion it is rammed down your throat. in order to be seen as a good woman you have to pretend to be supportive of the new "ameria" coming in and help arrange the marriage sef. they dont have a choice. their religion says its ok 4 a man to have up to 4 wives. so what can they do?   a change in religion is out of the question!  

polygamy has not been able to curb promiscous men. no matter how many wives he has a primiscous man will still stray outside the home. so what's the point in tying so many women in a hellish marriage when the aim is defeated?

yes it does. it produces an army of children that can hoe the man's farm!

you'll be suprised that people are calling him secretly.

@babyosisi.
we can do that. we will process the garri from scratch to finish while the baffled court looks on!

Big B1:
I hope the uniform has extra pocket to collect bribe!

cant u see 2 big pockets in front?

if men are going to be allowed polygamy then women should equally be allowed polyandry. all the arguements men give for marrying plenty women should be the excuse women can use to many plenty plenty men too. last time i checked, what is sauce for the gander is sauce for the goose too. abi? equal law for all folks!

babyosisi:
You can be arrested for driving under the influence of garri.
What type of defence will your lawyer give?

you'll have to carry the raw tubers of cassava to the court to show that its not alcohol! hehehe!

@davidylan
cos im fighting their battle? no im not.
im sure if i say that i am, you'll be like "no wonder".

I went to Uniuyo, and it was always funny, that folks, who would yarn yoruba, pidgin, etc, would all of a sudden, queue up for bursary awards

@ ndipe
before nko? its their share of the national cake whether they speak ibibio or not. and hey, where in the bay area do u live?

have you been snorting cheap drugs again?

At least divorce rate in Nigeria is lower than what’s obtainable in the west. So I believe that a polygamist or polyandrist can love their family.

@adconline
divorce rate is lower because culturally we dont encourage divorce.(think what it'll do to the precious family name)
unhappy couples are almost obliged to stay together no matter what their differences are which sometimes isnt the best thing to do. e.g in the case of domestic abuse.

thats just by the way sha but i had to chip it in.

frankiriri:
I love smoking garri.
In fact I once toyed with the idea of bottling the water from Ijebu garri and selling as a drink
I am sure that it will be a hit.

you are so right. the water of ijebu garri is like wine of the gods. it has this unique taste that cant be found anywhere else. God! great minds think alike!  

@davidylan
each to his own. but i was just curious as to why you were certain a teacher wont have a clue about what you do. last time i checked, teachers are very literate and are capable of making good conversation which is the key to communication and understanding.

n.b
no one was trying to verbally burn you. we're just rubbing minds! relax.

Haaa na today, Dont be suprise if Gari + somthing (x) turns out to be the cure for AIDS, There are lot of nutrients in Gari,

@ software

ha! you believe that?
that will be a nice cure for hiv!

suya is God's gift to mankind. i love suya. Gimme suya and you're my best friend. when i try to bbq meat it just never tastes the same. kudos to all the abokis that make it happen.

@4play
honestly i already said the guy should be escorted out of the country. his voice makes my ears bleed!

i drank garri yesterday (again)! i was really stressed up so i decided to unwind with some gaff. it was wonderful. it was ghana garri. i put in the essentials. milk and sugar.
after that i slept like a baby. why is garri so therapeutic?
i can never stop.

tell us if you are male or female. lets know which side of the gender war you are on!

you seem to be the only token fan he has!

i do believe that if you truly have a calling to a profession (no matter how crazy the hours are) you just would be unable to switch professions and do something else.
my friend was born to be a doctor. (some kids just know wht they want to do right from age 5!) well she's a doctor now with crazy shifts. the hours are long and excrutiating.she's always on call. but she could never not be a doctor.
but the key is how you spend the hours you have when not working. when she's outside the hospital, she's home cooking , doesnt go out much and barely answers anyone's calls.she says its time to tackle the home front.
its not easy but what can one do?

we are supposed to be trashing out the pros and cons of polygamy on this thread who are these people bringing in homosexuality? cant they read?

@ neelsel.
ha! thats real funny. a hit man washing plates!
anyway hit men always have a fake job so as not to blow their covers!

davidylan:
Marry a medical doctor! Have two kids and take turns taking care of the home front!
That would be the dream marriage.

Marry a teacher ke? She wont have the faintest clue what my job is all about.

two people with 2 different occupations can make a marriage work. you marry for love not according to profession. as you get to know someone you better understand his or her job and what they do. any by the way, teachers arent that daft! they are often under estimated!

irritated my foot! they stare and almost hold up traffik. Other girls see the attention scantily dressed girls get and feel they have to dress the same way to be appreciated.