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congratulations dear. Thank God for safe delivery! she's adorable.

i have this aversion for pervs.
I cant even begin to describe it. They skulk around taking advantage of underaged girls (and boys) convincing their delusional selves that children are giving them the come-hither look.

Its true that peversion doesnt just happen in adulthood, it starts from the peverts youth. and thats why i would happily support adult jail time for minors. Since you can commit an 'adult crime' you can serve an 'adult time'

yikes!

he says she was a flirt ! he'll just insist it was consensual. and the classical argument, he's a minor too.

the moment you put your   into a woman without a condom you have given your consent for her to have your child. why assume she's on the pill? what if her method of contraception fails her? you have to do your part. and last time i checked with contraception a woman can still have a baby. the moral of the story? dont lay with a woman when you have no plans for fatherhood cos its a possibility.

and to those judging her i hope you are without sin.

4gotnheros:
Fingering a 5years old girl!!! a friend younger sis
Was 15years old then!!! DAMN, she was too FLIRT!

perv!

In hindsight im sure she realizes its the biggest mistake she has ever made. The baby was the only good thing that came out of the union.

if you ask me just write him off as dead. dont forward your new addresses to him. move on with your life.find happiness for yourself in different ventures.  he will definitely find you some day by then you'll be calling the shots!  

Im sure her family can step up and take care of the child but why would a man deny a child he knows is his?   we've seen this scenario playing out over and over again. when the child is older and conscience has pricked him to kingdom come he comes back haggard and ravaged begging for time with the child.  You cant trifle with people's emotions like that and surface in your own good time.

It has happened my sister.
We tend to be judgemental as a people. Afterall im sure you know a thousand places you could have gone to get rid of your baby (thank goodness you didnt   )

You shouldn't have lied to your parents though. one lie snowballs into the next. It only gets harder because  for how long will you stall?
Tell the truth. That's why they are family. they are there for hard knocks and excrutiatingly difficult times. They have to know what's up.
its not the end of the world. finish your education, get your job and claw your way to the top. and hey stop trying to contact the father. what's the point? They always come crawling back for mercy (trust me on that one!)  

he probably feels that because he's with an american woman (are you white?) you guys will get dirty looks from the nigerian women in attendance! Dont worry people will be too busy dancing or packaging their take away plates, they wont notice.

apparently some men have never heard it still.

almondjoy you no well.

ika where did you find that pic? ROFLMAO

You should know nigerians by now. our parties are very informal. lots of dancing. party starts late, really late. you can take food but i assure you there will be excess. If you arent asked to bring food then don't bother 'cos they've probably arranged a cooking commitee.

rihanna. i am flattered.

I am a confirmed coke addict and i get it.
You knock back a chilled coke which has bite, it hits the spot and makes you go BRRRR!

there's no explaining it. you either get the shudders or you dont. its my husband's best commercial. BRRRRRRRR!

seeing those things hanging on the bull doesnt make me think of eating them!

im coming back as a man in my next life. i want to experience untold enjoyment.

you guys dont want to see what some women look like down there after childbirth. Doctors who dont even know how to tack on bottons on their shirts or sew small tears on clothes are stiching deep vaginal lacerations!

i wanted a c-section. better my midsection than my core abeg!
mr spoilt told me i could do whatever i wanted but i could tell he wanted me to go the natural route! Seems like all my friends got lacerations so horrible and had to be patched! They all had sob stories and some still cant have sex without discomfort. most will still opt for another natural birth just because of the stigma associated with a c-section. i like easy way outs. never makes anyone less of a woman. i ended up having a natural delivery. i got an epidural (Call police! ) before that i was sobbing like a baby and begging for relief. I honestly thought i was going to die. i was speaking gibberish and hallucinating. .but lucky me, i had no tears so got no stitches. HALLELUYAH!!!! but baby 2 is not anytime around now oh!

My aunty has a horribly pronounced limp. as a child i thought she must have had polio. little did i know it was prolonged labor that disfigured her for life. women who have natural births are sometimes seen to have had remarkable recoveries within days!! at least thats what it looks like on the outside. not many know what they are carrying about between their thighs! Many husbands are not getting any!!!!!!!!!

At the end of the day, to each his own.

each to his own.

what is it with some chicks and food ejo?
they act like nkwonbi and malt or stout is the pinnacle of enjoyment.
Back in the day i would do everything to not go to an eatary or restaurant for a date. A guy trying to buy me food wasnt my idea of fun!

did it taste like fish. when i see the beady eyes of snakes i get freaked out! 

prince_onx:
You still didn't get it!


Where is "SOME" in that statement? or is it ALL nigerian men and women? Anyway!

Bro i totally get your fixation on the word "some', but just because i didnt use the word doesnt mean that i meant "all" .

If i had said "hopefully ALL nigerian men and women can learn from this" then you can bring out your 'generalization gun' to kill me and blast me into orbit.

[s]Not in the mood for a crash course in english. i have dinner to fix. [/s]